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Intentionally having bad sex?

Then why make it great the first time? Simply stated, to get you on the hook, keep you wanting more, and establish himself as in control of the relationship. A form of love bombing by a narcissist. Gr…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
I’m so frustrated!!!!

Feel like I recommend this book constantly on here, but it does help understand yourself and the dating environment. This helps reduce frustration and increase patience. https://www.loganury.com/

r/datingoverfortycomment3/13/2026
Scared of Dating.

Try some different strategies. Think you might not have clear boundaries on the front end to weed out “hestiators” and users. A good resource to better understand yourself and others in the datingsphe…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/21/2026
Do people eventually want marriage/long-term partnerships, or is it mostly just dating at our age?

Date smarter and be aware of the whole rebound thing. Therapy is always good after a breakup. Recommend some research and self-reflection: 1. A good resource to better understand yourself and other…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/22/2026
I feel like I’m in a full relationship, but not fully chosen — is that sustainable?

Patience is a virtue. Exercising patience shows maturity and high EQ. Reality check: It’s hard to even find a match that you are compatible with. Why throw all that time and effort away and have to …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/24/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

Please check out this website and take the test!! You are struggling with moving to being a “satisicer” (goal) from a maximizer or hesitator. https://www.loganury.com/. Her book is good too.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026