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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/24/2026
MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database

MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database — Hey everyone, I’m currently hosting several websites on SiteGround’s GoGeek plan which comes with 40 GB of web space. Most of my websites use between 1–3 GB, with one around 5.3 GB. However, one of m…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
I am becoming resentful towards my husband for letting his brother live with us

I am becoming resentful towards my husband for letting his brother live with us — TL;DR: My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have one young child. I am 28 and he is 32. My husband let his brother who was 18 at the time move in with us as he was trying to get a job a…

r/relationshipspost3/30/2026
Is this salvageable?

Is this salvageable? — Iv been seeing someone for a handful of months but things seems to be trending towards a less than ideal place. I feel like I’m having to prove my self and the way I feel. Like I feel I’m trying to b…

r/therapypost4/3/2026
Help

Help — I’m 32. I lived in an abusive family until I was 25, when I got married and moved out of my parents’ house. Both of my parents physically abused me since I was about 4 years old. They sent me to a pr…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/6/2026
Is my (23F) ex (38F) the only person I’ll ever love?

Is my (23F) ex (38F) the only person I’ll ever love? — TW: Grooming and underage stuff I met my ex when I was 16 and she was 32. Clearly, the situation was pretty fucked from the start. She was a person who had a position of power over me, and I was a pr…

r/relationship_advicepost4/9/2026
My folks won’t support me anymore

My folks won’t support me anymore — I went through college, working two jobs, now I’m old. I’m 32. Someone will tell me I’m too old - and they’re right. But I’m trying to go farther with my educations and my parents can’t help I don’t …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
Been bullied at work now I can’t go for a walk and enjoy without worrying about a person walking by

Been bullied at work now I can’t go for a walk and enjoy without worrying about a person walking by — so I started this job almost 2 years ago and was mobbed badly and bullied by my coworkers at age 32. I never experi anything like it. however, going for walks which used to be my favourite hobby as an…

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts.

I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts. — **Edit 2**: The full unedited video of the forum I attended on April 8, 2026, less than two hours after seeing the March 5-6 texts from Anna Wilding is now live on YouTube. I showed up, I did my job, …

r/AsianAmericanpost4/11/2026
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

Definitely true. My parents in law have been together for 40 years, married for 32. They started dating when she was 16 and he was 24! Something that's literally illegal in most places now and situati…

r/relationship_advicecomment7/29/2024
Is this a good DevOps book?

## Amazon Price History: **Beginning Azure DevOps: Planning, Building, Testing, and Releasing Software Applications on Azure** * Rating: ★★★★☆ 4.7 * Current price: **$32.29** 👍 * Lowest price: $31.…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Hey Barf101! I feel the same way but I am 32. I dont have experience long term with dating sites, but so far the 1 year I tried bumble was horribly depressing - I never got a single like, follow, or m…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Mentioned it a few hours before yesterday's post expired, but my date canceled for this weekend/doesn't think we're compatible. Happy I at least have other things going on in my life to distract fro…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

Posting this list from a previous Logan Ury newsletter for ‘third object’ date ideas - ones where there’s another focus other than just the two of you: Get moving together 1. Go roller skating or ic…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026

I’m almost 35 and dating a guy who’s just turned 32. I have a younger brother who just turned 30, and would never date anyone the same age as, our younger than him

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/7/2026
I desperately need to be held.

that's awful! I'm sickened by the fact that someone who presumably "cared" about you for over 3 years would suddenly invalidate you as a person like that'. And then he started treating you like a "les…

r/CPTSDcomment3/8/2026
Saturn-Neptune conjunctions have preceded every major financial restructuring in recorded history. Here's the data.

Great question. None of them were overnight. That's actually the most useful part of the pattern. 1917 conjunction → Russian Revolution unfolded over about 3 years (1917-1920). The conjunction was th…

r/astrologycomment3/12/2026
33f. Divorcing, plenty of love, no infidelity, almost 20 years, just incompatible.

i resonate with you completely. so much love, no infidelity or cheating. but just growing in different directions. met when we were 23 and we're now 32. My wife is also very avoidant and sounds simila…

r/Divorcecomment3/13/2026
r/vedicastrologycomment3/14/2026
Older men who lie about their age in their dating profiles

Women pick 32. I see a lot of 40-50yr old women putting their age as early 30s.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/16/2026
Can my parents deny me sleep because I got in trouble?

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
How do I (M22) explain to my girlfriend (F20) that I have a substantial amount of money?

I'm so sorry you lost your Dad. I know someone who was in your position45 years ago. Life did not turn out well for him. You need a job. Any job. It can be a volunteer job, but do not start doi…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Thinking More and More About Just *How* Boring They Were

This resonates with me to an extent. In my case, I felt my parents were and are extremely complacent and they just feel like life happened to them and there’s nothing they can do about it. In addi…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/20/2026
My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
32 (M) seeking some new perspectives

So you’re 32. You have, let’s just go “yeah I die a little early at 70”. Are you prepared to spend another *38 years* like this? Let’s say your kids are like…5. So you stay another 13, they are both g…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/20/2026
My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at 3 am and ruined everything

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
It's truly over

I have never had a comment in Spanish before, so this is very interesting. I plugged your comment into Google Translate, and I'm posting here for my own understanding. > Hello. I’ve read the comments…

r/BreakUpscomment3/23/2026
It's truly over

Ahora, mi respuesta (primero en inglés y luego la pasaré por el Traductor de Google): Gracias por tus amables palabras; lamento mucho que te encuentres en el otro lado de esta situación. Sé que nunca…

r/BreakUpscomment3/23/2026
About to be laid off, again - will this ever end?

If you are into tech, like a software/AI engineer or something, then saturn's placement in your chart creates slowness and give stress. Its aspect on Mars can give career breaks and struggles but it g…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/24/2026
About to be laid off, again - will this ever end?

Yes I am into software. I certainly hope it gets better when I turn 32. Thank you 🙏

r/vedicastrologycomment3/24/2026
the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

131. Why do you always pretend you don’t understand what I’m saying to you? 132. I’ll leave you on the streets if you don’t stop crying. 133. Here’s a really racist one I used to hear all the time…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/24/2026
My friend died, my mom made it about herself.

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/26/2026
My friend died, my mom made it about herself.

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/26/2026
29 F, will I ever get the kind of spouse I want?

Your marriage is most likely to happen between 22 Sept 30 - 2 may 32.(2030 may hi hojayega mostly)

r/vedicastrologycomment3/27/2026
29 F, will I ever get the kind of spouse I want?

It will happen but delayed...first chance will be between 31-32. But it can get delayed further as well.

r/vedicastrologycomment3/27/2026
Small win -- told my NMom "that's not your concern" and really pissed her off

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Looking for an alternate translation or source for this quote:

Just for completeness, here is a correspondence table of Lebell's section headers to parts of the Enchridion: 1. Know what you can control and what you can't (Ench 1) 2. Stick with your own business …

r/Stoicismcomment3/28/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 29, 2026

I've been seeing someone for 2 months and liked him very much. We are both 32. He seemed interested and initiated in the beginning, suggested stuff but it slowly started to become once a week at my pl…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/29/2026
Update: my husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing

This may be a dark take but based on my family's history and their age of death.. I am middle aged at 32.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
Will I be madly in love with my husband? 31F

You'll be obsessed with relationship. He'll be more mature and practical. Might express love though acts of service and care, if not vocal about feelings. Very stable marriage and would improve with t…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/31/2026
71 days since DDay - I’m drowning

Also worth noting I’m almost 31 and he’s 32. Been together 9 years

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/31/2026
How to be happy single?

Ive been happy alone and im 32. Its a hard thing to accept that I might be alone forever. Dont have a bunch of friends to hang with as im normally introverted. It honestly feels like an apocalypse hap…

r/selfhelpcomment3/31/2026
What’s the hardest truth you had to accept?

Bad things can happen that are outside of our control. My husband was diagnosed stage 4 cancer at 32. He died after 6 years. I was a widow at 37. Before then I always felt like that was something that…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/2/2026
My 71 year old mother escalated to throwing objects at me tonight because I started vacation from work

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r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/2/2026
Found out my friends are covering for a cheater

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r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/2/2026
Anyone else middle-aged (40+) with nothing to show for these bygone decades but survival?

Omg… hello. The relationship from hell that broke you. That’s EXACTLY what just happened to me. Life wasn’t easy. But I had stamina and courage and I wasn’t going to let anything get me down. I got in…

r/CPTSDcomment4/2/2026
Is it a trauma response to have a deep desire to acheive greatness or be someone very important while struggling with simple daily tasks?

Looking back at my experience, I would still say I achieved close to perfection within my family as a young child. I was perfect because I took on so much but never needed a thing. I woke myself up by…

r/CPTSDcomment4/3/2026
Does anyone else realize they were a weird kid because their parents did not teach them social skills?

My brother and I both have ADHD. I didn't get diagnosed until I was 27, and, thankfully, me going through the process spurred my brother to do the same at 32. I remember talking to my mom about it o…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/3/2026
32M Divorced and not able to grow in career.

I will tell you that in short.. You need to change your communication style and thinking pattern... otherwise you will face the same political issues at the workplace and authoritative issues from th…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
Me and my girlfriend of 7 years just broke up. Now I don't even want to consider dating anymore

Same here but 32. Was about to be 7 years too. I'm tired, boss.

r/BreakUpscomment4/5/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
I don’t like my job, I don’t feel challenged or fulfilled. What is next for me? What is best for me?

A bad job is still better than a no job. Pisces moons have it difficult from Apr 2025 to 2027 due to their peak Saturn transit much like 2011-14. It’s best advise you grind until you cross this period…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/5/2026
I (28F) just ended things with my partner (30M) due to differing views

I met my husband when I was 32. We had our 30 year anniversary yesterday. Still very happy too.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
Anyone else middle-aged (40+) with nothing to show for these bygone decades but survival?

33  😮‍💨 okay thank you. I may not be able to start til 2027 in the fall which would make me 32. And that’s okay. Thank you very much!! I’m going to school for MLT and I hope to go on to MLS afterwar…

r/CPTSDcomment4/6/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment4/6/2026
Somebody stop me (29f)from sending this to my husband (35M)

I’m so sorry, I went through a similar scenario with my ex husband. I was widowed at 29 when my late fiancé and college sweetheart passed away. Met my ex husband when I was 32. Raised his daughter for…

r/Divorcecomment4/7/2026