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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …

Does cold email still works in 2025 ? — Hi there, I'm a beginner to freelancing, and I make landing page designs, currently I haven't landed any clients yet, I've tried cold DM for a while but got no results, that's why I thought to start m…

A Modest Proposal — A Manifesto for Metrics-First Everything — Picture it: Q1 FY 2025. A Medicaid patient opens an app to request mental health services. The screen is sleek—gradient buttons, playful microinteractions, and conversion-optimized flows. A calm anima…

Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about — Hey folks, Just wanted to drop this little gem of corporate masochism So I work at this company where we develop software for real state agencies, in this 'properties' sql table we have a field cal…

Half Day Meditation Workshop For Anxious Preoccupied and Fearful Preoccupied: Focusing on the sense of "unpredictable threat" or "uncaused anxiety', this Sunday 7th of December 2025, Donation based. — Half day meditation workshop on healing "anxiety without cause". It's this Sunday December 7th 2025. Donation based. If you can't make a donation due to finances then you can apply for a scholarship…

Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you — My bf (35M) and I (33F) met December 2024 on a dating app and became exclusive immediately after our first date. On our first few dates he asked what I was looking for and I said I was looking for som…

I finally realized my fear of closeness is really a fear of being known — I've been working to understand myself better as a DA, in part with the help of Reddit. I now feel the last puzzle pieces fell into place and I finally have a coherent story of why I am the way I am. …

SATURN RETURN & TRANSITING SATURN/NEPTUNE IN ARIES POSTS PROBLEMS — # PROBLEMS WITH SATURN RETURN POSTS We are getting a lot of Saturn Return questions as transiting Saturn enters Aries. First, many of you think your Saturn Return just began today, Feb. 14, 2026 (usi…

How is upcoming eclipse related to last March? — I’ve seen a couple astrologers share how the upcoming March 3 eclipse and this mercury retrograde is related to what we experienced back in March 2025. Can someone share more on that connection? What …

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

Another real life example of how clear communication can be distorted into a victim narrative. Emotions can rewrite history, too. There are two sides to every story. — Receipts! Slides 1-2: Their version of events Slide 3: only a snippet of all their comments on vent/rant threads and others. Removed by automod for not having a user flair (a clear rule and automod …

I made the worst mistake ever — Me (47f) and my partner (45m) met in April 2024, started seeing each other in August 2024 & moved to a serious status in March 2025. I had moved in as a roommate but now we share a room as partners. …

Revision is where it's at. — People say that revision works faster and this is my experience as well. I'm a fairly good manifestor but there were a few things I was stuck on, namely my height. I carried a bit of disappointment …

Accidentally Forced Into Astral Projection, Now A Beginner Who Has Several Successful Intentional Attempts — I am a beginner in astral projection and only started to AP in Dec of 2025. I have progressed rapidly within the last 2 months in intentional attempts. I was forced into experiencing "symptoms" of A…

my "method" to manifest everything — I got into manifestation back in 2025. I studied a lot of techniques, rules, and read so many books about the law of attraction and all that stuff. And honestly? I heard millions of rules about manife…

My(25F) boyfriend(25M) tells my mom too much and it pisses me off — This is a throwaway. We’re 25. We’ve been friends for a really long time and dating for 5 years. And my mom has known him since he was a kid cuz she’s his family doctor. They’re quite close too becaus…

Considering divorce from my husband. I need perspective. — Hey everyone, I've been lurking, but it's my first time posting, so sorry if this is inappropriate. For starters, I'm not asking for advice, as in "what to do", but more like perspective in case I'm …

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

I made my husband confess to OBS and here’s what happened — For your education and entertainment purposes, this is the story of what happened when I forced my husband to confess to OBS. Quick backstory: (you can read the full post on my profile) my husband h…

Saw my ex after 4 months — Hello, just thought I’d vent here really quick. My ex (24F) and I (25M) broke up 11/15/25. We broke up over the phone and haven’t seen each other or spoke since. Today (3/20) I decided to go out with …

Ex husband remarried — \*Update to my previous postings on this sub.\* My ex husband got married this morning. We just divorced in October 2025. I feel like he is crazy. I don’t know how I feel about this. I am glad he has…

I'm so sick of laying in bed — don't know what to do. I work a regular 40 hour office job that's not even that difficult or stressful. But as soon as I'm home, I end up in bed. Even showering feels like a chore. Getting out of bed…

~1 year no contact check in. It gets better! — Here’s my experience of going from never being single as an adult to single and happy (spoiler alert! It was SO hard but probably the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done).  Background context: I had …

UPDATE 1 my sister (F32) got married to her husband (M32) 5 months ago and is having an affair? — my sister (F32) got married to her husband (M32) 5 months ago and is having an affair? I (21F) am looking for advice as I'm in a really tricky situation. so backstory..... my sister and her now hus…

Ex wife (36f) never read the divorce paperwork - Not even once. — Long story short, former step-son (15m) broke into my (42m) house in CT that I'm selling and caused some serious damage. I still talk to my stepson because I'm really the only stable adult in his li…

The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year) — Hello Everyone At the beginning of 2025 I went through the type of breakup I would not wish on my worst enemy, I wont bore you with the details but I struggled with this for over a year. Here are …

I (f 22) tested positive for an std after years of being clean and consistent testing and my bf (m 24) of 2 years says it’s “impossible” it’s because of him despite not being tested for 5 years and now we’re not okay. — \*\*\*UPDATE\*\*\* After a long 3 days my results came back and they were all negative. I, of course, told my boyfriend and he was relived much like I was. He was supportive of me and he apologized …

The real truth. — I miss my ex-wife. We were married for thirteen years, have been divorced since May of 2025. I've seen her fall in love with someone else and get married to that person and while it did hurt, I kind…

i'm feeling so fucking lost and alone i don't know what to do — It's been +4months since my bf of 3.5 years broke up with me back in November 2025. It was really heartbreaking for both of us bc we had an amazing, truly healthy relationship but hewas going through …

This was what I said when we met up a week later after she said she would’ve married me while breaking up with me. Only reason we met up was cuz I asked if she was serious ab what she said and she said “yes. I would’ve married you” — I’ve had a lot of time to really think about and indulge in what happened to cause this. You are right. I shouldn’t have added her back. But what you’re wrong about is what you think what was said aft…

My parents are shaming for not having a career at 25. And want me to get married instead. — F 2000 born. I completed my Master’s in 2024, and since then I have been at home unemployed. I will be honest, I was not serious during this time. I was very laid back, did not prepare well for jobs, …

I broke up with my ex, but now I’m the one stuck and hurting — I have been with my ex for 7 years we were high-school sweet heart we started dating in 2017. we graduated high-school together nad college. we did everything together had got our first apartment. in…

Haven't been on a date in 15 years and I don't know what women my age wear on dates now — 44F, divorced last year after 15 years. I'm finally ready to start dating again. Made profiles on hinge and bumble and immediately panicked about photos because I look like a mom in every single pictu…

Some supportive words to all you going through this. — just as the title says, I wanted to share something with you all. A bit of trauma dumping. If you’d like to know how I was feeling a few weeks ago, you can look at my profile for my most recent post…

I have bare mummy issues from being raised by a boy mum — My dad is genuinely just a terrible person. A far far worse parent than my mum, but I think because of this my brain didn't even register him as a parent, just an abusive man that lived in my house. I…

Should I give him another chance? — F26 M29 dated for a little less than 3 years. We have amazing chemistry that feels genuinely out of this world. We have the most fun together and he’s genuinely my best friend. We’re good together whe…

physical manifestation — Sometimes, even if our manifestations materialize, it feels like luck. From the moment I learned about manifestation, around 2020, I was hooked. Sadly, at the time it wasn’t that well known in my circ…

First first date in 28 years... — Married the first guy I ever dated, together for 28 years, married almost 25. He decided he wanted to date other women, process started over a year ago, all finalized in January. Got on facebook da…

Do I must leave her and completly cut off ? — We have a messed up past. I did love her but then she was in a long distance relationship. I don't know then, so when I talked for a month then I already dropping hints that I like her. She just befor…

Partner and best friend for 6 years cheated online — It's hard to think how much I still love this girl. We were engaged, relationship started on rocky terms and she was on drugs. Helped her get off them and shared everything I know, we were 4 years apa…

They want to exorcise me ?! — Hey,, so a family member wants to exorcise me from my mental health issues. Im 25. I already made a post about this but ill quickly go over and link the post if i can figure reddit out. I got diagn…

I think I just “received” something about Chris Bledsoe’s prediction, but I don’t have enough knowledge to better develop my reasoning about what I received. Is there any astrologer, chemist and alchemist here in this group? The question is something about regulus, halogen, tennessine and antimony. — This also seems to have to do with Archangel Michael. If you are a astrologer, chemist and alchemist, could you please tell us if you can visualize any possible physics or metaphysics connection betw…

Posting here too. Help a fella out. Stay away homophobics. — I posted the same one of r/subliminals. Someone suggested me to check this reddit out, so here I am. Help me out, I have no idea whatsoever on what to do anymore. So- only read if you genuinely have …

Plot Twist: He Never Changed — It’s been about 6–7 years since I last posted here. I actually left this sub in February because I truly believed that chapter of my life was behind me. After everything, my husband and I did 18 mon…

I don’t know what to do anymore. — M17, neurodivergent. Ever since 2025. I’ve fell into an endless hole of bad behavior. I keep losing people I genuinely liked and increased more of the hateful stuff they make of me. I’m at my lowest. …

On incubi and sexual possessions — It’s been five years since I first began sensing invisible entities around me. I underwent psychiatric treatment throughout all that time, and my life eventually stabilized. I finally got a good job a…

Advice on how you cope/manage — I left a 4 yr relationship in December 2025. I made a close friend back in October 2025 and after the breakup we became interested in each other. I had no plans of seeking another relationship, it jus…

19f feelings of cheating and disillusionment — I got out of a pretty serious relationship in Jan 2025 which affected a lot of relationships i had. I had cheated on that partner and then later in a very emotionally tense scenario got with one of hi…

Pushed into open marriage? Sorry, just some unsorted thoughts — My wife and I first talked about an open marriage during our vacation in the Maldives in 2025. At first, I didn't think the idea was that bad. However, I have no desire for another woman. I told her i…

I haven't been single since 25. I feel you.

It literally is, look at that essay you wrote. You’re overcomplicating things and applying 3D thinking to something that really has little to do with the 3D. The 3D is merely the result of all of this…

[https://youtu.be/j0REex781ZU?si=xyY07PlK4drZFrUe](https://youtu.be/j0REex781ZU?si=xyY07PlK4drZFrUe) Skip to 12:15. I think this can help you. It's not an answer to your 1-6, there are some really gr…

"The last FA I dated shit tested me early on, dumping some not so flattering info about herself just to see how I would react." • Mine has done it throughout all 4 years! I faltered a few times, yes…

The overarching question is, how do you know when you are doing something unhealthy as an anxiously attached person versus you're justified in having your needs met and the person you are dating is be…

idc what you did today. idc what you do tomorrow. i badly want to leave you in 2025. i find peace in solitude.

I’m securely attached, and was definitely in a long term relationship starting very early on. But, I was ethically non monogamous, I do have long term lovers. No they don’t become romantic partners. I…

I'm currently at the tail end of the same experience. I had been orbiting a FA since March of 2025. The connection repeatedly hit my abandonment wound when she would suddenly withdraw on me just as I…

This is my opinion based on my experiences and the experiences of my friends so keep that in mind. Here are a few reasons: - The guys don’t want “anything serious”. - They make no effort to get to kn…

I know that feeling. No shame in taking a break from dating. You wouldn't believe how much better I've been feeling since I quit the apps since the start of 2025.

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I met my now husband on hinge January 2024. Went exclusive end of January 2024. Moved in together August 2024 (his lease ended so it made sense to move into my condo). Engaged May 2025. Bought our hou…

I was with my girlfriend for 5 years total, we got married last year, and the divorce is just being finalized now. 6 months of marriage, haha. She made a decision that effectively ended the marriage, …

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

Anyone ever had the wish to ask an avoidant (kind of) ex, what they were lacking for the avoidant to commit? I can’t get it out of my head that he managed to have a 3.5 year relationship before we fir…

Hey y'all Im an aquarius rising with saturn in my second house of Pisces at 10 degrees. It's in a square to my 5th house Gemini moon, opposition to my 8th house vertex in virgo, and a trine to my 10…

With my parents it's hard to say. I recently looked up how love for one's parents feels, and I never experienced any of the feelings described. I'm not sure whether this means I've always been deactiv…

I'm pretty surprised by men using extremely outdated pics on their profiles. I met a guy last month and he looked 20lbs heavier and at least 5 years older than his tinder pics. Another guy I was just…

I am sending you virtual hugs! I struggle with very similar feelings. I’ve only had one physically intimate relationship, and it took me until I was 25. It ended very quickly, and ever since the…

lol I’m in the same position with my parents haha My mum is onto her second massive inheritance. She got the first one from her mother when I was 15 ish and she’d spent it by the time I was 25. She d…

Adolescent mentally, adult legally. There is a difference. Mentally, you are not an adult until you are 25. Your brain is still going through a lot of changes at 18, hence being an adolescent.

Not that you asked for it, but I'm gonna weigh in here...As long as their prefrontal cortex is fully developed, i'm willing to have some conversation to see where we lie. I am somebody that is a kid a…

One month yesterday. Engaged and supposed to be getting married July 25. He broke up with me and slept with his friend (and my friend - who was going to be a bridesmaid for me) the very next night. An…

I took LSD and listened to Gateway on my headphones as I walked through the park for three hours. Two days later, I woke up (it was still dark out) and saw what I believe to be a nj drone in the dis…

I’m going through the same thing right now. 8 years together. He first broke up with me in August 2025. We moved separately. Then we reconnected around November 2025. Between then and now he’s tried t…

People change and grow. You learn what you actually need vs what you thought you wanted at 25. Some people find someone who fits that better. Not for everyone but I get why others try again.

My copay was $25 and I wouldn't have done therapy at all if it was more. It's definitely not worth $200 a session. It's definitely worth $25.

I don't have an answer for you because my Dad is still alive. He told me I caused my mom's death, four months after she died. (I already knew he was saying this as I know him VERY well and a family …

It's reasonable to date people for any reason. It just burns my ass that liking bigger people means you must have unconventional tastes. Which is weird when you consider that *globally*, over 40% of a…

Yea fyi OP generally in men schizophrenia starts showing symptoms around 18-25. Could easily be comorbid with depression and anxiety, but this seems like textbook early or mild schizophrenia.

I can answer that completely. Just went through this when adopting my adopted-twice-before kid.. That involved a lot of digging for different birth certificates. If you know what city/town you were …

I second this. D-Day number 1 was 8/22/2025. Number 2 was 8/24. Number 3 was 12/24. Yes, Christmas Eve. Number 4 was 1/15/2026. Number 5 was about 1/20/2026 through 2/1/2026. Just thinking about any …

I (a woman) bought some minoxidil to try on my thinning hair, but then I read [this study ](https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/24734306.2025.2583667#abstract) and decided my cats are too imp…

so true what you said about wbtb - also accounts for 70-75% of my 100+ lucid dreams within a year. and yup consistent with journaling, i have not missed a day in my dream journal since starting in may…

Three things--- 1, she's allowed to change her mind. It's one thing to think you want to age naturally before you've experienced any aging, but life is long and you see your face the whole time. I r…

Get an abortion, get your associates degree, and live a happy quiet life away from this dickhead who you'll completely forget why you married by the time you're 25.

I experienced a "flashbulb" event once, early in 2025. It was one of the first events in a steady stream of interactions with UAP that I experienced from January through October 2025. I can't recall t…

Mate don't go at it from the surgery aspect - just discuss purely financial. As a woman I can tell you the body changes after having a kid can be depressing AF and I honestly don't think its unusual s…

Nope. Broke up Oct 4 and been in no contact since Oct 25. Silence since then.

Divorcing at 25. Damn.

same deal. I averaged maybe 5 dates per year in the last 6 years. zero dates between 2022-2025. These are "die alone" numbers. Couldn't get women to chat long enough on the apps. Essentially they …

English is my second language, so if sentence comes strange - that's why. I'm adding this in helpful spirit because what you wrote about wasting seven years and feeling like teenager in adult body - t…

> Mind me asking what you meant when you deactivate for 11 years? I was unaware at the time, I'd never even heard of attachment theory. However, I came out of deactivation when I worked on healing my…

Hey, i get you! Been single 16 months after a 7.5 year very toxic relationship with a very flawed man. I’m staying off the apps bc from previous experience (7 years ago and then 14 years ago), it just…

I thank God every day im bout to be 45 and still love sex as much as I did at 25. I pray for all the limp dics out there who need meds

1. Dated a narc coworker (I know I know terrible decision) she was inquiring about hanging out outside of work March 2024 while she still was in a relationship she labeled abusive. That was my first…

Yep...I figured it out in December 2024, decided to go no-contact in February 2025, and then she died suddenly in May 2025. Been a weird ride.

Before it even began. I didn’t want to. I also didn’t want to have kids. I felt like I emotionally couldn’t commit to either. But I did it because he wanted to and it made him happy. It wasn’t the…

My opinion is that men actually benefit more from marriage than women. They do better when supported by a woman. Women slow down to support them. People tend to value it on money only vs why men tradi…

You don’t sound lazy or broken to me. You sound exhausted in a way that sleep alone isn’t fixing. What you described — everything feeling like a chore, nothing feeling rewarding, wanting rest but not…