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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/24/2026
Node v24.0.0 (Current)

Node v24.0.0 (Current)

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you

Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you — My bf (35M) and I (33F) met December 2024 on a dating app and became exclusive immediately after our first date. On our first few dates he asked what I was looking for and I said I was looking for som…

r/datingoverthirtypost2/12/2026
Are pre-birthday discards the norm?

Are pre-birthday discards the norm? — I’m trying to understand this through attachment theory because I genuinely don’t know what just happened. We’re both women. I was 23 with a grad degree, she was 38 and just got her culinary degree w…

r/attachment_theorypost2/20/2026
Imposter syndrome?

Imposter syndrome? — I went to the therapist last Tuesday, and I have another session tomorrow. When I went, she asked me to tell her about myself and my family from ages 0 to 5 up until I turned 24. When I first started …

r/Anxietyhelppost3/9/2026
Update: I received 3 opportunities in one day after months of nothing! (self-concept shift around money)

Update: I received 3 opportunities in one day after months of nothing! (self-concept shift around money) — A few days ago I made this post about feeling stuck with money even though I had success manifesting other things: [https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/1rm8jfl/success\_with\_loa\_in\_man…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/11/2026
My cop husband cheated and now I can't trust him when he leaves for night shift.

My cop husband cheated and now I can't trust him when he leaves for night shift. — My husband became a cop in 2024 and our entire relationship changed. We've been together since 2019 and we have three kids. Before this, I truly believed he was loyal and strong. He always told me he…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/12/2026
I feel like I was cursed or hexed by someone. How can I get rid of this?

I feel like I was cursed or hexed by someone. How can I get rid of this? — I suddenly feel off. I don't understand what is happening to me but I can't think about anything else other than my past mistakes in my life and insecurities and struggles and negative thoughts in my…

r/energy_workpost3/13/2026
Considering divorce from my husband. I need perspective.

Considering divorce from my husband. I need perspective. — Hey everyone, I've been lurking, but it's my first time posting, so sorry if this is inappropriate. For starters, I'm not asking for advice, as in "what to do", but more like perspective in case I'm …

r/Codependencypost3/16/2026
My husband [M31] let slip in a compliment that he thinks his ex was prettier than me [F28] and I can't stop thinking about it. How do I let it go?

My husband [M31] let slip in a compliment that he thinks his ex was prettier than me [F28] and I can't stop thinking about it. How do I let it go? — EDIT: I have made an update to this post for everyone, see here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/comments/1rwh3g2/update\_my\_husband\_m31\_let\_slip\_in\_a\_compliment/](https://www.r…

r/relationship_advicepost3/16/2026
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
Ex came back with lustful intentions and its so humiliating

Ex came back with lustful intentions and its so humiliating — i really need some support pls. I was in my first relationship in 2024. He was my first love i was intensely attached to him and i was a mess when he left. he admitted that he never fell in love with…

r/ExNoContactpost3/22/2026
Schools Hire Asian Teachers at Half the Rate of Other Groups, Re.search Finds

Schools Hire Asian Teachers at Half the Rate of Other Groups, Re.search Finds — Asian teaching candidates are more likely to boast an advanced degree, but less likely to get a job offer, according to a s.tudy of hiring data. School hiring processes play a crucial role in determi…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/23/2026
Dead bedroom, found pregnancy tests

Dead bedroom, found pregnancy tests — We’ve had a rough few years and nearly 3 year dead bedroom. I was tidying up today and found an opened pregnancy test, used, negative. The expiry date on the packet is 2026. According to research the …

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/24/2026
Struggling and not sure the next step

Struggling and not sure the next step — I’m 23 F, I’m struggling so much with health anxiety I think it stemmed from me being ill in 2024. I had two bad recurring infections, strep and a bad uti. The doctors let me down quite a lot too whic…

r/Anxietyhelppost3/24/2026
Sometimes I feel creeped out by the fact that the woman my husband cheated on me knew about me.

Sometimes I feel creeped out by the fact that the woman my husband cheated on me knew about me. — She knew he was married. He said they met in person, his coworker told her he was married and then she went and found him anyway. She looked him up on Facebook and got his number through some old sid…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/25/2026
still not over her after a year and 3 months.

still not over her after a year and 3 months. — so as the title says, my ex girlfriend broke up with me in december of 2024. since then, I moved out of my parents house, bought the car i’ve wanted since i was 18, have gone on dates and had encounte…

r/ExNoContactpost3/26/2026
The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year)

The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year) — Hello Everyone At the beginning of 2025 I went through the type of breakup I would not wish on my worst enemy, I wont bore you with the details but I struggled with this for over a year. Here are …

r/BreakUpspost3/27/2026
Success Story!

Success Story! — To anyone in the thick of their Divorce. I know it's hard, but realize the pain will pass. I got Divorced back in September 2024. My Ex Wife and I def weren't doing well and had a bad blowup fight a…

r/Divorcepost3/29/2026
3 months of no contact and I still can’t let go. What should I do?

3 months of no contact and I still can’t let go. What should I do? — I’m Mia (20 y.o) and I have clinical depression. My ex Daniel (19 y.o.) and has the same diagnosis. English is my second language, so sorry if something is hard to read, an also sorry for such a huge…

r/BreakUpspost3/30/2026
First visit after going no contact. Support needed.

First visit after going no contact. Support needed. — I (31f) went semi no contact with my narc mother in November 2024. What I mean by ‘semi’ no contact is that I had her blocked on everything except for email - which she of course utilised to the best …

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/30/2026
Interacting with a Being named "Peace."

Interacting with a Being named "Peace." — For the past year and a half I have been channeling and experiencing a being that identifies as Peace. This originally occured during a UFO encounter with an orange glowing orb that was dripping fire.…

r/experiencerspost3/30/2026
Can you take expired hydroxyzine?

Can you take expired hydroxyzine? — I have expired hydroxyzine that expired in 2024. Is it safe to take?

r/Anxietyhelppost3/31/2026
I'm fourteen and I've been in a really weird situation my entire life. I don't know what to do.

I'm fourteen and I've been in a really weird situation my entire life. I don't know what to do. — trigger warning for sensitive content such as abuse (only financial abuse is really explicitly stated), alcoholism, s icidality (in the past, censoring in case it gets the post removed or something)?…

r/selfhelppost3/31/2026
As a man I failed, I guess I just wasn’t ready or understood what a “committed relationship” actually meant

As a man I failed, I guess I just wasn’t ready or understood what a “committed relationship” actually meant — I understand now I shouldn’t interact with people I used to be acquaintances with before the relationship I get into, people I once talked to in a none romantic intent. 8 months ago I (24M now 25) got…

r/BreakUpspost4/1/2026
Plot Twist: He Never Changed

Plot Twist: He Never Changed — It’s been about 6–7 years since I last posted here. I actually left this sub in February because I truly believed that chapter of my life was behind me. After everything, my husband and I did 18 mon…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/1/2026
27 M my first gf left me for another man.

27 M my first gf left me for another man. — I don’t have my first relationship until I was 24. I met her (let’s call her Ashley) while working fast food after I stopped going to college due to Covid & tuition. She was a typical alternative type…

r/BreakUpspost4/2/2026
48 hour cancellation policy

48 hour cancellation policy — I found a therapist who was really helping me but my work schedule is erratic and she requires 48 hours for cancellation. Isn’t this a little extreme?? Most physicians require just 24. I stopped seein…

r/therapypost4/2/2026
Cheated on Years Ago but can’t get over the other woman

Cheated on Years Ago but can’t get over the other woman — I was cheated on 4 years ago with a younger girl. I was 22 at the time and she was 19. My ex bf was 24. Which made it so weird when I found out. We all worked together, it was so awkward and uncomfort…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/3/2026
My mom reported my partner who is a medical professional of sexual misconduct

My mom reported my partner who is a medical professional of sexual misconduct — Trauma dump incoming lol. Trigger warning for sexual assault. My mom reported my partner who is a medical professional of sexual misconduct claiming I was her patient. Now that I have had some space…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/3/2026
Feel lost in life

Feel lost in life — Not really sure how to start this but here goes. Been unemployed since June 2024. Almost a year of applying, interviewing, getting close, and starting over. Also just broke up with my long bf of 7 yr…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/4/2026
Turbulent year. Opinions on the worst year of my life?

Turbulent year. Opinions on the worst year of my life? — I got into a relationship at 16. Within the first two years of our relationship I discovered he was cheating by having sexual chats and sending explicit pictures online to other women. I forgave him a…

r/Divorcepost4/4/2026
Need advice on career progress. In a new country and job contract ends soon. Feeling lost

Need advice on career progress. In a new country and job contract ends soon. Feeling lost — Moved to a new country in late 2024. Landed a full-time job in October 2025 and contract ends this November. Feeling lost and need advice on career progress, as I also support my parents and my partne…

r/vedicastrologypost4/5/2026
Unfortunate in Friendships, once again.

Unfortunate in Friendships, once again. — TL;DR there is (maybe was) a friend of mine whom I thought is my best friend. I found her at my coaching, and I wanted to be friends with her badly. But, fortunately, she talked to me first cos I usua…

r/relationshipspost4/5/2026
Feel like I, M29, am dumbing myself down for gf F23…

Feel like I, M29, am dumbing myself down for gf F23… — So there has been moments leading up to feeling this way, and for anyone who knows, there clearly is a big difference between maturity levels at 23 and late 20s. Not to say that is always the case, bu…

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
I think my girlfriend of almost three years is cheating or has cheated on me.

I think my girlfriend of almost three years is cheating or has cheated on me. — Hi im anonymous(30m), so i have been dating my girlfriend(31F) from november 2024. We met on Tinder. On our first meet up i took her for an ice cream date to one the fast food restaurant near where sh…

r/relationshipspost4/6/2026
Help

Help — I’m 32. I lived in an abusive family until I was 25, when I got married and moved out of my parents’ house. Both of my parents physically abused me since I was about 4 years old. They sent me to a pr…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/6/2026
My ex-husband is borderline stalking our kids

My ex-husband is borderline stalking our kids — I don't know how I got into this situation, but I feel like no one is able to understand or give advice, so I thought I would try Reddit. For legal advice, I will mention that I live in Germany. So…

r/Divorcepost4/6/2026
It has been two years

It has been two years — Exactly two years ago she ghosted me (f27) meanwhile marrying the guy she said she was only friends with and not to worry about, but confessing her feelings to me back in our friendship (I was in love…

r/ExNoContactpost4/6/2026
manifested dream job and internship at ivy league without doing anything

manifested dream job and internship at ivy league without doing anything — hi guys, just wanted to share my recent manifestations and how i achieved them. **TLDR**: i was depressed, working a minimum wage job, not doing anything conducive to my career, and very lost. in 2-3…

r/Manifestationpost4/6/2026
Thinking about just leaving for a while..

Thinking about just leaving for a while.. — New here.. I got out of a 10 year long relationship with a physically abusive boyfriend in 2016. I started my healing-journey and felt joy again. Got both my PTSD diagnosis as well as ADHD. Was sing…

r/CPTSDpost4/6/2026
My imposter syndrome to do with driving and feeling like I don't belong on the road was all because of my parents, because of my experience of asking them to take me somewhere and them not wanting to drive me there, and me thinking about that, was the reason I had my worst ever driving lesson today

My imposter syndrome to do with driving and feeling like I don't belong on the road was all because of my parents, because of my experience of asking them to take me somewhere and them not wanting to drive me there, and me thinking about that, was the reason I had my worst ever driving lesson today — Long title but I'll explain it. I turned 17 in December 2024. And my parents have always wanted me to pass my driving test. Not because of independence, but because they want something "material" to …

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/6/2026
My ex fiancé ruined my life and it’s kind of my fault.

My ex fiancé ruined my life and it’s kind of my fault. — This is a long, absolutely insane story. So buckle up. I’m only here as a way to get it out of my head and because of smosh story time on fb. Idk I guess I like other people reading stories. So here’s…

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
I loved an avoidant

I loved an avoidant — And I abandoned myself. 2023 I moved to a new state. Long story but it was another relationship that took me there that ended after I committed to the move (professional licensing, apt, etc). He chea…

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
I dont want to live like this (but I will keep living)

I dont want to live like this (but I will keep living) — long vent just typing to keep myself focused on this instead of hurting myself. i am the most safe and lucky and happy ive been in my whole life and i still just dont want to be here. ive worked thr…

r/CPTSDpost4/7/2026
No contact for 3 months then my ex messages me

No contact for 3 months then my ex messages me — My ex and I have been together for almost 5 years on 2024. I broke it off with her October of that year but we were still seeing each other and talking like we never broke off since december of 2025.…

r/ExNoContactpost4/8/2026
I [19M] am nervous about sex with my boyfriend [19M] any advice?

I [19M] am nervous about sex with my boyfriend [19M] any advice? — Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years as of March 15th. It has mostly been online/long distance although we made the trip to have an amazing first in person date (and kiss- and dance and…

r/relationship_advicepost4/8/2026
How does the honeymoon phase end? I feel like mine was so forceful.

How does the honeymoon phase end? I feel like mine was so forceful. — TL;DR I’m 24(F) who’s been with my boyfriend 26(M) since October 2024. Close friends to lovers type of story. A few months of trying to date, dating then official on Oct. We were well into the honey…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Should I (25f) be patient with my grieving bf (26m) or move on with my life

Should I (25f) be patient with my grieving bf (26m) or move on with my life — This is a bit long, but I’d really appreciate some advice. I (25F) have been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (26M) for a little over a year. We briefly dated in college at 20, brok…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Am I not doing enough?

Am I not doing enough? — I (26F) am expected to be like a housewife to my boyfriend (26M). To start, we aren’t married or anywhere close to it. We’ve been together for almost 3 years and moved in together last summer so we’re…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Wonderful information in the introduction. I would love to get some personal insight from people who are familiar with Astal Projection. I'll keep it as short as possible. I have recently discovered t…

r/AstralProjectioncomment2/9/2024
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

So me and guy are talking, been about a week. He asked to be exclusive with talking and I said yes because I don’t usually talk to many people at the same time so he would be the only one I would be t…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/5/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Nah, I don't think it's specifically you. I noticed less and less engagement and success on the apps the last few years I was using them. I quit entirely in 2024.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you

All posts are manually reviewed before being approved for posting. This usually takes less than an hour, though it can take longer depending on moderator availability. While you wait for your post to …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I met my now husband on hinge January 2024. Went exclusive end of January 2024. Moved in together August 2024 (his lease ended so it made sense to move into my condo). Engaged May 2025. Bought our hou…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/13/2026
Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you

There’s nothing wrong with fun and good, but I don’t want a relationship JUST for “fun and good”. I want depth, emotional connection, vulnerability. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how long you “marinate”…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

35/2 + 7 = 24.5 Not gonna lie, it's fairly borderline, but not definitively a problem.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/16/2026
Silence after a breakup

I experienced this in 2024. I was in love with the wrong guy, and we exchanged words one night, and that was it. I tried reaching out for about 2 weeks, but he was not responding. No matter how hard i…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

3 months! I told him truly on accident the first time 1 month in, even though I was starting to feel that way. He told me genuinely, and I reciprocated after 3, over Christmas weekend in 2024.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I'm 32/F, one of those people who is super independent to a fault and rarely asks for help. Over the years I've had many friendships and men who were interested in me, but I tended to just friendzone …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Women keep telling me I need to date younger and now my daughter has too.

I'm 33 and get shocked looks when I tell people They say I look 21. I regularly date girls who are 22-24. If you looked super old I don't think people would be telling you to date younger. Ignore …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026

Been talking to a new guy on Tinder for about a week. Had some great easily flowing conversation, lots in common, he’s super hot in his pictures though I did notice he’s wearing a hat in each one. He …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
Am I crazy? I feel like a stalker.

Omg sweetheart I had this happen in 2024. We had an argument and he said he is done and will never loved me then blocked all my calls. This type of break up is the worst because there isn’t closure. I…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/9/2026
Any clue what could have happened?

That’s really beautiful and interesting. Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds almost magical. I’ve heard a lot about the use of DMT on here and researched it myself. It sounds like a wor…

r/experiencerscomment3/9/2026
DAE find dating just kinda ..boring?

I'll just say 2 things that I think are related here: 1. I think it's normal to just not click with most people. I'm recently married now, but I met my husband on Hinge in 2024. Lots of first dates I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/9/2026
I manifested a PS5, after a month it met me in the 3D

I manifested one by accident as well . I was driving my family member to get their car picked up at dealer, and I asked him if he got the ps5 pro and said now , then he asked how I liked it and told …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/10/2026
No contact year 6 update:

I’m going for 2 years since my breakup in about two months. At this point I’ve had a sinking feeling that I’m not going to heal completely, even if I am emotionally in a better place than 2024. We las…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/10/2026
r/BreakUpscomment3/10/2026
Anyone else's parents never encouraged their hobbies?

I still have this done to me and I’m almost 24.

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/11/2026
I am amazed that anyone would ever get married again after divorce - help me understand!

Emotions like hope drives us forward and convinces us things will be different. They may be. I had a divorce that started in 2020 and we were legally divorced in 2024. I am still waiting on QDRO to …

r/Divorcecomment3/12/2026
Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

I'll use myself as an example.  I voted for DJT in 16, 20, and 24.  Because to me he was a better choice than Hillary, Biden, or Kamala.  I believe in the concept of "Making America Great Again"…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/12/2026
Will i get married if i pursue my phd abroad? I'm turning 29 in two months and if I accept my phd offer, it'll start in June. The country im going to has few Indians only.

More than a year left in current AD. A relationship could have ended in this AD but probably it started before this AD. As in before Aug'24. I think.

r/vedicastrologycomment3/12/2026
My (19f) boyfriend (19m) keeps telling me I’m at high risk of diabetes. How do I address this?

He sucks. Get rid of him. Also, it has a lot to do with genetics. My husband developed type 2 diabetes at about 23 or 24. We have always had similar sugar intakes. We are now 39 and 40. I’m signific…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/12/2026
Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

>I am a straight, white, Christian, college educated, Conservative Male who believes that we SHOULD be doing what we can to Make OUR America Great Again. https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t39.30…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/12/2026
When/how to disclose weight loss

I’ve lost 150lbs since having my oldest. I had a mommy makeover on my upper body. My legs still show significant weight loss. I’m pretty upfront about it. At my largest, I was a 24. I’m now a 0-2. The…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/13/2026
What makes mercury strong/weak?

Mercury sitting in a friendly house of Venus closer to Venus and farther from Saturn mars Rahu. May be low on dikbala still having a strong Mercury sitting with good sthana Bala is pretty decent. Anot…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/13/2026
What would you do if your ex texted you "I miss you so much" right now?

Tell him I miss him, too. But, I’m sure he knows. He was just here Tuesday. I hadn’t seen him in a year, we broke up late-June 2024. It was mutual due to long misalignment. But we were both happy …

r/BreakUpscomment3/14/2026
Which pics should I use for my online dating profile? 41M

First photo as 7. Remaining photos as 5, 14, 17, and 24.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/14/2026
Please tell them the truth before it destroys them.

I second this. D-Day number 1 was 8/22/2025. Number 2 was 8/24. Number 3 was 12/24. Yes, Christmas Eve. Number 4 was 1/15/2026. Number 5 was about 1/20/2026 through 2/1/2026. Just thinking about any …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
My boyfriend (31M) is upset I prioritize money and don’t want kids, even though I (24F) told him this from the start

OP, you sound like such a responsible, wise, very direct and clear person, that reading your post had me feeling so proud of you. I(40f) know I'm just a stranger on the internet and that it might seem…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
r/Codependencycomment3/14/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 14, 2026

Everyone I (35M) meet and hit it off with winds up being too young to be acceptable. Women volunteering with me? College students. Cute friend of a coworker who's mature with a great job? I learn duri…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/15/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 17, 2026

I don’t know where you’re living so it certainly could be your area, but just to give you some hope - I’m an almost 37 year old woman and I met my amazing partner on Hinge in October 2024. He’s 18 mon…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/17/2026
25f, going through divorce, concerned about future. Help me

Saturn's position isn't good. Troubles started post June 2024. Moon, Mercury and Venus Antardasha will be better. Also, things will get better once Jupiter MD starts provided you don't marry again.

r/vedicastrologycomment3/17/2026
I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything?

From the internet: 1-800-650-6522 If you are in danger, please use a safer computer, or call 911, Alabama's Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-650-6522, or the U.S. National Domestic Violence Hotline…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
I (22 male) slept with my colleague (30 female) and fell in love, but it was unrequited.

Man. I had something like this when I was 24. She was one of those young looking hotties around. I get your emotional shock but you are super lucky. I also lost my virginity with that hottie. She was …

r/relationshipscomment3/17/2026
I think I have to leave this sub

As another widower, thanks for not using "move on". The loss of them leaves such a gaping wound in our life. I was with my wife for 31 years before she died in December '24.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/18/2026
I think I have to leave this sub

As a fellow widower, I agree. My wife of 31 years passed in December 2024. I've recently come to the same conclusion. A lot of grief I thought I'd processed has been coming out of the woodwork. So whi…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/18/2026
Been over a year no contact

Oh no, I actually just woke up and she came back in my dream and talked to me and I woke up and poof, she’s gone again. I’m not well, I think about her every ten minutes. She left me in December of 20…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/18/2026
Can I be honest? Scrolling through this subreddit is really depressing.

In 2023 I was rapidly killing myself with my drug use and couldn't see a way out. I had a couple of near-misses and felt immense disappointment when I woke up in hospital that my life had been saved. …

r/CPTSDcomment3/18/2026
Being Single Again

Fairly similar circumstances here. Married for 17 years. Divorced in January. Haven’t been single since I was 24. We do have two kids. We each bought our own separate house. It feels weird going to he…

r/Divorcecomment3/19/2026
How do I (39F) forgive my husband (39M) for making a fake vet appt for our senior dog?

It’s new-ish. In 2023 I had something traumatic happen at my job and left without having another one lined up, with my husband’s blessing. I planned on finding another one right away but within two we…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
40M, Why my career is not successful?

Pretty simple. Look at the dashas so far and the strength of your Lagna lord Jupiter. Jupiter is debilitated and aspected by Saturn at the same time. You started with least favorable Venus dasha that …

r/vedicastrologycomment3/20/2026
My (26M) brother (35M) has impregnated my ex wife(F27) and is engaged to marry her. How do I move on going forward?

We have been officially divorced since July of 2024. We never stopped having sex even after our divorce up until I moved away in October of 2024.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Anyone find out later in life the “good” parent was as bad as the “bad” parent?

Yes yes yes to everything you just said. OMG yes. I just discovered this after my Nmom passed away in 24. Now Edad is going to get diagnosed with dementia in a couple of weeks. I'm (63f) the only chil…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
Surprise Surprise another tale of a cheater

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/20/2026
Were you basically surviving your entire childhood?

Yes, it lasted until a few years after my marriage. I was around 24.

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
You had an OBE, right?

Its an interesting thing. Ive had barely any OBEs in 2025, and a ton of OBEs in 2024. I did the tapes at a similar rate both those years. I drank a lot more coffee in 2025, so maybe that's why, but…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/21/2026
Ex husband remarried

My opinion is that men actually benefit more from marriage than women. They do better when supported by a woman. Women slow down to support them. People tend to value it on money only vs why men tradi…

r/Divorcecomment3/22/2026