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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
My (19f) boyfriend (19m) keeps telling me I’m at high risk of diabetes. How do I address this? — I am a 19 year old woman. I am 5 foot 9 inches tall (177cm), my body weight is 67kg, my BMI is 21.4, body fat percentage is 15.8%, and body fat mass 10.6kg. I go to the gym 5 days a week and perform c…
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…
Hard to differentiate what’s real or what’s actual anxiety — I (21F) woke up from a nap in a state of panic. the following 4 hours, i’m still dealing with the physical symptoms of an anxiety attack that make it hard to believe it’s truly anxiety and not somethi…
How do I F21 fix my relationship with my F21 twin sister after her M22 fiancée SA’d me? — I don’t really know how to do this I apologize in advance. A bit of back ground. I am a F21. My twin sister obviously the same age. We both live with our parents. She has been seeing this guy M22 for …
shifting with LOA is intolerable as an autistic person — Autistic shifter here. I've been in the community since 2021, and the closest I ever got was... in 2021. There's been almost nothing after that, and it gets worse as time goes on. I believe it's becau…
The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year) — Hello Everyone At the beginning of 2025 I went through the type of breakup I would not wish on my worst enemy, I wont bore you with the details but I struggled with this for over a year. Here are …
After 3 years of failed reality checks, here's the protocol that finally gave me consistent lucid dreams (not MILD, not WILD — a hybrid) — I've been chasing lucid dreams since 2021. Like most of you, I started with reality checks and MILD. Got maybe 2 lucid dreams in the first year. Frustrating as hell. Then I went deep — read LaBerge's…
Day 6 — 6 days since. Today was another pretty good day. Still think about her/us all the time. I try to listen to music as much as I can to drown out those thoughts but they still come in. If you are reading…
They’re aware of what they’re doing, but why? — A few months into my awakening of the neglect and I KNOW it’s my childhood self seeking answers as to why they’re like this. For the most part- they’re aware. A conscious grown adult who goes against…
Being the lesser loved twin brother — Me and my twin brother were both 21. Me and my brother said to our parents that we needed a car for transport during our college study. They agreed to buy us a car. They said this car is registered un…
Am I (19F) a bad partner if I'm often irritated by my boyfriend's (21M) constant negative emotional state and the feeling that he's not moving forward in life? — I'm 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We've been in a long-distance relationship for about two years. We talk on the phone every night and visit each other whenever possible. He's finishing his studies this…
I [27F] let my past ruin my relationship of 4 years with my boyfriend [34M] — I \[27F\] just got dumped by boyfriend \[34M\] lets call him Harold. he blocked me on everything after about 6 moths officially being in a committed relationship but we were in a situationship for abo…
A narcissist mom VS an ASPD son. — My mom's words will be dashes(-) and mines will be plus signs(+) pretty sure my mom is a narcissist, I have been checking boxes and she checks every criteria to be suspected or assumed. I am 21. and …
I M/27 care about my girlfriend 21/F, but I’m struggling with how I see her past — I’m 27 and my girlfriend is 21. We met on a random chat app. At first we only talked for a few nights, then I removed her because I was going through a bad time mentally and also had an upcoming surge…
I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? — I don't know where to start... I just found out that my BF has been getting cash back on my debit card without my knowledge. A little background... We live together. He doesn't have an income. He …
Bio father is in hospital — **TL;DR:** I stopped speaking to my biological father in 2019 after he refused to respond to a letter confronting his abuse and other issues. I went no contact with my mother in Dec 2021. They are sti…
My therapist decided to end working with me after coaxing me to talk about my sexual relationship with my wife in more detail. — I started attending therapy because I was struggling with being a 'Girl Dad' after having a history of treating girls poorly and also because my wife acts more like a dependent then a partner. I fl…
I ended my 6 year relationship, but I feel conflicted — I ended my 6 year relationship with my boyfriend a week ago. We've been dating since we were 15 and are now 21. Navigating a long term relationship from kids to adults has been a challenge, but I only…
Went no contact and came back? — I’ve came to realize my mother is a narcissist, I’m also very much trauma bonded to her. Crazy argument where she accuse me of things I never did and jealousy was involved and it got gross on her end…
I'm not suicidal anymore! — hey guys, I'm a 35 years old guy, who was constantly traumatized until I was 18/21. I tried 2 times to kill myself. it was shit. now the good news, a couple days ago my brain started to create a "wh…
Anyone else tired of life? Tired of fighting? — I've been under the water since 2021. Fighting homelessness, suicidality, political trauma, medical trauma, corruption, discrimination, invalidity etc. I feel like I can't go on anymore. I'm spent. Wh…
I 19F feel like I’m not a good girlfriend, I’m constantly causing arguments with my boyfriend 21M — Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and 1/2 years it will be 4 in August. We got together in 2022 when I was 16 and he was 17 and now I’m 19 and he’s 21. tl;dr For the whole first year of ou…
Nmother treats me like she's a clingy girlfriend. — I constantly feel like I am never safe around my mother, and that I have to be her parent (grounded, able to control my emotions, realistic, etc) in order to prevent her from losing her mind with anxi…
Torn about possible divorce after wife cheated on me. I'm petrified of hurting my boys. — Ok so my wife (f 46) and I (m 45) have been married for 10 years, together for 17. We had a happy marriage but over time we ran into some major obstacles. I began bringing stress from work home, letti…
I (19M) Told my Friend (18F) “Did You Think I Had Feelings For You All of These Years?” — Ok, so this happened a few months back and I just got reminded of it and I am just as bewildered now as I was then. Let me give some background info to help paint the full picture. I have this friend,…
having my first proper breakup in my mid twenties and don’t know how to handle it — i feel like 25 is a terrible age to have my first heartbreak. a first heartbreak feels like it should have been done before i was 21. i’ve dated before but i wouldn’t class the two as a proper relat…
Getting divorced at 22 — My husband filed for divorce weeks after our one year that we didn't even celebrate because we were fighting. He told me about all of the things that made him unhappy after filing. I was in distress. …
Co-parent boundaries new relationship — I'm wondering what you consider boundaries and normal co-parenting when in a new relationship. My partner of 2 years has an 11 year old son with his ex, who he was with for 10 years and split up in 2…
32F with 35M for almost 2 years — My bf of almost 2 years doesnt seem to understand why im not happy in our relationship. how can I explain to him AGAIN in a way that he will understand. Below is part of a list of things he says or d…
He left me twice and came back with « I miss you more than ever » what does it mean ? — We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love. He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best…
My BF of 5 Years can’t Tell me he Loves me — Myself (30m) and my bf (29m) have been together since 2021. We own a home together, live together, all the normal couple things, except he can’t tell me he loves me. I was the first to tell him 6 mo…
My BF of 5 Years cant Tell me he Loves me — Myself (30m) and my bf (29m) have been together since 2021. We own a home together, live together, all the normal couple things, except he can’t tell me he loves me. I was the first to tell him 6 mon…
Send help — Hi guys, I wanted to come on here to feel seen and heard and also for some of yall to tell me how they've been through worse and survived. English is not my first language so excuse me for that. I…
25F, Is this a very challenging Mahadasha — 25F, I am going through a difficult time since 2021. I used to genuinely be academically brilliant, always scoring the top rank no matter the competition but things deteriorated back in 2021 and it se…
Male 21. Can you tell me when i will meet my future wife?
My son tragically was killed four days before his 21st birthday almost six months ago. I have not recovered. — I will be 56 next month, and I have hardly moved on with my life since I lost him. I am divorced, and I have another son who is 28 and is doing well. Their mother and I talk periodically due to the fa…
One Sentence Encheiridion (16-30) — Hello! I'm doing a personal challenge to paraphrase the Encheiridion chapters using a single sentence. I did 1-15 in a different post, and I'll link below. Constructive feedback is absolutely welc…
Index — \[Updated: December 30th, 2021.\] Links with an asterisk beside them recently added. ​ **Books** [The Power of Your Subconscious Mind - Joseph Murphy](http://www.logoscenter.org/downloads/T…
Good for you! Honestly I wish I could feel the same way, but when every avenue feels closed off it’s hard. Also I know how dumb this sounds, but I legitimately feel like I’m living under a beyond…
Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…
I'm 33 and get shocked looks when I tell people They say I look 21. I regularly date girls who are 22-24. If you looked super old I don't think people would be telling you to date younger. Ignore …
Yeah currently a 1.5 years with someone I dated in ‘21. Some parts of the relationship work well, but we have some very serious incompatibilities and I don’t feel good about a future together if they…
Something like this happened to me when I was in my late 30s. My ex-wife left me in 2018 after a *very* difficult 12 years of marriage (and two kids), and I spent a year struggling to get over her wh…
I think my votes for a full dating profile would be 2, 6, 7, 12, 18 and maybe 21. With maybe 6 being the first one. I think you've got a good set of photos there though!
Jesus. So fucking evil. My ndad was the opposite while my mom was fighting cancer. He became the gatekeeper. He accused me of abandoning my mother from 2017 until she died in 2021. My brother and I bo…
I believe the newer focus level are already on the Expand app. You can toggle between hemi-sync and Monroe Sound Science with Focus 10,12,15,18, and 21. They are unguided though.
In a lost from 4 years ago you claim you're 19...then 4 months ago you claim you're 21....now you claim you're 20...this is a karma farming account or a bot or both. Nice try
Your dad is a controlling asshole and he's freaking out because you weren't supposed to act like a self-sufficient and capable adult. You were supposed to fall apart and be like a helpless baby bird, …
I've never really been to school, and I've struggled to get employed because she keeps sabotaging me by throwing all my clothes out and my stuff in general, which is not illegal in my area. I also hav…
He’s crazy, 21.4 BMI is fine, especially for a woman
No, you don't need to want to do remote viewing, talking to entities, etc. The original gateway experience stops at focus 21. The tapes did not used to have seven waves. With regards to focus levels, …
Don’t waste your pretty. This man and you are not compatible and at 24 you are prime age to find your match. Leave him alone and find someone who is a better partner for you. He is 31 who started da…
I had my first live in girlfriend at 21. It helped me understand just how “human” women really were. They too left clothes on the floor, forgot to flush their bloody tampons, ate weird shit, liked t…
That’s a crazy comparison. We aren’t talking about the age of consent. We are talking about drinking age, 18 being the legal drinking age is more common worldwide than countries where it’s 21. The p…
If you are dead set on having the baby, tell him you will get a paternity test done after the baby is born. Then you can do an OTC test and not have to spend a fortune. If he feels the need to break u…
Yeah when I read this I was like.... she said she wanted to age naturally when she was 21...? Pre-pregnancy and parenthood...? Calling this a "breach of trust" seems extreme. Don't get me wrong, 26 …
Yes, there are being that are not visible to our eyes and I believe they could be using cloaking technology. I been experiencing them for years and my wife started encountering them in 2021. I have …
This is how my childhood felt too. Most of the time it was school, home and grocery shopping...only went out on the rare occasion my parents would take me out. I often felt like I was just being fed u…
I think your family looking out for your best interests (or what they perceive as your best interests) is one thing. I think threatening something so severe is totally unreasonable. Realistically, it…
Do you have your NRP? If so, literally move anywhere you possibly can. I was a brand new medic over 10 years ago and my starting pay was $21. You are not being valued or respected in your relationship…
She was actually the one who left. After all that shit for all those years, she finally started going to therapy and to SLAA meetings. Then one day she says, "I've decided I don't want to have sex a…
That was back in 2021. So the height of COVID and I was going through a bad breakup. I ended up attempting and thankfully I failed! I didn't end up getting my bachelor's but I have a steady job now an…
For me, it was the exact opposite. My mother always bad mouthed my dad. He was never home. He neglected me. My mom had me convinced she was the only parent that loved me. When you live in it and …
Yes! Neither of my parents should ever have had a child. My father was an alcoholic and a hobosexual decades before the word existed. He always treated me like I was an unwanted sibling rather than h…
The hitchhiker effect is very real, I have been dealing with NHI/paranormal entities since childhood. My mother had encounters and since 2021 my wife has had experiences too. I also worry about my chi…
Something about that year, 2021. Like everything started then.
I spent 13 years with one. I was oblivious for the first 10. Currently almost two years out. Looking back, something always felt off. She was there but she wasn’t. Like a lack of affect or a flat a…
Hello, sorry but this is not accurate. 2022 was the best year of my life, so was late of 2021. 2017-2020, things were finally happening in my education. These four years my education was at peak and I…
Why would I need one? Its just Facebook in another hat and sunglasses and doesnt actually help you get hired. And I say this as someone who has been hired twice since 2021.
I’m 50 now and didn’t know a damn thing until my life exploded in Dec 2021. I just kept saying to my therapist “does this mean I have trauma? Does this mean I have trauma? I had no idea what I had b…
I’ll tell you my experience. I met a guy on tinder when I was 18 because he “super liked” me as i was passing his city on the highway. He lived about a three hour drive from me. Something just insta…
I don’t want to host every single time and I have a mental problem about hosting in early stages. My home is my sanctuary. I think this is fine even if it comes off weird; it’s very instructive as fo…
I had a friend in roller derby when we were maybe 21. Her name was Brawley Parton bc she was blonde and loved her and yes she was busty. When she met my bfs dad, who was in his 60s probably, she intro…
OH MAN THIS IS GREAT. Happy for you all. I'm glad you had your event and stuck together. Progress! Mine was christmas 2021. My mother wanted me to look at photos with so she could ridicule me for thi…
You’re 22. Do what makes you happy. Life begins at 21. Live your life for yourself. Not a bf.
Two months ago and I'm 21.
You can't call just shitty opinions "values" and get away with it. It's also very easy to pin it on values when one person has to just cum and the other person's world changes permanently. Any p…
She's 21. FFS- She will definitely recover.
I have had encounters with orb even up close since 2021. Most have been white plasma based orbs. I do not fear them and feel they are not a threat, They do seem to respond to us. MOFON thinks they ar…
Hit rock bottom when I only lived pass 16 to make it to 21. I gave myself alcohol poisoning and OD’d in the same week. I couldn’t believe I woke up the following Monday. My siblings, and my ferrets ar…
Actually there is science behind binaural beats but certainly placebo could add to that. EDIT: Since there is a lot of Reddit "I'm smart-ism" happening as a result of this comment. Science is a path …
Sweetie, if your reputation is your bigger concern here, then that’s a whole different kettle of fish. Even if he cheated (which is the likely factor here), he can twist the narrative however he wants…
Just for completeness, here is a correspondence table of Lebell's section headers to parts of the Enchridion: 1. Know what you can control and what you can't (Ench 1) 2. Stick with your own business …
My parents did not do drugs. But they also did not invest anything into my adulthood and I am struggling and getting nowhere because of them. They even ruined my health on top of that. They paid for …
Older AM here with a throwaway. Want to share some pearls that helped me and others around me in life. Saw lots of failures as a younger person. I learned and used the below lessons to see success. I …
I don't see why not. I'm Thai and have dual nationality. I can own land and be there as long as I want. The only thing that suck is that all Thai males have to join the military by 21.
I experienced a full year of them showing up to me but then them playing hide and seek with my GF. A full year. With my GF being part of my experiencer community , following my work on a daily basis a…
I have no children. I got a vasectomy in 2021. I should have gotten it in 2002 when I turned 18 like I wanted to. At 41 years old, recently single, and making a lot of money I'm finally having the ch…