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Non-generic tips for someone struggling with lifelong depression?

I'm sorry you are facing such a hard time with depression. Chronic depression is a bitch. I had depression for almost 2 decades, so more than half of my life, but now I feel I'm not depressed anymore…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/5/2026
How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2

How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2 — We stand with the disabled users of reddit and in our community. Starting July 1, Reddit's API policy blind/visually impaired communities will be more dependent on sighted people for moderation. When …

r/DevOpspost6/30/2023
START HERE !!!

START HERE !!! — # Step-by step short guide r/Sbreggo So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the…

r/gatewaytapespost1/19/2024
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …

r/relationship_advicepost6/10/2024
Donald Trump & the LOB

Donald Trump & the LOB — JM sub, It has been talked about Trump and the LOB a few times on this sub, and I wanted to remind you about how Donald Trump has used, and still uses the LOB in his favor. Recently, I've seen an in…

r/JosephMurphypost9/21/2024
Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible?

Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible? — Hi everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community because I’m diving deep into the Law of Belief and want to explore how powerful it can truly be.🙏❤️ I keep wondering—can this law actually he…

r/JosephMurphypost10/27/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM — In the book Power of the Subconscious Mind the Doctor says that the subconscious mind does not understand/register negative statements. However later in the book he mentions examples of negative auto …

r/JosephMurphypost10/31/2024
Multiple dreams/goal at the time

Multiple dreams/goal at the time — Hi everyone, im new here. I work the book Psycho-cybernetics for almost 2 years and last week i bought POSM and i LOVE it, i almost finished it and will start re-reading it. My question is, since i h…

r/JosephMurphypost11/1/2024
Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting

Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…

r/ecommercepost3/4/2025
A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit.

A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit. — Hey everyone on r/NarcissisticAbuse.  We get it, we really do– the U.S. political situation right now is a bloody mess with further escalation, rather than some kind of stability, on the horizon.  W…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/10/2025
FAQs about r/AnxietyHelp

FAQs about r/AnxietyHelp — Hi guys, One of the mods here suggested creating a FAQ page for our subreddit to help eliminate confusion. **Why was my post removed automatically?** It wasn't! It has been sent to our mod queue fo…

r/Anxietyhelppost3/25/2025
The "and" theory...

The "and" theory... — I saw this a few days ago and started to implement it, I can't tell you how much it has allowed me to have more compassion for myself, create a clearer head and process my emotions. The and theory is…

r/attachment_theorypost4/4/2025
Confused about affirmations

Confused about affirmations — Hey guys i am confused about self concept and beliefs. Like i am currently unemployed and want a remote job i have few beliefs like i dont have the right network connections I need to get skilled a lo…

r/JosephMurphypost4/5/2025
I've been out of the coding loop for awhile. What is the best static website framework / scaffolding / generator that works with VSCode? I don't need react or any other bells and whistles. I'm just testing out creating various HTML/CSS styled elements.

I've been out of the coding loop for awhile. What is the best static website framework / scaffolding / generator that works with VSCode? I don't need react or any other bells and whistles. I'm just testing out creating various HTML/CSS styled elements. — I am really just trying to play around with HTML/CSS to create various client-side styled elements. For example, one project is just to create a more enticing email signature. Another project I am cre…

r/web_designpost4/14/2025
I just proved that a crappy industry is literally pissing away money

I just proved that a crappy industry is literally pissing away money — I constantly preach about template fraud and those "pretty but useless" websites that don't deliver actual business results. This week, I decided to prove my point. I spotted a security product in th…

r/web_designpost4/16/2025
Sick of Spam? Use the Report Button!

Sick of Spam? Use the Report Button! — Annoyed by AI-written posts full of stealth promotion? We are, too. Whenever you see it, hit that report button! The majority of spam that makes it through our ever-evolving filters is never reported …

r/Entrepreneurpost4/18/2025
Webflow or Framer?

Webflow or Framer? — Which one do you personally prefer? And which one objectively has more potential in the long run/in which one can you do more than in the other right now? And how much steeper is the learning curve fo…

r/web_designpost4/18/2025
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure?

Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
Is the flip clock animation is good ? Should I include any slower effect ?

Is the flip clock animation is good ? Should I include any slower effect ?

r/web_designpost4/20/2025
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…

r/attachment_theorypost4/20/2025
Backend skills for a hobbyist?

Backend skills for a hobbyist? — Hi, I'm wondering if y'all have recommendations for backend skills that a lone hobbyist should learn? Right now I don't know everything I want to do with web design, but I know I'd like to create art…

r/web_designpost4/20/2025
Bundle pricing and host suggestions

Bundle pricing and host suggestions — Sup y'all, I'll start by mentioning that I did read through the FAQs regarding pricing as a web developer. This post is regarding bundling and host selection. I recently worked with my brothe…

r/web_designpost4/21/2025
Web developer here, what should i learn besides UI/UX to create my own layouts for my websites?

Web developer here, what should i learn besides UI/UX to create my own layouts for my websites? — Being more of a back-end focused developer, i struggle to create layouts of my own. Now, i know how CSS works, if you give me a layout to implement i can most likely do that, given the right amount o…

r/web_designpost4/21/2025
Am I crazy? Growing from a single freelancer to an agency with a team

Am I crazy? Growing from a single freelancer to an agency with a team — Hi everyone - quick background: I'm a freelance web designer/developer who's been doing this thing now for almost 15 years. I've done it under a studio name, but it's always just been me, with some oc…

r/web_designpost4/23/2025
Pixel vs % for line-height in a design system?

Pixel vs % for line-height in a design system? — I'm preparing a design system and naturally gave a different line-height to each font size in the typopgraphy. (For example, 24px line-height for 16px text.) In my design system, should I set line-he…

r/web_designpost4/26/2025
Awwwards Academy Review

Awwwards Academy Review — More of a PSA, but the Awwwards Academy subscription should be avoided at all costs. This site has horrible customer service (no replies), terrible website loading times, glitches out and is wildly ov…

r/web_designpost4/27/2025
Can the mods do something about the constant astroturfing by rocketdevs?

Can the mods do something about the constant astroturfing by rocketdevs? — They constantly astroturf this sub and have done so for a while. Rocket Dev Rocket Devs RocketDev RocketDevs Should all be banned from this sub Thank you for coming to my ted talk

r/web_designpost4/29/2025
Is it worth it as a new Laravel coder to buy PhpStorm?

Is it worth it as a new Laravel coder to buy PhpStorm? — I've been developing Wordpress sites and started branching off into Laravel. Having a great time but a friend said I should ditch VS Code and move to PhpStorm. I'm curious what your opinions are. At $…

r/web_designpost4/29/2025
What parts of digital marketing are most valuable to learn in 2025?

What parts of digital marketing are most valuable to learn in 2025? — I'm gonna begin learning digital marketing (as I'm already doing non-digital marketing) but I don't feel like (and don't have enough time & energy to) learning all kinds of it, I mean for instance SEO…

r/digital_marketingpost4/29/2025
Why you should always schedule your job interviews in the early morning.

Why you should always schedule your job interviews in the early morning. — I got reminded today of a very important tip when you're setting up interviews. \>> Do not set up job interviews at the end of the work day. In short, there have been studies done on judges that sho…

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
The market is bad but employers really shouldn't do this

The market is bad but employers really shouldn't do this — Within 6 months of time frame I've experienced: - An employer who preferred to go for an offshore option for cheaper salary after showering me with compliments. - An employer that had 6 stage interv…

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
How are unemployed designers managing financially right now?

How are unemployed designers managing financially right now? — I was laid off two months ago and have been in the job search grind since - applying, interviewing, and trying to stay hopeful. But I’ve also been feeling pretty stressed and anxious, especially as ti…

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
Why are WhatsApp IOS app icons so inconsistent?

Why are WhatsApp IOS app icons so inconsistent? — I was trying to change my profile picture on WhatsApp when I noticed the icons were inconsistent. 1. The avatar icon looks smaller than others. 2. Camera icon has thin stroke. 3. Choose Photo icon …

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
SEO Results in 2-3 Months

SEO Results in 2-3 Months — I run a small business and am looking for someone to help transform my website through SEO, which up until now has had very little traffic. In the past I have mostly relied on word of mouth and target…

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
Best SEO Practices for writing blogs

Best SEO Practices for writing blogs — Hello, I'm a copywriter, and I want to share some "best SEO practices to keep in mind when writing blogs" with the younger copywriters. Some I'm thinking about are: * Using the keyword in the header…

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites

Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites — I own a medium-sized e-commerce website, and we’ve never really focused on SEO. Yep, we've mainly relied on paid ads, but traffic is getting more expensive, so we’re ready to take SEO seriously now. I…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Total Newb: Backlinks & keyword research

Total Newb: Backlinks & keyword research — I’m trying to launch my new company website and really don’t have the budget to pay someone to do socials and the website. Been building it out myself on Wordpress with the help of AIOSEO plugins. …

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Interviewing for a UX job when you have a UX job is annoying

Interviewing for a UX job when you have a UX job is annoying — I know, I know. I should be grateful to have a job, I should be grateful to land interviews. But the amount they're asking is insane. I'm sorry, I cannot dedicate my time to a 50 sometimes 60 hours w…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
SEO for Online Store on Subdomain

SEO for Online Store on Subdomain — Hi all, I am looking for some advice as I don't have a lot of experience with SEO for online stores. Here's the situation: Just started at a business that has a main site with product landing pages…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Am I Overcomplicating This Workshop? (Personas or Empathy first?

Am I Overcomplicating This Workshop? (Personas or Empathy first? — Hey everyone! I need some advice on structuring a workshop for a client’s new product. They’re unclear on the direction (app/web/game?), target audience, or features, so I suggested a workshop to alig…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!)

Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Should I try to learn SEO or just hire someone?

Should I try to learn SEO or just hire someone? — My family just opened a small pet supplies business. I used to be into web design and tech stuff years ago so I was able to throw together a simple website. The thing is, I have no clue about SEO. I …

r/SEOpost5/2/2025
How to handle versioning in Figma?

How to handle versioning in Figma? — I joined a project where the figma doesn’t match what is in the field for a mobile application. The project wants to re-baseline the app to what is in the field and keep up to date in the future. F…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Should I accept this offer from Microsoft???

Should I accept this offer from Microsoft??? — Received an offer from Microsoft India, L63, 9 YOE, Remote role : Role : Senior Product Designer Base : ₹52 lacs RSUs : $180k, over 4 years Performance Bonus : 0-30% of the base Joining Bonus :…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use?

Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use? — Our business is scaling rapidly — we’re currently handling millions of unique requests per week, and this number continues to grow. At the moment, we’re hosted on DigitalOcean, paying approximately €4…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company

Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company — I work at a medium-sized company using New Relic for observability. We ingest over 4TB of data monthly, run 20+ services across production and staging, and use MongoDB. While New Relic covers logs, me…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
how much coding should i learn

how much coding should i learn — hi im an aspiring ui ux designer and i saw that a lot of employers look for designer who has background or basic knowledge of html, css, js. but im not in IT/CS. i dont know about coding, sooo if i wo…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying?

Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying?

Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…

r/SEOpost5/2/2025
Pricing Doubt

Pricing Doubt — I am a web developer who has just ventured into freelancing. A client wants me to create an eLearning website with LMS, booking system integrated. Basically a dynamic website. I'm confused as to how…

r/web_designpost5/2/2025
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

My big problem with WILD 1- i do WBTB 2-i stay up for 30 minuites 3-i lay on my side and relax saying my head "i am lucid dreaming " 4-i get the visuals , soon they evolve into visual , tactile and a…

r/LucidDreamingcomment1/21/2018
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Go to a subreddit page. There should be a … at the topright. Go to it and then hit Community info at the bottom of the screen

r/LucidDreamingcomment2/5/2018
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

How do you spot for things to look for when writing a dreamjournal? What kinds of similarities between dreams should I keep an eye out for? Every one of my dreams seems so different.

r/LucidDreamingcomment2/24/2018
If you are new here..

Just a few questions Mr Moonbeam. If you are so against the “act/live as if” what do you have to say about Dr. Joe Dispenza, Gregg Braden and Dr. Bruce Liptons, Napoleon Hill, Jim Rohn, Eckhart Toll…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/18/2020
If you are new here..

Unbelievable that you are tryin to diss neville, i never thought i would see haters towards him, while he was tryin to help people than you got idiots like moonlightconcerto , maybe you should wake up…

r/JosephMurphycomment8/13/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

I’ve read all Nevilles books several times over, but I’ll check out the lecture you’re referring to. About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

“A good start”, LOL. I’m not reading POSM anytime soon. I already have a formula that works like a charm for me, so when I do read it, it’ll be because I feel like it. Thanks moonbeam. I hope one da…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>“A good start”, LOL. ​ Ah. A chortle. Clearly, not much money in your bank. Must be because you know the law. lol ​ >I’m not reading POSM anytime soon. I already have a formula that…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

If you're already fast asleep, then you *should* be able to exit. Usually there's not that much of a special trick to exiting the body, simply just 'get up'. However if you might be well adjusted to a…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/2/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

So, if I'm asleep... I should just wake up like I usually do? But I don't know when is the right time. 😬 Cause I'm basically hearing myself snore. I don't hear sounds or anything flashing or vibratio…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/2/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

You *can* feel them, but you don't have to at all. Also, straining is not the way, prioritise relaxation. Deep relaxation. Relax your eyes and whole head, nothing should be strained 🙂

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/3/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Awesome thanks, I looked at the image too and it seems to make sense. At that point in time is that when I should try the visualization of exiting such as a rope or rolling out of bed?

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/6/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Yes, usually, but it is also effective without visualisation. If you can feel vibrations at that point, you should be able to simply 'get up' out of body, roll out, or use a 'rope', doesn't matter, an…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/6/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Should I just stick to the Robert Bruce mastering astral projection book? That's what I'm doing now.

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/10/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I've never attempted astral projection while awake, usually I do it by accident when I'm sleeping and I always run into these human -shaped white light creatures (I don't know how else to describe the…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/23/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

What were you doing specifically, were you "trying very hard"? What did the pain feel like? Perhaps since you're new you were subconsciously processing some emotions deep-rooted in the body. My best a…

r/AstralProjectioncomment6/24/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I had an incredibly successful obe two weeks into doing astral work! I.e meditation, mantras, and energy work. I felt as if i where floating towards the ceiling above my bed. Simultaneously I watched…

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/20/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Either way, just don't think about it too much. Simply get up as you usually would. Your physical body should be sleepy enough to not get up. Be detached from your physical body~

r/AstralProjectioncomment8/2/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Hey try to imagine your body going down and down every time your breath out that should help you get into a trance state. Like feel you body moving thru your bed and down and down

r/AstralProjectioncomment9/1/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Hi Gene, the last two nights I've felt like I'm vibrating but then I notice my heart beating faster as well, so I can't tell if I'm scared and my heart is beating faster or if it's all related. It's l…

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/3/2021
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Just a few questions here - I'm new to lucid dreaming. I garden quite a bit, so I can grow Artemisia douglasiana and a few other helpful herbs and make a poultice or something. I usually don't rem…

r/LucidDreamingcomment11/4/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Most likely something subconscious Try affirming to yourself every night when you go to bed preferably when your tired since your conscious mind is more closer to your subconscious when tired Affir…

r/AstralProjectioncomment1/19/2022
If you are new here..

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/18/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

You should make this into a post instead of a comment on this post.

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/5/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Yeah, this is not true and not really good advice. In fact, it’s mental bullshit that feeds the ego of a person. People are bitter and want their ex to feel bad and regretful because it makes them fee…

r/ExNoContactcomment5/14/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

No contact feels good when you remind yourself that you're empowering yourself. No one should dictate your self value, especially an ex.

r/ExNoContactcomment5/20/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Stop stalking their socials too. Mute on instagram. It pushes their stories and their posts to the end of your feed so unless you’re following 2 people, you should never see anything from them. Muting…

r/ExNoContactcomment5/31/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

I think I should screenshot this as my background.

r/ExNoContactcomment6/3/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

I don't feel this at all. I question the fuck out of it. I been broken from my ex for 2 months, it's so up and down. Cold as hell then will go out to eat with me. Then ignore my messages then I'll be …

r/ExNoContactcomment7/3/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Fuck her, she can't even take care of her cats as deaths are an occurrence at her place. I should have followed the red flags like she never even once cared about my fears and I BELIEVED LIKE hello sh…

r/ExNoContactcomment8/11/2022
Analyzing Astrology (Natal) Charts

https://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?showgif&lang=e&gif=astro_2gw_jared_mcknight.75112.31364.png&res=100 This is the best I can do. As you can tell I’m not very good at this. Would you mind looking at…

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment8/17/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

What if I ruined the chance of possibly not getting back together due to me being an emotional abuser??For example, she broke up with me because of unhappiness, goal of finishing her college degree, a…

r/ExNoContactcomment8/20/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I've asked two different entities, and they gave me partly conflicting answers. The self-proclaimed deity said most humans and all animals go to an enormous astral...warehouse waiting room thingy. Th…

r/AstralProjectioncomment8/24/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

I did not contact for 2 years after 15 years together I battled with it the last year was killing me to keep NC , now I wish I would have , I did see him recently he said he waited on me , missed me …

r/ExNoContactcomment9/27/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Let the silence eat those parts of you that made you stay there. Be angry, be ashamed, and grieve. Question all those nasty feelings and learn what they try to tell you. They usually are out to have t…

r/ExNoContactcomment9/28/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Me and my ex was together 2 years, really amazing time but she changed My ex left me for someone else and moved 3000 miles to be with him. She said to her friends she’s so lonely because he’s at work…

r/ExNoContactcomment10/1/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Should i be vibrating at a higher frequency before i start AP? Or is it not necessary

r/AstralProjectioncomment11/21/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

I’m in that situation now. When asked if he wanted to continue seeing me, he said he wasn’t sure of me and he didn’t like feeling it this way and that we should probably stop seeing each other for now…

r/ExNoContactcomment1/8/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

no, you are missing the HUGE part of what I said "and not do any of those things enough to want to get back together". It is almost UNIVERSAL unless you did truly heinous shit like rape / abuse, etc. …

r/ExNoContactcomment3/17/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Anyone still posting on here? I drove my ex away with my insecure attachment style, looking back he kept putting in little effort and I felt as though I was trying very hard to change. I’m sure he wa…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/28/2023
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

I know this post is 6 months old, but I still want to say this. I truly feel that Robert Bruce's book, called "Energy Work", (funny how the title is the name of this sub?) should be required reading f…

r/energy_workcomment4/25/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Yeah I'm just trying to sound smart. You're right though. I look at this as I should stop waiting for my ex sigh...

r/ExNoContactcomment5/6/2023
'Getting into DevOps'

The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…

r/DevOpscomment6/6/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Mentally checked out of this “relationship” after he came back crying to me about how we should do therapy and “realized” he is also in the wrong

r/ExNoContactcomment6/19/2023
r/Divorcecomment6/20/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I'm so sorry. I'm in the same situation but with genders reversed. I understand how small and inadequate it makes you feel. Rationally I know this shouldn't make you or me feel that way. But it does.…

r/Divorcecomment6/20/2023
How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2

As DevOps engineers we should have the API-first mentality. By basically ruining the API, there should at least be some kind of signal.

r/DevOpscomment7/1/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I understand. Just a week before my wife left me she said “I’m so glad we are such a strong couple that if we needed counseling we would go to couples therapy” however what she really meant was “ plea…

r/Divorcecomment7/18/2023