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Thank you, stranger — I remember this day i was complaining about a specific thing that couldn't just get out of my head and was throwing my uneasyness in a Discord server i used to share with amazing people. Crying about …

Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer? — Hey everyone, I have a question that might sound a bit out there, but I’m curious to hear if anyone has had a similar experience. I recently took an exam where I only managed to write answers for ab…

Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules — Hello everyone. Over the past few months, I have noticed a significant number of you expressing dissatisfaction with the increasing frequency of posts related to NSFW/porn/masturbation addiction and …

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

Web Programming Languages Cheat Sheets - JV Codes 2025 — Are you tired of repeatedly searching for the same code on Google? Don’t worry—we’ve got your back! The page serves as a central location to find ready-operational cheatsheets regarding [programming l…

What web builders would you recommend in 2025 for simple websites? — **I**’m looking to build a few simple websites in and wanted to get recommendations on what the best web builders are at the moment. I’ve been working as a digital designer for over a decade but woul…

I just revamped my website for better optimization. — Can anyone give me some advice or tips on how I can improve my website?

My Keyword Research Workflow — Hi guys, I wanted to check with you if my keyword research workflow canbe improved. Here's how I've been doing: Finding general keywords: Google Trend: Look the best variation of a generic keyword…

Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice? — I'm approaching 5 years at my current company (2 years as junior, 3 as mid-level) and am submitting a promotion case for Senior. I won't hear back for a couple months - my director feels optimistic, b…

Need an advise for my website — Hi there, I need your help because I’m struggling to get a higher ranking on Google for my website. I’m a Psychologist and Psychotherapist, and I have been working in a small city near Milan, Italy.si…

Can you successfully use AI humanizers to improve SEO — When working with AI-generated content for SEO, it’s always a balancing act. On one hand, I want the content to be optimized with keywords and structure, but on the other, I don’t want it to come over…

With AI becoming a boom for quite a long time, how can an SEO expert make use of it — Just wanna know like any AI courses that can help improve my work and make me sustainable in a job without it taking my role. Curious/anxious about it. Anyone has any suggestions?

Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use? — Our business is scaling rapidly — we’re currently handling millions of unique requests per week, and this number continues to grow. At the moment, we’re hosted on DigitalOcean, paying approximately €4…

Minimal or No Design Emails Will Almost Always Outperform Designed Emails — For most ecom owners, either spending the time yourself or paying a professional to intricately design each of your emails has to be one of the worst ROI decisions possible. I'm not exactly sure wher…

Changing or staying? Product Designer — Hello. I’ve barely been a junior product designer for a year before I was laid off and threatened by AI. Same telltale as everyone in design/IT industries. I’ve been unemployed for 2 months now, and …

Anyone else noticed a drop in Search Console Clicks despite better rankings? — I've got three sites where the average position and impressions have improved considerably in the last month, but Search Console is showing less clicks. Obviously this is because the CTR is down, how…

We open-sourced internet’s largest incident response glossary with over 500+ terms — We just published a public glossary with **500+ terms** related to incident response, on-call, alerting, SLOs, postmortems, and more. I think this is perhaps the internet's largest glossary for incide…

Home page visits but no clicks or sales — Hi all, I was hoping to grab some feedback from the pros here. New to Ecom and wondering whats going wrong. Getting a great CTR from my ads and heaps of visitors to the site, but most of them scroll…

How can I get credible backlinks for my mental health startup website? — Hey everyone, I'm building a mental health awareness and support platform called *Trusme*, and I'm trying to improve its SEO through quality backlinks. I'm not looking for spammy directories or paid…

How did you find working in Avada? Would you charge more? — Im creating a site audit for a potential client about some SEO work. The last agency he was with builty a pretty site that doesnt and hasnt shown up anywhere in 4 years its been live. Were going to…

Jira time logging for DevOps — I work at a big company and we are required to log the time we work on jira tickets to measure our productivity and for other reports for management. Some times I work the 8 hours but most of the time…

Thoughts on a platform that can give AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation (i will not promote) — **AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation** Hey r/startups, I’m exploring a product idea and would love to hear your thoughts. **The problem:** Many users land in product documenta…

Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model? — Hi everyone, I read through [an article by OpenAI](https://openai.com/index/expanding-on-sycophancy/) and stumbled upon the following segment: >With the recent GPT‑4o update, we started the rollout …

Reasonable equity for Lead Engineer or Tech Co Founder in this scenario? App is live, Large follower base on socials, Profitable after 4 weeks, 200+ paid subs - i will not promote — Have launched the first camping app in Australia with video reviews, backed by 130,000+ engaged followers across platforms, directly grown from the campground reviews. App launch is already pro…

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate how awesome Shopify is? — Over the years, we've tried countless solutions to see if they could replace Shopify for us. WooCommerce, Magento, ClickFunnels, Convertri, hell even SquareSpace. This is only served to make us appr…

Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …

American Sign Language in DevOps Communities and Teaching — Hello everyone, I’m a student in university who hosts workshops within our local Google Developer Groups Chapter. I go to a university that has a substantial deaf and hard of hearing population. Th…

How to decide what to priorotize when you have limited time? — There are so many levers you can pull to improve a website's SEO performance. How do you actually decide which are more vs less important tasks to do, when you can only do some because of limited hour…

Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article) — I've been building on Shopify and came across this interesting McKinsey research about personalization that got me thinking about how store owners manage their waitlists in their stores. **Some key i…

Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article) — I've been building on Shopify and came across this interesting McKinsey research about personalization that got me thinking about how store owners manage their waitlists in their stores. **Some key i…

[Hiring/Seeking/Offering] Jobs / Co-Founders Weekly Thread — # [Hiring/Seeking/Offering] Jobs / Co-Founders Weekly Thread This is an experiment. We see there is a demand from the community to: * Find Co-Founders * Hiring / Seeking Jobs * Offering Your Skillse…

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

After the first deployment of your products, how do you get feedback? — I launched my products and so far I've had around 100 orders, from those 100 order 4 have left a review. Apart from the fact that the reviews are shown in the website, I would like to hear feedback fr…

using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…

Overlooked levers in the returns process — Been thinking about how to address refund requests—not returns logistics Everyone I talk to says to optimize logistics, improve product descriptions, promote exchanges, etc…I’m curious: Anyone make …

We Fired a Developer But Not Because He Was Bad, But Because He Wasn't Right. Only 2 Legit Reasons to Fire Anyone. (i will not promote) — After building a small team and running a startup for a while, We’ve come to a hard conclusion: There are only two legitimate reasons to fire someone. 1. They are not the right fit for the company.…

ssGTM / GA4 vs Ringside Data - Customer Journey Analytics & Attribution — Hey everyone, Hope you're all well! Just trying to get an idea of what other people think about using tools like Ringside Data and perhaps the likes of Claritas, Resonate, etc. vs using ssGTM and GA4…

I’ll Review Your Website and Give Free Feedback on What to Improve — I love giving feedback and helping others level up their websites. Drop your domain in the comments or DM me, and I’ll check it out and share what you can improve!

Best low-effort analytics tools for Shopify optimization? I'm drowning in data... — I'm struggling to make sense of all the analytics data from my store. The native Shopify reports give me tons of information, but I'm finding it difficult to determine what metrics I should actually f…

How to approach colleagues ‘improving’ my copy with unedited Chat GPT? — Hi all, I’m a new and junior member of a very small team, we are overstretched and have far too much on the go at any given time, which inevitably leads to shortcuts being taken. I’m no stranger t…

Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple infra — Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple on-prem infra Hey everyone, I’m a junior sysadmin working with a fairly basic on-prem infrastructure with about 45 users, and I’m look…

ChatGPT Plus vs Claude Pro – Which is Better for a UI/UX Designer? — Hi everyone! I’m a UI/UX Designer looking to subscribe to either ChatGPT Plus or Claude Pro, and I’m trying to figure out which one would be the better fit for my workflow. I want to use the AI mai…

Should I hide my plugins in WordPress for safety? And how? — Hey folks, I've been thinking about WordPress security lately and came across this question: **Should I hide the plugins I'm using on my WordPress site to improve safety?** I’m not talking about u…

Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…

Would web developers be interested in a business that analyzes their websites and helps improve monetization? — First-time poster here—apologies if I’m slightly off-topic. I’m planning to build a website that helps website owners improve how they monetize their sites. I’d like to know if there are people who …

Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks! — I posted about my SEO efforts about 5 months ago and I had such a warm response from everyone that I kind of wanted to provide an update. I had both shared my results and asked for advice on next step…

Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!) — **Post Body:** Hi everyone! I co-own a small business (a boutique cafe + online store) and wanted to share our experience using an **AI “social media assistant”** to grow our Instagram and TikTok. W…

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

"I quit my engineering job due to anxiety and built a small business—how do I scale from here?" — Hi everyone, I wanted to share my journey and ask for advice from those who’ve scaled small businesses. I studied chemical engineering and got placed in a great company right after graduating from S…

Struggled to Find Clients Until I Found My Niche. — One thing I’ve realized building my agency is this: most small business owners *aren’t* looking for some complex, “next-gen” AI solution—they just want the annoying, repetitive stuff *gone*. I’ve bee…

Why on earth would you want to get your ex back. Your ex CHOSE not to be with you. That's the person you want back? They chose to be with someone else. Or to try and find someone else because in thei…

Actually there are studies suggesting it IMPROVES sleep quality, as you get into a deeper kind of REM sleep.

I don't have any options. I've worked and improved Myself a lot these past 7months. She found someone else at the 3rd month mark. I'm drinking with a few friends right now and I can't help but think…

Fortunately I've taken my separation (and inevitable divorce) as an opportunity to quit drinking and make healthy lifestyle choices. I've been working really hard to practice mindfulness and radical …

So I just wrote a comment today on another post that might help too: You’re being too hard on yourself. Your divorce is completely fresh and you need to give yourself grace and allow yourself to feel…

If it helps at all, I'm doing better a few months in now. Not *a lot* better... but enough, for now. Pick a couple areas you want to improve in. Now's the time to get started. Don't try to fix every…

None of it *should* stop you from moving forward and healing, but for some people it still nevertheless does. I'm sorry, I know you said this more than half a year ago but I'm going through my situati…

I am very skeptic about mediation. Its not something I would do to improve my mental health, unless I wanted I escape reality for a while

What does that look like??? Find a new hobby. Anything. Try learning to knit. Learn to build robots. Take a class in 17th century blacksmithing. Join a woodworkers guild. Join an improve troupe. Volu…

Learn the skill and do what you think you need to do to learn the skill and get better at it. In parallel, use the LOB to get better at the skill. In this way, all the choices you make along the way w…

I don't understand why porn and masturbation addiction has a blanket ban just because people have complained about it. Why wouldn't people trying to improve in that aspect of their lives be allowed to…

These changes are long overdue. Thank you for updating the rules to adapt to the evolving situation! I hope the sun can self correct back into a helpful place to discuss self improvement again.

You're welcome to ask. A lucky strike - that sounds just like an LOB effect to me, haha. Also, to answer "a gambler high off a win", I didn't specify my wins in the above pouncemonial, though have a …

Well, you can believe me or not, I have no incentive in lying. But the Neville sub has messed me up. Those LOA “teachers” there are messed up - and they don’t even know what they are talking about. “L…

Tbh you’re allowed to have your viewpoints but this is attention seeking behavior judging by your posts meant to get a reaction out of the people here. Also, why go on a Murphy sub for this? You alrea…

Okay logic and science- so your RAS reticular activating system is basically the minds way of filtering and processing the insurmountable data that it takes in from the environment 24/7 as well as pro…

Then why does MC recommend NC during SP missions? Because, many times, that is the appropriate conventional action, at that moment. Either because they are increasingly fearful of you, or unfairly ho…

Therapist will navigate with you your core wounds which will help you to identify your fears and patterns, learn healthy boundaries, learn about attachment in deeper and learn more about yourself, wor…

Irritating the ones you love, polysecure (because it deals with a lot of attachment education), women who love too much, polyvagal theory and exercises, legit anything to do with different therapies— …

I think your therapy must be working? Does your missing her feel destructive since you’re anxious? To me it sounds like you’re really working through your childhood wounds. I’m DA to everyone. I was …

Worst thing I heard my FA say was their excuses for the silent treatment and stonewalling. "Can't you just enjoy the silence for once?!" Trying to make toxic behaviors a positive is a red flag for me …

Take a look at roadmap.sh, pick a technology to learn, then get a book/course/read docs (whatever works better for you). Ask chatgpt to generate you a real-world, production-like task for this technol…

Maybe set up a lab and start studying the stuff you don't know well. That's my best suggestion because it's what works for me. I spend a lot of time inside and outside of work hours studying, both han…

What we consider the basic features of an IDP catalog and template are in the end pretty empty promises and do not lead a successful IDP and developer engagement. Surprisingly enough what made the mo…

Changes should bring improvements or solve problems. It doesn't sound like these teams have problems that DevOps would solve.

Largely on the productivity boosting side. Whether to improve the output of internal employees, or to provide a service to others that does the same.

Any large change can be broken down into a series of small changes. I’d spend more time at first supporting current practices and understanding why they work for the team, then you can start to come u…

An entrepreneur is not just someone that’s wants to do their own thing eventually. Neither is the entrepreneurial spirit good intentions, a desire to break the chains, or a desire to own your own thin…

If the game is already performing well and the investment could significantly boost its potential, it might be worth spending that extra $800. It's all about understanding the return on investment. If…

Sounds like a major improvement for property research in the UK. Love that you're automating the mess of data. The smart alerts and chat-style Q&A are solid ideas. If you can scale this up, it'd save …

Matchmaking platforms are tough early on since they rely so much on user activity. One thing that helps is starting with a small niche where you can really deliver value. Also AI can make the platform…

Totally get where you’re coming from, I’ve worked with someone teaching people how to land local business clients by offering done-for-you sites + recurring services (but using GoHighLevel instead of …

Hey. Interesting write up, it has some good references and shows some good understanding on modern software security. Though there are some parts I would critique for feedback: >Another layer that …

Secure here. I still do learn and learn to accept that a lot of people cant express themself and selfreflect. Long distance friend of mine and, probably DA, got into arguments with me via whatsapp. …

"Treating unhealthy behavior like unhealthy behavior is lacking empathy". Okay. I can have empathy and still acknowledge that you need to do better and improve yourself. Talking as someone who used to…

Well, like I said, if she didn't improve, I would walk away. But things have been on the up trend. We no longer have periods of no contact. I interact with her every day like we used to at the start. …

I hear you and I can see that your comment is grounded in past experiences. Fair enough. The only reason I chose to pursue this was because I had new found knowledge. This was the first time I've date…

Haha, I'm not looking for an applause, just sharing what worked for me. Maybe it might help someone else, maybe it might not. Anyhow, for me, bending over backwards would be to give into their needs …

So instead of replying individually and repeating myself, I'm just going to make a comment addressing it all. Firstly, it was interesting to read all these perspectives. I see where some of its comin…

I’m in the same boat as you. Also an FA, mostly secure but get sucked into anxious attachment with someone who is very avoidant. I’ve also said goodbye to some avoidant friends! I’ve done alot of hea…

i somewhat agree idk, but one thing i noticed about secure people is they always want to help you improve as a person and they always discuss their boundaries. avoidant have zero boundaries also avo…

Some of these comments are saying silly (and heteronormative) things like "weird around children" or "checks out other women when they think you're not looking". Obvious reminder that being uncomforta…

Wanting to help others improve as a person isnt exclusively a secure trait and avoidants get awkward revealing their past if it makes them feel exposed or vulnerable, at least for FAs.

I was also the hopeless romantic that's why I held on for so long. Nowadays I feel so free from everyone's expectations, I want to improve my life and feel good in it, I no longer think that only a ro…

I think to be with a partner who has an insecure attachment (whether it’s avoidant or anxious), you certainly do have to make some sacrifices if you’re supporting them in their journey to heal. It def…

What else would you suggest based on the knowledge you have gathered? Self-love and self compassion, being able to organize all the feelings alone, have a mindset that you are good enough, but also ha…

Well, where do I start? I guess for me the foundation was based on 3 pillars. 1st was of course Mindfulness as ability to comprehend that neither thoughts or feelings are our true self, which is in fa…

In my personal experience, just understanding my insecure attachment significantly improved a lot of the issues I was having. I still have work to do, but the discovery of it itself feels like it was …

What I find obnoxious about it is how often it seems they want to be judged by standards that they would never accept judging others by. How many avoidants would accept "well, I didn't mean to make my…

I'm FA and have mostly dated FAs. If I got this message, I would also be tempted to respond. I even might do it. But with a very high likelihood, nothing good will come from it. There needs to be…