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Monroe described a not so great encounter with a dog that attacked and forced him to return to his body, lol. I have encountered many entities who have, or have taken, an animal form. A large black p…
Mom is being kicked out — Parentified eldest daughter here. haven’t spoken to my recovering alcoholic mother in years. Doing so always sends me into a spiral. She puts herself in awful, high-risk situations, never chooses her …
Do romantic relationships ever work with enmeshed parenting? — When my ex and I broke up I told him that his mom was going to make his marriage miserable. She disapproved of/disrespected me and we could see it wasn't going to work out. I don't hate him, but I'm o…
House of Danube/Deneb & The Tuatha Dé Danaan — I have just had an unexpected and seasonally apropos experience with St. Patrick's day right around the corner. Meditating in a hypnopompic state yesterday morning I heard a man's voice speaking to m…
Why is my relationship with my mom so bad? — I love reading other people’s charts (I’m still new to astrology) but when it comes to reading my own, it’s tricky. Interested if anyone can point out any correlation to the bad relationship I’ve had …
I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …
Is it inevitable that one arrives at stoicism with non-virtuous intent? — Not to get religious. But I remember reading a sermon years ago - CH Spurgeon I think - where he was describing true and false faith. He described that there would be a genuine love for Christ himself…
How Neville Manifested His Marriage - Do Not Meddle In The Middle. — **For Those Who Need...** From Neville's Audio Lecture. The verbatim from Neville's Lecture (*Updated*) : *“When I decided to marry the lady who now bears my name I applied this principle. At the t…
She did it on one of the worst nights of my life. — After having been the perfect girlfriend, always kind, supportive, caring, she went and hung out with her ex the night I found out my father had less than 24 hours to live. It was the best relationshi…
Bias between Son and daughter by mother — In some families, parents insist they treat all children equally and that discrimination isn’t allowed—but in subtle ways, sons are prioritized, decisions are made around them, and daughters’ needs ar…
My brother (28M) is getting married to his gf (18F) and I am TA for disapproving... — The reason I have a problem with it, aside from just the age difference, is that they started dating two years ago. I found out he was dating her when he was ARRESTED over his inappropriate behavior…
Me (35F) and I think I found the love of my life (40M) but there's one serious problem. — Context is important here so let me start there. I divorced my ex husband 5 years ago, but we were separated long before, in total apart for 8 years. In those eight years I did not date, did not go ou…
I'm fourteen and I've been in a really weird situation my entire life. I don't know what to do. — trigger warning for sensitive content such as abuse (only financial abuse is really explicitly stated), alcoholism, s icidality (in the past, censoring in case it gets the post removed or something)?…
Conflict about 3rd kid after an affair (36M/36F) — TLDR I 36M and my ex wife 36F (reconciliation after an affair) are fighting a lot because of an unexpected pregnancy (3rd child). She wants to keep it, I want her to abort. So I (36M) and my girlfrie…
I’m Glad My Mom Died book — Has anyone read “I’m glad my mom died” by Jeanette McCurdy? There’s so many similarities between the mother in the book and my mother that it’s making me almost physically ill to read, and I’m not sur…
My ex is getting remarried tomorrow — My ex is getting remarried tomorrow. Today he sent me a text “I’ll never understand your choices” and “I would have always fought for my family”. He says this because I’m the one who initiated the d…
Anyone can relate... — Me: Can you stop yelling... Mom: You think you're the one who's wronged here?! I'm more wronged than you! You brought all this on yourself! Both of us: \*arguing\* Dad: \*sighs\* \*scolds the mothe…
F29, M31 soon-to-be married couple, family conflict before the wedding. How do we fix this? — Hi everyone, This will be a lengthy post, so apologies in advance. I got engaged to the LOML this past July, and we are about to get married in a few months. To preface, we come from two different…
The Lady — I was eating breakfast with my brother in our breakfast nook when I felt a presence. Looking outside I saw a bright figure in my backyard. It looked like a glowing Lady in a white dress. I was drawn t…
I M/27 care about my girlfriend 21/F, but I’m struggling with how I see her past — I’m 27 and my girlfriend is 21. We met on a random chat app. At first we only talked for a few nights, then I removed her because I was going through a bad time mentally and also had an upcoming surge…
After 29 years, I'm Finally Going NC With My Narcissistic Mother — Last June, I was supposed to be celebrating my wedding. Instead, I was fighting a multi-front war with my own family. It started when both of my sisters dropped out of my wedding because they claime…
Me (34f) and my partner (40m) have decided to elope with just 2 witnesses. Now BF’s witness wants to add more. Help? — Throwaway account as my fiancé is on reddit TLDR: BF’s mom wants to add more people to our ceremony and how can we hold that boundary? Me and partner have been together for 10 years and always li…
DAE feel triggered when seeing mothers being affectionate with babies? — Context, I was at the hospital and the hospital has its own tv channel, in which they show a variety of health, food, and exercise adds made especially for the institution. I was casually looking …
Tired of being bashed — I (M34) am getting really tired of being scolded and shouted at by my wife (F34) after 10y+ together . I am always tiptoing at home, whatever I do, don't do, say or don't say can trigger an outburst t…
Exhusted and back to square zero.. — I (46M), have been only in Long-ish relationships all my life. High School GF for 5 years, married 18 (ended when she cheated) and then two 1-year long relationships, the last one just ended. In these…
Completely mindfucked and heartbroken after a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist — This is going to be a very long post, but if you want to know how a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist looks like, you might be interested to read this. I've seen so much shit i…
8 year month relationship breakup. It’s only been a week. 24m — Hey everyone. I’m writing this, well I’m not sure to be honest, but after reading the posts on here I’d love to hear some advice myself. So… after 8 years my partner has dumped me. We were both each…
Ex husband got a situationship knocked up — My ex and I have been separated for years. We live next door to each other and coparent our 10 & 12 year olds pretty well. Our 10 year old has special needs, a motor difference, and a genetic disease.…
My nMom passed away. I handled her final days, funeral, and possessions. — ​ Growing up, I was always told that I looked exactly like my mother. I was her “spitting image.” I sounded like her, had her mannerisms, her laugh—everything. My younger brother also looked …
Does anyone else feel like the investment isn't worth the potential reward anymore? — Because I'm really starting to. I know dating at ANY age is a weed out process. You're going to be into some people that aren't into you. Some people are going to be into you that YOU'RE not into. Yo…
Favourite collection of heartwarming Asian parent phrases growing up! — After painstakingly acquiring experience, I would like to present to you my collection of the most heartwarming things my Asian parents have ever said to me: **Top 1 contender: “Why are you always cr…
I (22M) am so confused. Didnt know where else to go with this anymore. I just want help understanding what happened? PLEASE READ - its long, kinda. — important context- i was born into a religious family and grew up a religious kid not in any unorthodox manner only a typical hindu family in india. when i was a child i was afraid of the dark then on…
Struggling over a breakup… — We’ve been finished for 9 months now and I still think about her everyday it ended kinda bad, she broke up with me it was a long distance relationship and she was overthinking and blaming me for a lot…
My F22 bf M27sent his ex F27 ex photo memories, what are your opinion? — I found that my Bf sent about 70 pictures all at the same time to his ex partner 3 months into our 7 month relationship ( also the mother of his child). She is always going to be apart of his life I …
All because of a happy birthday message — So if you look back at my profile. I sent my mother a happy birthday message. Since I’m no contact, I did it two weeks ago, as a way to stop her from harassing my siblings. I blocked her everywhere ex…
Childhood trauma doesn't always look like yelling or hitting; people mistake this a lot. You can have a lovely attentive parent who still didn't teach you emotional regulation, sent you in time out in…
I dated a ln avoidant who wanted nothing more than to have children. It became an excellent reason to discard people. No one was ever good enough to be the mother of his future children. He’s now 46 a…
There is a book called “The Mother Wound” you might find it helpful. It might still apply to your situation.
Assessing Adult Attachment by Dr. Crittenden was a really validating book for myself personally. It isn’t really a self-help book though. But if you have a curiosity on attachment that is more in ali…
I've been single for 10 years at this point and frankly I've all but given up on the idea of a partner. I'm convinced I will be alone for possibly the rest of my life at this point. It hurts because n…
My (f38) bf (ish, m39) has a really good relationship with his ex, the mother of his kids, and describes them as best friends. They do hang out sometimes - not alone but around the kids. We’ve only be…
That is right on the money in my experience! I had moved 2,000 miles from my beloved home city in late 2021 and was grieving the loss of my old home and a big part of my identity which was tied to tha…
This is a huge post, and there is a way “to speak of the victory”. To get there. I’ll break it down in detail. It’s very, very important to go forward into the direction of hope and strength. That ca…
When my dad died, we had to go through a bunch of photos from his life. First for the obituary, then for a slideshow to play at the reception hour following his memorial service. My mom wanted his o…
It’s getting better and I encourage my brothers to stay athletic, grow in wisdom, and make money. Keep an eye out for opportunities. And don’t forget the motherland if you know your native language.
> he has made it clear he sees a future together. Does he? Talking about the future is just pillow-talk. What is he actually *doing* to show you he's committed to a future with your? You wrote …
It depends on shared values and lifestyles. I see plenty of Asian Americans in their careers whose social circles are mixed because their career circles take a higher precedent over their heritage cir…
I’m so mad at how the police handled that. The officer telling the daughter it was the mother and allowing the mother to stand there and cry and grab at her daughter? Not waiting until the daughter’s …
Even though I am unable to relate, I know of 4 people who have this relationship with their parent, and I will share with you their outcomes: All vascillated between living on their own & going back …
I agree. The mother will start seeing the baby as an extension of the daughter, and she will start treating the baby bad too.
How is it that Bruce Lee has negatively affected us? If it wasn’t him or Jackie Chan it’d be the next famous Asian person, regardless of what it is that they do in life because they’re ASIAN. Makes no…
Yes it's noticing but it hits hard af when u aware. When u unaware you think its normal. In public if i see a child now and i have to stay silent. My heart breaks. I usually look disgusted at the …
That’s exactly right. The illusion of control drives us to believing it isn’t so. If you like something little more practical that you can relate to, remember that the mother is a higher power to us…
Mine got with a fentanyl addict who was also the coworker she told me not to worry about. Did I mention she was also my son's mother? Told me she was with him by intentionally pointing out the hickey …
In a hypnosis PLR( past life regression) I had two times this has happened to me. I was doing hypnosis to try to discover why I was having such a hard time breaking up with a partner in this life. I w…
OP, I have been in your similar situation. That’s what brought me to Reddit 4+ years ago. I was combing divorce and marriage advice forums. My wife and I became glorified roommates. We went about …
Nope. Twenty years and I learned about her passing two years after it happened. No regrets, just grief for the life I could have had and the mother I deserved.
My mother has dementia and I have not had contact with her since 2022. So, I have basically grieved not having the mother I deserved while she is still alive. I live in another country and my home cou…
Please take some time to really think about this. Your father said that he doesn't love you. All those flying monkeys probably aren't aware of that. Imagine being a parent and saying that to your k…
You only need to be a human to break a person's heart and to be a terrible person. It has nothing to do with your religion. Find a way to redirect that anger towards your ex, and to also redirect that…
She will always be an adulterer to me. Unfortunately, she's also the mother of my kids...
My 87 year old mom never misses an opportunity to shit on my dad to this day, and he died at 49 of alcoholism so he's been gone a while. To me, the truth would have been better. My father never said a…
Are the parents coming? If you are no contact with your parents and she still has a relationship with them, your significant participation in the wedding would be very problematic for her to manage.…
If she can’t sit at a table with her parents that she is no contact with, how is she going to be around the mother during getting ready? The bridal shower? Everything that OP is upset about not being …
Huh? Her mars is in Aries conjunct her sun, not square. You mean square her moon? There are so many wacky incorrect takes on this forum it annoys me. If a mother becomes evil after teen years it’s na…
You have a wonderful son. Sorry about the mother though!
OP do you have much time at either of your houses or places with proper privacy? Where you have complete privacy and ideally you can leave if you want to My ex was affectionate at the start but i…
Cum grano salis caveat emptor. "I always hear the generalization of “cancer moons have nurturing mothers” but I can’t really relate." That's because you're looking at the chart from a modern astrolo…
Very interesting! Just wanted to share something I heard once about the houses and how we sometimes assume too much overlap with the signs that rule them. As a result of this a lot of folks believe …
Some people are very good at cheating and you wouldn't even know they are doing it. But picture this. She has a secret lover, and she discovers she's pregnant, and she's not sure who the father is. Th…
3-6 years ago I probably wouldn't have answered "now" since I didn't know much better. But frankly, now. Just look at how China went from "terra non grata" during COVID to literally something people …
Capricorn doesnt specifically represent tbe father but saturn does. Saturn creates structure and rules hierarchy. He demands hard work and consistency. He is less nurturing than tbe moon(his opposite,…
So I’m not sure where you got the info that Capricorn is the sign of the “father” - that is a misconception. I gather you’re using sign-to-house significations? Meaning first house = Aries themes, s…
I see. Divorce is an option but you gotta realize the problems and complaints you're having in this marriage may continue in the next marriage. You also have gotta realize that a self made man will no…
Lots of techniques out there for assessing the parents. Here’s one: the ancients associated 10H with mother and 4H with father (i know, this is controversial). By this standard, Saturn represent…
I once sat in a car with a friend's narc sister and her mom and this narc talked for like 45 minutes. The mother and I didn't have to say anything. Straight up rambling one-sided monologue of opinions…
Sweet girl, hear me out when I say this…the way he’s behaving is NOT okay. I understand that you’re both young and that this is the second baby that you both probably weren’t planning or ready for, bu…
"moved back"? Oh, no. Lovingly, OP. Your brother is not your abuser. *Currently.* He is, for the most part, gone from your life. You cannot insert yourself between them. Your mother fed you to him as…
A friend of mine had experienced a pregnancy loss. She and her husband were at the hospital. I came to see her. Her mother had been watching her two children, and at some point while I was there, the …
Extremely safe as it’s just a blood test. They just take a vial* of the mother’s blood. Edit: spelling
They’re completely safe. It’s just a blood test. (ETA - they test the mother’s blood, that is)
No it's to dobwith circulating fetal cells in the mother's blood. Not fetal blood .
I’m curious how others are reading this. I’m a newborn when it comes to charts, but this is the mother’s natal. Not the mother’s and daughter’s synatry charts.
You can do an in utro DNA test. they draw blood from the mother, extract the babies DNA and compare it to the father. No risk to the mother or baby and the information received either confirms the b…
Comment removed - derailing. As a narcissist, you can be sure that the mother is just using it as a validation machine to power her delusions.