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Why do i miss her? This is insane

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/13/2026
DDay - 2/19/2026 - Online Emotional Affair Led to Full Blown Infidelity

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
Stuck In My Head After Affair

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
Wife cheated on me with multiple men over the course of 3 months.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
What s month it's been

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
My husband cheated and is now the meanest person I’ve ever met

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
Question for those that stayed after D-day

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
My (26/M) Girlfriend (26/F) Of 6.5 Years Emotionally Cheated and I Don’t Know What To Do

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
Saw ex with her affair partner

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
Where to go from here

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/10/2026
UPDATE: The Trickle Truth is Real

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Cheated on after 10.5 years together, divorced at 11 years together.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Ugh, I contacted the AP

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Getting married soon help me pls

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
17 months post being discarded by my husband for the other woman.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Jesus loves a homewrecker...

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
My cop husband cheated and now I can't trust him when he leaves for night shift.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
AP’s Ex-wife was told not to talk to me.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
You're just insecure.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/13/2026
Understanding Infidelity

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/13/2026
Her family keeps kicking her out and I couldn't be happier about it.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/13/2026
Can you still think of your WS as a ‘good person’?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/13/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/13/2026
Please tell them the truth before it destroys them.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

OMG my guy. She cheated. It's tearing you apart. I'm in your corner that's what I'm going to tell you this; you sit her down and ask the questions you need answers and be real with her. Tell her you d…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
My ex-wife tried to kill me a few years ago. She just moved in three houses down from me.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
She snuck out with a "friend" while we were at a party

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
18 months after my husband’s affair and the “ick” just hit. Has anyone ever gotten attraction back after this?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Wife Wants Divorce so She Can Be With Affair Partner

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Do you ever think about the people who never found out about their partner cheating?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
why are they able to put in more effort with the affair partner than in their own relationship?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Today was the worst day of my life

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Update 3 months later

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
I wish I left after the first affair

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
Infidelity after hospitalization

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
My wife of 11 years cheated

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
Married 9 years and just found out my wife has been cheating on me.

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
Still hurts after many, many years

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
How to begin the “healing”

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
Feels like love is dead

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/17/2026
Did any of your parents purposely scare you?

yup. i remember being super little and my mom taking off at a sprint in grocery stores or other unfamiliar places while declaring over her shoulder "I'M GONNA LEAVE YOU!" another one of her favorite g…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
I made my husband confess to OBS and here’s what happened

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/17/2026
My (29M) prenup with my fiance (28W) pays her for having children. My parents (65M, 62W) are telling me to call off the wedding

OP you’re a good man and a good partner, going through pregnancy and Labour is no joke, and having children in general is gonna impact the primary care parent’s career by a good chunk. It’s time to gr…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/18/2026
Did your partner/ex cheat with someone who had traits they previously said they disliked or hated?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
Surprise Surprise another tale of a cheater

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
I Stayed For WAY Too Long

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
Wife is sad over her Affair Partner???

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
I'm going to meet AP for the first time

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
UPDATE: I asked for a divorce

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/20/2026