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I haven't worked with him yet so haven't fully looked into how the entire process would look like, all I got was some pieces that gave me an idea of the whole thing, but I would only ask my guides to …
A lot more people are hurt/traumatized than evil — A lot more people are traumatized/ in pain than are evil. And I won’t say that evil people simply don’t exist, they do, but there’s fewer truly evil people than there are hurt/traumatized people who d…
How do i deal with people trying to diagnose me? — HI. I was always someone to do copious research out of anxiety and wanting to know what was wrong with me and that describes so many days of high school(i am graduated now and looking into tutoring En…
I have many, many personal anecdotes that prove our beliefs create reality. Some goals/desires achieved are beyond the realm of mere coincidence and far exceed a free cup of coffee. My response to th…
I've been in these scenarios a good few times in a good few ways. And I have some hostile opinions on it as well as some good ones. So scenarios. Indian CTO or VP is hired, and almost immediately, …
I’d love to give advice but…what do YOU want? How do YOU feel about him and this? My thoughts could be diverse depending on your goals and feelings tbh. No one size fits all in these things.
This type of question doesn’t really have a “one size fits all” answer and everyone will have different needs and opinions when it comes to how much time they prefer to spend together with their partn…
Plus 1 to this. There is no one size fits all. You have to do what feels right to you. I’ve seen marriages fail after years of dating and on the flip side, I’ve seen 3 month dating marriages last a li…
That's kinda how I feel about it too. There's this really good quote/piece by Jim Carrey about grief. Kinda makes it a nice thing. But my main take away from it is theres no right way to grieve, and w…
I think it depends. My ex and I had been separated for 4 years before we filed for divorce. Neither of us wanted the added financial strain of the divorce process, but other than coparenting lived com…
People like him get too comfortable in their (knowledgeable) 'healer' suit. He might know a lot. He might have used his 'skills' to help many people who felt helped by him. Truly being a knowledge…
EAs can be just as damaging as a physical affair because it's still your spouse making an emotional commitment to someone outside the marriage. I don't know that it's any "better" than a PA because i…
*short novel alert, sorry, TL;DR at the end* As someone who has been struggling with finding a technique that "just works" for these things as well, and who also just discovered I am neurodivergent (…
Men vary as much as women. Nothing you've said applies to us all. I, for example, am neat and orderly. I've never known a woman besides my mother and grandmother who keep things tidy and ordered. Yet…
You are still making the fundermental mistake of thinking logically when trying to work out a Narc, it doesn't work that way. It's all a defense mechanism, its not based on rational thought. The prima…
But also the .”right” kind of help. It’s not a one size fits all. It’s complex & dependent on who the therapist is what they offer and their approach. Some people are also not ready . It’s important p…
some people genuinely do better in person though, it's not just about being weird about technology, different people need different things, not one size fits all.
Everyone's at different places on the spectrum that im not sures theres a surefire one size fits all book out there, is there specific situations you are looking for advice about or just advice in ge…
This is such an important point that gets buried under all the 'no contact is the only way' advice. Rules and frameworks are helpful but they're not one size fits all. Sometimes your gut knows somethi…
Yeah... Some period of NC is necessary. How much well that depends on just too many variables - and that is precisely where the one size fits all coaches are little better than snakeoil salesman. I wa…
No one size fits all, it is cyclical for me. 3 minutes of focused breath is better than no minutes. Think of it as your daily check in. It actually became addictive to me... I used to struggle with …
Unfortunately there’s no one size fits all answer for that. I had to do many brain and meditation exercises outside of shifting attempts to be able to do it i started a youtube series about how to ge…
You have to truly ask yourself if your ex is actually avoidant. You may or may not know that. Even if they are, there’s isn’t a one size fits all to this. My ex definitely was avoidant, even aware of …
I have psoriasis along with this bullshit… I genuinely feel like so much of society thinks the only value of being alive is for the capitalist grind. I’m so over it. I’m not legally allowed to just go…
Are you happy with this amount of time? If it works well for where you are both at and you're happy then I wouldn't worry about it. There isn't really a one size fits all for any of this stuff!
I’d say I did a 180, the tendencies creep up here and there but 95% gone. Ok I apologize for the doozy of info but here goes: First I read - and a lot of it boils down to not having been taught its…
Whenever people have experienced some sort of trauma or abuse or horrible life situation, they become (rightfully) a bit sensitive about how people talk about it to them, especially since you know jus…
Idk. If the person is the type to try to talk you out of it, especially if you’ve tried to end it before, a curt text and block (or at silence notifications) might be necessary. There’s no one size fi…
My wife got me an hour glass, sometimes the timer on my phone wasn't working so the physical hour glass was a nice idea. There are a lot of books on meditation that could possibly make for a good gi…
Yes, I have done a lot of research on this topic as I am also the golden child who was also scapegoated by everybody in my whole family. I was only golden because of my role as the family therapist at…
Asking any questions that want general one size fits all answer with psychedelics shows you clearly don’t understand the foundation of them aka subjectivity in experience. Anyone answering this is als…
Im trying to be conscious of folks who are demi and it does take that long to figure out compatibility and everything to be honest and those folks are likely not going to work for you of course. But d…
Its under the ace umbrella and a spectrum. So again not one size fits all. But they could also just want sex also.
Genuine question, how would this comment make everyone uncomfortable? I get what you mean, however I do think it’s not a one size fits all situation. A lot of times, people are excluded because they…
And some of them have psychs. Proof that psychs don’t do shit if you are a horrible human. It is not a savior. It can help you save yourselves that’s it. No single one size fits all for everyone.
I think part of the issue for you OP is that you see she is putting the effort in with therapy but at the same time you know what she did. What is worse is that it wasn't some random fling, it wasn't…
I agree with some of the comments here that it’s not the best idea to buy this guide. From what I’ve seen and experienced from about 7 months of diving deep into and experimenting with manifestation, …
That's a great journey you're on. Seeing those shifts in just four months is powerful. It's smart to pick and choose what resonates. No philosophy is a one size fits all. The core principles are wh…
You can cut a cord through energy healing/reiki only if it is authorized (I'm a Reiki Master). Sometimes the cord remains if there is a lesson to learn or integrate from it. For instance, I got a cord…
I appreciate your interest, I am in my late 30's and was recently diagnosed. I have been wanting to go for a out a decade after my husband was diagnosed and I wanted to learn more about his mental hea…
That’s a very good question and there is no one size fits all. I’m still in denial to be honest and it’s been 2.5 years. The first month was the hardest, I’d wake up sobbing from having dreams of my d…
A 45 day reset is still a fabricated structure because people can change their self image in less or more time. It depends on the person, their beliefs, and experiences. Correct, Joe does speak of l…
This is not the case, there are many many petite sedentary women who have TDEE’s of less than 1800. There is no one size fits all. A 5’1 woman does not have the same caloric needs as a 6’1 man. Ironic…
Don't get discouraged and don't say or think you can't do something. You're influencing your subconscious even if you don't realize it. The head lift technique might not work best for you. It hasn't w…
I could probably write another novel about my opinions about various modalities lol, but I'm no expert, so I'll just say I strongly dislike CBT. My therapist did ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy…