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Don't go Outward

Don't go Outward — I don't usually make these posts, however, I felt compelled to talk about something I've noticed from lurking on this community and a community that criticizes Neville and his work. Now, as many of …

r/nevillegoddardpost3/31/2026
My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote

My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote — Hey All, A few months ago, I shared my story here (original Reddit post in comments) about starting an IT consultancy business in the Netherlands with a friend right after graduation. At that time, w…

r/startupspost5/2/2025
Upwind's Cloud Security CNAPP. Is it viable?

Upwind's Cloud Security CNAPP. Is it viable? — Can anyone share their real-world experience implementing Upwind's "Runtime-Powered" Cloud Security Platform? The promise of using real-time runtime data (I think they use eBPF sensors?) to focus onl…

r/DevOpspost5/3/2025
My dad (56M) cut me off (21) for sleeping over at my boyfriend’s house. Now he’s blowing up at me and ruining our relationship beyond repair.

My dad (56M) cut me off (21) for sleeping over at my boyfriend’s house. Now he’s blowing up at me and ruining our relationship beyond repair. — \-Sorry had to repost due to not having line breaks. I’ve always had a complicated relationship with my dad. He’s very controlling and has always been a “helicopter” parent when I was growing up. I a…

r/relationshipspost3/9/2026
Small succes story - it worked!

Small succes story - it worked! — Hey guys! I kind of have a small success story. A few weeks ago I posted here saying that I needed at least 800 euros to pay a debt this month and was in the middle of changing of my mindset. But, I …

r/Manifestationpost3/16/2026
REVISE

REVISE — “Man and his past are one continuous structure. This structure contains all of the facts which have been conserved and still operate below the threshold of his surface mind. For him it is merely histo…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/24/2026
Fiancé ended our 12 year relationship after meeting a new guy

Fiancé ended our 12 year relationship after meeting a new guy — Caitlyn, I'm sorry, and I miss you and still love you. I can't function. I can't sleep. I don't know what to do, and I don't know how much of this was me, and how much of this was him. Everyone has to…

r/BreakUpspost3/30/2026
A Post from Ex

A Post from Ex — I just recently joined this sub, and I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. I was digging through old photos to join the “10 years ago” trend, and while searching, I accidentally came ac…

r/ExNoContactpost3/30/2026
Thinking about my ex constantly

Thinking about my ex constantly — ​ I haven't stopped thinking about my ex since we've broken up. I've been with my ex from the end of February to half of August last year. Since then, she's been on my mind almost non-stop. I …

r/BreakUpspost3/31/2026
After 4 years of Inconsistency, I want to make lasting change...

After 4 years of Inconsistency, I want to make lasting change... — I started my self-improvement journey when i turned 18. I realised my life was in my hands and if i wake up at 30 and am unhappy with my life, it would be my own fault. I am 22 now, and I have overcam…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/2/2026
April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean?

April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? — Feel free to ask any type of question on this thread. More importantly, feel free to answer questions that have been asked! Additionally, please refrain from posting multiple questions in the subredd…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/3/2026
April 03, 2026 - Weekly Simple Success Stories (+Neville FAQ)

April 03, 2026 - Weekly Simple Success Stories (+Neville FAQ) — **Please post your simple success stories in the comments.** [*Old Weekly Success Stories Threads*](https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/search?q=author%3AAutomoderator+title%3ASuccess&restrict_sr…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/3/2026
Bless Another—Bless Yourself

Bless Another—Bless Yourself — Hi everyone, So today I'd like to talk about a nice situation I manifested for someone else. **Context** For a long time, my mom's husband has tried to build his own business and also to purchase o…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/3/2026
My Experience as a Beginner

My Experience as a Beginner — I was introduced to meditation as a teen, when I went through a productivity phase. Just starting university, was going through some stuff, and I wanted to find a "better" version of myself, whatever …

r/Meditationpost4/5/2026
Everything crashed down after 3 months and I am so unwell I didn't get home for Easter

Everything crashed down after 3 months and I am so unwell I didn't get home for Easter — I have been crying for two days, I have the anxiety, the pit at the stomach, the existential dread, everything I didn't experience before. Every time I tried to take the bus home for Easter I had an a…

r/BreakUpspost4/5/2026
I (22F) broke up with my ex (23M) after he cheated and said he was never “excited” about me… but I still believe he loved me and that’s what’s messing me up

I (22F) broke up with my ex (23M) after he cheated and said he was never “excited” about me… but I still believe he loved me and that’s what’s messing me up — I (22F) broke up with my ex (23M) two months ago, and I feel like I’m stuck between two completely different truths that I can’t reconcile. For context, we’re both medical students and were flatmates…

r/BreakUpspost4/5/2026
I (31M) feel at my wit's end due to my boyfriend's (36M) underemployment and that I have to financially cover everything

I (31M) feel at my wit's end due to my boyfriend's (36M) underemployment and that I have to financially cover everything — I (31 M) feel at my wit's end with my boyfriend (36 M) and I just don't know what to do. We've been together for just over 2.5 years and moved in together back in October. He lost his job last May and…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
My (24F) boyfriend (23M) is in a Psychiatric Unit for Brief Psychotic Disorder, and my family wants me to completely cut him out of my life. Is that something I should consider?

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) is in a Psychiatric Unit for Brief Psychotic Disorder, and my family wants me to completely cut him out of my life. Is that something I should consider? — On Friday (over a week ago), my boyfriend went on a work trip to Chicago and had what we thought was a manic episode. He basically roamed the streets all night, discarding his phone and wallet, destro…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
Grief

Grief — I honestly just need to scream into the void a bit tonight because my friends/family seem a bit tired of hearing me go on and on about grieving the loss of my relationship, and honestly I'm pretty tir…

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
When the fuck does it stop? Why do I do nothing but ruminate when I made the choice to leave the person I was in love with.

When the fuck does it stop? Why do I do nothing but ruminate when I made the choice to leave the person I was in love with. — I was with my ex for 3 years and were very close friends for 6 prior to the relationship. I helped her with so many things in her life and was there for pretty much every big decision of her life for …

r/BreakUpspost4/9/2026
I don't know how i will ever move on. i am desperate for anything right now

I don't know how i will ever move on. i am desperate for anything right now — hi, i am 21 years old (f), and my boyfriend of 2.5 years (3 years knowing eachother). throughout our relationship we got along super well, but we also fought a lot, about the worlds most dumbest thi…

r/BreakUpspost4/9/2026
Neville Goddard: the Complete Reader Audible Chapter Titles

Neville Goddard: the Complete Reader Audible Chapter Titles — A life-changing investment. I listen, then listen again, and again. The chapters in the Amazon Audible file aren't titled. I wrote this out over several listenings. I find it helpful. I thought this g…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/9/2026
April 10, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean?

April 10, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? — Feel free to ask any type of question on this thread. More importantly, feel free to answer questions that have been asked! Additionally, please refrain from posting multiple questions in the subredd…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/10/2026
April 10, 2026 - Weekly Simple Success Stories (+Neville FAQ)

April 10, 2026 - Weekly Simple Success Stories (+Neville FAQ) — **Please post your simple success stories in the comments.** [*Old Weekly Success Stories Threads*](https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/search?q=author%3AAutomoderator+title%3ASuccess&restrict_sr…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/10/2026
I'm(29-FtM) thinking about breaking up with my BF (31-M). How do I know thats the right choice?

I'm(29-FtM) thinking about breaking up with my BF (31-M). How do I know thats the right choice? — TLDR: I (29-FtM) and my boyfriend (31-M) have been together for the past 10 years and shared our friend groups and families with eachother. After some tragedies in my life, I am considering a breakup …

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
I'm 28F asking for advice with my bf, 42M, relationship of 4.5 years. What would you do if you were in my situation?

I'm 28F asking for advice with my bf, 42M, relationship of 4.5 years. What would you do if you were in my situation? — Yes, we have an age gap. We have been together for 4.5 years now, living together in our house (house is under my name so technically it's mine; I have left his name off of everything because we're n…

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
I’m making my escape

I’m making my escape — I am in the process of breaking free from a dysfunctional family system and additionally breaking free from a dysfunctional family business that I have unilaterally stabilized again and again for the …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/13/2026
I (F31) was convinced my boyfriend (M32) was the love of my life until today. Turns out he’s cheating on me with multiple SWs

I (F31) was convinced my boyfriend (M32) was the love of my life until today. Turns out he’s cheating on me with multiple SWs — I (F31) was convinced my boyfriend (M32) was the love of my life until today. We’ve been together over 2 years, live together, and honestly had what I thought was the healthiest relationship I’d ever…

r/relationship_advicepost4/13/2026
If you are new here..

I have read that Neville lost a large part of his audience after he started preaching "The Promise" can you comment on what happened Moonbeam..?

r/JosephMurphycomment4/11/2020
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

Hey. How would you explain DA almost never being attached in early stages of a relationship (first months lets say) why is it so common for them to act loke they are the most attached to the other per…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/21/2025
This is what happens when your FA ex comes back

This is so much like what I have been experiencing. He could say exactly what the problems were, exactly what he should be doing, started therapy, but there just wasn’t follow through ! And accounta…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/12/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Has anyone had/is having serious misgivings about monogamy? I have flipped back and forward on it and the older I get, the more I worry I will feel lonely and trapped with just one person being my sou…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I just got out of a relationship with someone I have been on and off with for about three years. The relationship ended the first time because they pulled away as my dad was dying and made the situati…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
3 years in. Bro, it gets wild.

Start with the dozens of free lecture recordings on YouTube tbh. For books I’d say Feeling is the Secret or The Law and the Promise. I bought the Kindle version that has like 8-10 of his books lumpe…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/7/2026
Did anyone elses parents correct your reality growing up?

My parents would drag us on 8-15 mile walks every single weekend. Never bought any fucking water with us either (though fortunately we were in England, so it wasn’t usually too warm). They wanted to t…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/8/2026
If you’re already doing well in the US, would you still leave?

Many people in the United States and Canada are taught that success is a formula. Work hard. Climb the ladder. Accumulate credentials, possessions, and status. From the outside it looks like progress.…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/10/2026
No one understands the effects of being trapped inside for years with an Nparent.

Yes, I've been through many situations like the ones you mentioned. When I started university, my father gave me a car and said it was mine, that I should take care of it and fix it. The problem was t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/11/2026
r/nevillegoddardcomment3/12/2026
Read Neville - and you will have no doubts

Yup it’s the Law & The Promise - the most amazing book of Neville. And also actually the first one i read a decade ago 🧡 and you don’t have to be sorry for anything, whenever in doubt ask away :))

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/12/2026
New Partner Has Never Used Condoms

Don't underestimate the poor sensation condoms provide. Try petting your dog or cat with a latex glove on.  Jerking off is not gonna help him get used to condoms. Get him super horny without the pro…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/14/2026
The "Manosphere"

I agree with your take. My biggest concern is there were many disgruntled and uprooted young men in the Weimar Republic as well, and we all know how that ended. These young men are so easy to fall for…

r/Stoicismcomment3/15/2026
Why does Japanese video games and anime have white protagonists?

True. I notice it in their manga and anime too. From the 1970s to the present. The Japanese have been giving free soft power to white European stories like no other for DECADES. Imagine the amount of …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/16/2026
Sunken Cost Fallacy

I’ve been there and it’s hard imagining anything different for yourself. After so many years of being made to feel like you don’t matter, you believe you don’t. When my therapist asked me “would you…

r/Divorcecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

Op..you are fine. She broke the promise. While it IS ok for her to get the procedure, it's not ok for her to expect you to fund it. You have your say in how your money gets spentwhen you clearly made…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
My (29M) prenup with my fiance (28W) pays her for having children. My parents (65M, 62W) are telling me to call off the wedding

Exactly why I wanted one, too! I know my partner can trust me, but there's security in the legal paperwork backing up my words. I care about my partner and I want them to be well off, even if we separ…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
If your avoidant ex discarded you: go no contact immediately.

I (43F) have been married to my avoidant husband (44M) for 14 years, and we have been best friends since we were 13. We share three biological children, and he has four other kids from his first marri…

r/BreakUpscomment3/18/2026
39M 34F. Partner of 18 months says unless I propose with a 40k real diamond, don't propose at all?

OMG how selfish is this? My partner proposed to me with a ring made from a stainless steel washer that him and my dad molded into a ring. It's not about the size of the diamond it's about the promise…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
How would you explain to a codependent person what a healthy relationship actually feels like?

“I still believe I have a responsibility to be present with a light touch and do my part to try and arrive at a sense of mutual understanding while we go our separate ways.” Keeping it in the I.., TO…

r/Codependencycomment3/19/2026
My husband (34M) told his friends about my miscarriage as a “joke” and now says I’m overreacting (32F)

Yep, was just gonna tell OP to look up DARVO. This guy is awful OP. I bet you’re under constant stress and walking on eggshells because you can’t express your feelings to him without them being manipu…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
What surprised you the most about going through a divorce?

I'd agree. I mean there are a couple close people that were really there for me, but the promises from most of, "anything you need" were pretty empty. Most of my male friends don't really seem intere…

r/Divorcecomment3/20/2026
What surprised you the most about going through a divorce?

Exactly but reverse the genders. And instead of being awful to me she's awful to the children ("what do you mean visit my child in the mental hospital for 30 minutes on Valentine's Day even though I h…

r/Divorcecomment3/20/2026
Apologies for posting again. Apparently I am the abuser and narcissist - I am beyond devastated. No more sharing stuff online for me. *TW - unaliving mention*

Oh my god, I am so sorry. I know exactly how that feels, though it’s not related to my nparent. It was a horrible situation where I was trying to support a friend going through a mental health crisis…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
I Changed Myself and Got it All

Oh now this is incredible!! Huge congratulations on your 4 year soberversary! The air that day was alive with the promise of self improvement!!! Thank you, been the swim of a lifetime and such a joy t…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/23/2026
r/nevillegoddardcomment3/23/2026
27F, when will I have a child?

I've analysed your chart buddy.. and started from the promise of a child in your chart personally.. because a female chart is required for that.. as she needs to carry that child within herself! And p…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/23/2026
M33 - What caused the divorce? Is second marriage possible?

You are emotionally intelligent but highly controlled personality .... This chart shows that the divorce happened because of some patterns building over time.... 1)7th lord from D1 (Saturn) becomes we…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/24/2026
REVISE

In answer to time (how long): “Man, through the medium of a controlled, waking dream, can predetermine his future. That imaginal activity, of living in the feeling of the wish fulfilled, leads man ac…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/24/2026
REVISE

I can’t speak to these teachers, as I don’t know who they are, but with anyone, including Neville, it’s important to remember it’s THEIR belief. There are core concepts that are universally true. Take…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/25/2026
REVISE

“Live as though the wish had come, even though it is yet to come, and you will shorten the period of waiting.” Excerpt From The Law and The Promise Neville Goddard

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/25/2026
Is it inevitable that one arrives at stoicism with non-virtuous intent?

Schopenhauer was an atheist, but believed that the central message of Christianity was not that "God loves you and sacrificed his only son for your sins." The real message of Christianity is that "The…

r/Stoicismcomment3/25/2026
Are you under/barely functioning now because you overfunctioned so much when you were younger?

Yep. Also part of it is that so many of the promises I heard were broken bullshit. "Work hard, and you'll get where you want to go!" "Be kind, and others will be kind to you." "If you love someon…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/25/2026
Are we giving up on relationships too easily nowadays?

I think a lot of it is that we live in a society that rejects anything that’s uncomfortable, and discomfort is inherent to deep personal relationships. You will never be in a relationship that doesn’t…

r/BreakUpscomment3/26/2026
Anyone else from the US not motivated to survive a systemic collapse?

Yes. The US is a very brutal country. The work culture here is borderline slave culture and patriarchy does not lift anybody up. It clearly prioritizes male depravities and self indulgence over the pr…

r/CPTSDcomment3/27/2026
What should I do?

Are you familiar with the neville goddard anecdote who was in a similar position to yourself and used the affirmation 'isnt it wonderful..' (I copied and pasted this from a thread on r/nevillegoddar…

r/lawofattractioncomment3/31/2026
I am heartbroken for my son!

Yeah, that's narc behavior 101. Endlessly promise something, throw it away, declare you never said you'd do whatever the promise was.

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/31/2026
Don't go Outward

You make a lot of great points here. Wholeheartedly agree that the self is most important. However, I think there's still an element missing. I AM is I AM. It is the all, it is everything and no thi…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/31/2026
Don't go Outward

Neville needed to arrive at the promise in gentle progressive stages. For example, he did have a burning desire to go to Barbados. What is the harm in people here arriving at the promise in gentle sta…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/31/2026
Don't go Outward

You make excellent points in your post. 100% agree people should be aware of the promise, just like you have done here. That’s the end point, not manifesting a million things that will never fill up…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/31/2026
Needing reassurance

I wish I could fast forward to the part where I fee proud, free, and happy 😣. Thank you for the promise, I appreciate it.

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/1/2026
I lost everything to the war and I'm completely broken. 7 months of daily 6-hour work gave me nothing. How do I not give up?

Read Chapter 5 “The Law and the Promise” In it he describes how two different people won three times at the races, the Caliente race track by imagining the exact amount of money they would like to win…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
Don't go Outward

You call it God. With the Big G. That is the promise. Look to all of the comments I have been making and you will ALL SEE this is confirmation of what I have been trying to teach you this entire time.…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
Don't go Outward

Hey. I don't read Joseph or associate myself with his work. I consider myself to be a student of Neville's. I follow his work. I think you've misinterpreted my post entirely. I am saying that Neville'…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
Don't go Outward

Welcome to enlightenment. Welcome to the promise. Welcome to the Word.

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
Don't go Outward

I am the Truth, and what do we all collectively KNOW About the Truth. The Truth Hurts. Go with God and be Done with this nonsense. You disliking this is your reality confirming to you what you KNOW to…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
How do you “win” the breakup?

The first thing I had to learn after being tossed aside by my boyfriend of 4 years was not to torture myself asking how it went wrong or why he didn't want to be with me and equally not to torture mys…

r/BreakUpscomment4/2/2026
Who wants their ex back?

He did. But all the promises I told him I would do, I didn’t… and it wore him down. It felt like I either give myself away in order to fit his mold. It’s a month since our breakup and as sad as I am, …

r/BreakUpscomment4/2/2026
32F Will we be blessed with a baby in our lives?

At the start of 2027.. you'll be having a beautiful baby and for sure you'll gonna blessed with this. I have checked the promise of childbirth in your chart specially because the female's chart is mor…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/3/2026
Non-duality vs LOA

Neville taught the Law and THEN the promise....

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/4/2026