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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/24/2026
March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

r/astrologypost3/2/2026
A decision of a cub

A decision of a cub — Hey fellow Cubs and Lions, Funny, but this is my second post today (I deleted the first one) after years of silently going through the Index and the posts religiously, without posting anything at all…

r/JosephMurphypost3/5/2026
I'm 26 and i'm lost.

I'm 26 and i'm lost. — Hello, I’m a 26-year-old woman. My family isn’t wealthy, so when I started college at 20, I eventually had to stop because of financial problems. I began working instead. Since then, I’ve mostly been…

r/selfhelppost3/9/2026
Why is my relationship with money so fraught?

Why is my relationship with money so fraught? — REPOST: edited and reposted with WHOLE SIGN chart. Context: I was raised in scarcity, have always been rather lucky though and have had access to other people's money in my adult life. particularly …

r/AskAstrologerspost3/11/2026
Update: I received 3 opportunities in one day after months of nothing! (self-concept shift around money)

Update: I received 3 opportunities in one day after months of nothing! (self-concept shift around money) — A few days ago I made this post about feeling stuck with money even though I had success manifesting other things: [https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/1rm8jfl/success\_with\_loa\_in\_man…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/11/2026
UPDATE: My (32f) fiancé (28m) repeatedly does not clean the house

UPDATE: My (32f) fiancé (28m) repeatedly does not clean the house — Hello lovely reddit. First relevant links. My first post I deleted (so you can peruse the comments if you are interested): [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/18yjl0g/my\_32f\_fianc%C3%…

r/relationshipspost3/12/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach. — I’m 28 and my wife is 26. We’ve been married for 4 years and we have a 1-year-old child together. Before we got married, we had a lot of conversations about values and expectations for the future. On…

r/relationship_advicepost3/16/2026
How can I make the most of the rest of my 20s?

How can I make the most of the rest of my 20s? — I’m 26F and will be turning 27 soon. I really can’t believe that I was 17 ten years ago now. But I still feel like a teenager, like I haven’t actually grown up. Like my frontal lobe didn’t even fully …

r/selfhelppost3/17/2026
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago

My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago — This is my first post on Reddit. My spouse and I are both 44, and have been married since 2014. We met and started dating when we were 26. In late 2016, her cousin, who was her best friend, was killed…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/18/2026
I am going to do an affirmation challenge for 1 month

I am going to do an affirmation challenge for 1 month — It's Wednesday, March 18th 2026. For one month I'll be using the following affirmations "robotically" as well as using an affirmation tape which I will be playing to myself as much as I can: "I am p…

r/Manifestationpost3/18/2026
Dead bedroom, found pregnancy tests

Dead bedroom, found pregnancy tests — We’ve had a rough few years and nearly 3 year dead bedroom. I was tidying up today and found an opened pregnancy test, used, negative. The expiry date on the packet is 2026. According to research the …

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/24/2026
First provoked exit from the body, Raduga method, smart band analysis

First provoked exit from the body, Raduga method, smart band analysis — Yesterday afternoon I received a smart band with a vibrating alarm on my wrist so as not to wake my partner. I had previously experienced two spontaneous OBEs within a 2-3 month period, but I had neve…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/27/2026
The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year)

The best things I did to stop me ruminating and wishing my ex would come back (After wishing she would for more than a year) — Hello Everyone At the beginning of 2025 I went through the type of breakup I would not wish on my worst enemy, I wont bore you with the details but I struggled with this for over a year. Here are …

r/BreakUpspost3/27/2026
Part 1. How casinos in New England are exploiting Asian communities for profit

Part 1. How casinos in New England are exploiting Asian communities for profit — Long, long articles on how casinos use a variety of tactics to prey on Asians to rake in billions of dollars in profit; illegal gambling parlors in chinatown; and what Boston residents are doing to fi…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/27/2026
How do I know what year to calculate for my solar return?

How do I know what year to calculate for my solar return? — How do I know what year to calculate for my solar return if I want to see the year ahead? I’m very confused on where your solar return starts and how to know what year you are in. I did one for may 9…

r/AskAstrologerspost3/29/2026
This was what I said when we met up a week later after she said she would’ve married me while breaking up with me. Only reason we met up was cuz I asked if she was serious ab what she said and she said “yes. I would’ve married you”

This was what I said when we met up a week later after she said she would’ve married me while breaking up with me. Only reason we met up was cuz I asked if she was serious ab what she said and she said “yes. I would’ve married you” — I’ve had a lot of time to really think about and indulge in what happened to cause this. You are right. I shouldn’t have added her back. But what you’re wrong about is what you think what was said aft…

r/BreakUpspost3/29/2026
Haven't been on a date in 15 years and I don't know what women my age wear on dates now

Haven't been on a date in 15 years and I don't know what women my age wear on dates now — 44F, divorced last year after 15 years. I'm finally ready to start dating again. Made profiles on hinge and bumble and immediately panicked about photos because I look like a mom in every single pictu…

r/datingoverfortypost3/30/2026
My life completely transformed

My life completely transformed — In the beginning of 2026, I was in a completely different space than I am now in April 2026. I’ve always manifested believed in prayer and experienced miracles on a smaller scale — but I decided to b…

r/Manifestationpost3/31/2026
Something about manifestation that most people get wrong (probably you do too)

Something about manifestation that most people get wrong (probably you do too) — There is a version of you three months from now sitting somewhere quiet, maybe with a cup of something warm, and that version of you is not excited. They are not jumping. They are not screaming into t…

r/Manifestationpost3/31/2026
How did you know your marriage was over?

How did you know your marriage was over? — How did you know your marriage was over? For context, this is all very new to me and I am a child of divorce myself. I never believed I would be in this situation, especially given my age (28). I am a…

r/Divorcepost4/2/2026
29 M, living separately from wife since 2 months. Troubled marriage of 2 years (17th Feb, 2024). Is Divorce Imminent? Also having doubt regarding future career and wealth creation prospects

29 M, living separately from wife since 2 months. Troubled marriage of 2 years (17th Feb, 2024). Is Divorce Imminent? Also having doubt regarding future career and wealth creation prospects — Living separately from wife since Feb 2026. Had an arranged marriage setup with majority of the Gunn matching (around 27 out of 36 Gunn matching as per pandit). Had good tuning initially but around th…

r/vedicastrologypost4/2/2026
Something I genuinely need help with

Something I genuinely need help with — (My first time posting here) Hello! I'm a beginner shifter who started shifting on March 8th of 2026. I've tried to be consistent and have a lot of symptoms like the spinning symptom, twitching, fee…

r/realityshiftingpost4/4/2026
The year before being discarded via divorce- was there signs?

The year before being discarded via divorce- was there signs? — I sometimes sit here and wonder if I missed the signs of discard. 2025 (5th year of marriage) was pretty up and down then I was discarded early 2026. 2025: \-negative comments about me \-control th…

r/Divorcepost4/4/2026
Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25F) of 6 years. Need to know if this counts as cheating.

Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25F) of 6 years. Need to know if this counts as cheating. — For context, I'm someone who has always wanted to improve myself and become the best version of myself. I've always worked on things in my own way and at my own pace. My girlfriend had grown frustrate…

r/relationship_advicepost4/4/2026
Turbulent year. Opinions on the worst year of my life?

Turbulent year. Opinions on the worst year of my life? — I got into a relationship at 16. Within the first two years of our relationship I discovered he was cheating by having sexual chats and sending explicit pictures online to other women. I forgave him a…

r/Divorcepost4/4/2026
A one month experiment

A one month experiment — It is April 4th, 2026. I’m 18 years old and have been studying book after book and all these different philosophies and rules about manifestation for years. I’m deciding now that I make the rules, I a…

r/Manifestationpost4/4/2026
Work getting crazy with baby on the way.

Work getting crazy with baby on the way. — I got promoted in April 2025 (sade sa\*\* started in March 2025), after that work started getting hectic with more responsibilities. I have taken it ok as I am very disciplined with career, fitness an…

r/vedicastrologypost4/5/2026
Paranoid mess right now about war

Paranoid mess right now about war — I'm just worried right now. Worried over everything, and I'm scared to die. Recently on the news, the president spoke of raining "hell" on Iran on Easter, and it doesn't help that for some time now, s…

r/Anxietyhelppost4/5/2026
A green elf in a purple hat told me to stop smoking, Logic vs Hallucination

A green elf in a purple hat told me to stop smoking, Logic vs Hallucination — Hello, first i apologize for a slightly long post and that the logic flow is not perfect, I am still thinking a lot about what happened. I am really looking for someone who could talk to me about thei…

r/Psychonautpost4/5/2026
Am i overreacting by blocking my friend over some cash?

Am i overreacting by blocking my friend over some cash? — I (17F) have been close friends with this grade since 9th grade. After Grade 10 i went to a different school and she went to the Philippines to study there. We still remained close and i would stay up…

r/relationshipspost4/5/2026
Terrified of having a MRI and need help

Terrified of having a MRI and need help — Hi everyone, About a month ago I (27f) had a routine appointment with my neurosurgeon for a hydrocephalus check up, and they ordered an MRI (since I haven’t had a brain mri since 2004 and apparently …

r/Anxietyhelppost4/6/2026
I have realized I manifested my entire life, and now I am obsessed.

I have realized I manifested my entire life, and now I am obsessed. — I am pretty confident that I somehow manifested the core of my life since I was in middle school. Right now, I am 26. It has been quite some years that I think I have been “manifesting”. When I was r…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/6/2026
Dating is tiring F25 M26

Dating is tiring F25 M26 — Hello everyone, maybe this is a bit of a vent but. I F25 have gotten involved with M26. He approached me at the gym and made small talk. I thought he was my exact type and was excited at the thought t…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
Terrified of having mri and need support

Terrified of having mri and need support — Terrified of having a MRI and need help Hi everyone, About a month ago I (27f) had a routine appointment with my neurosurgeon for a hydrocephalus check up, and they ordered an MRI (since I haven’t h…

r/CPTSDpost4/6/2026
Excluded from saying goodbye to my dying husband of 21 years by his new 'saintly' wife. Is this sociopathy?

Excluded from saying goodbye to my dying husband of 21 years by his new 'saintly' wife. Is this sociopathy? — I was married to my husband for 21 years; he was in my life for 26. In 2015, a woman he worked with orchestrated an affair. During my struggle with infertility, she maliciously claimed she was pregnan…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost4/6/2026
My mother died in front of me ten years ago now. I'm 26. I'm losing my fucking mind.

My mother died in front of me ten years ago now. I'm 26. I'm losing my fucking mind. — The actual anniversary of her death is in a few weeks and I'm burning inside. I hate this fucking month and the one my sister died in, and this one starts with April Fool's, hers starts with my birthd…

r/CPTSDpost4/6/2026
DOUBLE MAGIC IN A SINGLE DAY — WITH PROOF 🩷

DOUBLE MAGIC IN A SINGLE DAY — WITH PROOF 🩷 — The first screenshot is from 04/04/2026. The second screenshot is the result 06/04/2026. The orange chatboxes are me and the black ones are my friend in the first screenshot. In the first orange messa…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/7/2026
did I manifest my SP back and it "backfired"?

did I manifest my SP back and it "backfired"? — hello people. i need some advice or opinions. this is a lot to explain. i am not a native english speaker, so my english might not be the best. i’d really appreciate advice and not hate or anything li…

r/Manifestationpost4/7/2026
Gf of 7 years came back just to cheat on me and take revenge

Gf of 7 years came back just to cheat on me and take revenge — I’m 24M, she’s 22F. We were together for 7 years. D-day was 22nd March 2026. She broke up with me in August 2025 saying I was too controlling and abusive. From my side, it was things like asking her …

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/7/2026
36F Twice Divorced Now?

36F Twice Divorced Now? — Really trying not to get down in the dumps. I married my high school sweetheart when I was 20. Divorced at 26. Married my 2nd husband at 28. Now divorcing at 36. With therapy, I've acknowledged I hav…

r/Divorcepost4/7/2026
Does EMDR therapy work? Specially for this? If not what’s something that will.

Does EMDR therapy work? Specially for this? If not what’s something that will. — TRIGGER WARNING: mentions SA This is like hard for me to type. I just don’t know where to start with it. I have gone to therapy for other things like anxiety, depression, and my trauma I went through…

r/therapypost4/8/2026
Will EMDR help?

Will EMDR help? — TRIGGER WARNING: mentions SA This is like hard for me to type. I just don’t know where to start with it. I have gone to therapy for other things like anxiety, depression, and my trauma I went through…

r/therapypost4/8/2026
Mom Bad Mouths Everyone

Mom Bad Mouths Everyone — As the title says my mom will say horrible things about everyone. Today is was about a friend of mine. I \[24F\] was talking about my old best friend now 26. I miss her and I love her, but we split ap…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/8/2026
M25, F26. Right person, wrong time - what do I do?

M25, F26. Right person, wrong time - what do I do? — Okay, so I'll try to keep this short. I'm really into this chick and she's equally into me, we're both in our mid twenties but here's the catch - we can't really date each other cause I'm in another c…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
My divorce is 8 and 1/2 years old. It’s starting third grade in the fall. Does it get a backpack or just more discovery requests? Brad Pitt is in the class ahead of me. Who can beat 8 1/2 years?

My divorce is 8 and 1/2 years old. It’s starting third grade in the fall. Does it get a backpack or just more discovery requests? Brad Pitt is in the class ahead of me. Who can beat 8 1/2 years? — I’m currently in the 2,950th day of my divorce case. To put that in perspective, when this started in March 2018: * The "Avengers: Infinity War" hadn't come out yet. * "Old Town Road" wasn't a thing.…

r/Divorcepost4/9/2026
I want to change

I want to change — Im a 22M and I just went through a pretty messy situation where my family went broke. Throughout life I’ve always been the joke and I never payed attention in high school and I did two years of film /…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/9/2026
Am i wrong or is my mom?

Am i wrong or is my mom? — I’m going to attach the argument i had with my mom today. (Link at the bottom because i can’t attach photos) I really want honest opinions. Please criticize me if i need it, i feel like i need an unbi…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
Inability to be happy due to verbal abuse my story.

Inability to be happy due to verbal abuse my story. — This post is going to be messy as I am just writing down what I am thinking with no actual plan to express my ideas I don’t know where to start but i am writing this post here to express how I am fee…

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
Anxiety only triggered in romantic relationship, how to manage it?

I am working on these things the same as you are and I am 8 years older than you so I think it’s amazing you’re this aware at 26. Some things that have helped me in my journey: -keeping myself busy w…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/3/2025
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

Guy I’ve been seeing asked me over and now I feel repulsed and don’t want to talk to him again. I don’t even dislike anything about him. This happens with every guy I romantically involve myself with …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment12/31/2025
Here's to an emotionally secure 2026! 🥳🎈🎉😎 (open thread)

Happy New Year! 🎊🎉 I will stand by my truth even if it damage the link. I will say "no, I don't like that", "yes, this bothers me", and "no, I don't know if it's gonna work between us" without expla…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/1/2026
RSD potential cause of AA?

Quick new year's update: it's helped me to remember, when this all-too-familiar feeling happens (still daily for me), that it's a pure hallucination. HALLUCINATION. This is my word for 2026. Cheers!

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/2/2026
Here's to an emotionally secure 2026! 🥳🎈🎉😎 (open thread)

I actually feel like I am well on my way to becoming secure. I can finally see my partner for the person she is and not try to think that I am somehow broken in some way when I bid for her attention…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Thanks. And yeah, the woman sent me PDF forms that *weren't fillable*. Girl, it's 2026. It's going to be a week minimum turnaround if you expect me to print and scan and send forms back. 

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

32F and tired of the apps. I went out on 11 first dates last year, the longest guy lasted almost 3 months. The 3month guy I got over him pretty quickly but it’s the one I went on a date after him that…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/17/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Hit up my first singles night of 2026. Got there maybe a half hour in and it's pretty empty. A few guys, and two women already locked in on the best looking one. Got a drink, sat down, waited to see …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Someone commented on one of my tiktoks complimenting my work and followed me. Normally i just like and move on (never follow back) but checked their profile out because it looked like they were a crea…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
March Astrology Forecast 2026

Austin has always said (annual forecast) that 2026 would be a shitshow. He wasn't kidding. I remember him saying something like the US is due for a historic leader in the likes of a Roosevelt or Linco…

r/astrologycomment2/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 01, 2026

I wound probably not be interested in anyone who only sees their child once a week. It is 2026. In the US 50/50 custody is very much the norm these days. Seeing a child once a week is not parenting.  …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/1/2026
The most difficult Sun & Moon transits!

I went through transit saturn square my natal moon in 5th house last year up til January 2026. There were 3 hits. I can say it was one of the most painful season. It affected my job and emotions and I…

r/astrologycomment3/2/2026
The Astrology of the 21st Century

big question, but the historical pattern is clear enough to sketch. **what's already happened:** - **pluto in capricorn (2008-2024)**: global financial crisis, rise of authoritarianism, surveillance…

r/astrologycomment3/3/2026
Dressing To Impress For Dates (And Everyday Life)

Couldn't it be just the new fashion? Look up what young people are wearing nowadays. Baggy jeans/sweats and oversized hoodies. It's just what is in in 2026. [https://www.instyle.com/fashion-trends-to-…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/5/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
Are Asian men at a disadvantage in dating in the US?

I love being Asian, I love being an Asian Male, and I love being an Asian American Male. But yes we do have a disadvantage dating in the US. While it would be easier if i was a different race in Amer…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/8/2026
My (26/M) Girlfriend (26/F) Of 6.5 Years Emotionally Cheated and I Don’t Know What To Do

I know the general consensus is to “Leave”. Easier said than done, but it is the right advice here. You’re only 26. The world is your oyster. Go out, grab a spoon- try any & or all the flavors of ice …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 09, 2026

This was a [good editorial about how looksmaxxing](https://archive.ph/2026.02.26-175601/https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/all-the-looksmaxxers-are-getting-personality-mogged)fails if you have no p…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/10/2026
Hi ! 34F and single. Will future husband be intense ?

Major reason for late marriage here is the afflicted Venus(affliction by both malefics Saturn and mars) . Another reason is the least favorable Jupiter period that rarely does well for most Taurus La…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/10/2026
What was the hardest non-legal part of your divorce that nobody warned you about?

Decorating / furnishing a house by myself. Haven’t been single since I was 26.

r/Divorcecomment3/10/2026
Got predicted to expect an injury in 2026 at a workplace, if anyone could expand please

I will not go in deep as that will make you more anxious. So, will let you know only what is needed to know, only because the previous reader has told you about this already. The Sun represents your …

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment3/11/2026
Accidentally shifted to 2025?

today is in 2026. but if you can shift into 2025, plz tell me.

r/realityshiftingcomment3/12/2026
You’re Allowed to Forgive Yourself

needed this today honestly. I spent years beating myself up over decisions I made in my early twenties - dropping out of a course, staying in a relationship way too long, not taking my career seriousl…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/12/2026
It hurts too much

I’m going through the same thing right now. 8 years together. He first broke up with me in August 2025. We moved separately. Then we reconnected around November 2025. Between then and now he’s tried t…

r/BreakUpscomment3/12/2026
Somebody told me I will marry a foreigner, is it true? and will I go abroad ?

Assuming this is male chart. Venus exalted in 12th house, it is a strong yog for marrying a foreigner, different religion/cast, and settling abroad. I have this placement and have all of the above. Th…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/12/2026
Saturn-Neptune conjunctions have preceded every major financial restructuring in recorded history. Here's the data.

Great analysis, and I have a feeling that AI has some part to play in this conjunction dance at 0 degrees Aries. Maybe humanity is being replaced by AI? Who will remain human in this shit storm geopo…

r/astrologycomment3/13/2026
Knowing the exact time when waking up - psychic or circadian?

Yes I used to wake up at 4:44 every morning for a bout a year .. maybe a bit longer. I was 14. I was beginning a very long phase of spiritual awakening and learning. The angels were trying to tell me…

r/experiencerscomment3/13/2026
My parents wore my friend out in 10 minutes flat.

I can completely understand were you are coming from. I'm also pretty disabled (had a stroke when I was 7 from open heart surgery) and I couldn't leave until I was 26. I was super lucky to have a part…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/13/2026
Anyone had an encounter with a humanoid ( or creature pretending to be one) during their day to day life?

My first encounter,when I did not Believe in them yet (!) was a Gnome when I was hiking alone on a forest trail. I had learned to meditate only a year or 2 before though. I'd stopped and sat down due…

r/experiencerscomment3/14/2026
Please tell them the truth before it destroys them.

I second this. D-Day number 1 was 8/22/2025. Number 2 was 8/24. Number 3 was 12/24. Yes, Christmas Eve. Number 4 was 1/15/2026. Number 5 was about 1/20/2026 through 2/1/2026. Just thinking about any …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
As a Codepedent I have bad routine, trying to change it now.

I have an [ACE](https://www.acesaware.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ACE-Questionnaire-for-Adults-Identified-English-rev.7.26.22.pdf) (adverse childhood experiences) score of 9 I got into my routine …

r/Codependencycomment3/14/2026
29F. Having immense trouble in married life. Is there chance of separation?

There are key points for you here. A slight mismatch of Venus never really great for a couple that’s fighting always. Last 2-3 years not great as a cancer moon due to the peak Saturn transit just like…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/15/2026
29F. Having immense trouble in married life. Is there chance of separation?

Looking at both charts together — yours (Virgo lagna) and his (Scorpio lagna) — the friction you're describing makes complete sense. **His anger and language** — his ascendant lord Mars sits in Gemin…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/15/2026
I hate how sheltered I am due to my parents.

No this makes complete sense, bc same. My parents are homebodies, I like to be out and about. We rarely went on fun vacation or trips, I have to get out of town monthly. I take solo vacations and have…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/15/2026
Major John Liu Fugh

Imagine celebrating a gusano that dedicated his life to the military industrial complex in 2026...

r/AsianAmericancomment3/15/2026
Is it really necessary to do all the tapes?

Nothing too crazy really, I had couple of obes, lot of precognitive events/visions however you want to call them. I got some good development in my career and the strangest thing experienced was a a v…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/16/2026
New Partner Has Never Used Condoms

Lol  I would much prefer bareback but we are adults and this is 2026.  

r/datingoverfortycomment3/16/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

14k at 26 if invested in a retirement account would be worth about 100-200k at age 65. Think about that for a minute. Then think about the fact that she wants to do this at only 26. Which is insane. S…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

Agree with this. I don't think the "we agreed" argument is fair when you married at 22/24 and women face way more social pressure than men to hide their aging. You can't agree to never do something wi…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

QUESTION: Do you make so much money that £14k on a non-essential personal expense doesn’t hurt the family bank account? My issue would be less with the philosophical questions of the relative value …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

Especially if she’s starting at age 26. She’s basically signing up for a lifetime of needing Botox (and possibly filler) touch ups every 6ish months for the rest of her life. And you know the plastic …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

She’s 26. I have friends that have done Botox and fillers but they didn’t start until their mid to late 30’s. If she’s having $14k worth of work on her face at 26 it is definitely a sign of poor sel…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

Unfortunately, I see so many things wrong with this situation. First of all, you absolutely do not have the same values if she is already ready to start getting plastic surgery at the age of 26. She, …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Older men who lie about their age in their dating profiles

Yep and it also happens the other way too. They’ll enter 42 and they’re actually 26. “I just like older women.” Ok well I don’t like men who lie…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

At 28 and 26 respectively, I'd be thinking long and hard if this is the life you want to spend with your partner. I can't tell you what's best for you, but it's not for me. Also unless Botox at 26..…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach.

You are under-reacting. This is an incident that would be worthy of calling the marriage into question. I would separate finances/revoke access. Funny how it's "her body, her choice," yet she's making…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026