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About no contact.

About no contact. — I just wanted to say that, yes, you should go no contact if you got dumped, only way that someone will realize what they lost is by not having access to it anymore, could take days, weeks and months f…

r/ExNoContactpost3/21/2026
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

r/JosephMurphypost1/21/2025
Offering FREE Virtual Admin Help to Small Business Owners (Inbox, Research, Socials & More!)

Offering FREE Virtual Admin Help to Small Business Owners (Inbox, Research, Socials & More!) — Hey amazing business owners! I’m Bella — a dedicated and detail-obsessed Virtual Assistant with a heart for helping small businesses stay organized and thrive. 💕 Right now, I’m offering FREE servic…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
New Rule. No grifting

New Rule. No grifting — To protect the community from scammers and grifters we have modified rule 1. To the “coaches”: 1. No posting from new accounts (little/no history or accounts created recently). 2. No talking about…

r/Manifestationpost6/23/2025
Afraid of the "how"

Afraid of the "how" — Hi to all. I have been studying the law and this sub since many years, then left, then (1-2 months ago) came back. I had my fair share of watching coaches, reading the content proposed here (and more)…

r/JosephMurphypost7/29/2025
Coaches

Coaches — So,we all know the scam of RAIN I wanted to talk about this other girl ‘Amara innerpower’who keeps posting in various Ng groups on Facebook. Beware of this one too and never ever pay any coach for mon…

r/JosephMurphypost2/13/2026
Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…

r/JosephMurphypost2/14/2026
Women keep telling me I need to date younger and now my daughter has too.

Women keep telling me I need to date younger and now my daughter has too. — I (39m) look young for my age and have been dating for the last 4 years. I have mostly dated women in their 30s and about half of them have told me to date someone younger after things didn’t work bet…

r/datingoverthirtypost3/1/2026
You've Tried Manifesting Them Back Multiple Times - Here's Why It's Not Working

You've Tried Manifesting Them Back Multiple Times - Here's Why It's Not Working — **"I've manifested my SP back multiple times but it never works. Now it just feels draining."** **You're not failing at manifestation.** **You're failing at creating coherent field states.** And th…

r/Manifestationpost3/10/2026
How to FEEL like you have your desires

How to FEEL like you have your desires — it’s really simple but these coaches and influencers are teaching it in a way to keep you hooked and invested in them. the amount of money you have now? wow you’re so lucky you have that! some people…

r/Manifestationpost3/21/2026
I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling

I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling — Hi, Not quite sure where to post so I thought here would be best. Happy to post in any other places if I have the wrong place and open to recommendations :) I’m my country’s current National champ…

r/selfhelppost3/26/2026
This makes me sad

This makes me sad — There are teachings in the ‘manifestation’ world that say something along the lines of: “When you start to practice manifestation, your life will go to shit and the universe is going to test you wit…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/28/2026
Consistency is KEY

Consistency is KEY — I feel like one thing people struggle with while manifesting is staying consistent and PERSISTING. Most people give up after not seeing change in the 3D after a few days or a week. This is kind of e…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/1/2026
Anyone else had a relatively "successful" sibling growing up?

Anyone else had a relatively "successful" sibling growing up? — And by "successful", I don't necessarily mean something really big to the point that they made a career out of that, but just enough that there was always something going on in that sibling's life. Wh…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/1/2026
3 month lock in challenge? Done. Next 1? FREE WILL

3 month lock in challenge? Done. Next 1? FREE WILL — Hi lovelies, Near the start of the year, I did a 3 month lock in challenge that is ending soon. My affirmation: Isn’t it wonderful. Some wins: \- visited Brazil for the first time & saw the para…

r/Manifestationpost4/3/2026
April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean?

April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? — Feel free to ask any type of question on this thread. More importantly, feel free to answer questions that have been asked! Additionally, please refrain from posting multiple questions in the subredd…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/3/2026
How do I (24F) handle my boyfriend's (25M) friendship with his coworker? (26F)

How do I (24F) handle my boyfriend's (25M) friendship with his coworker? (26F) — My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half and most of our relationship has been long distance because he got a chance to work in Major League Baseball last year and follow his dr…

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
How do I move on without bashing myself for failing?

How do I move on without bashing myself for failing? — In 2023 I was in a leadersip position in a sport I played. I was very lazy and a horrible leader. I still regret how I let myself and the entire team down, including the coaches. How do I move on with…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/5/2026
Therapy encourages isolation

Therapy encourages isolation — I'm so fucking sick of this whole "be comfortable with yourself," "nobody can give you what you need to find in yourself first," "protect your peace" agenda therapists and "self-help" coaches spew onl…

r/CPTSDpost4/6/2026
My mom cried wolf and now I don’t care

My mom cried wolf and now I don’t care — I might be misremembering some of the details but I remember enough to know the feelings of pure terror and shock. I don’t think I ever really worked through it either. My mom is a narcissist and pro…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
April 10, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean?

April 10, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? — Feel free to ask any type of question on this thread. More importantly, feel free to answer questions that have been asked! Additionally, please refrain from posting multiple questions in the subredd…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/10/2026
THE OYSTER IS NOT YOUR WORLD! (IT'S THIS SIMPLE)

THE OYSTER IS NOT YOUR WORLD! (IT'S THIS SIMPLE) — LONGGG POST! DISCLAIMER: for any of ya'll havin a problem with "long posts" , "english", "structure", "accent" etc etc. i got 2 tips for ya 1. chat gpt (or any other ai platform) - command c+v (summ…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/11/2026
WHAT DO YOU WANT?!

WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…

r/Manifestationpost4/11/2026
act like you already have it means…..

act like you already have it means….. — it’s really simple but these coaches and influencers are teaching it this way to keep you hooked and invested in them. the amount of money you have now? wow you’re so lucky you have that! some people…

r/Manifestationpost4/12/2026
Index

Index — \[Updated: December 30th, 2021.\] Links with an asterisk beside them recently added. ​ **Books** [The Power of Your Subconscious Mind - Joseph Murphy](http://www.logoscenter.org/downloads/T…

r/JosephMurphypost1/22/2020
I did it, I quit my job! Scary or a Reborn?

Congrats! That’s a huge step, all respect. I work with creators and coaches (mostly course sellers or those ready to launch) helping them dial in their offers and backend systems. Curious what k…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
No one should suffer because we have trauma.

It’s a cottage industry of dating coaches that all suggest you do no contact to get an avoidant ex back. I hardly see information about anxious attachment and how to heal those wounds. I’m in therap…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/28/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

Hey i did comment on her video, a few hrs ago. Checked now the comment is not there.. she deleted it i guess. I am sure she is ignoring you in the pretext of changing the circumstances and making th…

r/JosephMurphycomment6/25/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

I don’t follow any coaches and hardly trust anyone in this niche. I’ll do my best to do my part. Good for you for speaking out. A good “coach” leads with integrity.

r/JosephMurphycomment7/2/2025
Anxiety only triggered in romantic relationship, how to manage it?

This is a great question. I was in therapy for 10 years and also went to countless coaches and therapists. There are a handful of things that actually helped me significantly: 1. Creating deep, meani…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/10/2025
Law of Belief - Relationships

Yes that could be a good interpretation of it! It could also be that maybe this woman in the example had a good story about relationships in general but just not her current partner for whatever reaso…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/13/2025
For having struggled with an anxious attachment in an earlier relationship, how does it feel for you to become more secure in a much different or more compatible relationship you are in now?

I went through a devastating break up three years ago. My ex was a dismissive avoidant. We were in couples therapy before the breakup. I kept seeing the same therapist after the breakup and that’s whe…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/26/2025
New Rule. No grifting

What about people who are actually fairly popular ( on FB/IG) and call themselves “ Manifestation Coaches “ but who are total fakes ( ie, they don’t ACTUALLY live by the principles that they espouse o…

r/Manifestationcomment12/5/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I have done the journey :) you're always going to have a secondary, but now I'm Secure leaning anxious. After an avoidant discard I became primarily anxious but the worst is over. When an avoidant…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
(3.5 years) Where did I go wrong ?

Well during my very first manifestation, it was before I found this sub or even knew about JM and his book POTSM. All I knew was Neville and LOA Porn “coaches”. The techniques I mainly did were Men…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

> like ehhh that's not really how that works It's not when you look at it from a clinical perspective, which is where all these terms originated from. Problem is they've been taken out of context and…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

As someone who’s been in therapy for quite a few years for some “big” things, i think the issue is the TikTokization and ChatGPTization of therapy. Dating coaches/lifestyle coaches/life influencers wi…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

I understand it's frustrating not to meet someone right away. The benefits of this strategy are that it can expand your social nerwork, keep your social skills up, and give you something interesting t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
Keeping Focus in SH

Honestly, the only thing I can say is just keep doing it consistently, no matter what. Keep practising like any other skill, like gym for your mind. Neville and Dr Murphy are both great inspirational …

r/JosephMurphycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

Hi everyone! I'd like to know if anyone has any fresh perspectives or advice on my situation. I'm a 36-year-old man, diagnosed with autism. Never had a girlfried, neither my first kiss or hug  I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

Not to be too simplistic but I think what you can do is just keep living. If the active search for a relationship is overly draining than maybe you do it in a less intensive way; no more dating coache…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 01, 2026

I used that example because my Aunt married an amazing man, who was one of the soccer coaches for her kids. He is one of the best men EVER - they have been married for 30 years!!! We got this!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/1/2026
Alysa Liu on Eileen Gu “Y’all would have told her to go back to China. Now that they’re back in China, you’re mad.”

I don't particularly care that she competed for china, but I can see why people could get upset. You think she would've had the same opportunities if they she lived and grew up in China? Doubt it. T…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/7/2026
3 years in. Bro, it gets wild.

Completely agreed. I started the Law of One 4ish years ago, read all of it twice. Then devoured Seth, Bashar, Elan, Ryok, every other channeler on YouTube, Neville, Joseph Murphy, Joe Dispenza, and a …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/8/2026
Alysa Liu on Eileen Gu “Y’all would have told her to go back to China. Now that they’re back in China, you’re mad.”

You can't be a traitor to something that you never owed loyalty to. Or is everyone who leaves their job because another company paid them more a traitor? The valid thing you've said is that yes, ther…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/9/2026
[Prove Me Wrong] Bruce Lee was the last English speaking Asian that represented us well

Johnny Kim, Navy Seal, doctor, astronaut Michael Chang, American tennis player Dat Nguyen, Cowboys MLB Tedy Bruschi, Patriots MLB Hines Ward, Steelers, WR Dwayne Johnson, The Rock Ted Lieu…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/10/2026
unpopular opinion: therapy isn't worth $200/session

I agree. Depends on the therapist. About 10% of top tier therapist and coaches are worth that price, they can generate huge shifts in a session or three. But most are not. In my experience, in other c…

r/therapycomment3/12/2026
The way as a slave

These concerns aren't exclusive to stoicism. The 4th century Cynics rejected social conventions and material possessions while embracing the notion of living virtuously with nature. In the 17th centur…

r/Stoicismcomment3/12/2026
I Won’t Stop Sharing This

I don’t know how to compare mental health here to other places, I’ve only practiced here. My experience has been that our division of public licensing is more invested in helping people continue to pr…

r/therapycomment3/14/2026
The "Manosphere"

Further to my other reply. It is normal and expected that children distance themselves from their parents in teen years and the influence parents have over them is greatly reduced. By age 15 most …

r/Stoicismcomment3/15/2026
unpopular opinion: therapy isn't worth $200/session

That's unfortunate. I wonder if its location because in Atlanta, where I am located, coaches and therapists that only accept cash charge as little as $100 per session. Some have a sliding scale or wil…

r/therapycomment3/15/2026
It Was Always About You

Thank you for your kind words <3 Yes, exactly. That inner shift really is the key. Like you said, it does not mean you are in that state 100% of the time, but you become much more aware when you dr…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/16/2026
Sunken Cost Fallacy

Extremely sorry to hear that you’re going through this. As a core catholic, and being raised that way, I always thought divorce was just a bad thing and here I said in my house 43 years old, having go…

r/Divorcecomment3/16/2026
3 years in. Bro, it gets wild.

I had a question but I don't wanna make a whole post that will lead people astray. what do you think of Neville Goddard's critics sub? I have muted them from my feed because it doesn't serve me and I …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/17/2026
What apps (if any) do you use for your wellbeing? Have you found any that are actually worth paying for, or are free ones enough?

I've been using the Liven app for about 3,5 months now, and it’s been really helpful for me. I definitely know what you’re talking about, because I was in a kinda similar situation. I was totally exha…

r/selfhelpcomment3/18/2026
Does robotic affirmation really helps?

Yall hate to admit that sometimes you don’t get everything you want. None of us have perfect lives. Not even the coaches.

r/Manifestationcomment3/19/2026
Has anyone ever changed their entire selves/view on life?

I've changed it in many ways, countless times. Take up a martial art. Volunteer for the underserved. Get perspective on life. Start small. Make your bed. Ask your therapist to really work on challeng…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/19/2026
IF YOU ARE 30+ USING NC

These "rules" touted by parasitic coaches all over the internet are just a way of monetising sadness and anxiety. Use common sense, your knowledge of yourself, your knowledge of the other person, the …

r/BreakUpscomment3/20/2026
IF YOU ARE 30+ USING NC

Thank you for this, more people need to see and actually LISTEN to this. My (36m) ex (30m) broke up with me almost a month ago, also due to depression. Of course I did the normal thing of Googling eve…

r/BreakUpscomment3/20/2026
What surprised you the most about going through a divorce?

I’m two weeks into filing for divorce. My wife has changed from begging me to stay 1 month ago to shielding me from the kids, making unilateral child decisions, and saying there’s no way she’ll let me…

r/Divorcecomment3/20/2026
I am dropping Loa

Yup. I really appreciate them also. Very authentic about wanting to help people, make real manifesting accessible, and get the truth out about manifesting without misinformation or gatekeeping content…

r/lawofattractioncomment3/23/2026
Has anyone looked into what chronic depression and trauma actually do to your body at a cellular level? The research is both terrifying and oddly empowering.

So, here in the US, we have therapists that will label themselves as “mental health coaches” to serve patients outside of their state, but are licensed in their home state (and thus more qualified to …

r/CPTSDcomment3/24/2026
I told you so...

I’m sick of online coaches justifying that people saying “we would never break up” is not some sort of contract/bond. It’s an implicit promise. Plus most of the time the person who says it wasn’t …

r/BreakUpscomment3/24/2026
Why no contact fails for most people

There are so many problems with the NC "rules" pushed by the parasitic internet coaches... NC should only really have two purposes - 1. You are done. There was too much hurt, abuse, lying, cheating,…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/24/2026
Why no contact fails for most people

Yeah... Some period of NC is necessary. How much well that depends on just too many variables - and that is precisely where the one size fits all coaches are little better than snakeoil salesman. I wa…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/24/2026
I lost everything to the war and I'm completely broken. 7 months of daily 6-hour work gave me nothing. How do I not give up?

Danielle Desautelle’s videos on YouTube. I was at a point where everything in my life was crashing down, despite me “manifesting” for over a year at that point (meditating 1 hour+ daily, scripting, st…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/25/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 25, 2026

I’ve notched the man example is always jacked guys. Used as examples. Bruce Willis, Jason Stratham, the Rock, Johnny Sins. All men with bodies that are unattainable for the average man. These men have…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/26/2026
I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling

That disconnect between achieving something and actually \*feeling\* like you've achieved it is really common with high performers. Curious what happens in the moment when you doubt yourself during tr…

r/selfhelpcomment3/27/2026
I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling

Really interesting and notable points. Cheers. Never heard of Taro’s Tarot before - will look into it. I completely agree, mindset is the make or break. As a younger athlete, I barely focused on t…

r/selfhelpcomment3/27/2026
This makes me sad

It’s not that your life goes to shit or the universe tests you. You’re right Neville doesn’t talk about this. Neville specifically doesnt even mention the universe, because there is no universe, only …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/28/2026
This makes me sad

"He makes all things work to the good for those who love him and are called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 There is no "it gets worse before it gets better" unless you agree with it. Then it …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/28/2026
I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he?

“Recovered yet?” I had to chuckle at that one because he sounds like one of those football coaches texting one of their athletes to see if they can put in some extra practice that day. Between dudes…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
If They Wanted You, They Would've Chosen You.

I been there, my last girl kept me crippled 6 weeks man and the first week, crying at 2am, shit sleep, had to take leave from work, put me into seeing 2 psychologists, relationship coaches and on anti…

r/BreakUpscomment3/30/2026
"I don't know what to tell you"

Yes. And I’m a parents and I teach our kids to reach for experts, coaches and mentors and am beside them as we learn to advocate for ourselves… And lean on an expert. From a Spanish tutor, SAT coa…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/31/2026
How do you know who's in your age range?

u/TheSwipeAlternative, your post has been removed for one or more reason(s): NO SELF-PROMOTION or SURVEYS. Surveys and questions purely for research and/or publication will not be allowed. We will no…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/31/2026