made a big deal

How can I stop being angry all the time? — I dont know if this is the right subreddit, & this is a long read, I'm sorry. Thank you in advance tho. Tl;dr: does anyone know how to stop from becoming angry all the time or how to control it? May…

I hate my mother's friends — I hate and resent them so much, it seems like my mother always seem to prioritize them more like as if we are some blood relationship when they tend to be super manipulative, immature and shady. Once …

Friendship Toxicity — I used to have a friend of 10 years who would constantly put me down but then pass it off as a joke (she did this to no one else). I could never understand why she’d say the most backhanded things to …

My mom basically told me to stop going to therapy — Context: I'm a 26F that finally broke down and called her a narcissist a few weeks ago. I had showed her the presentation my childhood best friend made in 2024 when I was dreading to see her over Chri…

I actually need physical proof or an admittance of guilt? — Pretty sure I already know. My profession involves data analysis and pattern recognition. Unfortunately, I also have residual trauma that provides a substantial foundation for self doubt, projection,…

My ex moved on in 2 weeks — I was dating this guy for almost a year and he was going to move in with me when he told me he was cheating on me the entire time with a girl he told me was his friend. She had a bf so I didn’t think …

I don’t typically jump to break up but this sounds like you guys want different things. I would chalk it up to incompatibility and move on. The guys that cared about me made a big deal out of whatever…

My mom bought me an accordion, sized for a child, when I was 36. Made a big deal about it fitting me fine, including child sized straps, and all. It did not.

My ex does this too. She uses to do sometimes 20 texts a days. I asked her to stop and that lasted about a week. Then I only responded to important things that actually needed my attention. Or I’d jus…

Hm, to me, I would take his stance on your male friends feeling and thinking a certain way toward you as projection of his own thoughts and feelings toward women. If he lacks either the imagination o…

I haven’t asked to see a test, but I absolutely ask if they have been tested recently and what the results are. I think it’s smart and totally reasonable. I also ask a man to wear a condom, and the fe…

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me. It would be a dealbreaker if you made a big deal about my food choices as a non-vegan almost vegetarian.

Today is my bday as well, Happy Birthday! I have been in your shoes. Birthdays are important to me as well, it’s YOUR day, it’s something nobody can take from you so I always made a big deal for my …

I stayed mum for a long time. I was ashamed and felt responsible (he made a point to exploit that), but perhaps more than that, I didn’t want to damage his reputation because I was desperately trying …

No lie, I feel this one pretty deeply. I have been wanting to be the "perfect husband" since I was 7 lol. I even went into massage therapy for my potential partner at 17 and made a big deal to have a…

Ridiculous! The truth is simple, if people aren't the kind of people to talk about their shifting experience, then they wouldn't have shared it to begin with. But, the people that made a big deal o…

i dont get gifts from them but my mother will tell me about how big and grandiose things she >planned< to buy for me but didnt because i would be ungrateful. and its always things that she wants for…

It’s possible she might have a kink of you being with other women. It’d explain why she made a big deal of you flirting with other girls, and why a threesome is the only consensual way she can live ou…