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Dumped and I know I’ll never be the perfect man.

That's heavy. I can relate. The narrative you’re telling yourself right now—that you are "unlovable and unfixable"—is a reaction to pain, not a reflection of reality. Here are a few perspectives to…

r/relationshipscomment4/13/2026
Dumped and I know I’ll never be the perfect man.

Dumped and I know I’ll never be the perfect man. — I (30m) was just dumped by my now ex-girlfriend (31f). Earlier this week, we discussed the possibility of me moving out to her. It had been an ongoing discussion and I asked an innocuous question: “a…

r/relationshipspost4/13/2026
My 25F husband 27M threatened divorce after an argument and I’m unsure of what to do next. How do I move forward with my relationship?

Sounds like he's setting up the threat of divorce to put you in a situation where you're jumping through hoops to please and keep him. Don't fall for it. He told you he wants a divorce. Tell him to fi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
32F with 35M for almost 2 years

…well… This was a list of 25 deal-breakers. You’ve already entered parenthood, and you’re unfortunately connected to this waste of space ‘man’ for the rest of your life, but the best you can do for y…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026