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My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch — Not sure exactly how to flair this. Marked it NSFW just in case. Sorry if that's not right. I'm a 22y/o living between my divorced parents (don't have the means to get out on my own right now). Thing…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/20/2026
Supporting my emotionally immature AuDHD mother (LONG POST, TL;DR at the end)

Supporting my emotionally immature AuDHD mother (LONG POST, TL;DR at the end) — My (25F) mother (48F) has been living with me for a month and my patience is wearing thin. For context, my parents decided to move to another country together and when they did their marriage started …

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/6/2026
Is it worth it/valid to end a 7 month long relationship due to long distance? (19F) (19M) TLDR at bottom of post!

Is it worth it/valid to end a 7 month long relationship due to long distance? (19F) (19M) TLDR at bottom of post! — i feel like this goes a lot deeper than the title, but seeking advice. my bf and i met last semester when starting college. it seemed like a picture perfect relationship: spent tons of time together,…

r/relationship_advicepost4/7/2026
Emotionally Abusive Father + Dementia Mother

Emotionally Abusive Father + Dementia Mother — I am hoping to get insight on anyone who has or may have similar experiences to me. What should I do moving forward with how my dad is putting himself in this situation? And how to help my mum? B…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/8/2026
My close friend (22F) has not been a good friend lately so I (23F) am finding it hard to care that she might be getting into a relationship

My close friend (22F) has not been a good friend lately so I (23F) am finding it hard to care that she might be getting into a relationship — TL;DR why should i care about my friend's "potential new relationship" when she's not given me any reason to? We have been friends since high school and recently I've just been realizing she may not…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Anxiety about starting therapy

Anxiety about starting therapy — I have been considering finding a therpist for a really long time now (mostly for my anxiety, amongst other things), but I am very anxious about opening up. I have been an intensely secretive person m…

r/therapypost4/9/2026
Is texting and checking up on the girl too annoying for her or a turn off

Is texting and checking up on the girl too annoying for her or a turn off — so to start with I met a girl on a game kr started if normal it's been like what 4 days I wasn't even intrested she gave sort like mixed signals once she sounds like she wants to know me more once she…

r/relationshipspost4/11/2026
Need to vent

Need to vent — Something about my mom that drives me absolutely mad! Okay, so she has these two sides to her, and she's very performative. In the sense that she avoids emotional vulnerability and has little to no …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/13/2026
How do you respond to people who are very quick to think that you’re angry at them?

I guess I don’t believe everyone who interacts with an avoidant is anxious and I guess that is my key confusion around this. While I guess I can imagine a person being annoying and constantly asking i…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/16/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

how often is too often to see my bf at work?? context we’re both 19 and in college and he works at the student center where the students can hang out and such. i went there a lot anyway even before h…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 08, 2026

IDK, I have anxious attachment, but I’ve hardly ever been wrong about a gut feeling. I’m really good at recognizing patterns, and can tell when people are pulling away or they’ve changed their mind ab…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/8/2026
Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

And yet, here you are, begging for attention like a needy middle child. If the negative attention excites you, you can find a partner who enjoys that and will talk to you about how to maximize your ex…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
Sister (29F) has not invited me (32F) to be a part of her wedding. Does she not want me to come?

You're very clearly overromanticizing your relationship with your sister, and simultaneously being annoying because your kids aren't invited You are acting like you don't have any options to bring y…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/13/2026
I (19F) told my boyfriend (19M) it’s not my job to prove I won’t cheat.

OK everything you did was good,, his exceptionally emotional and insecure that's a high combo. You did good. But just one line I would say isn't really nice to hear from anyone's partner and tht is. …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 29, 2026

The guy I ghosted for being annoying is now make jokes "exposing me" on threads. He's commenting things like "women named (my name) will destroy your self esteem". I know I did wrong but I ghosted hi…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/29/2026
OMG I fucked upp! What did I do.. I just want to scream…

Basically I initiated the break up because I was not happy with him not telling me that he was going to be staying with his ex wife before he left for a few months for training . I found out when we …

r/BreakUpscomment4/2/2026
What is my (35M) role in my parents (69F)(80M) dispute about chickens

I would re-home the chickens. That just sounds like too much drama. And both of your parents are being annoying. You have the rest of your life to have chickens.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
I 29/F cry during sex with my 32/F boyfriend. How does one deal with this?

Very normal, ive been with a few women that teared up during. Usually they hated it as well, but i just told them its not a problem for me. i can see it being annoying if its uncomfortable tho.

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
‘Not having long-term friends is a red flag’

Being annoying isn't wrong in and of itself tho. Shouldn't be lumping those who r only annoying in with those others you listed.

r/CPTSDcomment4/8/2026
Am I, 43F, being ridiculous or is he, 45M?

Why do we even need to discuss the semantics when it's clear he understood you? He's being annoying.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Am I, 43F, being ridiculous or is he, 45M?

He’s not ridiculous, he’s just being an asshole. Especially since he’s smiling and laughing while he’s saying it. I’d ignore him when he starts up like this. Leave the husband, take the sausages. …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Am I, 43F, being ridiculous or is he, 45M?

Ah the horseman phase… you haven’t broken up yet, but you don’t really give a crap what he thinks or feels, and have zero energy to engage. You have accepted that this is how the person is, and you ju…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Am I, 43F, being ridiculous or is he, 45M?

He’s being annoying as fuck, signed a psychologist.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
I got a stood up for the first time today and I’m just confused.

I’m sorry this happened to you. The same thing happened to me (34F) on Friday night, except i didn’t go to the bar. We hadn’t exchanged numbers yet, so I tried messaging him (29M) on the app in the mo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/12/2026
Would you date yourself?

I’m annoying too; adversarial and a know it all. Like most people, I can rein it in, I’m not ‘on’ 24/7 - and I like to make my partner happy. I’m a better partner/friend, than an acquaintance, bec…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/12/2026
Therapy is a scam. Especially for BSs

I def had horrible experiences. I recently found out he cheated with 100 women, denied paternity of one kid, told our 4 year old he hates her and was in a 2 year relationship. My second session since …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/12/2026