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How childhood trauma and bullying turned into a specific paraphilia (Enuresis/Denim). Looking for perspective. — Hi everyone. I’m a 22yo male (Engineering student) and I’m finally trying to face a complex situation involving childhood trauma, neurodivergence, and a very specific paraphilia. I’m looking for suppo…

My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... — Tl:dr: My boyfriend of two years has a list of requirements from me after we get married, and after our argument over it, which lead us to break up-- he said he didn't mean any of it and wants to go …

Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected — Today marks my sixth month living in Europe. Looking back at the past half year and all the European girls I’ve interacted with, I thought it would be fun to do a little reflection—what I did well, wh…

My parents raised me to just serve people — I'm 22(F) and have moved away from my parents place but might have to go back because it has become too expensive to live alone and my parents bought a bigger house so it would all work out for me if …

Small succes story - it worked! — Hey guys! I kind of have a small success story. A few weeks ago I posted here saying that I needed at least 800 euros to pay a debt this month and was in the middle of changing of my mindset. But, I …

Nonordinary Perception — I'm so glad I found this community, I've posted in the paranormal and the witchcraft communities and been called fake, liar, crazy, and all kinds of names for sharing my paranormal experiences, so I'm…

This was what I said when we met up a week later after she said she would’ve married me while breaking up with me. Only reason we met up was cuz I asked if she was serious ab what she said and she said “yes. I would’ve married you” — I’ve had a lot of time to really think about and indulge in what happened to cause this. You are right. I shouldn’t have added her back. But what you’re wrong about is what you think what was said aft…

Haven't been on a date in 15 years and I don't know what women my age wear on dates now — 44F, divorced last year after 15 years. I'm finally ready to start dating again. Made profiles on hinge and bumble and immediately panicked about photos because I look like a mom in every single pictu…

Divorce finalized and I'm donating everything he ever complimented me in — Divorce was final 3 weeks ago. Spent this weekend going through my closet and realized I can trace every piece back to his influence. The blue dress he said was his favorite. The jeans he said made me…

i just wore shorts for the first time in 4 years — ok this might sound stupid but my whole leg is covered in k3loids, and i was always so insecure about them ever since i did them. i never wore anything revealing, not even at home but nowadays im just…

Spirit/Ghost Chronicles, Part One: Ghosts at my Grandparents House — This is a very popular topic that I've read many experiences about, but not a lot of people in my life see ghosts/spirits so I wanted to connect with people who have had similar experiences. I detail…

My mother set me up and got policemen and EMR to aggressively restrain me and put me in the ambulance when I least expected — I am mortified. The whole scene was scandalous, never had I ever felt so humiliated. It happened last Friday when I was just about to take a shower before I continued packing my belongings to move o…

I didn’t want to wear something to church and now my parents left me at home — Today is Easter and they wanted me to wear something becasue everyone else was wearing it. I didn’t feel comfortable wearing it so I put on something else that was the same colour as what they were we…

Why are these parents so judgemental — 25F, was recently at my family’s for Easter dinner. My family has always been judgy and mean about anyone’s interests, so I know it’s not only me. I love western fashion and have been getting more int…

I accidentally conjured a “Jellyfish” Egregore + Encounter with “Devine Feminine” — What did I experience? What Egregor did I conjure mistakenly? Has anyone else experienced anything similar? Please share your thoughts. 🙏….. I have been experiencing orbs over the past year at nigh…

A list of Pros and Cons for My Ex — The title basically explains it all so let's get into it. Pros: \\-We Shared common interests and values \\-He was Real easy to talk to and I was honestly able to be myself around him. \\- The De…

Strict Parents — My parents aren't normally too strict, they don't let me do whatever I want but they aren't very controlling. But recently my mum has been really strict about certain things, it's not even things like…

I started to find my ex husband repulsive when he started obsessing over every man in my life — My ex husband would constantly be trying to emulate other men to the point where I repeatedly questioned him about his sexuality. Im alternative and I LOVE gerard way, chris motionless, and oli s…

I [20F] and my Bf [19M] are struggling to get over something that happened, what can we do? (Slight TW) — So, I (20F) and my boyfriend (19M) (Who im gonna call J) have been together 3½ years. We started dating when we were 16, and honestly, the relationship itself has been great. There have been ups and d…

I hate having a physical body. (Possible tw: depersonalization, body dysmorphia, and/or negative self-image) — My entire life I've worn jeans, t-shirts, and a hoodie but lately I've been trying to expand my horizons as far as clothing and aesthetics goes. I'm an adult and can wear and present how I want (in th…

Date night clothes in your 40’s — For the past 10 years I haven’t really been dressing especially sexy for anything - I was wearing a lot of business casual (Ann Taylor) and had a couple of casual dresses that were comfortable and ok …

Boyfriend of one year looks COMPLETELY different from when we started dating and it’s affecting my attraction [26F, 27M] — I feel like such an asshole writing this, but here we go. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. I thought he was insanely hot when we got together. Around eight months ago, he …

Would it be so bad to wear PJ pants to my face to face therapy appointment? — Im 19 genderfulid I deal with anxiety and depression I'm seeing a therapist for what my dad did before he went to jail for being a handsy creep who's a narcissist. some days I dress like I care about…

This breakup was one I never wanted to experience to. Take my heart more sees were there then any other. From the outside looking in I loved the look. I bought her nice clothes and always she rocked t…

It was just pure dumb luck. I never used the apps before and I decided to try. Right away I got a bunch of likes from guys who clearly hadn't read my bio. I didn't match with anyone. But I saw my BF'…

May I ask for an honest and superficial opinion here: does any women find skinny jeans attractive on men?

I grew up when skinny jeans were popular on highschool so I much prefer them to like baggy pants

Agree that I don't find skin tight skinny jeans very attractive on men but slim or straight cuts can look nice.

Not really, no. Slim or straight jeans look way nicer to me.

Not a woman but I’ve seen women dating guys with skinny jeans, so at minimum the answer is “sometimes”

I dated guys with skinny jeans myself, although I hate them, I won't exclude someone just because I don't like their taste in fashion 😅

SMALL RANT & SEEKING ADVICE 4 years separated/divorced, I am very much still struggling with OLD. It’s the first I’ve been single as an adult and I only know how to be a wife, not a “potential girlfr…

Approach Anxiety is a 100% fixable. I know this 'cause I personally fixed mine. But first, you need to understand **why you get it:** Your AA is a by-product of your conditioning growing up. As you r…

It's not the sweat pants hoodie look though. It literally looked like she found random clothes and then put it on. That's why I made that comparison to college girls at a supermarket. First date, we …

I’d be put off by this too for an early date. There’s a difference between dressing casually but still putting in effort to be cute (like jeans and a cute top) and just being lazy.  Honestly, if you …

I have a few thoughts here. So I think you are starting with a baseline assumption that is not always correct. Not everyone cares about being “presentable” or “attractive.” There are also some reg…

This was my question. And also, were the sweatpants and sweater a matching set? There is a difference between a really high quality set and what you wear to do chores. I'd wear athlesuire if we were g…

First of all, it's fine for you to not be into how your date dressed and to want to be with someone who dresses differently than that. To your other point about dressing up, I think there are a coup…

I think it's a matter of personal preference more than "right vs. wrong." I don't think you're wrong for wanting a woman you're dating to look presentable. We all have our own ideas of what we find …

I can't quite remember (a few years ago now) but it was something like a baggy/oversized button down shirt (not tucked in) and then like either jeans or slacks or similar. It kind of reminded me of so…

I would say: if it bothered you so much how she was dressed, clearly you both are not a good match.  My first instinct would be write that she doesn't dress to impress you but to feel good and comfo…

I’m attracted to ppl that put effort into their style and look. I went on a date this past week with a guy who showed up to a dinner date wearing a hoodie, jeans, and sneakers. I was turned off becaus…

It reeeeally depends on the venue and the time of day, for me. If the first date is at a nicer restaurant for dinner, I’ll come in a dress, or dress pants and a cute blouse, heels etc. BUT if the firs…

I don't care to impress anyone. While I wouldn't wear sweatpants I would wear jeans. I wear scrubs to work. When I was dating I wore jeans and a tshirt on first dates because it's who I am and my com…

Couldn't it be just the new fashion? Look up what young people are wearing nowadays. Baggy jeans/sweats and oversized hoodies. It's just what is in in 2026. [https://www.instyle.com/fashion-trends-to-…

Same. I'm sure people turned me down because I came in jeans and tshirt to a first date, but if someone has a problem with that, I'm not going to waste my time dating them.

Personally I don't think it's important to "dress to impress" but rather it's important to dress appropriately for the occasion and the venue you're going to. I am the one who dislikes dressing up fan…

Yeah, but wanting your partner to dress nicely and wanting your partner to have good hygiene and a clean house isn't exactly apples to apples. One of those feels like a nice-to-have (preference on clo…

the last date I had was spontaneous. I hadn't done laundry in weeks, I had a half hour to get ready, I wasn't prepared. I had a hard time deciding what to wear, I had a couple 'pretty' shirts.. I ende…

I don't "dress to impress" for two reasons: 1. I believe the clothing should be functional and comfortable (depending on what exact piece of clothing we're talking about these two criteria could be s…

I’m gonna delete this later but throughout my entire teenage years I wanted flare jeans, but I’m plus sized and so they didn’t have them in the store like regular. But I knew you could order them from…

Big lesson I can say is to also read the room and go with the flow of that. Looks do play a part, but definitely the more subtle cues will do a LOT. Things like how you're dressed does definitely pl…

Yes! I would ask him what was wrong and he would say “nothing”. But I would keep asking because he was acting cold and distant. It was almost ALWAYS something irrational, so when I would get upset abo…

As an adult do you look like a modern form of that man? Like maybe your body is a little different and you wear jeans with tees, but otherwise there’s a resemblance? It could certainly be higher self …

You are right on. CK One perfume anyone? Black and white, long sleeve shirts with no volume etc? Skinny jeans, giant boots? Sigh, I am so dissapionted. I hated that area, and was RELIEVED when J-…

This depends on so many factors. Would I preclude a man from a first date just because he's bald/balding? Never. But I would need to find him attractive overall with good hygiene and wearing decent cl…

Tom Felton’s post and Danielle from new jeans were two people who were called out for using Chinese new year

There have been examples of people insisting for lunar new year or criticizing people for using Chinese new year such as tom Felton and Danielle from new jeans. If you don’t think it’s an issue that’s…

I dated a guy in high school and broke go with him because he would tuck his collared shirts into his jeans

One dude was always bball style in shorts and high tops and swish swish pants. Didn’t own slacks and wouldn’t wear the ones I bought him. Jeans were light wash. I couldn’t everyday. Something abou…

I had gastric sleeve coming up on a year ago and have lost 90 lbs. I’m open about it because I still have more to lose but have plateaued, and I have loose skin on my upper arms and inner thighs. I th…

I usually have a hard time getting to completion. I get aroused as hell and ready to party, and have a few scenarios lined up to aim for, but they usually end up more the equivalent of like, one of …

The amount of times I’ll remember I need to wash my jeans or it’s recycling bin day tomorrow 20 minutes into sex is astounding, ADHD has no boundaries.

The hand towel in the bathroom that's so grey and grimey that you dry your hands on the legs of your jeans rather than touch it.

Yes the fitness level thing bothers me too 🙄 I sincerely enjoy hiking and am very active and want to be with the same. So many people list that as a hobby but then if you go on a “hike” with them the…

This is the first time I’ve ever posted/commented on reddit. But I have to share this to see what others think! Roughly 8 years ago I was working in retail in a shopping centre and this lady walks in…

On Saturday when I showed up to my boyfriend's house, he was shirtless in jeans vacuuming. On Sunday morning, he got up and started breakfast: potatoes, pancakes, and bacon. I snoozed in bed. Then I g…

I just want to say, if a guy came to pick me up for a date and he was wearing a suit, had flowers, and lord do I dare to dream, a box of chocolates, you would probably have to mop me up off the floor.…

Through middle/high school I was a fat kid with curly hair. This was 10 years ago & way before the current perm/curly hair fad OR good haircuts. Nobody at my school was walking around with burst fades…

> There's adult goth aesthetic and angsty teen goth aesthetic. You might want to post photos with your face blocked out so people can give you feedback on your style. Leather jackets paired with plai…

my parents express their love by giving me tons of secondhand shit. They will bring 2 bags every visit. Jeans, a sunlight, things they think I need. Soon my house is full.

I've been catfished by a lot of guys. They genuinely think they look like they did 80lbs ago and are still wearing the muffin topping jeans to prove it.  I don't know what to look out for but meetin…

I had to try a few before I found the one that worked for me. First was Buspar, but unfortunately I was one of the few that felt dizzy on it so had to stop. Next was Cymbalta. And it worked wonders b…