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The most important part of EVERYONE IS YOU PUSHED OUT (EIYPO) — I think that what I will say in the following lines has to be reminded as much as possible in the manifesting exes and partners communities. Manifesting a person is not only easy, it is effortle…
Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication — Hi guys! I have some potential freelance business for a trade publication in the design space (architecture, interiors, landscape, urban planning topics) and I was originally trying to pitch SEO, re…
What would you be willing to pay for at your company? — Over the years, we’ve seen several licensing dramas and ongoing debates even on this sub — the latest being Redis becoming open source again. Someone once said: “I'm fine with companies making money …
[Terraform vs. Bicep] — Is Terraform Still a Safe Bet Post-IBM? — **TL;DR:** We're 99% Azure and choosing between Bicep and Terraform for IaC. Bicep fits the stack, but Terraform offers flexibility (especially if we acquire orgs using AWS). With IBM buying HashiCorp…
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…
Should technical articles be a nlof post or a pagw — I always debate this internally. If i write a technical article about for example how to meaure voltage when testing a piece of equipment. Should it be a page or a blog post? And what normally determ…
Your tools and tips for better team alignement? (I will not promote) — Hi, Was reflecting of what worked and what did not in my previous ventures and I think team alignement was a major issue...no suprises here, to me it's normal as it's known to difficult but we alway…
Your tools and tips for better team alignement? — Hi, Was reflecting of what worked and what did not in my previous ventures and I think team alignement was a major issue...no suprises here, too me it's normal as it's difficult but we always struggl…
Updated Rules — Hello, r/therapy! We hope this post finds you well. We are writing to announce a minor overhaul of our rules. As our community continues to grow and evolve, our rules must do the same which is why we…
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic. — We are seeing an increase of activity from people outside of experiencer circles in threads as time has moved on and more and more people are starting to understand there really is a "there there" and…
🕊️ Community Reminder: Respectful Dialogue & Open Exchange — Hey everyone, We just want to take a moment to thank all of you for helping make r/AstralProjection one of the most interesting and supportive spaces on Reddit. Every day, people from around the worl…
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…
The Cheat Code to the Universe — After 5 years of meditating and studying this, I have been unable to disprove that there is a Cheat Code to the Universe and that is to Relax & Be Nice in all situations. I would like to discuss this …
My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating — TLDR; My boyfriend (M35) and I (f27) have been together for over a year, he hasn’t said I love you despite having talked about marriage, kids, future together. In a conversation he said he was apprehe…
"Never Go to Bed Angry" is bad bias advice — Last night I got into a slightly heated debate with a friend of mine who said "my partner and I can never go to bed angry, it doesn't help anyone". I immediately pushed back because this imo will sile…
I'm a 17yo dev and I think my generation is losing the ability to think because of AI. Tell me if my solution sucks. — Half my class uses ChatGPT to write their essays and I can literally see people losing their ability to argue or think critically. I'm trying to build a gamified "brain gym" that uses AI as a Socratic…
Major John Liu Fugh — I came across this guy during my general reading. This is Major John Liu Fugh. He was the first Chinese American who was able to attain rank of General in the US army. He was born in China and his …
‘Golden’ Wins Best Song at Oscars, But 'KPop Demon Hunters' Team’s Speech Cut Short: The moment, meant to mark a milestone for Asian creators in Hollywood, has since sparked debate over whose voices get heard on the Oscars stage.
The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore" — A week ago, I [posted about the Louis Theroux documentary on the “Manosphere,”](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1rtveyg/the_manosphere/) noting my surprise at the scale of the phenomenon, u…
Are there any pro-escapism AP communities out there? — I've noticed that when the topic of voluntarily leaving this physical life, or remaining in the astral permanently is brought up on this sub, there are inevitably at least a few comments who seem to t…
Do you set "intentions"? — People often recommend going in with intentions/purposes for what you'd like to explore. I usually don't have expectations, my usual intent is to not go so hard as to make it completely unenjoyable.…
In Honor Of Women's History Month Almost Ending: Every Asian Member (That I Know Of) In Western Girl Groups — I'm a pop culture person and in honor of Women's History Month almost ending, here is every (I think?) Asian member of Western girl groups (because if I did K-pop as a whole this list would get VERY l…
Found out my wife cheated before, after & during marriage — Hello All, new account here because my wife reads these subs from time to time. I guess I’ll start from the beginning. My wife (28f) and I (28m) started dating in high-school. After high school we wen…
We are just 3d Printers — I get it now Our subconscious or minds or whatever it is that we are, are in the 4d. Potentially higher but let's just say the 4d. Time is not a constraint there, you can have many things in an insta…
HOW TO KNOW YOUVE ACCESSED THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, which is 1,000x more powerful than the conscious mind. — The subconscious mind is 95% of your life and 100x, 1000x, 10,000x more powerful than the logical conscious mind. a lot of your are using the conscious mind to manifest and the logical conscious mind…
I'm stuck in metaphysics — *Hi, I'm 17M.* I used to feel light and carefree. But a few months ago, my worldview took a 180-degree turn... I've recently gotten into philosophy and religion. I've been searching for answers, as…
April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…
Should i Be that hurt??? — I just needed somewhere to vent, not even sure who’s gonna see this or respond, or even look at this whole thing tbh lol I’m 24M, she’s 23F. We met on a dating app Jan 15, 2026, made it official Feb…
Got what I wanted !! Again !! — Hi everyone, **Context** So I made a post called “7 Seeds - 1 Harvest” and mentioned there would be upcoming posts since writing about each desire that came true would’ve made the post way too long.…
Lawmakers debate clinical trials using psychedelics
The Supreme Court Has Heard This One Before (on Wong Kim Ark, Japanese internees, and historical and current debates over birthright citizenship)
Revenge cheating question — Preemptively, I'm not threatening to cheat back, and I don't want advice. There's no tag for "interviewing the locals" of this sub, but let's not start a debate. As a betrayed partner, I'm just curiou…
I finally drew the line — My story is your story, my pain, the same as yours. We all committed, believing that all humans essentially see each other as valuable only to be shown multiple times per day, that in fact some humans…
How do I stop this urge of saying some really mean stuff to someone who hurt me gravely? — I am usually doing well. Then I see something or get reminded of something, maybe seeing a reel or a post somewhere, & all hell will break loose, because I have to journal out some really nasty stuff …
I want to send an apology letter to my ex from 10 years ago — Long story short, he was my first love, first kiss, first \*everything\*; we met in high school and dated for a little under a year, but we had a somewhat complicated 3-year friendship prior to that. …
Eating with chopsticks — I went to an Asian restaurant (in a non-Asian area) with a white colleague. Everything seemed alright but I noticed she had some issue with me using chopsticks. Ok, I'm not the greatest at chopsticks…
Bless Another—Bless Yourself — Hi everyone, So today I'd like to talk about a nice situation I manifested for someone else. **Context** For a long time, my mom's husband has tried to build his own business and also to purchase o…
Awkward feelings from blocked out past — Hello, I need your help, you ever just get the feeling that there is some form of inappropriate sexual contact during childhood with a parent? Likely between ages 2-4, and severe beltings and spankin…
I (29 M) never have fun hanging out with my friend (29 M). I never really have fun hanging out with any friends. Does that just mean I don’t actually want any? — I’ve always dreamed of having a core friend group who cares about one another the way a family does. I imagined living a full life just with friends and feeling cared for by one another in a deep and …
it ended... but it was beautiful — yesterday i met her after 2 long years.... and the moment i saw her my heart started pounding.... she was standing there drinking tea while waiting for me i saw her from a distance and was just standi…
How can I stop feeling suicidal like this — Every night, or whenever I have time alone to think, I end up in the same place. Since I was about 15 or 16, I have kept coming back to the thought that I don’t deserve to live and should end my life.…
Does anyone else's Nparent(s) hate religion and spirituality? — It seems like a pretty common thing for Nparents to be religious fundamentalists and use that as a weapon against their children and others. However, it seems less common to have a mom like mine who d…
Parents staying friends with my known abuser — Just what it says on the tin. Adoptive parents (69&70years old) are choosing to stay friends w/ my godfather(their close work friend from before my adoption). I am 29 & coming out of the FOG over m…
I take it the recording of his life story never came to fruition? — He wrote so many books, was on TV hosting his own show, also debated pastors and rabbis on tv, danced across the world, had hundreds of newspaper articles written about him. Yet some want to say he wa…
My best friend just had a baby with a man who I think is a narcissist pervert. — Hi everyone. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post but I'm not sure who to turn to. I don't want to ask you guys to do any diagnostic over the internet, but I'm curious is any of this rings a bell w…
Im lost unsure of what to do next — This is intentionally my burner account. If not applicable to mods, I understand. I'm 35 M. Gay. Jewish heritage & struggling or trying to cope with Nmom & how to "mentally let go" from her fear of …
Mushrooms have lost their magic for me — I'm 26, I've been taking magic mushrooms on and off since my early twenties, so ultimately not a long period of time, however I have done a 5-6 large doses ranging from 8-12g, and once even with a 200…
Anyone else triggered by the HI v Gerhardt Konig trial? — I’m 13 months post DD. My WH had EA with coworker, which I discovered after finding their messages on his phone. It was earth shattering in every was imaginable, but we’ve come a long way and are in…
Before you ban me, please understand that I’m not trying to argue with you, I was just pointing out that claiming people can’t think critically is not a wise move because it can easily be said of you…
>Before you ban me, please understand that I’m not trying to argue with you, I was just pointing out that claiming people can’t think critically is not a wise move because it can easily be said of yo…
Haha what an honour to be compared to Uncle Iroh! 😆 yes I understand and I debated whether to put that in, however there are some people who get frustrated with their attempts and prayer can actually…
Y'all read the comments on that thread too. Moonlight has an interesting debate with someone.
So, I come from a science background, and as such, totally understand all your points and mostly agree with all of them. AND YET, I have tried variations of the methods from JM & similar and had very…
>“I read a comment here that comes to mind, but unfortunately, I don’t remember who wrote it: Those who do not believe in the law are the living proof that it works—exactly according to their own assu…
This is a circular argument. Even if it is factually true, it is daft to use it in a debate about whether the LOB exists - because it cannot be separated from its 'circularity'.
>She’s the one that started it. What are you, 2 years old ? You don't put forth circular arguments in proper debates about anything, ever. That is corrupt and basically lazy. > >As of 2025, there …
I’m going tomorrow, seems like your picking thing I wrote ,and letting me know they are not the total truth! ?im no expert,I’d like to be able to vent and share. Thanks for your input. How you doing?i…
My husband cheated, multiple times. I love and care for him, and do believe he loves me (in what way is up for debate). Some of his actions are related to insecure attachments and childhood sexual tra…
I think this is an interesting question that I have often thought of. I didn't read the study, but in general I don't think anyone should think of "attachment style" as an immutable characteristic - …
Well, 1) I find it unusual that on an attachment theory sub we are discussing stuff that seems like it’s more appropriate for an an-cap vs an-com debate (anarchocapitalist, anarchocommunist). 2) any…
He was amazing, thoughtful, and genuine… until he vanished (I think?). Help me stay zen while I wait. --- So… I (35F) matched with this guy (43M) mid-July, and honestly, he’s been kind of wonderful.…
You should check out the book Nonviolent Communication!! There are free PDFs online if you want to try before you buy. I'm moving from AA -> Secure and it has been super helpful. The basic idea is: …
I (25F) and a guy I met on CMB (27M) just met a week ago and I got super infatuated with him the first few days. We share a lot in common and I wanted to rush into things despite my plans beforehand b…
I’m sorry but I really think you’re misunderstanding the situation and I can tell we’re on very different wavelengths. Rather than start a large debate I’d sooner leave it here. Nonetheless, thank you…
How long did the intense grief + obsessive thinking last? The grief stopped when I allowed myself to understand what exactly I was grieving for. Was it that version of me, was it the safety, was it …
I'm going to take a stab in the dark and guess that perhaps the reason you feel he isn't "fun" is because he doesn't really try to make things fun *for you*. I'm making some assumptions about the two …
There’s a big difference between debating irl with someone you know—that way you can see facial expressions and tone of voice to know if you’re crossing boundaries. Also, most people don’t want to d…
It's not that there *isn't* talk about interdependence or co-regulation. I agree that more conversations about community and the importance of social bonds are taking place now. How we metabolize cult…
Hmmm... I don't know. Here are some thoughts. There should be no debate about the fact that he's been chasing you, I don't know how else you can interpret his actions after you stopped responding. Y…
I think that anxiety is perfectly normal. I have this debate often (currently 35F and very very single). I think it’s one many of us internally struggle with. My parents are in their 70s and I feel aw…
Yeah, I debated telling OP to pick one and gift it. My Ex gave me one, but I am also a fan of buying what I want. Marvelous idea OP! The crib has mine from growing up and gifts for my baby!!!!
Beauty being objective or subjective is an awesome debate. I personally believe it is more objective, but I also agree with you that anyone can like ANYTHING. I have actually found women's understandi…
both, but for different functions. the scrolling, reading, commenting, short-form exchange of ideas -- that's 3rd house. Mercury territory: quick information processing, debate, daily mental stimulati…
I don’t think this is necessarily a slight to you or something your boyfriend can control. Plus ones are a huge debate right now and I have several friends that have stated unless the couple is marrie…
The spirit of it all is good. Choosing the highest vibration to me sounds like pseudoscience. I'm not saying the idea is bad, but the language is making me cringe. Overall the idea of a cheat code i…
There are several reasons: 1. The original sources are extremely incomplete. We have *none* of the major foundational works in full, and instead rely entirely on second hand (often highly abbreviated…
I relate to all of this so much. I’m in my fifties, and happily married with kids. I’ve never had truly close friends. I only realized my childhood was traumatic just a few years ago, but now I know I…
Just to add to some of the excellent tips here: don't be in a hurry. I've meditated irregularly for decades. Part of the process for me, especially for the first few years, is/was experimentation. T…
Stoicism consists of altruistic principles, but not entirely. Pure altruism is to sacrifice yourself completely, and act ONLY for others' benefit. Altruism is a part of Justice, one of the four core v…
Indeed, true healing requires more than simply cessation of certain behaviors. and I can see how there is risk of bypassing the root issue if someone believes that negative feelings come from an exter…
I would think about what I want. Do I want to save this marriage or not? You need to make a decision one way or the other and sitting passively waiting for her to decide shouldn’t be an option. You…
What is it you debate about? That sounds tiresome.
For me it comes in waves. I am 50/50 intro/extrovert. I’ll have a wave of doing all the things and a quiet wave where I need less people time. And they alternate. The next few weeks are slammed. The…
If you watch any of the mayoral debates, you will know they don't give a f about Asian. Not a single one of them even mentioned "Asian Americans issues" and they were Democrats.
the debate will continue year, because of people just refuse to see other’s perspectives
Hey, your way sounded fine. You want to celebrate yout son and be with people you love. You could literally do that with a bag of cheetos, some soda, dip and a Walmart cake and 95% of humans are not…
Women can be scary... It's better to catch the warning signs of a psycho early and bail... If they start accusing you of shit you haven't done... Just cut and run. If they devolve to screaming ins…
So far, sure. I honestly can’t think of something that would blow my mind. And I’m not saying that it’s not ever inconvenient. I’m saying that any inconvenience is worth it to me. (I don’t really kno…
*My* profile all of a sudden said that because bumble replaced “fun, casual, dates” with that. I get it, though. Both options paired with “long term partner” can be a little confusing and I’ve been …
I know this is hard when you're stuck in the abuse like this but as others have said, there's sometimes you need to use passive aggression to beat the bullies here. #1 is to not show them its botherin…
My narc can only talk about reels she watched Otherwise it is optional muons and debates about feminism / tradition gender roles and she will flip flip which side is the absolute worst and which side…
I am not reading all of that as I am not here to debate anyone’s politics… just answering OP.
Most of the time, yes. But my mother did used to read it because her parents are deeply Christian, and my dad still reads it. So she's not exactly ignorant of a lot of what the bible says. But she id …
This is one of my favorite rabbit holes in lucid dreaming. That recursive moment where you realize the DC's reaction to your insight is ALSO you... it's like holding two mirrors facing each other. I …
Your mercury is fine. Mars-Mercury is “lawyer mouth”. Can argue with logic and passion. With mars-rahu-mercury nobody can defeat you in debates. With 5 of the 9 main planets in 6H you probably see mos…
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Food is one of those things that is soo hard to prove its origin unless you have a clear evidence. It is shared across cultures, modified, changed, to the point it can become characteristically differ…
Hey OP, was this guy proposing coming by your place to pick you up for a date? Or was he planning to come by and "chill"? If it's Option A, you can just tell him you prefer to meet at the date spot.…