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My ex boyfriend become Femboy — TL;DR;r/breakups My ex boyfriend of 2 years who comments on other girls photo while be with me become Femboy after breakup. I found out about this week ago my best friend saw his account and go che…
Tips for attracting left-leaning men? — The men who engage with me online the most and who don’t ghost and aren’t flaky end up revealing themselves as conservative eventually. I am ok with someone who’s middle of the road maybe but I’ve com…
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules — I consider myself a feminist, and I have followed the burned haystack method with great interest. I have been dating for about three years, and I have been aware of this method for at least the past y…
The western treatment of Korea's feminism in hindsight. — A Korean feminist's post that I encountered on twitter made a good analogy. If a group labels itself a disability rights or working class organization, it doesn't tell you about their full political l…
Don't know where to go from this, is my marriage dead? 38F and 38M, 15y relationship — Hello. Context: Im 38F in a couple with 38M since 2011. We have 2 kids (8yo and 6yo). Our relationship has never been very smooth, we both have huge characters, fights can be very heated (but without…
POC solidarity as an Asian — Firstly I would not like for this post to derail into other non-Asian POC hate, and I know this is not ALL non-Asian POCs being this way. I know this bc my own non-Asian POC (Black, Indigenous Blak, P…
I’m (37f) 25w pregnant with our second kid but can’t shake the feeling that my partner (39m) of 7 years is not what I need — TL;DR: I (37f) am 27w pregnant with my partner’s (39m) second child. Wondering if the relationship is right after feeling strong feelings that I need a more “masculine” and sexually driven partner, or…
my mom is a decently popular women's rights advocate, yet still a massive piece of shit monster, and a massive misogynist — I am not going to say her name, or anything identifying so dont bother to ask, if you do not believe me and think I am making this up go ahead i cant stop you, but i am not going to risk my safety so …
How do i navigate through a toxic grandmother in law? — Long story short - met my wife a couple years ago as friends. I worked in the same city as her temporarily because we were opening a new office. She was taken, so was I. Fast forward - both of us e…
The mom who won't allow me to stand up for myself then watch me get victimized. — All throughout childhood, it's their way or the high way. You're never allowed to talk in edgewise or else it's "talking back". You're also only allowed to listen and obey. You can never do anything c…
Restore My Hope in Men Pleaseee — I want to find a romantic life partner and want to have kids but my dating experiences have made me lose hope in men. Where are the 30+ men who speak out or act against patriarchy, aren’t threatened/e…
N Dad wants to divorce my mom after 30+ years because she hasn’t slept with him the week after her mom died — Marked NSFW just to be safe. TW for rape, physical abuse, verbal abuse, even if I don’t go into much detail. Let me know if I marked or did anything wrong! I don’t usually use Reddit. I’m (31F) unfor…
Do i have the right to hate my mom? — After so many people tell you otherwise instead of supporting you, you start to question it yourself. Im m19. This is how it went with my mom my whole life: When i was born, my mom was still work…
Would be interesting to know how common avoidant attachment is among lesbians. I knew a lesbian who was extremely avoidant after escaping a physically and mentally abusive relationship (with a man) wh…
Perhaps it's disingenuous to pretend to like feminist literature to score a date, but that seems a bit silly to apply to dancing. You never know if you might genuinely like it! And even if you don't, …
Was on a date and the topic of what kind of partners we're looking for came up.... I shared my take (modern/feminist, equal initiation of dates, mutual pursuit of each other) and they were basically l…
I'm a card carrying hard ass feminist. I really REALLY (I mean really) want to believe that it doesn't matter who asks who out. I've had such horrible experiences asking men out though. They've always…
I totally understand stinginess being a turnoff, and I don't consider being that (I gladly pay when with friends, family, and with my girlfriend we usually took turns), but with someone I don't know t…
Self proclaimed progressive women aren’t actually necessarily progressive women, fwiw. They tend to be Taylor Swift-esque women who try to virtue signal and get “points” for being feminist but not *to…
This is kind of what I struggled with when I was dating. I wanted SO BAD to be an equal rights feminist and believed that if I'm after a partnership of equals, then our effort in dating should be equa…
- Jamal Burkmar (general creator) - on various short & long form platforms - Therese Lee (youtuber) @theresehlee - Abigail Thorne (youtuber) @PhilosophyTube - Kat Blaque (youtuber) @KatBlaque - @za…
Jameela Jamil has been posting stuff on her instagram about healthy masculinity. I also HIGHLY recommend reading "The Will to Change" by Bell Hooks. As men, we can really learn a lot from the feminist…
Original copy of post by u/Frequently_Abroad_00: The men who engage with me online the most and who don’t ghost and aren’t flaky end up revealing themselves as conservative eventually. I am ok with s…
I’ve never had to ask about a man’s political affiliation. It kinda blows my mind that other people can’t just tell. You don’t need to say no MAGA, you don’t need to say you are a feminist. My sugg…
Ive found that putting "feminist" tends to attract hobosexuals and stingy men.
Saying you're a feminist can be a major repellent even for left leaning men. Feminism is often associated with getting revenge over men, minimizing men's issues, and an overall victim mentality. Most …
They all want liberal women. They think it doesn’t actually matter where women stand politically because they don’t have the same level of respect for women’s opinions as they do men’s. To them women …
Brutal answer no woman wants to hear. A large population of men will lie about their political views in order to have sex. So without a lie detector or looking up their party affiliation online, it …
Only men that haven't bothered to actually understand what feminism is. In which case you probably aren't compatible with a woman that identifies as feminist anyway.
There’s different kinds of feminists and different levels. If someone has an issue with the word then they are probably bitter and angry with unhealed issues. Men and women should be feminists. Women…
Focus on values. What things matter to you? What things are important to you personally? Do you have any dealbreakers? Someone might have voted for Trump out of ignorance ("I always vote red"), or be…
Honestly I think it could be both, and we need to leave room for different experiences. I am a hardcore feminist but I also don't have spontaneous desire. That's not because I'm tethered by the chains…
As an Asian male, I can explain. Where I live/lived in America, people can be comfortable talking about us and speak their mind freely. I've had random convos with non-Asian men and they ask me what…
People are gross. And I don't know a single Asian woman who fits the gross submissive stereotypes that so many American men believe. Two of my dearest friends are from Taiwan and the Philippines, and …
One of my closest friends is a lovely feminist lady from China. Yeah...she would destroy someone who made such an assumption about her.
1. Being a feminist - you can attract a weak left leaning man. Most guys even left leaning (that I know of) now are detesting that because they never thought female or male is better. You'll likely fi…
I can't help you figure out where to find leftist males but I can tell you this... As a Straight Conservative Male, any "conservative man" who replies to an OLD profile of a female who lists HER "p…
This has been a big frustration of (especially young) men for a long time - the US government has been working for exactly this result as hard as it can for at least 50 years. This is what feminists …
Shh don't try to use logic with her, they're used to be being coddled and fighting for "equality" (only when its convenient for them)....the moment things really start getting equal (in a different wa…
There are lots of woke Asian-American/Canadian leftist feminist male influencers on IG too. Some of them are single aspiring models/artists who also cook, some are even doctors who are pro 🍉, and som…
Oh myyyy… these stories always make me mad. Parent kicks you out for no valid reason (your case: your sexual oriantion) and then they're surprised you don't want to reconnect. It's like they can't dec…
As a woman and a mother and wife I have to say this show but also the general shit happening in the world does make me feel pretty bad for men and worried for them. Women yeah we have a lot to worry a…
I agree that men have been emasculated. But I look at these men. like medieval thinking. I do believe that society has deliberately emasculated our men. I do believe in two genders. So this is the pen…
i dont disagree but i think that we need an agnostic system. we cant correct course and then continue "correcting" and be mad that we're now discussing whether we have overcorrected. not saying you ar…
you're more than welcome to restart the entire conversation from here if you can actually engage with what i said instead of Darvo'ing the conversation while accusing me of being biased and misogynist…
I didn’t call you a misogynist, I said your talking points were because they are. and you can keep repeating DARVO all you want, the goalpost won’t be moved. back to the point—calling a few feminist…
dismissal is the dangerous part. the stats can be true on both sides but when one feeds the other and no one see's eye to eye on how to approach even the topic nothing ever gets solved. As an example…
I have a friend in exactly the same situation. Exactly the same. And his wife uses the same arguments, too. All I can say is that I just love modern (pseudo)feminist order of things. Full on, trendy…
i think to some degree you have to admit the feminist crowd are partially right just as much as the manosphere side is. Men create problem for women and women for men. Neither side wants to give grace…
As a feminist I totally understand what you are saying, but as someone with AuDHD I can understand how he is communicating his wife's qualities. She is patient, generous, thoughtful and loving. She i…
For sure! There’s a line that many people, even non-leftists, know from Marx: “from each according to their ability, to each according to their need” Stuff like this mostly means that there isn’t one…
My family was heavily impacted by both generational trauma and our various marginalized identities, but to me, this post is truly not it. I’m not comfortable with any argument that essentially softens…
The ones on the "left" tend to hate white men and sex positive feminists "ruining" Asian women into being sex workers who embrace kink for the same reason far rightists hate Black, Muslim or homeless …
As a woman I kind of get where he’s coming from. I always find it shocking how different men are when they are together with no women in the room. I work with some men that are total jerks but when …
Clearly he is right because if you were a logical man, you'd never stay with someone so blatantly disrespectful. You're proving him right by sticking around to try and prove him wrong. Guys like him…
It can be sneaky op. And it doesn’t necessarily not happen when they’re raised right. Ops bf may have been raised by a progressive feminist, yet he could have still managed to make his way to this dr…
True one bad apple can spoil the bunch but I dont raise them as in a feminist way but as a all people are different and deserve respect until they do something that cause you to lose respect for them.…
I’m not sure how you think that’s different from a feminist way. Like feminism teaches people women are superior?
It’s not that. Op seemed to want to not associate her parenting as feminist and I was asking her if that was why
Here are some feminist channels to explore: https://youtube.com/@burbnbougie https://youtube.com/@yv_edit https://youtube.com/@melaniehamlett https://youtube.com/@sovereignbeingg https://yout…
Yes totally agree. I’m a 39 year old woman, feminist, and just want to say, you and your experience are so important to me. I think about women like you frequently. Your voice is incredibly valuable. …
That’s the literal academic definition of feminism, that’s why I used that specific wording. In fact, that exact wording was famously used by Emma Watson in a speech on feminism at the UN Women Headqu…
Okay the boys will be boys thing has always been a cop out ive never heard this used on anyone above the age of like 8 and its usually in terms of playing in dirt and etc...like it feels intentional d…