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She will destroy you if you let her

This is exactly why vetting a potential partner is so vastly important. Their past has incredible importance because it can easily shape our own future. The past is not immutable. The past is with u…

r/BreakUpscomment4/12/2026
Friend said something that shocked me and explained everything...

These type things happen because no one ever teaches us about relationships, cheating and infidelity. Society has let us all down. No one can teach anything they do not know themselves. Consider the …

r/Divorcecomment3/18/2026
She cheated after 14 years

Look up the differences between true remorse and shame, guilt and regret. Remorse matters, the others do not. No remorse, no reconciling. https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/unfaithful-…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/21/2026
Found out my wife cheated before, after & during marriage

Is your daughter actualky yous? Get a dna test. Seems you never really knew your gf at all. Serial infidelity is not reconcilable. Dump her and easily find better. Make sure to always vet a new part…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/26/2026
Are we giving up on relationships too easily nowadays?

If we really are honest about it, and we chose the wrong partner, there is really nothing much to fight for. We expend too much energy trying to save a relationship with a damaged partner, and not ne…

r/BreakUpscomment3/27/2026
Wife cheated after 7 years of long distance and 3 years of marriage

Sorry, but it seems you didn't do anything correctly. Just as most of us have done as well. What do you actually know concerning her past relationships, cheating and any other signs of her being a po…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/27/2026
Miss her so much I don’t know what to do is there a chance she can come back?

What do you know of her past relationships, casual sex history and any previous infidelity? https://youtu.be/Q-KNKkYCKfQ?si=4Fd9iYJK1U6LZADi sexual history red flags. https://singleinthecity.ca/blog…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/28/2026
My full story 2 weeks since DDay 4 days NC

Dude, did you vet her past early on, for red flags? Body count, any cheating ever; that sort of things? Infidelity with a coworker can happen simply by getting too friendly. Discussing emotionally in…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/29/2026
Moving forward without a confession

Stonewalling is terrible to behold. You already know he cheated so just go on that. Rug sweeping infidelity solves nothing at all. He seems to have not matured beyond his youth. https://www.affairr…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/4/2026
Being Told Sexting Isn't Cheating Because It's Not Physical or Emotional...

You are the one she lied to outright and by omissions, you were betrayed not her. You decide if she cheated, not her. If criminals and cheaters could actually define their behavior, there would never…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/5/2026
Saw someone say their spouse’s affair hurt more than the death of their children

This is exactly why we all have to do more to at least try ensuring our next partner is truly who they want us to believe they actually are. We cannot read the mind of another person, trying to vet t…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/6/2026