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I quitted alcohol 6 months ago. Tomorrow I'm quitting CBD. — I'm getting ready to take a big step in my life. Writing this helps me visualize the process, and I'm hoping to get an outside perspective here. I started smoking joints around age 20. Long story sh…
START HERE !!! — # Step-by step short guide r/Sbreggo So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the…
My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…
Share your startup - quarterly post — Share Your Startup - Q4 2023 [**r/startups**](https://www.reddit.com/r/startups/) **wants to hear what you're working on!** Tell us about your startup in a comment within this submission. Follow thi…
Update on Our Journey to Export Pistachio Butter – Small Wins & Hard Lessons — Hey everyone, A few weeks ago I posted here about our family business in Gaziantep, Turkey — we produce high-quality pistachio butter and are looking to expand internationally. Just wanted to give a…
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …
How to get the code for the interactions I created on Figma? — So say I create a hover effect of a button going from a small button with just the icon to make it expand and include the text on the button as well. Once I have create an interaction like this, do we…
What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …
more open useful o2o platform app.i will not promote — This is an open suggested startup idea sort particularly focus at philippines or emerging markets A sort of early shopee were everyone can buy and sell with no business permit free shipping marketpl…
How Would You Approach Digital Marketing for a Premium Food Product Expanding Internationally? — Hi everyone, I run digital efforts for my family’s pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a region famous for producing world-class pistachios. We’ve been in business since 2007 and …
Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model? — Hi everyone, I read through [an article by OpenAI](https://openai.com/index/expanding-on-sycophancy/) and stumbled upon the following segment: >With the recent GPT‑4o update, we started the rollout …
Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups (I will not promote) — **Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups** These are a few things I have come to learn while doing "startups," maybe it will help some entrepreneurs in their startup travels.…
Looking for theme suggestions for an online bookstore — I’m looking for themes that can help support the expansion of my store. At the moment, I’m using Dawn which has worked over the past 2 years. For context, I run an online bookstore. At the moment, I h…
What is the scope of Quant UXR or UX Data analysis skills in the market? — I’m thinking of learning this, but is there any advantage in having these skills as a UX designer or researcher? Or is this requirement usually fulfilled by a data analyst/scientist? If there are UX…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
Is this site using a bootstrap or plug-in? — This bookstore has a section where, if you you click on one of the books in a slider, it expands a panel about that book below. These sliders under "New and Featured" and "Trending" (the entire div is…
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…
What do I do with an empty property? — A little background on me first. I’m a dentist, I already own my own practice which I’m not looking to relocate. Next to my practice my there is a 2800 square foot property with a small garden at th…
New Monochrome Theme — Hey yall, I have been researching and trying out different themes to use since I have been on the free themes and I want to upgrade my shop to a paid template. There is a new theme called Monochrome t…
Everything to learn about Headless wordpress and integrating react — Hello fellow devs, I'm looking to expand my skills as a full-stack developer and dive into React.js, Tailwind, and related tools. I know WordPress can be used as a headless CMS, but I'm a complete be…
Looking for Shopify Apps to Sell Products from Other Shopify Stores — Hi everyone! I'm looking to expand my Shopify store's product offerings by selling products from other Shopify stores. Ideally, I'd like to integrate their products into my store seamlessly, handle …
Anyone from Spain around here? Trying to expand in Madrid and Barcelona, unsure about my tactics. — My company prepares and executes a fully tailored 1:1 English course for Spanish speakers. Live classes, 100% remote. Had a lot of success in Buenos Aires (Argentina) but now we are slowly expanding i…
wholesale chicken — i need fund for my business i need to expand
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out. — For five months I was absolutely certain I was dismissive avoidant. Monthly attachment coaching—as a DA. Studied obsessively, could recite every AP/DA/FA trait. I even built this text analysis tool, a…
Studying attachment theory — I’ve been studying attachment theory for a couple of months now, and I’ve only recently started to REALLY look into it. I started reading a book called Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for…
March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…
Jupiter in Aquarius and the impersonal nature of this placement — This is one placement I genuinely struggle to fully understand. Jupiter, as a principle, feels conceptually misaligned with Aquarius and its traits. The expansive, benefic, growth oriented nature of J…
Pregnancy seems to have opened something up — I am recently pregnant, and have been doing gateway for about 15mo. When I found out I was expecting, I decided to pause on focus levels where I was exerting more energy or opening myself to other ene…
The day has come! — For more than 50 years, the Monroe Institute has been quietly pioneering a systematic way to explore human consciousness — beyond meditation, beyond belief, and beyond theory. I’m excited to share tha…
Feeling kind of stuck with the tapes — I’ve been doing the tapes since last summer. I’m not having strong experiences at this point. When I first started them I had some interesting increased ESP. Then I went through a phase where they rea…
The entire universe is frequency and our communications depend on the resonance of our quantum fields — As many of you in this community know, the "UFO/NHI" phenomenon and spiritual awakening often converge at a single point: Resonance. For years, I’ve been obsessed with a question: Is there a specific …
Got predicted to expect an injury in 2026 at a workplace, if anyone could expand please — Hi, one astrologer in the past (2022) told me that there’s going to be an injury that i’m going to get in 2026 at a workplace. I have recently got a new job and yet to start in a couple weeks. Not gon…
how do I stop being codependent with my bestfriend? — I think I might be dealing with codependency and I want to work on it before it damages my friendship. I have a bestfriend who I’m extremely close with. We’ve built a really deep emotional bond and …
What affirmation do you use — I generally just repeat J a more than my physical body over and over because I haven’t been able to remember a longer affirmation. Wondering if I should try. Does anyone else use an affirmation. Here…
Should I reach out? — 6.5 months out from a 6 year relationship and engagement. I miss her like crazy still. I have grown and expanded in so many ways, but I still miss my best friend and want her to be a part of my life. …
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…
HUGE tantrum from my NDad due to my recent success. Hilarious but also depressing. 🥹 — My ndad is currently throwing a tantrum - screaming, stomping around, making threats etc whilst telling my mum and I that it’s my fault, and that I know what I did, therefore avoiding/refusing to expa…
You are already in heaven — This works better than knowing you are God. There is only one infinite consciousness expressing itself in infinite ways. But everything is within this, nothing can be outside of it. You cannot be outs…
I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough! — I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough I just came back from a 4 week long vacation in Turks and Caicos in the Caribbean. This was the 10th year in a row I have don…
Help to reach focus 12 steadily — I recently embarked on the Gateway Experience journey; initially, out of pure curiosity, I played the free flow of Focus 12, easily reaching Focus 10 and even once, when the voice took me to 12, I fel…
After 30 years of being a people pleasing, peace-keeping, manipulative, caretaking, dysregulated, codependency "addict," I've finally reached a point where I have enough control to simply STOP. In a very short amount of time, my whole entire life has changed. It's nearly impossible to describe. — The first part of this post is just context, and you can skip it all by scrolling down to **The Proof** I'm not going to go into much detail, but just for context: I experienced some pretty major chi…
Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026 — Even if you are not an artist, philosopher or feel things deeply, the New Moon in Pisces could give you an open, dreamy quality, where you want to dig into more abstract subjects. You may be thinkin…
How to bring up SI to my therapist? — (Prefacing: I am currently safe! This post just sucks to make.) I'm relatively new to having a therapist, I started last year in November. I feel like I hit the jackpot with my therapist, I think we …
Why is my relationship with my mom so bad? — I love reading other people’s charts (I’m still new to astrology) but when it comes to reading my own, it’s tricky. Interested if anyone can point out any correlation to the bad relationship I’ve had …
I got a call from my lawyer — I'll make this quick, but 6 months ago I was arrested for something I didn't do. Since then I have remained under investigation for Conspiracy to commit fraud and it's turned my life around. The polic…
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …
I don't get to focus 12 — I feel like nothing is happening with focus 12. My consciousness doesn't expand at all.. it's just still me lying in my bed with the same amount of consciousness as before. I don't know if I'm suppose…
Literally Crying Right Now — I have been going through so much and struggling to stay positive. This morning I decided fuck this..I have the power to change this. I’m shifting my mindset and I’m not going to feel stressed or depr…
An update : Projected twice since meeting my wife’s deceased great/great great grandmas and it was not a good time — Hello my fellow travelers. Since my first post I’ve projected two times and both of them were not the best time to be honest. To pick up where I left off here is a link to my first experience [The G…
Thank you! The diagram + stickied comment explain it well. And I'm glad I don't have to change tons of my beliefs, just expand them.
i am a 51yo married man and educated with a professional degree but stuck in middle management which is fine. I have become more or less an alcoholic in some respects because i love sleeping and my…
1. That is why it’s called maladaptive daydreaming. The person does so to escape their current reality. They are not making actual changes, thinking different thoughts, reconditioning the subconscious…
You’re telling me you haven’t heard “what you focus on expands” word for word? Because I have… I clearly know how to read. Do you?
Like I said in the original post, don’t split hairs and try to claim that Joseph Murphy said something different. “What you focus on, expands” and “what you believe in, manifests” are essentially the …
Nope. What every spiritual masters, yogi etc teach is that your world conform to who you are. It's completzly onvious thzy all we think 1ld focus on in a day don't expand or even take life.
Therapist will navigate with you your core wounds which will help you to identify your fears and patterns, learn healthy boundaries, learn about attachment in deeper and learn more about yourself, wor…
My experience of the cloud was a series of steps where I would build something, then understand why the next thing exists, build that, and so on. You start with “lift and shift”, replicating physical…
Hey, [OpsLevel](https://www.opslevel.com) CTO here. We have a ton of respect for what the Backstage community has accomplished. It's impressive how they've expanded the IDP space and created a vibra…
Blackmail and bully your $10k a month friends and have them kick a portion of their earnings your way...or else. Key is to use this formula: $10,000 / [No. of $10k Friends] = [Monthly income per fri…
I'm of the opinion that there is no free will, chemicals move in your brain and then a decision happens, not vice versa. Just like lungs expand to take in air for you to breathe and the stomach digest…
Definitely didn't waste your time. Call it practice. Your awareness will keep expanding each time. It's good that it's frustrating, that means you care and you want to be better. Keep dating and keep …
You both have to develop more metacognition. That’s the first step. Then, you need boundaries — DBT will help you do the opposite. Then do the body work with the nervous system while cognitively restr…
Well, it is a book that essentially expands on attachment and shifts the focus to behavior patterns instead of 'styles.' It acknowledges that people use attachment behavior strategies towards attached…
When I find myself caught in an anxious spiral, these are the things I've found that help me most: 1) Get moving - I pop in my earbuds, turn on a true crime podcast to engage my brain, put the leash …
Anxious-preoccupied attachment patterns are distinct from an anxiety disorder, but there's definitely some overlapping gray areas. Questions to ask yourself: do you have underlying anxiety that af…
Brilliantly stated and expanded on. I distilled it to “child wanting parent figure” but you colored in so much of the story and you were spot on.
Avoidants typically harshly assert distance when their subconscious feelings are coming the closest to being exposed though. They will also often keep people they have genuine feelings for in their or…
The reason you don’t have a romantic relationship is because you won’t get out of your own way. You are stuck in what you want and what you like and how you feel. All very self-absorbed. A woman …
>It's worth noting that Anxious Attachment is also emotional unavailability. Accepting that is what allowed me to heal and grow, albeit slowly over time. Could you expand on this ? I've often read th…
You’re confusing chemistry spikes with compatibility. Healthy relationships are not supposed to feel exciting all the time. If they do, it’s usually because there’s instability, uncertainty, or interm…
The answer is nothing and you should remind yourself of that, whenever you can. What is right for you will meet you. You can just reassure your self that you're enough. To expand, with how people/dat…
The further I get along with my Social Psychology studies and how people form healthy bonds with one another, the more I am starting to understand how fucked up modern dating has become and how most p…
Expand your distance to worldwide.
>Are there some guys who genuinely want women as friends like this (in this kind of setting)? Yes, sure? E; To expand a bit. I met a woman at a meetup, but already started seeing someone else inste…
Well, I’m nearing the two-month mark since I (31m) deleted all my apps, ended the situationships that weren’t going anywhere, and took my usual winter break to mentally recover from OLD burnout. Despi…
Thank you so much for this permission to not feel bad if I'm not feeling it!!!! This is very true. The thing is on each individual interaction, I get this. When I step back and look at the major patte…
I'm jealous that you have a mostly single friend group! My social life is dynamic and always expanding and changing so I have some now but all my old friends are partnered up
This. I think there's a difference between *attractiveness* and *attraction*. I think someone can be attractive without you experiencing attraction. I think attractiveness is a component of physical c…
No, you’re clear to go find him though. There’s likely an internal directory you can use. It wouldn’t be weird to use it in this case (I can expand but yeah you’ve already matched/it was fine)
Good luck king! Here's a post about writing thoughtful prompts too. You have room to expand on yours beyond one very short sentence: https://old.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/oa17bq/how_to_write_eff…
Yes, for 4 months, these improvements sound remarkable. And it looks like this also already has positive effects on your relationship since you said you recently had 3 very good days until it got too …
I (30M) haven’t been on Hinge in close to a year and really have no desire to go back, but the fact that single women don’t seem to go out in public where I live is really forcing my hand. I thought m…
I’m torn about this advice, and this is coming from someone who met my current partner through a social sports team. This is the second person I’ve dated from being involved in this sports community…
This is exactly it. You potentially expand your platonic network. Those new platonic friends just might have cute single friends. And if they don’t? Well, you still get the bonus of having made new fr…
Skill issue. You met two women at an animal shelter and immediately dismissed them because they weren’t hot. Star seeing women as people, don’t focus on getting dates but rather on expanding your netw…
I understand it's frustrating not to meet someone right away. The benefits of this strategy are that it can expand your social nerwork, keep your social skills up, and give you something interesting t…
You're missing the larger point to this advice. The goal isn't "get hobbies and treat them like a meat market," it's "join hobbies, expand your social circle, and with that will come more opportunitie…
IHO, people, who join clubs just to get themselves a partner, are a huge red flag. The whole point of "find new social hobbies" advice is to 1. Make your life more diverse and therefore interesting.…
The middle aged wives in the book club have daughters and family friends who might be single. The point isnt to go to a meeting and immediately get paired off, but to expand your social circle outside…
Missing the point. You need to make friends and expand social circles. Then you start getting dates/interactions with “friend of a friend”. Make sure attitude is about making friends and acquain…
You’re kinda missing the point. You didn’t join real life dating apps. People aren’t participating in activities, clubs and sports with the purpose of dating. They do it because they enjoy it. Join …
I joined several social groups. I attended things they did for months to a year and it didn't expand my social network. I was treated like the odd man out no matter how long I was in the group or how …
I say this strictly from this single post’s perspective, but it looks like you missed the point. Do you enjoy social connection at all? Real question. Because many people don’t. Obviously don’t do act…
Joining social activities is to make friends and expand your social network. Those married couples, do they not have friends that might be female and single? U cant make friends with those married …
We did just have a thread on this. Takeaway was that the benefit is not necessarily meeting someone specifically in that one course. Benefits (1) You're expanding your social network with people …
I'm in the most expensive place in the country (not US). Can't say the experience has been that transactional, but exactly the same lack interest in just hanging out or doing something together. I'v…
Wow! So many things! Such powerful support! And your relationship has been developing for a year now, it's wonderful that you take your time. Please tell me more. For example, expand on the topic of y…
Great post! Dampening factors often include tight Saturn aspects, which can contain or delay emotional expression. Pluto aspects can internalize and intensify it so feelings run deep yet hidden. Uranu…
>Yeah it’s a difficult placement to understand. Pisces on one hand is dreamy, boundless, intuitive and emotional. Saturn is persistent, enforces boundaries, reliable but can also be pessimistic and bu…