Perfect Man

That's heavy. I can relate. The narrative you’re telling yourself right now—that you are "unlovable and unfixable"—is a reaction to pain, not a reflection of reality. Here are a few perspectives to…

I hate my best friends boyfriend and I feel miserable — This is a small rant, but I just need to write it out to a bunch of strangers. Basically, my friend (21F) met her boyfriend (26M) a few months ago. They seemed to click almost instantly, which isn’t a…

I Changed Myself and Got it All — Hello, I’ve been wanting to write this post for a very long time. Grab a snack and come along for the ride! **The Beginning: April - October 2022** I discovered Neville 4 years ago; after a year of …

I think I manifested way more than I thought was possible — Okay… so I think I just came to the realization that I manifested ALOT more than I actually knew was possible…. Whether it was positive or negative. For instance. My elementary/ middle school crush…

I ended things and everything is worse now — I (22F) have never had a serious long term relationship. I’m not attracted to most men in general so dating is already a struggle. Met the nicest guy ever (26M) at the club. We hit it off and started …

Have you ever dumped someone you really love? — Hi everyone, I hope you are well. To all dumpers, male and female, have you ever dumped someone you were actually in love with (different reasons, practical, fear etc) and how did it feel afterwar…

Really struggling after being ghosted. — Sorry everyone, feel like I need to vent a bit. Had an intense relationship for two months (I know.. Two months is nothing). She is an FA, after a high emotional peak she would always discard, ghost…

I 19f online cheated on my bf 28 M and I don’t know how to fix it — Edit - typo he is 18 not 28 OK, so the story has a lot to it. We have been dating for about nine months and he is genuinely the most perfect man I’ve ever known. He is the love of my life and I don’t…

My (30F) husband (32M) never wants to have sex. I am at my wits end and want advice. — tl;dr otherwise perfect husband never wants to have sex, even though we have tried therapy and other means of improvement My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for five. Basical…

Dumped and I know I’ll never be the perfect man. — I (30m) was just dumped by my now ex-girlfriend (31f). Earlier this week, we discussed the possibility of me moving out to her. It had been an ongoing discussion and I asked an innocuous question: “a…

Still lying to yourself?? Still has ego?? Life hasn't humbled you yet?? Well you claimed to be perfectly fine by being alone but you reached out two times and here you are writing a post with paragra…

I personally would advice to not assume that’s all that he is thinking and feeling. I could imagine he has both parts of him that really love and care for you and also parts that are (understandably) …

“By the end of March 2023 I was with my soulmate, he was someone I’d known before (and admired) in passing. He came into my life of his own accord and it felt like we’d been waiting for each other the…

Agree. And if you do manage to convince him to do LD, it’s not gonna end well, even if you "fly out once a month". He’s not always gonna be the most perfect man you’ve even met when his needs aren’t m…

My first relationship was a long distance one. I met this girl in a writing group, and she was just different. She treated me differently than other girls have (I usually have bad luck with girls). Sh…

VERY LIMITED MINDSET  I have a friend whose parents are filthy rich (millionaires) but they dont give him any allowance. He have to take part time jobs and tution while managing college to barely ma…

You don't get it ;\] Yeah, you are generally right. It could very well be a perfect manifestation. But read my comment carefully :D I saw the header in my feed, and I was like "wow, a car? In a day? O…

I've seen it before in all kinds of relationships, friendships, and family relationships, this is not exclusive to husband/wife: people losing their temper so bad that even they themselves are ashamed…

It doesn't sound like you're making this up at all. I hope you understand that. my husband is one of four children. He is the second oldest.. when I was reading your story it sounded so much like his …

omg i’m 33 days post breakup n it was that exact situation but reverse for us!! i felt he was my naseeb n the perfect man for me but he said his family wld never accept me so i left him😭😭im struggli…

These comments are insane. Is this a deal breaker only you can answer that. Keep in mind the perfect man for you doesn’t exist. They all come with their down falls and so do you. We are imperfectly ma…

You sound so amazing, intelligent, hard working-you are a dream come true. You have so much to be thankful for. I am sorry that you are having a hard time. I am 44 and I feel I could find a good man b…

Yo….. this… was perfect man I really really REALLY needed this

I recommend reading 'the Mind Illuminated' by John Yates/ Culadasa, ( not so perfect man but regardless wrote a perfect instruction manual on meditation) It tells you everything you need to know, addr…

Most women waited for the perfect man to show up. Most of you wanted hypergamy and overestimated your SMV. Now you cant have kids no more. Couldn’t make this up lol

hey how about being good enough for yourself first? you have your self worth sitting in only if she chose you. take some baby steps to take care of yourself first. how can anyone truly…