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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/24/2026
Just got my actual tariff bill (USA)

Just got my actual tariff bill (USA) — Feels like the other shoe has dropped. I just got my tariff bill back from my shipping company. My effective tariff load for my April 2025 shipment is 176.5%. For comparison, when my order was deliver…

r/ecommercepost5/7/2025
Should I starting selling products? I'm working at a temp job soon to be over or wait till I find a ft job?

Should I starting selling products? I'm working at a temp job soon to be over or wait till I find a ft job? — Hi everyone. I have an llc for my small online business. I want to sell digital products on etsy. However, I'm currently working at a temp job which work is becoming much slower. Although, my end dat…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
I am amazed that anyone would ever get married again after divorce - help me understand!

I am amazed that anyone would ever get married again after divorce - help me understand! — I am in the process of legally separating (which in California is essentially the same as a divorce) from a man who I was with from the age of 20-31. We have a toddler and I separated from him while p…

r/Divorcepost3/11/2026
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
M30, no direction, no future. Just surviving on autopilot. Have I wasted my entire life

M30, no direction, no future. Just surviving on autopilot. Have I wasted my entire life — Hi everyone, M31. Since childhood I grew up in a dysfunctional family: my mother was always absent because of work, and when she came home she was stressed, irritable, angry at the whole world, and v…

r/selfhelppost3/27/2026
I think I just “received” something about Chris Bledsoe’s prediction, but I don’t have enough knowledge to better develop my reasoning about what I received. Is there any astrologer, chemist and alchemist here in this group? The question is something about regulus, halogen, tennessine and antimony.

I think I just “received” something about Chris Bledsoe’s prediction, but I don’t have enough knowledge to better develop my reasoning about what I received. Is there any astrologer, chemist and alchemist here in this group? The question is something about regulus, halogen, tennessine and antimony. — This also seems to have to do with Archangel Michael. If you are a astrologer, chemist and alchemist, could you please tell us if you can visualize any possible physics or metaphysics connection betw…

r/experiencerspost4/1/2026
I will start Lucid Dreaming again after a Break? How Can I started

I will start Lucid Dreaming again after a Break? How Can I started — Hey Lucid dreamers I've got a Question how Can I continue Lucid dreaming after a 1month break? I have learned the Techniques SSILD I have done Reality Checks but I've quite them because I don't make t…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/4/2026
Me and my girlfriend of 7 years just broke up. Now I don't even want to consider dating anymore

Me and my girlfriend of 7 years just broke up. Now I don't even want to consider dating anymore — This was more than just a relationship. We knew everything about eachother. Now I don't even want to try and date. I don't even want to think about being with someone else and I'm only 31. I would r…

r/BreakUpspost4/5/2026
My gf (F19) and I (M23) have cheated on each other. Would I be blinded by love if I stay with her?

My gf (F19) and I (M23) have cheated on each other. Would I be blinded by love if I stay with her? — Before I start, everytime I tell someone close of mine my current situation they get stunned so my story right now could either intrigue you to reading more or bore you. But if you put yourself in my …

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
“When the Abuse Comes from Those Who Were Meant to Protect You”

“When the Abuse Comes from Those Who Were Meant to Protect You” — Olá a todos: meus traumas, meus pensamentos suicidas, minha maravilhosa depressão e minha querida ansiedade social. Bom, já fazem exatos 7 anos desde a última vez que eu escrevi abertamente sobre …

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
Is this a good DevOps book?

## Amazon Price History: **Beginning Azure DevOps: Planning, Building, Testing, and Releasing Software Applications on Azure** * Rating: ★★★★☆ 4.7 * Current price: **$32.29** 👍 * Lowest price: $31.…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
Help me to recognise my attachment style please!

Your description reads like a 26 yo who leans securely attached with the ability to flex to meet their partner where they’re at. The symbiosis part was most ppl I knew at 26 rather than unique. But I …

r/attachment_theorycomment9/3/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Hi everyone, I need some outside perspective. Last summer I had my first relationship at 31. It lasted about 2 months. I was very inexperienced and insecure. She is also very insecure and has hot-and…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

The apps seem to have completely died now. I'm lucky to get one match a month. Often the match I get is someone I'm not attracted to and have no memory of liking.  I noticed they started to get wors…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

I regularly go to a community center for fun! It's just my friends and 1-3 men 65+. I'm 31. Send help.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Need opinions on this. I m32 have a fwb f31. She invited me to her run club. I met one of her friends that plays volleyball f29. I host volleyball open gym friday nights through my work. I invited her…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

I recently moved to a new country for work. I met someone through a dating app who is 8 years older than me. In terms of career, I had just graduated and was at the very beginning of my professional j…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/25/2026
Am I crazy? I feel like a stalker.

This guy is 31. I'm sry having to tell you that you're not his first nor his last victim. He'll unblock and re-add you when he needs to weaponize you against the next girl, like he did to you. What yo…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 11, 2026

it's actually a robe!! my friend got us all them as bridesmaids gifts, pretty sure it's [this one](https://ca.shein.com/C-tesoire-Women-s-Elegant-Solid-Color-Lace-Patchwork-Bell-Sleeve-Robe-For-Autumn…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/11/2026
For those who stayed no contact with a parent until they died did you regret it?

Zero regret. Was no contact from 15 until he passed at 31. Felt a tinge of sadness at his death, and then moved on with my life

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/12/2026
Will i get married if i pursue my phd abroad? I'm turning 29 in two months and if I accept my phd offer, it'll start in June. The country im going to has few Indians only.

You will get married with or without you PhD. So you should do what's best for you. As for your marriage, it's not traditionally arranged. There is either distance/foreign influence in your marriage.…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/12/2026
My boyfriend (31M) is upset I prioritize money and don’t want kids, even though I (24F) told him this from the start

You need to call it.. before you "accidentally" wind up pregnant. He wants kids. He will continue to pressure you. He has no plans for life goals or housing and he's 31.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
29F. Pls tell me about marriage. When will I meet spouse, marriage timing, spouse character and life after marriage.

Your spouse would be someone who likes competition, sports and can be argumentative. He has a bit of that fighting spirit since Mars goes six places from 7th house. Your spouse would come from a good …

r/vedicastrologycomment3/16/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
[Update] She [F25] withdrew consent after the act, how do I [M26] move on from this?

Im 31. The first ti.e my ex said she was too drunk to remember is having sex was the last time I slept with her. This shit can ruin your life. Now I wont date heavy drinkers. If that means I'll die al…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Can my parents deny me sleep because I got in trouble?

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
How do you deal with resentment toward a parent who “did their best”?

OP I’m in a similar situation, 30 f, and can relate to your feelings. I literally had a revelation this morning and had a really productive emotional release cry lol. It’s been hitting me that my sib…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/20/2026
What surprised you the most about going through a divorce?

Mine ended with him having an affair, but the blatant disrespect was wild. He was hanging out with her at our gym, in front of my friends while he still lived in my house… Got in trouble for her sitti…

r/Divorcecomment3/20/2026
Surprise Surprise another tale of a cheater

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/20/2026
My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at 3 am and ruined everything

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at 3 am and ruined everything

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

131. Why do you always pretend you don’t understand what I’m saying to you? 132. I’ll leave you on the streets if you don’t stop crying. 133. Here’s a really racist one I used to hear all the time…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/24/2026
The hardest relationships aren't age gaps, they're intelligence gaps.

Yeah. My husband and I were at the same level when we met: I was 22 and he was 31. Now that I'm 32 the difference is stark. The constantly explaining things made me feel insane. Why do I have to int…

r/Divorcecomment3/27/2026
Looking for an alternate translation or source for this quote:

Just for completeness, here is a correspondence table of Lebell's section headers to parts of the Enchridion: 1. Know what you can control and what you can't (Ench 1) 2. Stick with your own business …

r/Stoicismcomment3/28/2026
It’s hilarious when my N/dad goes crazy when i come home “late” from work

I have removed your comment. Writing ONLY "go NC" or "leave ASAP" in your comments is actually less helpful than one realises, because it doesn't tell that person **how**. It doesn't tell them wha…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Broke up with my gf because she wants kids now and I'm not ready.

She's 31. She needs to start having kids soon *anyway*. By 35 its considered geriatric and each year after the quality of the eggs and chances of getting pregnant decrease while the chances of pregnan…

r/BreakUpscomment3/29/2026
Brain absolutely desperate for stimulation but no longer getting enjoyment from anything. How can I use this for good?

I'm 31. I got diagnosed with autism when I was 21. I believe it was a misdiagnosis, but regardless, having the diagnosis means I lost my right to live on the outside and was put here.

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/30/2026
No contact after infidelity

You didn't cheat because you were addicted to weed or because you were depressed. There is something else going on within. Your addiction and depression may however be symptoms of an underlying issue…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/1/2026
How many of you have been abused by psychiatry?

Research indicates that **roughly 4 out of 10 patients with severe psychiatric disorders have experienced misdiagnosis at some point**. The incidence varies significantly depending on the specific con…

r/CPTSDcomment4/2/2026
20M Nothing Works Always Unlucky

You are in Rahu Mahadasha until 2031. This phase feels heavy but it is building resilience. Relief comes after May 2026. You are not unlucky just early in your journey.

r/vedicastrologycomment4/2/2026
r/experiencerscomment4/2/2026
Does anyone have any insight on this Element 117-related out-of-body experience of mine?

I wrote about Element 117 is my latest blog post: Recieving Grace in the Endzone: A Christological-mystical reading of Project Hail Mary. Published it on 3/31. It plays a Key role in the film's nar…

r/experiencerscomment4/2/2026
Anyone else middle-aged (40+) with nothing to show for these bygone decades but survival?

Omg… hello. The relationship from hell that broke you. That’s EXACTLY what just happened to me. Life wasn’t easy. But I had stamina and courage and I wasn’t going to let anything get me down. I got in…

r/CPTSDcomment4/2/2026
21M, when will my career start?

You are in Jupiter Mahadasha until 2031. Career feels delayed because Jupiter expands slowly. Things will start moving after July 2026. Your first real job opportunity comes between late 2026 and earl…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
6 months, no job, no income, surviving on loans. When likely my income would resume? When likely I will get a job? I always fumble just before the final round of interviews.

You are in Mercury Mahadasha until 2031. Job comes after July 2026. Your fumbling is anxiety not lack of skill. Practice mock interviews daily. Income resumes by September 2026. Stay patient.

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
My mother set me up and got policemen and EMR to aggressively restrain me and put me in the ambulance when I least expected

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/4/2026
My mother set me up and got policemen and EMR to aggressively restrain me and put me in the ambulance when I least expected

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/4/2026
I (31M) am currently in a sexless marriage with my wife (33F). Wwyd?

She’s early 30’s peri/ meno is highly unlikely and if you are reading the thread - it’s been mentioned by multiple including myself it could be a psychological issue on her part and/ or hormonal. Ver…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
Don't you think it's sexist for my fiance (28M) to not want our future children to have my (28F) last name?

Oddly enough I sorta understand his thought process on the boys taking his last name. Well maybe not what HE is thinking but something my husband and I have discussed. Well maybe have a boy and a gi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 05, 2026

Well, it's over. I'm single again at 31. Today started out fine, turned absolutely horrible, and then got better once I accepted things for what they were, went to the forest to watch the clouds pass,…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/6/2026
im sick of my mother stripping naked in front of me

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
My Mom Kept Killing Our Pets

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
my parents hate me for having sex

I went through almost exactly the same childhood. I was pulled from school in 8th grade for being bi and having several queer friends. At *18* during the last half of my senior year my mom went throug…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
I'm not Gross

Nobody cares how old your daughter is, OP said the other person was 31. Stop infantilizing adults. 🤷🏻‍♂️

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
I'm not Gross

I'm 43 and I couldn't do 31. That's far too young for me.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
31F Would i get married this year.

I just turned 31. isn't 34 gonna be too late for me

r/vedicastrologycomment4/8/2026
31F Would i get married this year.

You are in Jupiter Mahadasha which runs until July 2031. Jupiter is retrograde in your chart causing delays in finding the right match. You will meet a suitable prospect between March 2027 and August …

r/vedicastrologycomment4/8/2026