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What do you do after someone declines a date?

I get to be hurt.  I'm not saying I'll never ask anyone out again. I'm saying I'm disappointed because either I got a REALLY wrong read on this situation (absolutely not impossible, I'm human, but a…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/2/2026
The marriage talk.

The marriage talk. — To start this off this is one of the best moments of my life. I have been in a relationship with an truly amazing, incredible person for almost 3 years and who I've known for about 5 years. What can I…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/7/2026
Did your Narcissist gift you a " Trash " gift?

Yep, and then claim fatal butthurt if you didnt humiliate yourself by using/keeping it MiL started doing it too, and ex said it didnt involve him- so I wore whatever she bought me to any events, for …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 11, 2026

I want to ask if a casual guy friend likes me, and the advice seems to be "just ask" - for valid reasons, I don't understand how to put this into practice without bluntly just going "Hey, I was wonder…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/11/2026
What Standards to Reduce?

Weird. I’m sorry you’re meeting so many insecure men. I have a bachelor’s degree and dated guys with no college education (and others with similar or *more* education) and never run into this issue …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
My boyfriend (39M) threw his bag at my (33F) face, refused to apologize "because he thought I would block it", then stormed out to leave after I said I just wanted to be alone

Break up. That was a water tester. Can I get away with it? No, I'll just act butthurt and gaslight op so she thinks she is the bad guy. Seriously take a fine tooth comb through any red flags you may…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
The Public's Opinion on WMAFs has done a 180 in the last 5 years

100% lol. Coming from a millennial AM. Spewing essays just looks weak and butthurt, it doesn't change anyones minds. These same arguments were being made 10 years ago and found no ground. It's clout &…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/30/2026
My husband(35M)wants me to quit job because I(36F)make more than him.I don’t know what to do?

Im a guy and i never understood men who get so butthurt just because their wives earn more than they do. Financial stress/issues are a major cause of divorce, the higher the household income the high…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
My (23F) husband (26M) gets offended over EVERYTHING and I don't know how to handle it anymore?

It's because you are a genuinely good person who wants to do right by their partner. He's weaponizing your goodness against you to his advantage. Stop walking on eggshells! If he wants to get butthu…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
How to call out white liberal racism

Doesn't sound racist, he sounds entitled like he exacts help in general. That sounds like general butthurt. I've seen white people talk to each other like that. For some reason people with kids get li…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/5/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
i told my mom the truth in front of everyone and now she won’t answer my calls

Congrats! You exposed her and she didn't magically get out of it, turned on you or had someone else defend her. I'd be celebrating if I were you tbh. Please don't contact her. Her leaving and acting …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
How do I (30f) deal with repeated gift disappointment from my boyfriend (35m)

Girl, stop lying to him when he gets you ugly crocs!Tell him thanks, but those are hideous then give him a hug. If he gets mad or butthurt, that’s on him. It’s not your job to manage his feelings. You…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

**HE IS NOT ALLOWED TO GET ALL *BUTTHURT* WHEN HE *ASKED* YOU WHAT THE PERSON SAID**!! Instead of saying let me see the messages or I will look into this and we can figure out what's going on, he run…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
What are some double binds you remember from growing up?

Dad would constantly brag about traveling the world when he joined the military and how we needed to travel and explore culture . Find out that my Dad never traveled before the military and never trav…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/11/2026
My boyfriend M29 thinks I'm asking too much F30

You are not asking for too much. Literally just asking to be met halfway, both physically and emotionally. He's being butthurt. A relationship can't work if a basic thing turns into an argument, espe…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026