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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…
I have become obsessed with finding someone. — After my breakup in winter of last year, I went through a long period of mourning and not knowing what to do or how to move forward. Now, over the past 2-3 months, I have become obsessed with finding …
SATURN RETURN & TRANSITING SATURN/NEPTUNE IN ARIES POSTS PROBLEMS — # PROBLEMS WITH SATURN RETURN POSTS We are getting a lot of Saturn Return questions as transiting Saturn enters Aries. First, many of you think your Saturn Return just began today, Feb. 14, 2026 (usi…
Did Saturn in Aries correlate with the “heroin chic” era of the late 90s? Wondering about parallels with today. — I had a random thought earlier today while watching some video on YouTube, and I’m curious if more experienced astrologers see anything in it. There’s a lot of discussion right now about the return o…
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…
My nervous system is ruining my life. — I'm 28. I live in a constant state of fight or flight (and sometimes fawn/freeze). I also carry a large amount of shame, which manifests in different ways. My nervous system is incredibly sensitive a…
I’m intensely triggered by my partner’s younger sister and I hate what it brings out in me — I need to say something ugly and I’m hoping someone here will understand rather than just tell me to “work on my self-esteem.” My boyfriend has younger sisters, and one of them especially triggers so…
Did I push reconciliation with my ex too quickly? (26M, 26F) — Hi all! Firstly, I want to thank you for all the comfort and support you give to everyone on this sub; it does not go unnoticed! I'm a 26M who ended things with his 27F partner of a year and a half i…
Curious if this has happened to anyone else post affair? — Hi all, I posted awhile back about my husband contemplating leaving me for a girl he met in an online porn site. She was based in Colombia.. if you go to my profile you can read the whole thing. Lots …
Pushed into open marriage? Sorry, just some unsorted thoughts — My wife and I first talked about an open marriage during our vacation in the Maldives in 2025. At first, I didn't think the idea was that bad. However, I have no desire for another woman. I told her i…
Divorcing at 28, need inspiration — Hey guys, I m28 am getting divorced from my wife f28. She’s the initiator. We’ve been together for 10 years, married 4. I’ve only ever been with her and vise Versa.. so far, my entire “adult” life ha…
I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? — I don't know where to start... I just found out that my BF has been getting cash back on my debit card without my knowledge. A little background... We live together. He doesn't have an income. He …
28.6F - when will I get married? my family is so stressed. — as above. my family's stress is making me so sad. I am so tired of their talk and feeling like there's a problem with me. when will I get married or at least get engaged? I am single right now. htt…
Struggling to let go of a fantasy that never really existed — need perspectives — I was in a 5 year long distance relationship that ended 3 months ago. I'm 28. The breakup was sudden and painful. She blocked me without a real conversation after I discovered something that suggeste…
36F Twice Divorced Now? — Really trying not to get down in the dumps. I married my high school sweetheart when I was 20. Divorced at 26. Married my 2nd husband at 28. Now divorcing at 36. With therapy, I've acknowledged I hav…
I lost all of my support system, friends/family, at 28. I’m going through my Saturn return. — Can anyone shed some light on my chart? I could have never saw this life coming.
I think my friend (18F) is being abused by her boyfriend (28F) — Hi guys, i’m looking for some in advice here. I think my good friend who’s 18F is in an unhealthy relationship with her boyfriend. When we first met, she told me he’s 22, and then 24. I just found out…
My friend is being abused and I don’t know what to do — Hi guys, i’m looking for some in advice here. I think my good friend who’s 18F is in an unhealthy relationship with her boyfriend. When we first met, she told me he’s 22, and then 24. I just found out…
Struggling of letting go of someone while realizing what I truly want M28, F28, F27 — TL;DR - I’m caught between two women who seemingly love me and want to commit to me, but it’s messy and complicated. I’ve been in a really messy emotional spot lately. I’m realizing that my past rel…
12 or more years ago — My ex and I hadn't talked for about 6 years or so . and I got some messages from him. just some videos but then we started talking and the conversation broke me. and it brought back a lot of different…
I'm genuinely loosing hope. — One year of being cooped at home for various reason, has made me gain weight tremendously. Even then I'd never ever imagined it would get this bad. My bmi was always a healthy range, at the border ma…
Can't end toxic "friendship" due to CPTSD and fawning — I (30) have known this person for 5 years. He is my upstairs neighbour, 15 years my senior, and he is a bit of a jerk. He was flirty with me when we met, despite him being in a monogamous marriage, a…
How much would you trust a female cousin? — I 20f left my phone with a female 8 years older than me she is 28. I have some notifications which can be seen as weird, and scandalous. she is very religious whilst im more laid back. i gave her my p…
One Sentence Encheiridion (16-30) — Hello! I'm doing a personal challenge to paraphrase the Encheiridion chapters using a single sentence. I did 1-15 in a different post, and I'll link below. Constructive feedback is absolutely welc…
Mercury mahadasha, rahu antardasha, how to deal with it. — I’m going through my mercury MD rahu AD. so far i’ve pretty much isolated myself, friends have started to behave differently, even if i try to talk and communicate im not able to say what i mean. ive …
I need to talk about something I’m confused about… parents put AirTag in my car… and Life360 on my phone I am 28. — Long story short… I am 28 I moved out at 22 but I’ve had to come back home and start over again and then I’m going to move out again but anyways my parents are narcissists and they are control freaks…
Text of original post by u/nintendonaut: After my breakup in winter of last year, I went through a long period of mourning and not knowing what to do or how to move forward. Now, over the past 2-3 mon…
Thank you for your post, u/BornEducation4428. Here are a few important reminders. Please be sure to follow the [Rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/about/rules) and feel free to utilize …
Thank you for your post, u/BornEducation4428. Here are a few important reminders. Please be sure to follow the [Rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/about/rules) and feel free to utilize …
In love with GF. Balancing that with wanting more independence than I did in my younger days. She seems happy with it and wants similar independence and the opportunity to live in the house she just…
Try down to 29, at least, if not 28. I'm your age and have found 27 year old men to be too young, I think it's a generational thing, but 28 becomes viable and 29 feels the same as 30 to me. I currentl…
I mean, sometimes it takes a while for relationships to happen. I'm 33, my last Long-Term Relationship ended right before I turned 28. He and I were together for 4 years. Before that I was with someon…
Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…
Hi everyone! I'd like to know if anyone has any fresh perspectives or advice on my situation. I'm a 36-year-old man, diagnosed with autism. Never had a girlfried, neither my first kiss or hug I…
The US Pluto return is in orb until about 2027, or 2028. But, honestly, Pluto’s energy could last for the next 40 years, that’s how powerful Pluto is. The pandemic/Covid-19 was also a part of the US’s…
Seneca's Epistle 1: A "Historical Restoration" for Modern Practitioners (Lodge/Gummere Synthesis) **The Content:** I hear you on the translations, u/Fragrant-Point-4328. I've been working on a rest…
Mine once "gifted" me a pack of printer paper. I was 7. She'd make "jokes" about it every Christmas and birthday after. I cut her off at 28.
Social circle. Marriage be before 2028. Other caste partner.
You are only 28. You will get over this loser and have enough time to find a wonderful man to marry. Good luck to you.
I am conventionally successful but not wildly so. There are definitely more interesting and acclaimed people. I cut off the critical parent and was able to redefine what success looks like for myself …
By 2027, you may get the chance to meet your life partner, and you will get married by 2028.
The reason for emotional unavailability is that your seventh and eighth lord Saturn is in the malefic eighth house in his Mooltrikona Rashi. He's a functional malefic on top of being a first-grade nat…
I broke up with a dude because he couldn’t build a fire in my wood stove to save his life. The relationship was already on its way out, but it was such a buzz kill to go back to my place after Valenti…
Me: I hope you understand, I had a hard time growing up that’s why I do have issues and sometimes they get the best of me and they come out and my anxiety gets very bad Them: that happened a long tim…
Shit, my ex broke up with me 6 weeks ago after 5.5 years. I thought it was commitment issues but really it was structural issues that I was trying to work through with her. Family tension, religious d…
The Sun and Mercury represent your friendships, and Jupiter represents their blockages. Saturn represents your love matters and Mercury represents their timing and occurrence. Mercury also represents…
They aren’t follows of Jesus. Read Matthew 5:28. They are unrepentant sinners. Updateme
Okay thank you sir. It's very scary though. To wait until 2028.
I totally agree u/Danger_Muffin28. I also have experience with folks with Generalized Anxiety Disorder and agree that's not a reason to fear someone. I don't want to villainize anyone for size, health…
I restarted after a 6.5 year relationship came to an end at 28. I didn't have the option of another place so had to go back to parents. It is better to restart now as you can build the life you want a…
Setting Sade Sati is a strong factor. His family house has his Badhakesh/barrier planet. Lagna has Saturn in his Marana Karaka Sthana, possessing minimum Digabala, and posited in his natural house of …
So, he's 31, working full-time, still living with his parents, presumably not paying rent... he must have a hella savings account or IRA, and if he doesnt, if he has a big fancy truck and lots of toys…
Wow!! I am so sorry you had to go through that. Why are they like this? It doesn't make any sense to me at all. My ex was the same way!! He said lip filler was gross, said piercings were "trashy", n…
Currently, both of you are going through a troubled time wrt marriage. I’m not saying that separation is impossible; however, if you hold on, some relief can be expected after feb, 2028.
I’ve just found out after 34yrs of marriage and nearly 40yrs together from the age of 14 my husband had an over a year affair with my sister who was 16yrs old and he was 28.. we had 3 kids… and now gr…
Me - Childhood trauma (extreme bullying), difficult family (drug addictions, worse), adhd, ex two-times drug addict, left at home at 17, turned my trauma into being the absolute worst version of mysel…
He's going to play another teenager? Dude is 28.
Good decent married life with lot of intimacy. You have good combinations possible here with 7th lord mars though hidden in 12th house sitting in mool Trikona house aspected by Jupiter while Lagna lor…
Anyone that has lost any amount of weight knows he has wayyyyy more than 10 lbs he can lose and 10lbs won’t make that big of a difference . He will look much better at -20lbs but even better at -30lbs…
Condolences. I lost my dad at age 28. Life goes on. It happens as we get older, you will start seeing coworkers, friends, relatives dying.
I mean, even if we give her the benefit of the doubt and assume they were playing truth or dare, it doesn’t really change things She’s 28. She can say no to something. Clearly, she is a woman-child …
No matter how much you comply, your parents can still do a rugpull and deny you any inheritance, specially if your big brother is their golden child. You're 28.. right now this inheritance is a mirage…
You’re 28. They don’t need to see your personal spending to give you an inheritance. That’s just controlling. If they want to put conditions on it, they can leave it in the will. I have never asked ab…
I began therapy a year and a half ago. That’s how I became diagnosed with ADHD at 28. Genuinely, I don’t know why either. I think I’m only confident and able to come to this realization now BECAUSE of…
I knew something was wrong with me at age 16 when my extreme perfectionism caused me to go into a freeze response unexpectedly. I saw a therapist for four weeks and nothing happened so I gave that up,…
You will get divorced by 2028. Your wife will not profit greatly from alimony. But some expenses are indicated for you. So it may end up as a one time settlement or maybe just legal expenses. No remed…
I was married to her for 4 years, together 10. I’m 28. She’s been my only partner ever and vise versa.. she told me she wants the divorce a week ago. I know I’m still young but the thought of starting…
Feb 28. I was at the beach watching the sunset with my husband and my husband grabbed the drink for us and suddenly showed up with the mistress in front of me (setting me up) and said, " I love her mo…
You had just come out of a 7 year Ketu period which was least favorable planet mars in disguise. Mars and associated periods affect you and family in health finance work career mental health stress an…
Just for completeness, here is a correspondence table of Lebell's section headers to parts of the Enchridion: 1. Know what you can control and what you can't (Ench 1) 2. Stick with your own business …
[https://www.aclu-ia.org/know-your-rights/photo/](https://www.aclu-ia.org/know-your-rights/photo/) "In Iowa, you can record oral communications with the consent of just one party, meaning if you’re i…
He’s 28. This is a glaring red flag. Just end it and find someone else. You’re only 20. P.S. He can’t finish because of himself lol. It’s not you.
Everyone keeps saying stay home July 4th, but they also said something major was going to happen to Trump on 3/27-3/28. It's frustrating to believers when there is no proof. Do I skip my ONE family va…
Older AM here with a throwaway. Want to share some pearls that helped me and others around me in life. Saw lots of failures as a younger person. I learned and used the below lessons to see success. I …
I would give anything to have my wife back. We were together ten years from ages 18-28. I’m sober now, doing deep work, and am not the man I once was. I miss her so much it hurts. We’ve been separated…