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I 22F WANT TO CALL HIM 70M DAD, BUT HOW? — I want to call him dad. This one's pretty wholesome guys. Just looking for advice om how to broach this subject. I 22F lost my dad 6 years ago. My mom has never dated anyone else. not that my sibli…

How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2 — We stand with the disabled users of reddit and in our community. Starting July 1, Reddit's API policy blind/visually impaired communities will be more dependent on sighted people for moderation. When …

Official r/realityshifting Discord — ## Welcome to Shifting Help! ### The official r/realityshifting subreddit's server! I made this server a while ago to serve the purpose to give the right information to shifters across the world !…

Confused about affirmations — Hey guys i am confused about self concept and beliefs. Like i am currently unemployed and want a remote job i have few beliefs like i dont have the right network connections I need to get skilled a lo…

Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is? — How has this continued to be a thing, and how did this get approved internally? The Shopify Admin UI is a complete mess. It's genuinely hard to believe this shipped — and worse, that it's still the c…

(Desktop design) managing overall width vs images vs text container width — I am trying to figure out how to combine best practices for the following things and would love some advice on a few questions. This is for desktop devices. **What I am struggling with is:** * Ensur…

Can vague desires manifest? — So I am not happy with my current job but I am not 100% sure of the job that I would like to do. So I always affirm that I am doing a job that I love and enjoy and I am earning a mind blowing salary. …

Old vs new client website, mine got rejected — So yeah, I recently created a new website for a client but it was rejected. Not sure why, they simply said they are "working on an update". I don't consider myself an expert by any regard, but w…

Old vs new client website, mine got rejected — So yeah, I recently created a new website for a client but it was rejected. Not sure why, they simply said they are "working on an update". I don't consider myself an expert by any regard, but with t…

Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice — First Let me say: I have absolutely no eye for design. If it is more complex than a stick figure, I cant imagine it in my mind. However, I do know of already existing designs that I love and want to r…

How is the job market right now for jobs in web/product design, ui ux, front end development, etc? — Hi all, I work in digital marketing, but am getting burnt out and am trying to learn web design and build a portfolio. Long story short, what I enjoy most about my current job in digital marketing has…

How much web design experience did you have when landing your first job? — Just curious, when y'all landed your first web design job did you feel like you had the right experience already? Currently searching for my first full-time web design job. I graduated with an Associa…

Looking for marketing internship — Hi everyone! I’m currently exploring remote marketing opportunities and would truly appreciate any leads or referrals. If you know of any openings or teams hiring, please feel free to reach out or tag…

The soul-crushing reason I may leave UX — You'd think I'd say because I'm over 40, because I'm exhausted by this long unemployment, that I see the the current market and impact of AI clear-eyed, yada yada yada. It's none of those fill-in-the…

How do I put together a multi-product design system as a sole designer? — Hi all, my UX design journey has been chaotic but I suspect that’s normal. I was in visual/web design for about 8 years then 2 years ago I got my first UX role (after trying to pursue and study UX f…

How do I hire someone to work the SEO part of launching my site? — I'm a Realtor that knows enough PHP/Laravel/Wordpress to make a site. I know very, very little about SEO and most of what I've learned is simply thgrough Moz and that sort of thing. I really need to …

reddit seo tool for finding top-ranking posts to write better blogs based on popular keywords? — Would anyone be interested in a Reddit powered SEO tool that finds top ranking reddit posts that you can use to help you write blogs based on popular keywords? Currently working on it and seeing if t…

Am I Overcomplicating This Workshop? (Personas or Empathy first? — Hey everyone! I need some advice on structuring a workshop for a client’s new product. They’re unclear on the direction (app/web/game?), target audience, or features, so I suggested a workshop to alig…

Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice? — I'm approaching 5 years at my current company (2 years as junior, 3 as mid-level) and am submitting a promotion case for Senior. I won't hear back for a couple months - my director feels optimistic, b…

Webflow or Wordpress for SEO, local business? — Most of my competitors use WP, but I just found someone ranked 2nd with his handyman business using webflow My site currently runs in Squarespace and I am tired of the limitations. Budget is not an i…

Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication — Hi guys! I have some potential freelance business for a trade publication in the design space (architecture, interiors, landscape, urban planning topics) and I was originally trying to pitch SEO, re…

Anyone ever tried Arvow? — Was curious the SEO aspect looks interesting but my lack of trust to the current state of AI make me hesitant to invest in such a pricey tool. What’s your opinion?

Okay so marketing deadlines are just the worst right? — Okay so marketing deadlines are just the worst right? It's like you plan everything out, content calendar looking solid, then BAM design bottlenecks.  Anyone else feel like waiting on graphics is alw…

Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use? — Our business is scaling rapidly — we’re currently handling millions of unique requests per week, and this number continues to grow. At the moment, we’re hosted on DigitalOcean, paying approximately €4…

What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …

Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…

Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…

How do you guys make content/creatives for your ad campaigns? — Spending an average of $800/day on meta ads for the past couple months. What’s increasingly getting harder for us is making creatives and testing it. We don’t test a lot currently. 2-3 of our ads have…

Changing or staying? Product Designer — Hello. I’ve barely been a junior product designer for a year before I was laid off and threatened by AI. Same telltale as everyone in design/IT industries. I’ve been unemployed for 2 months now, and …

I cannot figure out why Google Search Console keeps indicating "Couldn't fetch" — I'm looking over a client's website and one of the things I found was their sitemap doesn't report being crawled since last September. I resubmitted the exact map that was crawled (happens to be plura…

My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote — Hey All, A few months ago, I shared my story here (original Reddit post in comments) about starting an IT consultancy business in the Netherlands with a friend right after graduation. At that time, w…

MacOs HomeBrew and Open Source tooling — Hey guys! Quick question for ya, I've been at a job for awhile now but we just got transitioned over to macOS. We were on windows machines before. Software was always distributed through self service…

Can someone explain to me why my competitor is ranking second on Google when the homepage is just the shop with no text and his menu has the shop and a contact us page? — I’ll DM links if that’s allowed and anyone would like to see both sites. I’m currently building out a site (it’s basically finishing just setting up payment gateways and adding product to the shop on…

What are the skills needed to manage a Shopify Plus account? — Some background: I've been a web designer/developer for 25 years. Spent 13 years as Senior Web Developer for a medium size corporation that manufactured consumer electronics, primarily working in the …

Marketer Here! Looking for E-Commerce Store Owner to Partner Up With — Hey, as the title reads, I'm a digital marketer, with experience in Meta Ads, TikTok Ads & Google Ads in lead gen + sales, over the last 5 years. I've recently left my job, and am looking for one E-C…

How much do I charge? — I’ll start by saying I’m freshly out of college (I took marketing). I know basic Seo and don’t mind learning as I go as this will be my first big project. I have an opportunity to work with a local …

Thoughts on a platform that can give AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation (i will not promote) — **AI suggestions layered on top of product documentation** Hey r/startups, I’m exploring a product idea and would love to hear your thoughts. **The problem:** Many users land in product documenta…

Need Guidance for Amazon Systems/DevOps Engineer Interview (Cloud Support Background) — Hope you're all doing well. I'm currently working as a Cloud Support Engineer and have managed to land an interview with Amazon for a Systems/DevOps Engineer role. While I’m excited, I’m also feelin…

To all e-commerce store owners: What tool do you wish existed to make managing your store easier? — Hello to all e-commerce entrepreneurs! 👋 In the fast-paced world of digital commerce, we know there are many daily challenges — whether it's managing orders, handling customers, shipping, analyti…

I designed an AI-powered path planner, but users lean toward heavy learning goals — need help rethinking the UX direction — Hi UXer! I’m a solo founder & designer, currently building a lightweight learning platform that uses AI to generate custom learning paths and micro flashcards. I designed it to support curious, self-…

Bootstrapped Turkish Food Brand Exploring Global B2B Expansion – I will not promote — Hey everyone, I help manage a family-run pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a city known for producing world-class pistachios. Since 2007, we’ve been selling a premium, all-natur…

Should I disclose that I’m working on my own startup while still searching for full-time opportunities at other companies? I will not promote — In order to sustain myself and bootstrap my startup, I’m currently looking for full time roles. I’ve been working on it for over a year, and on my resume I’ve actually put that I stopped working on my…

Breaking Into UX and Early Career Questions — 05/04/25 — Please use this thread to ask questions about breaking into the field, choosing educational programs, changing career tracks, and other entry-level topics. If you are not currently working in UX, use…

Offered Technical Cofounder Role — How Much Equity Should I Ask For? [I will not promote] — I initially joined a startup as a developer, building the product from scratch — no existing codebase, no tech team, just me & one junior developer. After a few months of work, the founder has now off…

What would you be willing to pay for at your company? — Over the years, we’ve seen several licensing dramas and ongoing debates even on this sub — the latest being Redis becoming open source again. Someone once said: “I'm fine with companies making money …

Reasonable equity for Lead Engineer or Tech Co Founder in this scenario? App is live, Large follower base on socials, Profitable after 4 weeks, 200+ paid subs - i will not promote — Have launched the first camping app in Australia with video reviews, backed by 130,000+ engaged followers across platforms, directly grown from the campground reviews. App launch is already pro…

Google Search Console issue — I’m seeing thousands of 404s, soft 404s, and 'Crawled - currently not indexed' pages in GSC. These URLs don’t exist on our site anymore — they’re from a previous owner and don’t even match our niche o…

Detailed Car Crash Simulation as a Service - I will not promote — Hello everyone! I am a mechanical engineer specializing in simulation (with a PhD in biomechanics) and I'm currently working on software that simulates car accidents in detail, also taking biomechanic…

Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote) — I am an engineering student who has a degree in Computer science and engineering (Data Science) with an honours in Quantative Finance. I have been a part of 3 startups mainly in the social and influ…

What did you pay for your Shopify store (agency/designer)? Was it worth it? — Hey everyone, I’m currently looking for an agency or designer to build my Shopify store, and the quotes I’ve received range from €5,000 to €15,000 – for what seems to be similar scopes of work. That’s…

What did you pay for your Shopify store (agency/designer)? Was it worth it? — Hey everyone, I’m currently looking for an agency or designer to build my Shopify store, and the quotes I’ve received range from €5,000 to €15,000 – for what seems to be similar scopes of work. That’s…

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Just a few questions Mr Moonbeam. If you are so against the “act/live as if” what do you have to say about Dr. Joe Dispenza, Gregg Braden and Dr. Bruce Liptons, Napoleon Hill, Jim Rohn, Eckhart Toll…

Hi! So I’m pretty new to this sub and currently trying to read up and decide what I think about AP. For a long time, I’ve believed that reality is a construct in the mind, or just a result of what our…

He's currently Floating above his body and posting on reddit?

I’m trying to do this currently. I still love her the same but i’m moving on with my life.

This is so interesting to read.. I was looking up astral projection and this reminded me of a recurring dream I had as a kid. I was a princess running along a path. It splits, and if I went Into the w…

I am a 40yo male with a partner who experienced emotional neglect. How can I be a better support person for her without sacrificing my own mental health? We have been together 5 years and we still br…

The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…

Currently feeling this, not out yet but more certain every day that I need to be.

I just want to say, I’m am so happy to have found this sub! Oh how I’ve created so much in my life, with LOB (unconsciously) and more so just belief and the movie the secret that started it all. Then …

1. That is why it’s called maladaptive daydreaming. The person does so to escape their current reality. They are not making actual changes, thinking different thoughts, reconditioning the subconscious…

With number six, laws in the can US change all the time. Just look at what’s happening with the current president..sigh. Nothing is set in stone. For better or for worse.

Just found this sub and consider it a safe place. My mother is a narcisist and my father is just there. I suffer from complex-ptsd from emotional neglect, and verbal,emotional abuse. I just recently…

I’m sorry to hear you had an experience like that. I do think my current relationship is a little more consistent than what you’ve described. We see each other usually at least once a week, more if we…

Agreed. The best and healthiest relationships to pursue as someone recovering from a disorganized attachment style is a slow burn. Recognizing everything you have in yourself is a tremendous accompl…

I feel you. I’ll give you my experience as a FA then suggestions. - I also transitioned from anxious to avoidant our the years. I was never full on AA but more anxious leaning FA as a child. Now I l…

It is extremely difficult to *start* the healing process while in a relationship as you would be required to balance other factors (is the other party willing to work too? What is their level of healt…

Okay ignoring that you’re only a week in.. here is how it works for me: Annoyance level. If this person annoys me a lot, I probably don’t like them. But I also have to juggle this with the mindfulnes…

Oh yeah, totally. It’s like once you let yourself see the dysfunction, you can’t unsee it. And you can’t imagine falling for it ever again. Or even bothering to figure it out. I went through a simila…

Interesting that you have this experience and your therapist is suggesting that you’re now leaning anxious. I wonder how often this happens with DAs that are becoming secure, such as yourself. In m…

This is not standard. Maybe the person has other stuff going on making them act hateful. Or that’s how they cope with their decision to leave. An avoidant deep in the trenches does not want to look li…

You are correct. Your perception of love is warped. And thus it can be really hard finding it without accidentally finding yourself in shit relationships. As many have commented, avoidants typically …

I’m FA and my current relationship has me feeling like I’m losing my mind half the time. I’m really into him, but when conflict hits, I shut down, even though he actually tries to talk things through.…

I agree with you that not everyone on dating apps is garbage. My current date and I are both single parents. One of the funniest things among our first dates was that we had stories and pictures from …

Maybe it’s worthwhile just fixing the app now to get it in a better working state with what you have, before moving onto a new cloud provider? If the code can’t handle it in your current provider, c…

Increase your php-fpm worker pool. There's a dark art to finding just the right number, since fpm shares memory a lot. Look online to find out how to set that number. Then monitor performance and if y…

As the others mentioned fixing your app is priority number one, however, I find it very weird that just one request blocks your whole server. You should try to find the bottleneck before moving clouds…

> Question: Does Symfony block concurrent requests by design No. PHP applications run concurrently on each child process of the php-fpm interpreter, starting with a request and ending with it - unles…

## Amazon Price History: **Beginning Azure DevOps: Planning, Building, Testing, and Releasing Software Applications on Azure** * Rating: ★★★★☆ 4.7 * Current price: **$32.29** 👍 * Lowest price: $31.…

What's the point? The well has been poisoned, people who moved to valkey are not going to move back to redis. Those who haven't might still move to valkey when their current version goes EOL.

Depends on the team/company etc. Currently I don’t need it but knowledge of it can be handy. In my previous company we had a lot of stuff done with databases so knowledge was highly appreciated especi…

I'm currently in similar situation. Experienced in overall system administration, windows, a bit of cloud and networking but I'm not able to get through technical interviews. This post is a huge motiv…

I’m in a similar situation, little exposure to DevOps in my current job, and I watch content outside working hours. I even considered starting to look into freelance work just to keep improving my kno…

Focus on showcasing your cloud support experience and how it relates to DevOps principles. Your background gives you a solid foundation in understanding cloud infrastructure, troubleshooting, and work…

My company is ready to pay reasonable price for the software we use and that provides value over FOSS ones. Unfortunately many companies go for crazy unrealistic pricing models and then complain that …

Bash and python are more relevant than powershell for most DevOps roles unless wherever you land is pure azure. I say that having landed in DevOps 9 years ago from a strong background in windows syste…

Oauth2/OpenID and related It surprises me every day. It's pictured as simple, but when you have a few apps with different requirements, using different flows, and you actually have to set it up o…

I focus exclusively on automating with ansible for now. You don't need to change any other applications or adopt anything else to make your current setup work. With ansible you can just automate the p…

With NixOs you can deploy all your services as systemd services. Systemd offers the same isolation options as docker (even more I think). The only annoyance that I experienced with NixOs is that it’s …

Considering Hashicorp/IBM changed Terraform licensing from Open Source to Source Available, there is now community maintained form - Opentofu. Currently it's backwards compatible with Terraform but th…

There is no such thing as “the smartest business to start today”. There are trends, opportunities, needs and problems to solve. It’s difficult to future-proof businesses these days with the constant v…

It's a nice chunk of change. I would say SBA loan would make that money stretch further, but they're likely not going to lend to you since you don't have real-world experience at 18. For a business, …

Any interview where I have to do leet coding or take home challenges is a huge red flag. I'm currently employed so I have the option of being choosy but any employer having you do that on the spot o…

This is the first I'm seeing about the Backstage platform, it seems like it can do a lot, and is pretty extensible. Considering the tool belt seems to revolve around Typescript, it's giving me the imp…

Any large change can be broken down into a series of small changes. I’d spend more time at first supporting current practices and understanding why they work for the team, then you can start to come u…

I personally bring in over $1MUSD in revenue per year for my employer (probably about $500k/year or more pure profit), and my company currently only uses AI for cost-estimating on a web app that spend…

I can't really give specifics, nor would they be useful outside of my specific industry. But we have a small framework for identifying AI use cases that goes like \- Tedious work that is currently do…

An entrepreneur is not just someone that’s wants to do their own thing eventually. Neither is the entrepreneurial spirit good intentions, a desire to break the chains, or a desire to own your own thin…

There’s a world of hype, starry-eyed optimism and straight up false promises out there. But AI systems are running in the background for many businesses and saving them a lot of time and money. We b…

Is there anything wrong with building on the nights and weekends (while you keep your current FT job) and then quit as soon as you get validation on your project?