a cop on administrative leave

The moment I read "a cop on administrative leave" I knew I wasn't reading a 26 year old woman's writing.

Boyfriend of one year looks COMPLETELY different from when we started dating and it’s affecting my attraction [26F, 27M] — I feel like such an asshole writing this, but here we go. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. I thought he was insanely hot when we got together. Around eight months ago, he …