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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/24/2026
Do any of you find that search ads work better for your store than shopping?

Do any of you find that search ads work better for your store than shopping? — I just launched Google ads April 29. My shopping ads are getting lots of impressions but few clicks. Like 3.5k daily to 6-10 clicks with a budget of $15 and not spending it all. My search ads at $10 a…

r/ecommercepost5/6/2025
General manager compensation

General manager compensation — Hi All, I've owned a small seasonal diner for 5 years now and am planning on drastically stepping back next year. An employee who has been with me for 4 years, and who I trust / get a long with/ have…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
She turned sunlight into homework. I left her house years ago. My mind still hasn't.

She turned sunlight into homework. I left her house years ago. My mind still hasn't. — The sun came out today. And the first thing I felt wasn't warmth. It was guilt. A full-body, immediate, almost chemical reaction: *you should be outside. You should be using this. You're wasting it.*…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/28/2026
Help

Help — Hi everyone, I am looking for feedback and advice.. Here is some content: I have been married for 5 years, with my husband for a total of 7 years. I was 21 when we met and he was 29. He struggled with…

r/Divorcepost4/6/2026
Was my dad abusive or am i just ungrateful and blaming him for issues

Was my dad abusive or am i just ungrateful and blaming him for issues — this may be a long post, sorry in advance.. my dad is a person that I both love and really dislike. I'm currently still dependent on him and my mom (though they are divorced) because I'm disabled. I …

r/CPTSDpost4/7/2026
Finding jobs and needing money

Finding jobs and needing money — My mom constantly complains about me having any sort of job. I am 29. She has the audacity to tell every other family member son to get a job to pay for their stuff. When I do it is a problem. Makes n…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/8/2026
Me 23M having issues with my partner 22F and I don’t know what to do

Me 23M having issues with my partner 22F and I don’t know what to do — So I’m confused on what to do so me 24M am dating this 22F for about a 1y and a half and I feel like she’s always wanting to argue with me, she gets frustrated about me not taking her feelings into co…

r/relationship_advicepost4/8/2026
NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge)

NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge) — to preface , id like to say some of my story/past (although, for those of u who are regular here im sure u have seen some of my olde rposts from 2 years ago) the easter incident will be at the bottom…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/8/2026
Scared and Alone

Scared and Alone — My next shrink appointment is coming up and I'm already dreading it. My life improved immensely after receiving a correct diagnosis but still struggled with medical issues that has taken a decade to …

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
Can someone wiser than me tell me why love isn't enough? I mean, I've read why. I've read all the posts on here. I still cannot get it to click in my brain.

Can someone wiser than me tell me why love isn't enough? I mean, I've read why. I've read all the posts on here. I still cannot get it to click in my brain. — We were together for 8 years, 6.5 of those years were long distance (For context: 4 hour drive apart. We both had some family situations in the last couple years that made ending the long distance dif…

r/BreakUpspost4/11/2026
[1st Place] Farishtey | Bruin Bhangra

[1st Place] Farishtey | Bruin Bhangra — 05.29.22 Orpheum Theater Los Angeles, CA

r/AsianAmericanpost4/11/2026
Manifesting I’ll get out of this mess.

Manifesting I’ll get out of this mess. — I’m really struggling at the minute and it’s tearing me down. Basically a mix of cost of living, recent breakup so I’m covering all expenses now, and catching up on missed payments. So you can imagine…

r/Manifestationpost4/12/2026
One Sentence Encheiridion (16-30)

One Sentence Encheiridion (16-30) — Hello! I'm doing a personal challenge to paraphrase the Encheiridion chapters using a single sentence. I did 1-15 in a different post, and I'll link below. Constructive feedback is absolutely welc…

r/Stoicismpost4/12/2026
What is my core wound when I don't worry what others think about me, I'm not afraid of being alone, but still no boundaries with closest people

I would guess that while you logically know you have a right to be accepted as you are and you're not afraid to be alone, you have not accepted that on a deep emotional level. Or there's some inner co…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment1/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I am the only single person who lives in my condo and honestly I feel so ashamed, everyone has their partners or their kids with them, my condo isn't that big so we all kinda see each other a lot so I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Need opinions on this. I m32 have a fwb f31. She invited me to her run club. I met one of her friends that plays volleyball f29. I host volleyball open gym friday nights through my work. I invited her…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

This might sound bad, but is it wrong of me to be a bit disappointed that the girl I had a third date with tonight (the one I mentioned earlier in this thread), didn't dress to impress? Most people wo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/4/2026
Is this all basically the US’s Pluto return?

The problem is people draw hard lines, and life, and sometimes astrology, is more nuanced than that! I’m going by 10 degrees for the Pluto return, which became exact in 2022. America’s Pluto return us…

r/astrologycomment3/4/2026
My (F28) partner (M28) gave me an ultimatum: him or my birds. Idk what to do

Not sure if you find this helpful, but I started iver at 29. Ended a 9 year relationship that had become a friendship, new city, started my PhD and met the love of my life who I now have a baby with. …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/13/2026
Would the 6th house represent mental illness as well?

12th house Saturn (R) 29.54 Cap + Jupiter (R) 6 Aqu oppose Mars 4 Leo 6th house. Physically- hypertension, mentally- ADHD (really bad), chronic depression. I can get pretty irritable and impulsive whe…

r/astrologycomment3/14/2026
Jupiter in Aquarius and the impersonal nature of this placement

I have Jupiter (R) in 12th house @ 6 Aqu. I have an uncanny instinct to get in (and out) of hot employment areas as the economy fluctuates. Always a step ahead, getting the highest pay for whatever t…

r/astrologycomment3/14/2026
Ever had an ex told you that they would never get back together with you? but eventually reached out after months of no contact?

I’ve been wondering the same thing. Trying to move on from a being the guy that was basically the safe space for a woman in a 3 year abusive engagement. She confided many deep things in me late at n…

r/BreakUpscomment3/15/2026
25f, going through divorce, concerned about future. Help me

The Rahu period you are in right now is afflicted by Saturn and mars at the same time. Whenever you have such a period that’s associated with both malefics always means there is an impending issue. He…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/17/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 3RD HOUSE

1. Arising rising. 2. Aquarius 29. 3. 10 and 11. 4. Pluto Scorpio 24 and Taurus sun 20. 5.

r/astrologycomment3/17/2026
Why I am so unlucky in love and always alone?

My first relationship was in 2016. I was 29. 

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment3/18/2026
Marriage fixed and halted. 10 years of relationship. What is my (30F) future?

Girl Marriage Supposed to delay for you since your Venus spouse karaka and the Lagan lord Venus is afflicted by Mars and Saturn at the same time. What’s to be noted here again is that mars 7th lord …

r/vedicastrologycomment3/19/2026
Were you basically surviving your entire childhood?

29. I have to actively remind myself that I am allowed to take up space. I am allowed to exist. I also had no idea that I was at least half the problem in my previous relationships.. I’ve been so se…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
My "Alzheimer technique" worked on my NMom again but I almost chickened out

I’m still figuring out how I feel. She’s only been in Memory Care since Jan 29. Her diagnosis makes it easier for me to cut my visits short and not call her back. I’m POA so I have a responsibility …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/22/2026
Anyone beat me in No Contact?

Hello Existing_Novel4829, Wow, that's quite a span of time, isn't it? Your ability to maintain no contact for such a long stretch is truly an accomplishment. It shows remarkable self-control and for…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/23/2026
Business has crashed to zero all of a sudden! Why?!

You have a strong Lagna lord Venus with dikbala aspecting 10th house of career aspected by Jupiter. Jupiter periods tend not to do well for you so be careful when it comes to investments or trusting a…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/23/2026
Why do so many people have Raj Yogas in their charts but they are not rich and prosperous in real life?

Wealth is subjective. The raj yoga could take them from a terrible beginning to an average life and the yoga did it's job. There are also other dosha and things going on that can weaken the raj yoga b…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 23, 2026

I (34f) unpaused hinge for a hot second. I put in my age range but apparently didn't click "this is a deal breaker"...... Cause then it was showing me literal 20 year olds. Someone who was a teenager …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/24/2026
I (36M) feel like I ruined a 3.5 year relationship and don’t know how to move forward

We never got married. Im 35 and shes 29. We didnt broach marriage earlier as we never really discussed the kids aspect. We got along well but for the majority of the relationship we both smoked weed a…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/24/2026
My grandpa (84M) is not doing well and my parents (61M&60F) think I (29F) don't care. I don't care a ton. How to navigate?

Your parents are out of line in expecting you to think or feel a certain way about it. I'm in a similar situation except without the pressure (it's my dad's stepdad who raised him). My mom also doesn'…

r/relationshipscomment3/25/2026
F28 When will I get married or meet my future husband?

After Aug 2029. You can meet him before that.

r/vedicastrologycomment3/25/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 25, 2026

Gotcha thanks. I’m actually 32 but close enough lmao (I’ll change it soon). She’s 29. I didn’t realize that location said my neighborhood and not city, and Orlando is big so it could be vague and thin…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/25/2026
Such bad venus MD despite good placement, why?

What about ascendent. My asc is in 29.5° leo. Also my sat is retro in 0.26° in pisces. So will it give result of acq and if yes then which nakshatra shall I apply there? My sat is in purvabhadra.

r/vedicastrologycomment3/28/2026
Looking for an alternate translation or source for this quote:

Just for completeness, here is a correspondence table of Lebell's section headers to parts of the Enchridion: 1. Know what you can control and what you can't (Ench 1) 2. Stick with your own business …

r/Stoicismcomment3/28/2026
Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 29, 2026

Older AM here with a throwaway. Want to share some pearls that helped me and others around me in life. Saw lots of failures as a younger person. I learned and used the below lessons to see success. I …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/29/2026
Guys who have broken up after a long term relationship (5-10 years or long) do you ever really move on?

Yes, but it takes time. What I found helped was accepting that the memories will be a part of me forever. That I don’t need to forget. That it’s okay, I give myself permission to be stuck. I don’t nee…

r/BreakUpscomment3/31/2026
Why am I sacred of marriage ?

There is no reason for fear of marriage. You are probably desperate because it’s delayed so far. But there is no need to be in a hurry. You are due for marriage anytime in and around by Venus period t…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/1/2026
After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family.

I tried to figure out how to put a screenshot of my monthly bill chart on this but not sure how. My take home a month is 4,529.32 my monthly bills add up to 4,207. Yes a chunk of that is a debt consol…

r/Divorcecomment4/1/2026
Why am I sacred of marriage ?

It is because your chart shows u want clarity before commitment.. U are afraid emotional instability You are either very calm Or you suddenly become intense.... and u take relationships very seriously…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/1/2026
Unable to find partner for marraige 34F divorced.

Likely in 2028-29. Second marriage will be happier and successful

r/vedicastrologycomment4/1/2026
How do you know who's in your age range?

Same with my interest and hobbies, which is how I met my guy who is 29. I’m 49. They say you’ll meet someone while you’re out doing what you love. Well, I was out dancing at an EDM festival and that’s…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/2/2026
Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 29, 2026

Congratulations to [Zhang Xue](https://www.chinadaily.com.cn/a/202603/31/WS69cbaf5ba310d6866eb40fa5.html) for this historic win!!! *A Chinese motorcycle manufacturer, ZXMOTO, made history at the Wor…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment4/2/2026
20M Nothing Works Always Unlucky

No coincidence in the Venus period you have since Mar 2025 running till Mar 2028 and your heart being broken. Venus rarely does well for you as Sagittarius Lagna natives affecting the women around you…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/2/2026
29 M, living separately from wife since 2 months. Troubled marriage of 2 years (17th Feb, 2024). Is Divorce Imminent? Also having doubt regarding future career and wealth creation prospects

Very clear mismatch of Venus here, one going through a least favorable 8th lord major dasha period while the other also going through least favorable 8th lord sub period. Boy Venus is absolutely cl…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/2/2026
28F, should I give up on finding love?

It’s not as bad as you think. Venus is pretty decent far away from Rahu affliction. Friendly dashas. Only concern is the peak Sade sati Apr 2025-27 similar to 2011-14, 1997-98 period that affects you…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/2/2026
How to feel pretty

I totally get this! You can manifest everything else but when it comes to seeing yourself as beautiful, it's like the hardest thing ever. The fact that you're a successful streamer already shows you'r…

r/lawofattractioncomment4/3/2026
Hpw is the money aspect in my life?

Money situation splits into two phases for you. Right now you're in Saturn mahadasha running since 2006 Saturn is your ascendant lord and 12th lord sitting in Cancer in 6th house with Moon. 6th house …

r/vedicastrologycomment4/3/2026
Is this the Gaze of the Sphinx lining up with the star of Regulus? Space Force logo and Chris Bledsoe’s Easter 2026 vision.

Maybe, This Saturday at 8-8:15 on Saturday night. Red Storm over Egypt will make any star red and it sort of aligned now, been aligned since March 29. Easter Dawn in Egypt happens at 8:00-8:15pm Pacif…

r/experiencerscomment4/4/2026
Pushed into open marriage? Sorry, just some unsorted thoughts

Hey man, I was in a very similar situation. Ages are actually perfectly reversed as I’m 33 and she’s 29. Key difference is she would tell me privately that she’d never want an open relationship, but w…

r/Divorcecomment4/4/2026
Going through a divorce. How does my future look like?

Sorry to hear this. But this was bound to happen anyway. You started having unfriendly periods since July 2024, sun moon mars periods all affect you and family in health finance career relationship me…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
Can someone please guide me on my Career and debt issue.

You are in Mercury Mahadasha until 2029. Job prospects improve after July 2026. Debt will reduce slowly once income resumes. Avoid new loans. Focus on small consistent earnings first. Your chart shows…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
When to consider decans in chart readings?

u/dasplete Great follow-up questions. For me it comes down to life experience vs textbook. If someone has Sun in Aries but they describe themselves as deeply philosophical, more interested in the big …

r/astrologycomment4/4/2026
I never been in relationship will I ever get married 26f?

The lord of 7th in D9 is saturn which is debilitated in 6th house of lagna , Saturn is in 2nd house of D9 while lord of 7th in lagna chart is Venus and Venus is in 9th house with rahu (2nd from 7th) …

r/vedicastrologycomment4/5/2026
26, M. Will I be able to move to a foreign country and start a life there?

Yes.... you can move abroad. Your Jupiter period started November 2025 and supports this. Best chance is between mid 2027 and early 2029. Focus on work or study visa paths. You will settle well there.

r/vedicastrologycomment4/5/2026
Aspiring to become a pilot,will I be selected?

Yes you have strong chance to become a pilot. Your chart shows technical and travel aptitude. Selection likely between late 2027 and 2029. Keep working hard on medical and exams. Do not give up.

r/vedicastrologycomment4/5/2026
Work getting crazy with baby on the way.

I was concerned about the upcoming rahu mahadasha with sade sati combined during 2027-2029.

r/vedicastrologycomment4/5/2026
Should I divorce

You’re 29. You have your whole life ahead if you. And you should spend it with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, not someone who makes you “feel like a turd.”

r/Divorcecomment4/5/2026
29F 32M Fiancé and I got into life altering fight

My God I could have written this when I was 29. Left my toxic seven year relationship around that time... It was scary letting go of what we had built but can you imagine living the life you're in FOR…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026