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Wanted to ask smthng. I realised i was dreaming for a first time in maybe my whole life and even better i could control it to some degree. But the dream kinda lost its depth when i became lucid and th…

Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…

Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication — Hi guys! I have some potential freelance business for a trade publication in the design space (architecture, interiors, landscape, urban planning topics) and I was originally trying to pitch SEO, re…

Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…

Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …

Looking to Upskill for Freelance Digital Marketing – Advice on Courses? — Hi everyone, I’m currently working as a nurse but looking to transition into freelance digital marketing on the side, with a long-term goal of building a strong client base. I completed a postgrad in…

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…

Rejected in the final interview after a month long process — This is honestly just a rant post, because I feel completely deflated at this point. I’ve been actively looking for a job for over a year now, moved to Spain three months ago to start a new life, and…

Looking to Upskill for Freelance Digital Marketing – Advice on Courses? — Hi everyone, I’m currently working as a nurse but looking to transition into freelance digital marketing on the side, with a long-term goal of building a strong client base. I completed a postgrad in…

Was pushed into a Devops role. Never got the chance to learn properly — I was pushed into a devops role. And since then there was always a deadline on head and was never able to learn things properly. I am still good at my job and can do what is required but somewhere fee…

Looking to Upskill for Freelance Digital Marketing – Advice on Courses? — Hi everyone, I’m currently working as a nurse but looking to transition into freelance digital marketing on the side, with a long-term goal of building a strong client base. I completed a postgrad in…

Have you managed to avoid making your brand into your ego identity? — One of the things I find most distasteful about entrepreneurship is the idea of enmeshing oneself with the brand they are pushing. This is one of the biggest reasons I got out of real estate. Have you…

[Product Survey] Help us understand your auth/DB platform choices (Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, and more) — Hi everyone! 👋 I’m a Product Manager working with a developer friend on a new backend-as-a-service solution, and we’d love your feedback. Whether you’ve used Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, Authn …

My DA bf broke up with me Saturday morning. — We’ve been together three years, living together for two. He (38m) wouldn’t ever give me (43f) emotional depth or physical connection. (I had to *ask* for hugs. Anything more was off the table.) Pri…

What I'm realizing: I relate closest to others with deep trauma and that is a troublesome recipe. — TW: addiction, suicide, physical and emotional abuse, CSA. I have CPTSD, routine struggles with depression and anxiety and the corresponding executive dysfunction. I grew up with an alcoholic parent…

Global Policy Journal: “Don’t look up?“ – Why it is past time for serious holistic research into Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena — Karin Austin, Michael Bohlander and Kimberly S. Engels have contributed an excellent article to the Global Policy Journal. Two of these people I've met personally and they are experiencers who are doi…

Trying to navigate a "casual" relationship — Hi everyone, I (30F, trans) have been talking to/seeing a woman (24F, cis) for about 5 months. The chemistry is legitimately the strongest I’ve ever experienced - emotional, intellectual, creative, s…

Girlfriend told me she was going to kill herself on my birthday. My attachment was almost healed or so i thought - all of that is in shambles now. — There were a lot of other red flags I have previously chosen to ignore, but this is what made me wake up. I suppose after hiding from people and feelings for so long, I felt like if I just broke it of…

Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…

He speaks to the future me — Many a times it so happens that I listen to Sadhguru but I don't quite understand what he's saying or I can't make sense of it. Later on as the sadhana (meditation/practice) progresses, certain blocks…

My dad (56M) cut me off (21) for sleeping over at my boyfriend’s house. Now he’s blowing up at me and ruining our relationship beyond repair. — \-Sorry had to repost due to not having line breaks. I’ve always had a complicated relationship with my dad. He’s very controlling and has always been a “helicopter” parent when I was growing up. I a…

We’re in a computer simulation — I’ve lived my entire life experiencing all sorts of inexplicable illnesses, and I always thought that they were just coincidences or due to bad genetics. However, after I started reading into **religi…

My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society. — # Hello! Where do i begin? Firstly, i want to give thanks to this space cultivated by Oak and the other Moderators, without this space, people such as us/me do not really have anywhere to go with a…

Histories of Native American Treaties and Anti-Chinese Violence Win Bancroft Prize — Emilie Connolly’s “Vested Interests: Trusteeship and Native Dispossession in the United States,” published by Princeton University Press, examines the financial aspects of many U.S. government treatie…

NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…

I hate narcissists! — I tried so hard to forgive. I even made a comment here months ago about forgiveness. I was trying to delude myself. Narcissists deserve to rot and burn in the lowest depths of hell there is. How can y…

The "Manosphere" — Last night my wife and I watched the new Netflix documentary on the Manosphere. It was entertaining and informative, but also quite sad. My first reaction, honestly, was that with the exception of th…

People Pleasers Make the Worst Partners — I'm a Codepedent in Recovery. My partner is also a Codependent (Severe) and he's refusing healing and is a Chronic People pleaser. Being in a relationship with a people pleaser is exhausting. You sl…

The Moment I Realized Astral Projection Was More Real Than I Ever Imagined — Last night, I had an astral projection experience that completely blew my mind. At first, I was skeptical, thinking it would just be another lucid dream. But as soon as I felt my consciousness lift fr…

Caught wife with her best friend (F) — Im looking for advice, just this past weekend I discovered my wife with her best friend. I had previously never had any reason to believe that anything like this would happen and have left her with he…

Nonordinary Perception — I'm so glad I found this community, I've posted in the paranormal and the witchcraft communities and been called fake, liar, crazy, and all kinds of names for sharing my paranormal experiences, so I'm…

Does my chart suggest or explain my commitment issues? — I do pretty alright in friendships, however in romantic relationships I have a tendency of breaking up around month 3. This is almost always due to me becoming ‘bored’ of my partner, feeling that we d…

My therapist made a sexually ambiguous joke that unsettled me, triggering a transference reaction in me. — I am a 21-year-old woman, and my therapist is 45. I had never been interested in him before, even though he is a good listener and an empathetic person. I tend to become interested in people who show …

Stop being a fixer, and get the relationship you truly want! — The biggest lesson I've learned in love is that it's ok to be selfish. People come on this subreddit because they want to learn how to walk perfectly on eggshells so their sisuationship won't end. I'm…

What instruments are people actually using for consistent home sound healing sessions that are not super expensive — I have been doing solo sound healing for about six months now but I keep switching between random apps and cheap bells that lose their tone after two uses. I want something that gives real vibrational…

A LOB analysis of an experience I had at 17; and some encouragement — # Long post, probably worth it to read: There was one certain manifestation (I don't say LOB yet on purpose, you'll know why) of mine when I was 17 which always gave me goosebumps at the time too, an…

Have you had an entity encounter during an out-of-body experience? [survey study - LAST CALL FOR PARTICIPANTS] — \[**LAST CALL FOR PARTICIPANTS!**\] Have you ever had an out-of-body experience (OBE) where you encountered an entity - seen, heard, or felt; human or other-than-human; positive or negative? This is a…

Would appreciate advice from others more experienced than I — Hello! I'm a beginner and I've been doing the tapes for the last week and am at the last tape in wave 1 freeflow 10. I read a post today defining how focus 10 should more or less feel and I realized t…

Shrooms vs. LSD Explained by Experienced Tripper — **WARNING:** All information provided is based off of my subjective experience from my use of psychedelics over the years. Experiences will vary greatly, do not take this as factual or gospel. This is…

Anxious (me) + Avoidant (her) breakup — still stuck after 1 year, need honest perspectives — Hey everyone, I really need some honest advice. I’ll try to explain this clearly. I was in a 2-year relationship where I now see a strong anxious (me) + avoidant (her) dynamic. Looking back, I also …

i broke up with my partner of 3.5 years - advice? — burner acc as i just need to get this out and it’s kinda long, but would appreciate queer perspectives as it’s kinda relevant. but on friday, i broke up with my partner of 3.5 years (basically out of…

It has been two years since I broke up, and here we are, folks. — It's a strange day/event to commemorate, yet it's undeniably a significant one. I feel like it's important to pay a token of respect to the journey I took. So here we are. 1. Before diving deep into …

How can I become a grammy award winning music producer living in my own home in California? — That's just a captivating title but of course there is more to it. The depth of it all. I'd like my own family eventually, a creative studio in garden, BBQ, cinema projector, community of loving frien…

Beginners Guide: UL (Upapada Lagna) & A7-The Hidden Layer of Marriage Astrology Most People Miss — Most people start marriage analysis with Guna Milan or basic compatibility. And while that gives a surface-level idea, it often fails to explain what actually happens in real relationships over time. …

Daughter drew this today. Has been having nightmares lately — Hello all, My 2 year old (almost 3) received a watercolor gift from a neighbor today. Lately she has been having nightmares. She tells us that she is seeing “fish with big eyes” at night. I have f…

Should I give him another chance? — F26 M29 dated for a little less than 3 years. We have amazing chemistry that feels genuinely out of this world. We have the most fun together and he’s genuinely my best friend. We’re good together whe…

Exhausted and confused — So my wife of 10 years has been very distant lately, starting in about October or November she suddenly started caring about her appearance a lot more, found a new interest in sports, stopped reading/…

Initiatory Numinous Experience — I have been putting writing about this off for 11 years now. It was October of 2015; a lot of energetics were going on in and around me all at once. I don't know how to structure this entry/experience…

feeling a bit hurt after my session yesterday — i have this flaired as advice cause im hoping someone has anything to say. Apologies if this turns into a rant in advance… So, six years ago i sort of “officially” started my self growth journey- it …

Breakup with fearful avoidant — So I just want to tell my story of how the breakup is and how I assume that the person who broke up with me is fearful avoidant after analysing what happened and what was going on. I want to get some …

Just a few questions Mr Moonbeam. If you are so against the “act/live as if” what do you have to say about Dr. Joe Dispenza, Gregg Braden and Dr. Bruce Liptons, Napoleon Hill, Jim Rohn, Eckhart Toll…

>you said that lucid dreaming is an internal experience while AP is a real and tangible one I said this, however that is not the total truth - the opposite can also be true, check out the video under…

Yes, it is possible. I wrote a bit about this here if you want to check it out: https://multidimensionaljournal.com/2020/12/12/7-tips-for-astral-projection-in-depth-guide/#lower-realms

I’ve read few posts that are as “loser”-ish as this one. I’ve yet to study either in depth, but for anyone to not only BELIEVE that they are better than a very large group of people (all of whom are v…

what is the rollover signal. Im intrigued not allot of people explain things in depth, most of what iv read is like mostly just kind of do it.

I personally love the app/software Time Passages for getting in depth descriptions of placement meanings and for chart comparisons!

Really solid points and then there's space for legitimate concern regarding abusive relationships. Basically, the “Power & Control Wheel”, like instances of sexual harassment/ assault, emotional abuse…

I am in a similar position to you OP. I've been seeing my fiancée for over 2 years. We live separately due to circumstances at her end, and we see each other roughly once a week, usually at weekends…

I do understand and I can agree it’s not a behavior that can cultivate a long standing relationship with someone who is secure or anxious. But the same can be said about other attachments aswell (no…

I agree! But in the depths of a break up when thoughts can be all consuming and you can't see the end of the road, understanding you can hold 2 opposing views and give yourself the grace around that, …

It was difficult untill last summer when I joined a men’s group, and got some feedback to my story… at the same time I was deeply committed to learning about avoidant’s and how they manage (or more to…

It's certainly an interesting problem... Not knowing anything really about how interpreters operate and just spit balling, would it be helpful to provide the interpreters with a quick glossary of anti…

Maybe set up a lab and start studying the stuff you don't know well. That's my best suggestion because it's what works for me. I spend a lot of time inside and outside of work hours studying, both han…

Discussing LOB with normies is generally a kiss of death, from what I have experienced... we want to share this material, but we may be casting our pearls before swine, and a lot of the swine want to …

Fearful avoidant attachment? It’s caused by chaotic caregivers that would alternate between closeness/being loving and distance/being cold. I recommend checking out the Thais Gibson YouTube channel …

The depth of their reflections if you ask them about previous relationships, how they healed, what they want from a partner, relationship with parents… etc How they feel around children: if they’re …

Idk about this. As an FA who dated a DA and lost time like OP in a situationship for a year, both avoidants have boundaries, but are less likely to discuss them at depth or compromise.

I love this post and appreciate your ferocity in protecting the community and all of us in it. We need to keep this a safe space for us. I receive the occasional DM but usually don't respond because …

My first question is, are you really satisfied with the fact you’ve been dating her for 6 months and still aren’t her official boyfriend? And now she wants time apart? This is playing right into the a…

My point is that it’s entirely dependent on the avoidant to be willing to do the work. If they’re not ready, it doesn’t matter how “safe” the other person is. The most secure, safe person will trigger…

People who are securely attached are often more than their attachment style because their behavior isn’t constantly filtered through anxiety or emotional defense mechanisms. They’re not performing saf…

We're not talking about the breadth and depth of a whole relationship here. We're discussing the term 'be with somebody'. if you're not with someone, you're not with them. If you're with them, you're…

Why would an avoidant push me away, but then orbit me for almost 2 years — even while committed to someone else? I feel ashamed for being stuck on this.. I (32F) had a short but intense connection wi…

"The last FA I dated shit tested me early on, dumping some not so flattering info about herself just to see how I would react." • Mine has done it throughout all 4 years! I faltered a few times, yes…

Yes and no. I also felt like the results were decent but I feel like maybe more questions should’ve been asked to get more comprehensive data.  I did appreciate how to results were segmented by point…

Thanks for expressing concern, but no I'm really happy with my current life and doing well. I joined this sub cuz I'm a psych student. So was learning more about the topic. hence joined the sub and th…

I think it's the control. Limiting their freedom of movement is a big thing for me. Literally can't run away from me loving them. I also really like to take my time with this. Easily an hour+, and reg…

I am in the middle of a pretty un-fun cycle that is causing a ton of friction/pain/overwhelm in my current relationship, despite knowing for sure that we both love each other with such a great depth. …

I had to read your post about this same topic in another sub to get more context, so that way I could provide more specific advice. A lot about what you are dealing with is perspective and the narr…

Text of original post by u/f1rstpancake: TW: addiction, suicide, physical and emotional abuse, CSA. I have CPTSD, routine struggles with depression and anxiety and the corresponding executive dysfun…

Did I overreact? I am 26 and was seeing a guy who is also 26 for about three weeks. He started off as a very strong texter. He replied thoughtfully, asked a lot of questions, and seemed genuinely cur…

It might help if you write out all the thoughts and feelings and questions you have in between therapist sessions. And then start with just one of the things to talk about in the session. That way you…

Hey there, fellow Avoidants. I (f/46) have understood my Dismissive Avoidant style for a long while now. I understood it and saw myself in DA patterns, but didn't really mind it on many ways. I chose…

Interesting you bring up the Nordic countries cus I’m just watching this Swedish netflix show, diary of a ditched girl, and the entire time the protagonist hooks up really fast with people, I couldn’t…

I don’t deal with people that get “angry” about this, but I second the idea of being clear to avoid confusing people and to be more trustworthy I don’t like “I wont respond for the next 5 hours beca…

Can anyone help me understand this struggle I'm having with friendships. I have a small number of friends that I'd consider close. What I'm struggling with at the moment is the lack of depth in our te…

Many people will not do in depth convo's via text. If you can't get together in person with them regularly, then maybe try scheduling phone calls with them.

May I ask if you had in person sessions with this therapist or online sessions? I'm asking since I've only worked virtually with my previous somatic therapist and I'm wondering if this may have also c…

Hey, thank you for your thoughtful response. I definitely don’t want to sink into victimhood or act like I don’t have any agency. I do have other friends as well, they are just newer friendships that,…

Well that’s great that you still have contact. It sounds more like you are grieving the loss of where the friendship was at previously. Friendships can have hiccups and still bounce back later on down…

Ooh yes I see. Yes, I had that feeling that she didn’t want to be friends anymore, and I said “hey so I have this feeling — I don’t know if it’s true, so you tell me — but I feel like you in your gut …

Crazy to think that it took until tonight to FINALLY have my first good date of the year. Hoping there's a second, but at the very least I'm back from the depths of "oh my god I'm going to die alone".…

That makes a lot of sense. What you’re describing doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings. It sounds like a nervous system shutdown when you’re pushed to go inward. When the body tenses and wants to run,…

I actually left someone a few months ago like this. We dated for 3 months and he was so sweet and kind and we would always be close physically etc. However he was not a talk active person at all. I …

Logistics-wise, it’s mostly local matches to your proximity, but you can ask to broaden your distance to how far you’re willing to travel. There’s a brief phone call interview to make sure you’re a go…

You in contact about this with the respective mods of that community? I used to mod the adhd partners subreddit and the amount of polarising and shit being thrown over the fence from both sides was a …

nah the doctor analogy makes sense, but i have not encountered it. my type is emotionally reflexive, politically outspoken neurodivergent women tho so i’m biased. it seems like you’re looking for …

I will be honest with you, it seems like this relationship is lacking emotional and intellectual depth for you? It would be a dealbreaker for me at least. Someone not really asking questions about m…

The Heathcliff to her Cathy. Whether traversing the depths of hell, or partaking in some heavy petting on the English mountains, passion is passion. And all from handling each others’ pomegranate…