therapy to address this

It sounds like ultimatum time. This doesn't seem like something he can get over without help, so I would recommend having one side of the ultimatum be "therapy to address this" or you leave. But, re…

Is this real life? I wish I'd never started therapy. — Here we go. When I had my daughter, I promised myself I'd never do the things my mother did - namely, hitting her. That's back when I thought that was the worst thing my mum did to me growing up (lol…

There are lots of replies, so I hope OP is able to read this. This isn't a "you issue," its a "him issue." It sounds like he was raised in a dysfunctional family, so meeting your parents, even for…