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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…
Need an advise for my website — Hi there, I need your help because I’m struggling to get a higher ranking on Google for my website. I’m a Psychologist and Psychotherapist, and I have been working in a small city near Milan, Italy.si…
Help me understand-anxious now ex bf + part avoidant ex gf — My anxious ex and I met in ‘22. Online I was a full dismissive avoidant I began to work on myself in October’23. Since October ‘23,I have been a dismissive avoidant in recovery Recently,I have …
Crazy experience “timeline hopper” — I’ve been lucid dreaming since I was about 12/13, and I’m now 23. I trained myself into it years ago and now I lucid dream every morning which sometimes can be annoying because it affects my sleep. I’…
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…
I think I have to leave this sub — Sigh I love seeing all the posts the questions and the answers. However lol I am over 40 I am 53 I think my experience is different. I married my wife in 1995 she passed away from cancer in 2023. Even…
Should I push my psychologist to give me a diagnosis? — I recently had my first session ever, I am 23. I asked my psychologist if they could give me a diagnosis on what they think I suffer from (ADHD, BPD etc which I suspect). She said we should avoid lab…
Dead bedroom, found pregnancy tests — We’ve had a rough few years and nearly 3 year dead bedroom. I was tidying up today and found an opened pregnancy test, used, negative. The expiry date on the packet is 2026. According to research the …
My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 duodenum cancer today. — I am 23. Dad is 53. Just 2 weeks back everything in our lives was so great. Just 2 weeks back, he had told me he plans to live another 50 years. Just 3 weeks back, My sister had said "Thank God for ho…
Wife cheated after 7 years of long distance and 3 years of marriage — Met my now wife 10 years ago online. I live in Europe and she is from the US. We talk for a year and things start to get romantic. I visit her for the summer and we decide to start dating and go long …
The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year) — Hello Everyone At the beginning of 2025 I went through the type of breakup I would not wish on my worst enemy, I wont bore you with the details but I struggled with this for over a year. Here are …
Synchronicity and the Beginning or Continuity of Experience? — To begin, I have had quite a long winded set of experiences, that have seemed to have calmed down a bit over the last few weeks. They went on for several months beginning 3 months and 3 days before my…
Feeling depressed over hair — I pretty much drew the short end of the stick in the genetic lottery. I started losing my hair when I was 23. My dad is bald so I know it is hereditary. I am now 28 and the only hairstyle I can sport …
3 months of no contact and I still can’t let go. What should I do? — I’m Mia (20 y.o) and I have clinical depression. My ex Daniel (19 y.o.) and has the same diagnosis. English is my second language, so sorry if something is hard to read, an also sorry for such a huge…
Specifically within this chart, is there an indication of a lack of prioritization and need for romantic partners ? — I hold many complicated and significant relationships with my friendships and family. I like to date, but nothing significant has occurred in a while. The last time I had a significant other of signif…
Robotic affirmations success story — Hello! This is my first post on reddit, I've been knowing about manifestation since 2021 but only started applying law of assumption through **scripting** in 2023. I manifested crazy things: the s…
My ex (30F) and I (30nb) broke up 6 months ago and I want to vent about it — After dating for almost 2 years and living together for 6 months my ex broke it off and I had to move out. I am a trans nonbinary person (AFAB) and the day we met my ex knew I would be pursuing gender…
My story - sad — I don’t really know how to start this, but I need to get it out somewhere. I have a severe fear of the dentist from really bad experiences when I was younger, and because of that I haven’t gone in ab…
I’m so scared — 5 weeks out. 5 year relationship. I thought I had my forever person. The other day I was at a coffee shop getting a sandwich and saw these 2 on a first date. It filled me with intense dread. I don’t w…
My 5 year relationship ended a month ago, feel free to ask me questions — A little back ground. My ex and I had a mutual agreement and we decided to end our relationship. We’ve been together for 5 years, I was 17 years old when I first met her and now I am 22, soon turning …
Caught boyfriend of 11 years paying for escorts — We have 2 children together. I caught him subscribing to onlyfans back in 2023. We have always been living pay check to pay check with kids and I was so upset because it was such a betrayal in my eyes…
What is happening to me — As soon as I turned 23, I’ve been feeling really low for weeks. I’ve struggled to get up and do anything, and even when I do, I don’t enjoy it. I was fine when I was 22, but the moment I turned 23, e…
25M, Ex-situationship keeps breaking no contact, advice needed — Hi I’m 25M, Bi and live in London, UK. I met “Tony” (same age and also Bi - might I add we’re both discreet/DL) in 2022 via Snapchat (lol). This “situationship” (I don’t even know if I can call it t…
My implant experience. — My abduction story: https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/s/xQyjzIRjiQ This is one of several experiences I’ve had after my abduction. For context, the abduction itself happened in 2018, and this pa…
Married 2 months before he admitted feelings for his best friend (ongoing sexting for a year). How do I move forward? — I (33F) am going through a separation from my husband (36M), and I’m looking for advice on how to process this and move forward. We started our relationship at the beginning of 2023. Six months in, h…
How do I convince my parents to knock and enter, or let me lock the door? — I am 18F, Indian, living with my parents and younger sis. In our house, there are only 2 bedrooms which are shared between all 4 us, so no one has their own room. My parents have always been adamant o…
I (30F) found out my boyfriend (30M) saves recent social media pictures of his ex (27F) in a hidden photos album on his iPhone — For context, my boyfriend and his ex only dated for 4 months back in 2023. They've been broken up for a little over 3 years now. These pictures aren't sexualized pictures, which I almost don't know i…
Am I still AP or I actually earned my secure attachment? — Hi all! I’m trying to understand whether I’m actually growing toward a secure attachment, or if I’m still acting from anxious patterns in a more subtle way. A bit of background: I was in a toxic marr…
I F26 Regret Dumping My Ideal Man M23 — A few months ago I, F26, ended things with the man I’d been seeing M23. We were together less than 3 months, but I genuinely REALLY liked him and I‘m pretty confident the feeling was mutual. He was in…
Did I go to an afterlife? — Did I go to an afterlife? This is a dream that I had in 2022-2023 that I hadn't told anyone until last year. This year, a family member had a nearly identical dream as my own but a deceased family me…
disorganized attachment advice — I need honest opinions because I feel like I’m spiraling a bit and trying to make sense of something that might be simple… or not. Also i’m 19, he’s 23. this guy and i have gone out 3 times. though w…
Still works!!! Every once in a while I test myself and abilities with random objects/animals — My main technique to test my abilities is "butterfly technique" every once in a while I test myself with this technique. I developed this first in 2023 when I started read about Neville. Next day I w…
Bothersome comment (24 F) (23 M). Would anyone else feel this way? — A little contex, I’m 24 female and my boyfriend is 23. we’ve been together for 1 year and 2 months now. it’s been amazing so far. a little context is that I have body image issues and he knows that an…
How do I handle a guy with disorganized attachment? — I need honest opinions because I feel like I’m spiraling a bit and trying to make sense of something that might be simple… or not. Also i’m 19, he’s 23. this guy and I have gone out 3 times. though, …
idk how im going to take care of her in her old age — i 25F am really struggling with my relationship with my mother 65F. I live in another country away from home but I’m home right now indefinitely and shes being really really grating. i struggle with O…
Blindsided by a breakup after 9 years. Struggling to cope — This is going to be a rambling mess I’m sorry. My (32f) partner of 9 years (34m) blindsided me with a breakup in January. I don’t know what stage I’m in of grief. I have spent the last four days cryin…
advice — to give a bit of background, i have been married 3 years together for 7. high school sweethearts. i’m 25 she’s 23. intimacy has been an issue for years. emotional and physical. we have tried so many t…
I Didn’t Know These Were Emotional Flashbacks Until Recently — I’m a 29F and I got diagnosed by the college therapist back in 2023. She diagnosed me with Major Depressive Disorder and CPTSD with anxious response (which I now believe is full blown Anxiety Disorder…
I’m free — I finally left. After ten years. I asked God for a final sign and he delivered it 45 minutes later with a text popping up on his MacBook for the perfect dramatic ending. Grabbed my dog and literally…
Boundaries in friendships — TW: CA Context: I was diagnosed with a panic disorder that is characterized by C-PTSD back in 2023. C-PTSD is from enduring physical and emotional abuse from ages 8 - 15. My trauma response is the f…
Recently found out had an affair few years back.. Don't know hie to process. — So gonna keep it really short. Not even able to write this out. Currently going through all kinds of thoughts and feelings, depressional, self-loathing, identity crisis, etc. Overthinking Recently …
the lady from august 2023. — one of my deep traumas come from that period in time. i was 18 , i was raped by 3 different people within two days and smoked meth (not by my will, but thats a different story.) when i left the hospit…
the lady from august 2023. — one of my deep traumas come from that period in time. i was 18 , i was raped by 3 different people within two days and smoked meth (not by my will, but thats a different story.) when i left the hospit…
25M feels betraying 23F and need suggestions. — I always wanted a stable relationship, which I never got in past. I was single till age of 23, I craved for love for so long, I was desperate for it. I did everything till age of 22 to be loved, had s…
F23. This friend of mine is prepping for Ciivil Services. Confused about the career. Finished her Law studies and then started prepping for it. What are chances of clearing? Is govt job realistically possible? Or any other better career options she should look for?
32F with 35M for almost 2 years — My bf of almost 2 years doesnt seem to understand why im not happy in our relationship. how can I explain to him AGAIN in a way that he will understand. Below is part of a list of things he says or d…
Is there hope for me 23m and my bf 23m — What do I do? Tl;dr bf works part time job and acts like a slob. I’ll start with some context. we’re both 23. I work as management in retail with a decent salary, bought a house last year, no degree…
My husband told me he has $63,000.00 in credit card debt. — My husband who is 58 years old me female thats is 48 female. Got married in October of 2023. My husband told me on April 6th he has $68,000.00 in credit card debt. I have lost complete trust in the…
My nMom passed away. I handled her final days, funeral, and possessions. — ​ Growing up, I was always told that I looked exactly like my mother. I was her “spitting image.” I sounded like her, had her mannerisms, her laugh—everything. My younger brother also looked …
I’m having severe vivid dreams about my ex boyfriend. I don’t know why? I’ve read that it’s because he’s thinking of me. Every time I wake up I have the urge to text him or see him.Help — Btw we ended in 2020, dated ages 15-17. We are both now 23. No contact since 2022.
Why would an avoidant push me away, but then orbit me for almost 2 years — even while committed to someone else? I feel ashamed for being stuck on this.. I (32F) had a short but intense connection wi…
im 23 (f), i was in an all girls university and started dating post 2023. ever since, ive noticed that my pattern with all men that i am interested in (even if not that much) is kind of problematic. e…
Thank you for your post, u/rkuchiki123. Here are a few important reminders. Please be sure to follow the [Rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/about/rules) and feel free to utilize things…
how to understand if he just needs a break or if he wants to comfortably slip out of contact? i met a man two years ago when i had anorexia nervosa still running and was affected from the illness …
Thank you for your post, u/rkuchiki123. Here are a few important reminders. Please be sure to follow the [Rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/about/rules) and feel free to utilize things…
Thank you for your post, u/Alarming-Office1923. Here are a few important reminders. Please be sure to follow the [Rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/about/rules) and feel free to utiliz…
Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…
I use whole sign houses so this will all line up. Scorpio rising at 12°01’ conjunct Mars at 9°20’ and Pluto at 11°16’. I mention this because my chart ruler in both traditional and modern astrology i…
I’m a 29’44 Pisces sun. The first time Neptune conjunct my sun was in 2023. Neptune and Saturn simultaneously conjunct my sun after three years of the back and forth this last month? I just don’t have…
That is right on the money in my experience! I had moved 2,000 miles from my beloved home city in late 2021 and was grieving the loss of my old home and a big part of my identity which was tied to tha…
I’m not reading all that. It only takes the first couple of paragraphs to know you’re incompatible. You’re 23. You’ll meet someone else.
I did when I was about 22 or 23. We dated a year, broke up 3 months, dated another year. The second was probably one of my worse heartbreaks. I adored that man. He didnt want to me to go to grad s…
It became emotional/sexting in March '23, physical in August '23, d-day was end of September '23, it ended November '23. He hasn't been very remorseful and has been really downplaying a lot of the st…
First of all, you've traveled more than most of the world traveling women i've seen on hinge. What are your age preferences? I am going on 40 yrs old similar bracket. And-#5, 7, 11, 21, 22, 23.
Ok :( he was 22 years older. He’s 54 now. We started dating when I was 23. His new gf is 37. She showed up at my apartment last week “walking her dog” outside my bedroom window which was freakish and …
Yo haré lo mismo para viajar a 2023. Es lo mismo, solo asume que en tu realidad deseada es en esa fecha y pasan exactamente los mismos acontecimientos! Yo haré eso. Mi verano de 2023 es y será mi favo…
You've learned your lessons and don't fall into the same traps. I'm not the same person I am now that I was at 23.
This one is too accurate, even age 23.
I went NC for my dad shortly after Nmom died on Xmas Eve of 2023. He was complicit in his actions and a coward for defending her when she emotionally and physically abuse me. He’s 96 this year and I e…
Thank you for sharing. I’ll say for me, I used GLPs and lost fairly quickly, all in one year in 2023. Idk you but if your journey took 5 years, I wonder if that explains it. 5 years in recent dating c…
Yeah, like for me like I would love to understand SP manifestations because I don’t think that any other type of manifestation is too hard for me. I might not get the manifestation right being an erro…
Everyone I (35M) meet and hit it off with winds up being too young to be acceptable. Women volunteering with me? College students. Cute friend of a coworker who's mature with a great job? I learn duri…
Ditto. Been there. 20 year marriage. Finally separated and I can't believe I didn't sooner. The longer we're apart the more I see what a massive mistake I made. I was 23. I actually remember vividly s…
I’ve been lucky because for most of my adult life I’ve not been close to a narcissist. That changed when I dated a a guy I first went out with in high school, 50 years ago. We got back together in 202…
My dad's work, and my dad's hobbies, and people he encounters that he must complain about. He hasn't asked me how I'm doing since summer 2023.
Original copy of post by u/Next_Ninja3679: Sigh I love seeing all the posts the questions and the answers. However lol I am over 40 I am 53 I think my experience is different. I married my wife in 19…
Man I just want to say it gets better. I lost my wife as well in 23. We were married in 05. There was a long time where I didn’t think I’d want another person in my life. They did eventually chang…
As your target audience the major thing that would make me keep swiping is it seems like you wanna get serious fast and ngl that is quite intimidating. I think you're really cute, seem fun, but stra…
Hi r/asianamerican, this is Jake from The Guardian US. This week marked five years since the Atlanta spa shootings where a gunman killed eight people, so we published this story taking a look back at …
I did. I realized my dad sat back and let her treat us like that. He now fully denies that it happened, and if it did, it wasn’t abuse. He said that in 2023. They got divorced in 2014, and I haven’t s…
It's normal and justified. My enabling dad died in 2021 and my Evil Stepmother died on their anniversary in 2023. When my sister called to tell me the news, I swear the song "Ding Dong the witch is d…
You’re 23. You’re too old to be this much of a doormat. You didn’t want to do it, so you shouldn’t have done it, and you have nothing to be sorry for.
27 wants a 19 yr old? And where is he meeting teens behind your back? Doesn't matter. Leave him. You have nothing to be sorry about, and you wanting his approval sounds exactly how you are an ex wife…
That is exactly it. No problem with 27/23. But the fact that his only option for a threesome was with a 19 year old is very creepy. Could’ve found anyone around their age to do it, but NO, he had to g…
“That being with this girl will help him see how much he really loves me, and may even convince him to marry me.” Girl, come on. If this post is real, you sound like a VERY young 23. Why would you a)…
My ex blind sided me in 2023, "poly bombed" me, told me she's bisexual now and had a crush on her two male best friends (well, one for sure, she said the other was a "maybe"....lucky him 🙄). I went f…
Obviously there’s a reason why you went no contact and I think you shouldn’t go back. A text, or a phone call can bring you back to the same place or even worse than you were before going no contact. …
It’s 1000% connected and research on biopsychology is one of the most interesting and fast-growing fields of today’s time. Hypothyroidism here. Some Cushing’s and mild lupus, too. I’m 30 now, and …
I did with my ex from 2018.. we still saw each other after breaking up so i was still really hopeful until one day I was just fed up and stopped responding and moved on with my life. he reached out mu…
I think I am considering giving it more time, even up to a year. I found out about the affair December 1. My husband moved out because he needed "space" January 23. I found out the affair had continue…
"We haven’t been intimate since 2023. There were other unused tests next to it." I can't even comprehend how you would fix anything after that statement. You are aware that she's getting her jollies …
Meanwhile Cheng Chui Ping "Sister Ping" is revered as a saint among the Fuijianese, but reviled by authorities. A saint by the people she helped http://archive.today/2023.10.21-141132/https://www.nyt…
Hey Op, honestly - our stories are kinda similar. I got with my stbxh when I was 23. I spent 10 years with him. In 2022, he had an online affair with a coworker that spanned over a year. And like you,…
Life things mainly. We also were on and off within these 9 years. I met her when I was a freshman in college. Last we fell out was in December 2022 due to her assuming I was sleeping with a coworker, …
Married 26 years together 27. Divorce was final in 2025 but we separated spring of 2023. I have never been happier. Money is tight. Kids (all grown but still) have had a time of it but they’re healing…
The misinformation is in pretending that hate crimes are the only or even the most important metric. It's misinformation that tries to justify or excuse violent racism against Asian Americans amongst …
Same, early twenties. Particularly, the last two months. I'm 23. The realization was awful.
I have a very similar chart to yours! Same stellum with same house placement. (23.12.1990) I dont feel like a cap at all. Can i ask you, how have the last 6 months been to you? How are you doing?
The last few? That's why we go through the pain at this age. They are so personal, situational; what *sparked* me as a young man wouldn't ENTER my mind as a criteria now. But again: Housing, executi…