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THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will caz…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/5/2026
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Do things you want always have to be created in the mind first, or can you manifest things you want in a more generic way?

Do things you want always have to be created in the mind first, or can you manifest things you want in a more generic way? — For example, I don't have an idealized vision of the car or house I want, but would be very pleased with several different brands of cars, and several different types of homes that are already on the …

r/JosephMurphypost10/5/2024
Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible?

Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible? — Hi everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community because I’m diving deep into the Law of Belief and want to explore how powerful it can truly be.🙏❤️ I keep wondering—can this law actually he…

r/JosephMurphypost10/27/2024
Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading

Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading — # 6th Kill: $20,000 Money Mission **Mission**: To make $20,000 from futures trading **What I achieved:** I made $20,000 from futures trading **How long did it take:** 5 and a half months **Backgro…

r/JosephMurphypost12/31/2024
My arguments against manifestation

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

r/JosephMurphypost1/23/2025
How did you use the bible with Murphy's principles to get your ex back?

How did you use the bible with Murphy's principles to get your ex back? — How did you guys use the bible along with Murphy's principles to win your ex back? What were those principles and what Bible verses did you specifically use for that purpose? How long did it take you …

r/JosephMurphypost2/22/2025
Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting

Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…

r/ecommercepost3/4/2025
A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit.

A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit. — Hey everyone on r/NarcissisticAbuse.  We get it, we really do– the U.S. political situation right now is a bloody mess with further escalation, rather than some kind of stability, on the horizon.  W…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/10/2025
Feedback Thread

Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…

r/web_designpost4/18/2025
Beginner Questions

Beginner Questions — If you're new to web design and would like to ask experienced and professional web designers a question, please post below. Before asking, please follow the etiquette below and [review our FAQ](https:…

r/web_designpost4/18/2025
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure?

Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
Thoughts on branding approach for B2B website?

Thoughts on branding approach for B2B website? — https://preview.redd.it/e5mxjr1ghtve1.png?width=3012&format=png&auto=webp&s=cade89114c5cadadae4dc7567cde6ba8d4d583d0 I think the design is generally good, but I'm specifically curious about the logo …

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…

r/attachment_theorypost4/20/2025
Feedback Thread

Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…

r/web_designpost4/25/2025
Beginner Questions

Beginner Questions — If you're new to web design and would like to ask experienced and professional web designers a question, please post below. Before asking, please follow the etiquette below and [review our FAQ](https:…

r/web_designpost4/25/2025
How is the job market right now for jobs in web/product design, ui ux, front end development, etc?

How is the job market right now for jobs in web/product design, ui ux, front end development, etc? — Hi all, I work in digital marketing, but am getting burnt out and am trying to learn web design and build a portfolio. Long story short, what I enjoy most about my current job in digital marketing has…

r/web_designpost4/26/2025
Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader

Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader — # Here's how I achieved my 7th mission! **Mission**: To become a disciplined trader **What I achieved**: Mastered stop loss and trading discipline **Background**: After my 6th kill, I was eager t…

r/JosephMurphypost4/29/2025
Meta won’t let you control impressions, so I trained an RL model to do it

Meta won’t let you control impressions, so I trained an RL model to do it — One thing that always annoys me with Meta campaigns: you can’t just say “give me X impressions.” It’s all budget-based, and if you’re trying to hit specific visibility goals (like consistent daily del…

r/digital_marketingpost4/30/2025
My Keyword Research Workflow

My Keyword Research Workflow — Hi guys, I wanted to check with you if my keyword research workflow canbe improved. Here's how I've been doing: Finding general keywords: Google Trend: Look the best variation of a generic keyword…

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker

Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
Announcement Regarding Community Safety

Announcement Regarding Community Safety — Dear SEO Members, We are reaching out to address a serious issue that affects the safety and well-being of our moderation team and our community as a whole. It has come to our attention that the CEO …

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
SEO Results in 2-3 Months

SEO Results in 2-3 Months — I run a small business and am looking for someone to help transform my website through SEO, which up until now has had very little traffic. In the past I have mostly relied on word of mouth and target…

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
Best SEO Practices for writing blogs

Best SEO Practices for writing blogs — Hello, I'm a copywriter, and I want to share some "best SEO practices to keep in mind when writing blogs" with the younger copywriters. Some I'm thinking about are: * Using the keyword in the header…

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
how 10 quality backlinks pushed my dr +5

how 10 quality backlinks pushed my dr +5 — pardon my english i’m french but my advice: focus on relevance over quantity. ask for niche-specific authority links, and request indexed pages only. check each link in ahrefs or console to confirm it…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Why am I losing keywords?

Why am I losing keywords? — I'm a bit lost. For the past 6 months I have been working on improving the rank of my website. When I first started, I just left an agency that wasn't doing a great job. When I switch from them, they …

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Does this SEO strategy make sense ?

Does this SEO strategy make sense ? — Hello experts ! Recently, I came across an SEO expert (have some good proof) that talked about the seo strategy that she used, but I'm not sure if I understand it correctly. The strategy goes as fol…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!)

Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication

Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication — Hi guys! I have some potential freelance business for a trade publication in the design space (architecture, interiors, landscape, urban planning topics) and I was originally trying to pitch SEO, re…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
Feedback Thread

Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…

r/web_designpost5/2/2025
Beginner Questions

Beginner Questions — If you're new to web design and would like to ask experienced and professional web designers a question, please post below. Before asking, please follow the etiquette below and [review our FAQ](https:…

r/web_designpost5/2/2025
Research -- What makes you hire a copywriter?

Research -- What makes you hire a copywriter? — Hey everyone, I'm doing some market research and would really appreciate any input you have. Also, this isn't a promo post or anything of the sort, just me diving into the market. First off, a bit ab…

r/ecommercepost5/2/2025
Thoughts on asdf

Thoughts on asdf — I ran into this tool a few years back and didn't give it much thought (I ended using pyenv at that time) But now I am juggling a few projects that require different versions for different things. En…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit)

Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit) — *(TL;DR at bottom)* Questions like this pop up on this subreddit every few weeks: > How much should I charge for a basic website? Or: > Is $500 for a single-page Figma design a good price? ...and…

r/web_designpost5/2/2025
Memcached Docker Images (as small as 124 KB!) – Feedback Wanted

Memcached Docker Images (as small as 124 KB!) – Feedback Wanted — I wanted to share a project I’ve been working on: a **suite of Docker images for Memcached 1.6.38** that I’ve stripped down to the bare minimum—optimized specifically for **containerized environments*…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
Landing page review for a brand new ecommerce store

Landing page review for a brand new ecommerce store — Hi all, Beginning of this year, me and my best friend decided to launch a pickleball brand that focus more on feminine side (you see what I mean when you visit the website), as we see the market is f…

r/ecommercepost5/3/2025
How can I get credible backlinks for my mental health startup website?

How can I get credible backlinks for my mental health startup website? — Hey everyone, I'm building a mental health awareness and support platform called *Trusme*, and I'm trying to improve its SEO through quality backlinks. I'm not looking for spammy directories or paid…

r/digital_marketingpost5/3/2025
Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote)

Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote) — Hi r/startups, I’m in the process of developing a consulting service designed specifically for startups, from Pre-Seed all the way to Series B. The idea is to offer a practical, hands-on partner for …

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Investors? I will not promote

Investors? I will not promote — So who here has got investment specifically for a mobile app, I built one and it's fully working the only problem is that it's a social app and people only trickle in, around 10 per day, they arrive a…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Thoughts on an image sharing tool with link permissions? (i will not promote)

Thoughts on an image sharing tool with link permissions? (i will not promote) — **Looking for feedback: Tool for sharing images securely with permissioned domains (like DocSend, but mainly for images)** Hey r/startups, I’m working on validating an idea and would love your thoug…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Need Guidance for Amazon Systems/DevOps Engineer Interview (Cloud Support Background)

Need Guidance for Amazon Systems/DevOps Engineer Interview (Cloud Support Background) — Hope you're all doing well. I'm currently working as a Cloud Support Engineer and have managed to land an interview with Amazon for a Systems/DevOps Engineer role. While I’m excited, I’m also feelin…

r/DevOpspost5/3/2025
To all e-commerce store owners: What tool do you wish existed to make managing your store easier?

To all e-commerce store owners: What tool do you wish existed to make managing your store easier? — Hello to all e-commerce entrepreneurs! 👋 In the fast-paced world of digital commerce, we know there are many daily challenges — whether it's managing orders, handling customers, shipping, analyti…

r/ecommercepost5/3/2025
Portfolio, Case Study, and Resume Feedback — 05/04/25

Portfolio, Case Study, and Resume Feedback — 05/04/25 — Please use this thread to give and receive feedback on portfolios, case studies, resumes, and other job hunting assets. This is not a portfolio showcase or job hunting thread. Top-level comments that …

r/UXDesignpost5/4/2025
From IT Support to DevOps: How Can I Be Production-Ready?

From IT Support to DevOps: How Can I Be Production-Ready? — Hey all, I've been working in IT support for 6 months and recently got into automation, which led me to explore DevOps. I've started building personal projects and put them up on nishdevops.org—would …

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
How to target global traffic but prioritise the UK?

How to target global traffic but prioritise the UK? — Hey folks, I run a .com ecommerce store and I sell globally to English-speaking countries. But I want to make sure the UK is my main audience — most of my marketing and SEO focus should benefit UK u…

r/ecommercepost5/4/2025
Built a fast multi-host terminal log viewer with timeline histogram – looking for feedback

Built a fast multi-host terminal log viewer with timeline histogram – looking for feedback — Hey all – I’ve been working on Nerdlog: an open-source fast terminal-based log viewer loosely inspired by Graylog/Kibana, having a similar timeline histogram on top, but designed to be snappy, lightwe…

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
Jobsites to lookout for as a Product Designer. Need help.

Jobsites to lookout for as a Product Designer. Need help. — I'm currently in the lookout for a job change and I would like to know if there are any specific sites/channels/spaces/groups to get a job alerts. I'm aware of fee and actively on top of it, but I cou…

r/UXDesignpost5/4/2025
Building an AI for No-Code Booking Apps – How to Get Our First 100 Waitlist Sign-Ups? (I will not promote)

Building an AI for No-Code Booking Apps – How to Get Our First 100 Waitlist Sign-Ups? (I will not promote) — Hi, I’m Vit, I’m working on an AI tool that lets non-technical small business owners, like barbers, photographers, or consultants, build booking apps without coding. Our mission is to save entrepreneu…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Take the leap - The average business is really bad at doing business. (I will not promote)

Take the leap - The average business is really bad at doing business. (I will not promote) — The bar for doing business, in my opinion, has never been lower. The average business is barely capable of functioning. About 3 weeks ago I put out an request to multiple suppliers. I needed large qua…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
What are good examples of “How will you acquire users?” i will not promote

What are good examples of “How will you acquire users?” i will not promote — From what I hear, YC advice kinda scoffs at paid ads — the logic of “you need to own your acquisition” makes sense to me, but I wonder what’s the answer they’d love to see? Offline events? Founder pe…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
I’ve decided to go all in on my mental health tech startup — how do I fully shift from side project mindset to founder mindset? - i will not promote

I’ve decided to go all in on my mental health tech startup — how do I fully shift from side project mindset to founder mindset? - i will not promote — Hi, I run a platform with digital tools to help people build mental strength and emotional resilience. Until now, I’ve treated it like a serious side project, but starting today, I’m committing to it…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Hello I just had the weirdest dream and I don't know how to look up my specific type of dream and was so shocked I decided to come here and write. I remember going to sleep around 12:30pm after wakin…

r/LucidDreamingcomment1/23/2018
If you are new here..

Do you have a suggestion for how I can use this for appearance change? I have a basic idea what to do but your expert opinion would be helpful. For example, what specifically would you implement into …

r/JosephMurphycomment7/10/2020
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Thank you *so* much for this. I have been hoping to find a little corner of the Internet that focused specifically on this and I am thrilled to have stumbled upon this sub.

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment8/23/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

What were you doing specifically, were you "trying very hard"? What did the pain feel like? Perhaps since you're new you were subconsciously processing some emotions deep-rooted in the body. My best a…

r/AstralProjectioncomment6/24/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Is the pain in a specific area ?

r/AstralProjectioncomment1/19/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

What are you talking about specifically? I thought this was a good starting guide with a ton of links. It's mainly just links honestly, so kinda confused what you're talking about.

r/LucidDreamingcomment2/14/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

this has happened to me several times as well. I specifically remember a time I was sleeping, and suddenly felt the sensation of being pulled "up" by my wrist at a tremendous speed. It's never really…

r/AstralProjectioncomment2/21/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I guarantee you that dreaming and precognitive or prophetic abilities are connected. I knew how long it would take for Kurt Cobain to die and even that it would be specifically him when I was 7 and 1/…

r/LucidDreamingcomment7/26/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I really do not know anything about this at all. I went to sleep at around 1130pm last night, I woke up feeling nauseous and sweaty at 530am. At around 630am I remembered my “dream?” I was floating/fl…

r/AstralProjectioncomment2/7/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

If you can win your ex back through no-contact then you'll have to live the rest of your life in a state of cat-like readiness to be abandoned and pretend you don't care. With the right degree of osci…

r/ExNoContactcomment5/4/2023
'Getting into DevOps'

The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…

r/DevOpscomment6/6/2023
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Try therapy. Just remember that therapy can take a long time and be expensive.  If you haven't already in the meantime, try looking for parenting classes.  Or try parenting forums, if a specific p…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/8/2024
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

Definitely true. My parents in law have been together for 40 years, married for 32. They started dating when she was 16 and he was 24! Something that's literally illegal in most places now and situati…

r/relationship_advicecomment7/29/2024
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

I can’t, I believe, state specifics here.

r/energy_workcomment7/30/2024
Do things you want always have to be created in the mind first, or can you manifest things you want in a more generic way?

Hey, Joseph Murphy wrote in his book 'The power of your subconscious mind.' Translated from slovak language (so maybe I don't use the exact same words but the main idea is the same) "Our subconsc…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/6/2024
Do things you want always have to be created in the mind first, or can you manifest things you want in a more generic way?

You need to be specific to what you want we all want lots of money but nobody knows how much ‘lots’ is, write it down what type of car you want what color, leather interior or cloth? What make and mod…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/9/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

From my experience the way he described it was the confusing part, especially considering the dozen translations there are of this book. Personally I think that a few things he is not right about w…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/31/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

I discovered that both statements work equally, it probably depends on how accustomed we are to the statement I think. Specifically how well we experience the meaning of the words we use. If we can us…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/6/2024
r/JosephMurphycomment11/18/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

Ok but because it has been a while you would have to ask within a specific context.

r/JosephMurphycomment11/28/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

Hi, sorry for the long response but please bear with me. TLDR at the bottom. You are slightly correct, but drug addiction posts will also more than likely be removed. 1- There is actually another…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

I did not make these changes because of one member’s complains or disapproval. I made these changes over months of observation and after countless posts from members on the sub calling for mods to tak…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading

MC gave me specific tips to “feel naturally rich”, you mind sharing these?

r/JosephMurphycomment1/2/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Thanks for pointing this out, really. I recently posted my recent success story on the LOA sub, you can check it out, I specifically mention that I do not know what made it happen (god ? My subconscio…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

No 5. Think positive or negative, it doesn't matter. Be a depressed ahole or whatever - you can be whatever you want, and also still belive sp loves you til death do us part. I can feel much worthy …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

It’s about specifics. It has to match. Intentional manifesting.

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Love these arguments. Point 1: There is a difference between hypnosis (true authentic feelings of experience of here and now of the desired outcome) and daydreaming. When you give your mind and your…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

There's alot of hate on people saying "it works for me, try it" but that's because most of us have tried and failed too (bc we did it wrong for ex) before just like the majority in the other sub, and …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

You put yourself in the mindset to take inspired action and you achieved your goals. Sounds like manifestation to me. This sub encourages action.  As for SP...I might get banned for saying this b…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Daydreams and dreams serve a similar function. Neither involve looping a specific scene. Both involve a sort of mind wandering. Except one you are unconscious and the other you are awake. So I disagre…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/26/2025
My arguments against manifestation

\>Daydreams and dreams serve a similar function. Neither involve looping a specific scene. Both involve a sort of mind wandering. Except one you are unconscious and the other you are awake. So I disag…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/26/2025
My arguments against manifestation

>Maybe. In my understanding reprogramming the SM is changing oneself, as you reprogram you internally do change. In my experience many things changed when I did change my state that came from my SM re…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/31/2025
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I cannot lucid dream on purpose yet, but if i dream specific dreams(Like me driving) I can realise that im dreaming. Then I say to my self, you re dreaming, great im now going to control this dream. T…

r/LucidDreamingcomment2/5/2025
Does anyone have this book pdf?

Good thinking. Usually on internet archive or something else search up using terms like "power of the subconscious mind Joseph Murphy internet archive pdf" you can also look up the specific search on …

r/JosephMurphycomment3/21/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

Yes, the famous or infamous title is “Attached”, from chapter 8 or 9. Those chapters talk specifically about the anxious avoidant trap that I’m in.

r/attachment_theorycomment3/24/2025
How to heal avoidant attachment?

I didn’t like the book attached bc he basically denigrates avoidants & says the only way forward is to be jn relationships w secure people- which js statistically not possible & ignores the vast treas…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/28/2025
How to heal avoidant attachment?

Hey, really appreciate you sharing all this. That FA-FA dynamic can be such a rollercoaster—sounds like you’ve been through a lot and done some serious inner work already. Respect. Since you’re looki…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/31/2025
How to heal avoidant attachment?

Speaking as an Attachment focused Therapist, attachment wounds has to be healed through therapy. 1. Relational wounds require relational repair. 2. Insecure attachments lack ability to self-regulate,…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/2/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

Here's what I found helpful to figure out my own feelings. I look at three angles: 1. If they suddenly told you they were done and didn't tell you why, would it hurt you? If it wouldn't hurt at all, …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/2/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

Okay ignoring that you’re only a week in.. here is how it works for me: Annoyance level. If this person annoys me a lot, I probably don’t like them. But I also have to juggle this with the mindfulnes…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/2/2025
The song “I love you, I’m sorry” by Gracie Abrams makes me think of the POV of a DA

I am in the same boat. Had my FA (maybe DA? I never knew about attachment theory until her. She was extremely committed and IN. LOVE. for 2 years and was much more anxious and attached. Then she was j…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/8/2025
Does attachment style start to shift after cutting out toxic family members?

It can help you by managing your triggers, but it does not mean healing. Years of exposure to emotional turbulence sounds like a disruption to your nervous system, your attachment style. In fearful …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/9/2025
Does attachment style start to shift after cutting out toxic family members?

There are many factors to consider with regards to attachment styles, especially towards different people / situations a specific style might be more prominant. There is also a spectrum - mild, modera…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/9/2025
Has anyone else gone from being dismissive avoidant to anxious preoccupied towards their therapist?

Not specifically with my T but I regularly shift between all 4 attachments depending on who I’m blending with.  Lately I’m DA with most, holding them as some flavour if contempt or patronizing, or ge…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/12/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

Your post leaves out the important little phrase "feels like", first of all. Secondly... I was left in the dark many times, in veryyy hurtful and disappointing ways. Not once have I felt or had a tho…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

You’re speaking about avoidant *women* as a whole. “The more you try to communicate about the relationship the more they hate you.” You’re not venting about a specific ex, you’re not-so-subtly bashing…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

thank you for being vulnerable. After the alarm fades, is there ever an awareness that the metal walls shredded someone on the way up? I understand and empathize with all of this, I just have a hard t…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
Can vague desires manifest?

Thank you, that’s what I am thinking. I trust the infinite intelligence of my sub conscious mind and will continue to imagine what I like even though it may not be specific

r/JosephMurphycomment4/18/2025
Haha being an FA is fucking weird

You sure they were secure? Back in the day I used to think some of my exes were secure until I realized they triggered my nervous system because they were triggering my trauma, more specifically my em…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/24/2025
Other attachment styles

I just finished reading “Attached”, and it gave me such a better understanding of attachment styles and myself. One of the ways my anxious attachment style has been manifesting post-break up with an a…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/25/2025