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SA Survivor: How do you handle the urge to crossdress and 'lose control' when stress gets too high?

I used to do this and think of myself as "wrong" and "out of control." More specifically the feelings would come when i was really drunk/high and if something in my life was going wrong. IT was almost…

r/CPTSDcomment4/12/2026
Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible?

Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible? — Hi everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community because I’m diving deep into the Law of Belief and want to explore how powerful it can truly be.🙏❤️ I keep wondering—can this law actually he…

r/JosephMurphypost10/27/2024
Too Long on First Mission And Moving On

Too Long on First Mission And Moving On — Hello Everyone I know I'll probably be banned for this so let me explain my story. I have been on my first mission for the last 8 months using the index training guide fully and it has been a massive …

r/JosephMurphypost2/21/2025
5 Best SQL Books for Web Development - JV Codes 2025

5 Best SQL Books for Web Development - JV Codes 2025 — Welcome to the [SQL Books](https://jvcodes.com/category/free-books/sql-books/) section on [JV Codes](https://jvcodes.com/)! If you’re starting with SQL or want to strengthen your skills, you’re in the…

r/web_designpost4/23/2025
What are the best meta ads courses in 2025??

What are the best meta ads courses in 2025?? — Want to explore paid social marketing for myself and clients. Any great course worth mentioning??

r/digital_marketingpost4/30/2025
How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course?

How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course? — Hey everyone! 👋 I run a live, cohort-based masterclass on advanced Midjourney prompt engineering and am in the process of ramping up my lead-gen funnel for the next cohort. So far, I’ve Explored: *…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
From IT Support to DevOps: How Can I Be Production-Ready?

From IT Support to DevOps: How Can I Be Production-Ready? — Hey all, I've been working in IT support for 6 months and recently got into automation, which led me to explore DevOps. I've started building personal projects and put them up on nishdevops.org—would …

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote)

Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote) — I am an engineering student who has a degree in Computer science and engineering (Data Science) with an honours in Quantative Finance. I have been a part of 3 startups mainly in the social and influ…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Is lovable.ai good?

Is lovable.ai good? — So i tried using lovable.ai today for a project. I was working on verification as a use case and had all my screens ready. I thought that rather than prototyping, i will rather experiment with lovable…

r/UXDesignpost5/4/2025
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote)

Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
How to Build a Site for Both Art and Ecommerce?

How to Build a Site for Both Art and Ecommerce? — Hi everyone, I’m a freelance graphic designer and currently have my portfolio site on Squarespace, which also includes a small e-commerce shop for art prints. I originally chose Squarespace because …

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
How do you inspect what actually changed in container images? (My Git-based approach)

How do you inspect what actually changed in container images? (My Git-based approach) — Hey everyone, When working with CI images or debugging build issues, I often need to understand *exactly* what changed in a container layer - not just which files were added or removed, but what was …

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Its time to Grow India

Its time to Grow India — I'm building a focused community dedicated to one purpose: building startups. In this group, we’ll exclusively discuss how to launch and grow startups, explore market trends, understand how to secure …

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!)

Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!) — **Post Body:** Hi everyone! I co-own a small business (a boutique cafe + online store) and wanted to share our experience using an **AI “social media assistant”** to grow our Instagram and TikTok. W…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
"Mastering Content Creation with Real-Time Optimization, Competitor Analysis, and Smart Editing Tools"

"Mastering Content Creation with Real-Time Optimization, Competitor Analysis, and Smart Editing Tools" — Content is still king—but not just any content. Today, high-ranking content is the result of a strategic balance between creativity and data-driven precision. To climb the search engine results pages …

r/digital_marketingpost5/8/2025
🕊️ Community Reminder: Respectful Dialogue & Open Exchange

🕊️ Community Reminder: Respectful Dialogue & Open Exchange — Hey everyone, We just want to take a moment to thank all of you for helping make r/AstralProjection one of the most interesting and supportive spaces on Reddit. Every day, people from around the worl…

r/AstralProjectionpost10/17/2025
Dating someone with a fearful-avoidant style has been unexpectedly… gentle?

Dating someone with a fearful-avoidant style has been unexpectedly… gentle? — I wanted to share a relationship experience that’s been genuinely interesting and surprisingly positive, especially for FAs and anyone curious about FA dynamics. If you are not interested in some per…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost12/16/2025
Avoidant conversation patterns are confusing me - should I address them?

Avoidant conversation patterns are confusing me - should I address them? — I’m (secure leaning anxious) getting some confusing conversations patterns from an avoidant friend. And I don’t know if I should address it or just let things continue to play out. Context; we disco…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost2/13/2026
Books on composite/synastry traditional astrology

Books on composite/synastry traditional astrology — I’m starting to learn traditional astrology, and I’m looking for recommendations on studying synastry and composite charts. I’m especially interested in family astrology—understanding family dynamics …

r/astrologypost2/26/2026
Do zodiac compatibility charts actually work in real relationships?

Do zodiac compatibility charts actually work in real relationships? — I have been curious about zodiac compatibility charts and how muchthey matterin real relationships. Many astrology sites talk about certain signs being perfect matches while othersare challenging. Fo…

r/astrologypost3/4/2026
Ever put your eyes in the box?

Ever put your eyes in the box? — Hello there friends, So what are some of the odd things you have put in the box? My eyes take a long time to settle down, maybe they should just go in the box? What say you, explorers?

r/gatewaytapespost3/7/2026
I astral projected last night..

I astral projected last night.. — I astral projected last night... What was your first experience? Here's mine: We arrived in Tunisia yesterday, had some sleep, woke up, yawned, and my nose started bleeding, only mentioning this bec…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/7/2026
The post-abuse life is rarely worth it

The post-abuse life is rarely worth it — Losing your youth to abuse, coming out extremely fragmented and almost disabled when it comes to forming relationships, chronic illness that prevents you from work that prevents you from money that pr…

r/CPTSDpost3/8/2026
The day has come!

The day has come! — For more than 50 years, the Monroe Institute has been quietly pioneering a systematic way to explore human consciousness — beyond meditation, beyond belief, and beyond theory. I’m excited to share tha…

r/gatewaytapespost3/10/2026
6 month mark, can't progress further right now, but pausing feels shitty too. Leave?

6 month mark, can't progress further right now, but pausing feels shitty too. Leave? — In September, I cautiously decided to start seeing the father of my daughter's best friend. It's been really great, and has helped me work through a lot of emotional stuff including heavy grief. Aft…

r/datingoverthirtypost3/10/2026
Update to my previous post. Tis not a good one.

Update to my previous post. Tis not a good one. — [https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1q4sw3v/before\_i\_43m\_delete\_her\_44f\_number\_and\_move/](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1q4sw3v/before_i_43m_delete_her_44f_n…

r/datingoverfortypost3/11/2026
Caught myself falling asleep and slipped into another OBE/AP (details + what helped)

Caught myself falling asleep and slipped into another OBE/AP (details + what helped) — So last night (11/3/2026) I had another experience. I can't say for sure whether it was AP or an OBE — I'm not sure if they are classed as the same thing or not. I’ll be looking into that later. Befo…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/12/2026
Traditional meditation feels like a chore, but my own 'quiet mind' method feels amazing. Am I missing something?

Traditional meditation feels like a chore, but my own 'quiet mind' method feels amazing. Am I missing something? — I have a particular style of meditation which I can't explain very well, but I just allow my mind to go quiet. I still have similar thoughts to daily life, but I feel like I'm only very partially enga…

r/Meditationpost3/13/2026
What can 'normal' people do to bring open contact a step closer?

What can 'normal' people do to bring open contact a step closer? — I wonder what 'normal' people, like most of us here I assume, can do to help bring open contact a step closer? Do we have any agency in these matters? If so what do people here feel we can do or wh…

r/experiencerspost3/14/2026
New explorer series

New explorer series — Thought you all would like the newest explorer series

r/gatewaytapespost3/14/2026
Help to reach focus 12 steadily

Help to reach focus 12 steadily — I recently embarked on the Gateway Experience journey; initially, out of pure curiosity, I played the free flow of Focus 12, easily reaching Focus 10 and even once, when the voice took me to 12, I fel…

r/gatewaytapespost3/15/2026
Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026

Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026 — Even if you are not an artist, philosopher or feel things deeply, the New Moon in Pisces could give you an open, dreamy quality, where you want to dig into more abstract subjects. You may be thinkin…

r/astrologypost3/16/2026
The Moment I Realized Astral Projection Was More Real Than I Ever Imagined

The Moment I Realized Astral Projection Was More Real Than I Ever Imagined — Last night, I had an astral projection experience that completely blew my mind. At first, I was skeptical, thinking it would just be another lucid dream. But as soon as I felt my consciousness lift fr…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/17/2026
Insane Similarities between Gateway Experiences and Vedic Hinduism

Insane Similarities between Gateway Experiences and Vedic Hinduism — So I asked Claude to cross reference all the gateway documents and manuals I uploaded to it with Hindu Vedas, Upnishads, Puranas and Patanjali’s book on Yog and only limit itself to these sources. He…

r/gatewaytapespost3/18/2026
Farewell

Farewell — In the last two years, I have posted to this group a few times. Last year, I posted ([“Here’s the thing: you’re dying, too.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1ifz1cr/heres_the_thing_youre_…

r/Stoicismpost3/18/2026
I met 5 translucent beings while doing a YouTube Regression at home.

I met 5 translucent beings while doing a YouTube Regression at home. — A couple of years ago I started experimenting with YouTube self regressions and I had a very strong experience on it that involved 5 light/translucent blue beings and I felt an unconditional love from…

r/experiencerspost3/18/2026
The Double Body Technique : A Great astral projection method.

The Double Body Technique : A Great astral projection method. — # The Double Body Technique: What is The Double Body? **The double body** is a visualized form resembling yourself, created through imagination. This construct can be inhabited and used for astral pr…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/20/2026
What is 'not' meditation?

What is 'not' meditation? — I’m pretty new to meditation and still trying to understand what it actually is. I see a lot of different explanations, and sometimes I’m not sure if what I’m doing (or thinking meditation is) is act…

r/Meditationpost3/20/2026
Does anyone have experience with Mexican dream herb? Trip report.

Does anyone have experience with Mexican dream herb? Trip report. — I met with 2g of tea brewed in 2 cups of boiling water, steeped for 7 minutes. I wasn’t able to fall asleep, not really, but I didn’t dream, either. What the tea showed me was a lucid, waking dream. …

r/Psychonautpost3/21/2026
The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions

The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …

r/AstralProjectionpost3/22/2026
Can't work out if orbs are good or tricksters.

Can't work out if orbs are good or tricksters. — I've been seeing orbs for 6/7 months. I just say a prayer and they appear every time. Other people have seen them with me, I have insane footage etc. Most recently I seen 3 orbs in a triangular format…

r/experiencerspost3/22/2026
I flew across the country alone at 19, and they followed me.

I flew across the country alone at 19, and they followed me. — Hi everyone. I'm unsure of who will remember of my two or so posts detailing my potential escape and plans to have an emergency move from Alabama to California, but I did it! This was my first time f…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/23/2026
Is it possible to be too grounded?

Is it possible to be too grounded? — Like, my whole life I lived in my head. Fantasizing, philosophizing, theorizing, imagining, visualizing. Feeling my body and my surroundings always was a struggle. But I was very mental. Thanks to t…

r/Meditationpost3/23/2026
Admitted to Stanford but at the cost of my childhood

Admitted to Stanford but at the cost of my childhood — I am a high school senior who has spent the past 18 years growing up in a middle-class Asian family in the Bay Area. My parents constantly complain that they have no money, no connections, and no adva…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/24/2026
Art and study of the Gateway tapes and general connection to the Universe (with my own experimentation)

Art and study of the Gateway tapes and general connection to the Universe (with my own experimentation) — \- I WILL BE UPDATING THIS POST EVERYDAY. LINKS WILL BE AT THE BOTTOM OF POST WITH LOG NUMBERS AND DATES - 🌠 Log. 00 \[Tuesday, March 24th, 2026\] So far, I’ve been repeating the same first 3 tape…

r/gatewaytapespost3/24/2026
Do you set "intentions"?

Do you set "intentions"? — People often recommend going in with intentions/purposes for what you'd like to explore. I usually don't have expectations, my usual intent is to not go so hard as to make it completely unenjoyable.…

r/Psychonautpost3/24/2026
I'm loving these Explorer tapes

I'm loving these Explorer tapes

r/gatewaytapespost3/24/2026
I messaged my EX and I feel better :)

I messaged my EX and I feel better :) — Its been a LONG journey, but last night I was playing Farcry 5 on my PC for the first time in a while and I noticed my EX was on (we played together a lot and I helped buy the game and her laptop). An…

r/ExNoContactpost3/25/2026
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱

Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…

r/Psychonautpost3/25/2026
I think I’ve been having my first experiences - looking for a bit of guidance from the community

I think I’ve been having my first experiences - looking for a bit of guidance from the community — Over the past couple of years my view of reality and the world has shifted quite a bit. I’ve done a lot more exploring of the spiritual side of life and feel I’ve really “woken up”. I’ve had a couple …

r/experiencerspost3/25/2026
How does my third house stellium in Capricorn impact this transition in my life?

How does my third house stellium in Capricorn impact this transition in my life? — I’m new to astrology so I’m still wrapping my head around the extraordinary amount of information to examine and explore. Source of birth time is my birth certificate. I’m on the cusp of a major iden…

r/AskAstrologerspost3/25/2026
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Hi! So I’m pretty new to this sub and currently trying to read up and decide what I think about AP. For a long time, I’ve believed that reality is a construct in the mind, or just a result of what our…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/6/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Does anyone know if medications affect AP? I'm on anti anxiety and anti depression meds. I have PTSD. I want to explore this and I've never attempted to do it. But I wonder if meds affect the ability?

r/AstralProjectioncomment1/16/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Try focusing on your environment and not getting to excited . Tell yourself you want to explore your surroundings before and during . Don’t go straight into getting excited and trying to control every…

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

**!!!!! READ ME !!!!!** The purpose of this community is to explore human energy in all of its facets while stripping away the esoteric language, rituals and distractions that have accumulated over …

r/energy_workcomment3/3/2023
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Yes!!!! Once in one night, I kept getting pulled between here and “the other place”. I’ve been calling it that, assuming it’s another dimension or parallel universe. It was somewhere familiar but unkn…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/10/2023
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

Fluctuations, yes. You're talking about the fluctuation toward 80% being the anomaly, and that the normal amount of time would be far less. And, no, there are plenty of secure people who enjoy greate…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/30/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

Love the question!! You don’t need a relationship to grow, that’s the beauty of it (you can but it will be slower, depending on what kind of partner you end up with) You could try to explore being mo…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/1/2025
Other attachment styles

I've been doing parts work for a couple of years. I'm wondering if it may be more beneficial for you to analyze them, and their potential attachment style, less and just try speaking to them and being…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/24/2025
Cannot stay attracted to dating app matches

Are you in therapy? Someone else pointed it out already and I agree (and I assume you already know this); classic avoidant attachment behavior. How come you're this distant? Have you ever explored th…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/30/2025
I have an entrepreneurial spirit, but no direct or passion project. Am I doomed?

Just because you're not passionate about anything today doesn't mean you won't be forever. Give yourself time and explore. And don't just focus on the business world either. You can't just think "I mu…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

You seem young, my advice to you is to go see a therapist and explore why you get afraid and panic when people get close to you. Just because you cannot consciously believe you have no trauma does no…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/30/2025
Excessive Rumination

i’m in the same boat right now. I dated a girl a girl for two years who dumped me and has never spoken to me again since that day. it has been about a year since our breakup, but I keep obsessing. m…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/2/2025
Think I found a secure woman, and almost immediately self-sabotaged.

"The FA in me wanted to run wild and send a dramatic text, but I stopped myself. I reminded myself this was protest behavior." Wtf?! You had never even gone on a date with this woman but when she sho…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/6/2025
You know what sucks about being in the process of healing your attachment type? Dating someone who has no idea they have an insecure attachment and you're just wasting all that hard-earned security on someone who doesn't care

I'm securely attached and I'm still dealing with the emotional turmoil from letting a FA in. It's one of the hardest things I have gone through in my life because the person actually understood many o…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/10/2025
When I want to deactivate I swing too far to the other side to preemptively "sooth" my partner, just in case.

Guys I’m in a predicament. I am with this girl(20) and me who’s(22) we started talking around April, and everything has been going good. We started talking and having fun together and building a deep …

r/attachment_theorycomment7/17/2025
I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies.

I disagree, I'm actually doing this for her. We’re in the early stages where we both can date other people. I'm making sure I'm 100 percent into her before I ask her to close herself off from others. …

r/attachment_theorycomment7/30/2025
I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies.

Ah well maybe you need to slow down or actually make time to explore other connections? If you feel performative, maybe you're people pleasing instead of honoring your own needs and boundaries 

r/attachment_theorycomment7/30/2025
I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies.

These are the kinds of things you think with fearful avoidant attachment, and when you get to the point where you want to try and start dating again after working through a considerable amount. I’m da…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/2/2025
Starting over

Hi OP. You sound like you're being really mature about this. Feel your feelings. It's okay to feel sad, disappointed, betrayed, and scared. Explore those feelings and journal about why you're feeling …

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment8/9/2025
Mass produced emotional security/intelligence?

I’ve used it to explore topics and ideas around issues I’m having. It has enabled me to show up to therapy more informed, making better use of my time. An hour goes by pretty fast for me.

r/attachment_theorycomment8/14/2025
Weekly Feelings thread - Share what you're going through without feeling judged, this thread shall be a safe space for all of us to share (rules still apply).

Why would an avoidant push me away, but then orbit me for almost 2 years — even while committed to someone else? I feel ashamed for being stuck on this.. I (32F) had a short but intense connection wi…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment8/15/2025
Struggling with losing my best friend/coworker, anxious attachment + limerence making it unbearable

I’m sorry this is happening. Explore the “no contact” rule on YouTube, add “avoidants” to the search to get more specific. Yes, it’s a friendship, but the strategy applies and works. It really does. K…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/19/2025
Feeling bad after dates?

This sounds like shame, and it's not at all surprising that it's coming up for a DA when you're trying to connect with others since that's one of the core traits of this attachment style. Heidi Prieb…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment9/11/2025
How to manifest for beginners

Hi everyone, I’ve been practicing LOA since January and I’ve already seen amazing results. For example, I manifested a *free trip to Belgium for a conference*, I’ve received many free things, and eve…

r/Manifestationcomment9/18/2025
Triggered over broken promises

Yeah. Firstly, start with really trying to figure out what is truly causing this. Sit with the thought and just think about it. If it does not come to you then that is fine, but really sit with it fo…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/23/2025
What are some healthy ways of self-soothing in place of limerence?

Yes I’ve experience this! I understand! For me , it was drawing and now painting. I get lost so easily in it that my brain is present with it and not focused on anything else. Try to redirect your bra…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/26/2025
I regressed so much this year

I'm right there with you. Sometimes it feels like I learned so much only so that I can just stand back and watch a train wreck unfold in live time while still being completely powerless to stop it. …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/27/2025
I broke no contact

All you can do now is reflect and learn from it. Explore to find out what your real need was. What were you trying to soothe with reaching out? What is still in need of soothing because it didn’t pl…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/16/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Are there any reputable workbooks or videos that are recommended to explore what caused me to be AA? I'm trying to understand what led to this, I guess.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/17/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

The Resources page on this sub has lots of resources to explore. The link is in the post.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/24/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

It’s all about what you and your partner are okay with. That side of you still exists and you can explore together what could bring that back from time to time.

r/attachment_theorycomment10/29/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

Honestly, what you just shared sounds completely normal (I’m saying this not in an invalidating way). When you move from an on-and-off relationship to a healthy and emotionally secure one, your body a…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/30/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

Don't think of it as some set baseline that exists. But a lack of development of sexual excitement beyond intermittant re-inforcement, as the other commented mentioned. But you can start to think …

r/attachment_theorycomment10/30/2025
Unsent letter to a prior ex, in the midst of a current breakup.

Your reflection is really thoughtful and brave. You're doing a lot of deep work, practicing self-compassion and understanding anxious-avoidant patterns while also taking accountability for your past b…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/11/2025
Is it a 6th sense or is it anxious attachment?

Hey, okay so I have a few thoughts on this. 1. Intuition is SO difficult. I also have insane intuition but then other times it's completely wrong. So, I think exploring the intuition is helpful.…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/11/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

> The sub doesn't let me post That's weird. There are auto-rules that limit TOP-LEVEL comments for posts tagged as "Seeking Personal Stoic Guidance". You have to be tagged as a "Contributor". I do…

r/Stoicismcomment11/25/2025
chronic depressed and sad

My answer has nothing to do with Murphy. English isn’t my first language so I used ChatGPT to help me word this, but here’s my honest recommendation: If you want to explore the **Three Principles** …

r/JosephMurphycomment11/27/2025
How do anxious attachers know when they are truly ready to date again, rather than just trying to soothe anxiety or loneliness?

We are social animals. So even when we are not dating we still need to have connection in our lives. So how are you meeting that need outside of dating? Your romantic partner should not be your only f…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/8/2025
How do anxious attachers know when they are truly ready to date again, rather than just trying to soothe anxiety or loneliness?

A really great question I explore while healing anxious attachment was “If I knew 100% that I wouldn’t date anyone ever again, what would I need in my life to live a fulfilled and meaningful life” N…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/10/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

So idk what kind of “problems” came about that changed things. I also am not sure if what you experienced previously was something that could have been sustained over long periods. As in you both had …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/31/2025
What to do when i am triggered around my partner?

Ive had similar experiences with certain partners, but there was usually something behind it, and it wasnt something I was imagining or making up, maybe try to explore that part, the why. Usually fo…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/5/2026
What to do when i am triggered around my partner?

The pausing and taking deep breaths is great in the moment. But there's often something deeper that can be explored and met from younger you. Try and work with a somatic therapist because it sounds li…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/5/2026
How do anxious attachers know when they are truly ready to date again, rather than just trying to soothe anxiety or loneliness?

(26M, in a relationship) I was very anxious before, and I believe that I have been improving day by day. I used to be anxious and triggered when my friends hung out without me, or somehow I couldn't b…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/9/2026
Here's to an emotionally secure 2026! 🥳🎈🎉😎 (open thread)

Thank you for sharing. Are you doing therapy? I highly recommend working with a therapist so that you can explore these issues over time with a trained professional. It helps to have a friend / ally o…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/12/2026
Is casual sex compatible with secure attachment?

I’m a FA leaning secure (previously leaning anxious) after leaving a long marriage and experiencing my first DA discard. I have been using casual sex as a way to explore sexually in my 40s. I lived a …

r/attachment_theorycomment1/16/2026
Anxious Attachment and Hypervigilance

You're reading a lot into his actions. It's not fair or kind to make assumptions about other people's intentions. If you feel confused or think there has been a miscommunication, you should ask them -…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/22/2026
ruminating on past experiences

Sending some telepathic hugs your way! That's a tough place to be. I've been learning being comfortable and understanding that I'll survive the discomfort are two independent concepts. That's helped m…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/24/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

My ex broke up with me a month ago. We had a powerful connection but life goals and bad timing meant it likely wouldn't work, there was zero toxicity. We'll talk again sometime in the future, it proba…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/24/2026
Feeling conflicted, I don't know if I don't love him and I am settling or if I love him and the "cons" are avoidant deactivation?

You don’t love him you love the fantasy of him you created. You probably forced yourself to feel something because you really want to have a child and subconsciously you know that time will eventually…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Gave me a jumpscare...the last time I was in a relationship, they would have needed a learner's permit to operate a car hahahaha Can't say if I will explore or not

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026