Big Picture

I created a podcast to help further the conversation between science and spiritually - Here's Ep 1 of Inquisitive Spirit! — **EDIT: HAD TO REUPLOAD. USE THE LINK AT THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST** Hello fellow Wanderers, Almost a decade after my spiritual awakening, the genesis of my quest, I have only recently realized that …

Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026 — Even if you are not an artist, philosopher or feel things deeply, the New Moon in Pisces could give you an open, dreamy quality, where you want to dig into more abstract subjects. You may be thinkin…

I think all my relationships may be codependent — I was writing notes for how I was feeling last night for my next therapy session when I realized what I wrote sounded incredibly codependent. My seven year relationship had ended about a month ago, w…

My boyfriend doesn’t make me feel heard — I (F18) have met my boyfriend (M19) about a year ago through our mutual friends. When we first saw each other we both were in a relationship. My relationship of that time ended after two weeks of know…

36F Twice Divorced Now? — Really trying not to get down in the dumps. I married my high school sweetheart when I was 20. Divorced at 26. Married my 2nd husband at 28. Now divorcing at 36. With therapy, I've acknowledged I hav…

Should I unblock? — My ex, who is a VERY malignant & self-proclaimed narcissist, and I broke up 3 years ago... and for the first 2 years... it was absolute HELL ON EARTH!!! He absolutely tortured me while I tried to heal…

Should I unblock? — My ex, who is a VERY malignant & self-proclaimed narcissist, and I broke up 3 years ago... and for the first 2 years... it was absolute HELL ON EARTH!!! He absolutely tortured me while I tried to heal…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

I am unsure why. It's quite a common topic in psychology. And yeah, even better that you're doing it during a difficult period, as well as observing yourself doing it. A breakup is still a loss, an…

Biggest difference for me is I’m more selective in my 30s than 20s. Not just about the men I’ll date, but what I do with my time and my lifestyle choices. I’ve always used dating apps, but in my 20s …

Hey y'all Im an aquarius rising with saturn in my second house of Pisces at 10 degrees. It's in a square to my 5th house Gemini moon, opposition to my 8th house vertex in virgo, and a trine to my 10…

Ok, so you are probably super Sag in some way. I think it's fake news that all Sag are the life of the party. we can be a spectrum between Miley and Billie Eilish. Taylor spent HS in her room writing …

Here's some advice, hopefully some of it resonates with you (I'm going to bet at least half of this isn't included in the 'everything' that you've tried so far): 1) If you're serious about this then …

It will be strongly pushing for you to **diversify** and **broaden** yourself. A wide range of experiences and some specialized learning will likely have you seeing more of the big picture and the in…

Def feel the frog and the scorpion. I mean more big picture. Like how to live a successful sustainable life

Maybe it would help to get more specific about what you want. How many days a week do you want to see him? How many overnights? How much time do you want with him when you are together? Then, you can…

No, ok so your 6th is ruled from the 5th. That means that a lot (probably not all) of the 6th house stuff in your life overall (not necessarily nitty gritty day-to-day, but big picture what your 6th h…

I think it's easy to regret things when you see the big picture more, but I think it's also important to remember that you were able to have realizations about the relationship because you went to the…

I was Daddy's girl until I was in my thirties. Then I really opened my eyes to just how fucking selfish he was. Literally yesterday I remembered having panic attacks trying to drive down to his place …

Was your sister subjected to similar abuse or were you singled out by your parents? It could be that she’s had such a different experience with them that she’s not seeing your very valid feelings of n…

I get that feeling of powerlessness when the world feels chaotic - you're focused on your personal reality (your art, your dreams) but external events feel overwhelming and outside your control.From a…

I get that feeling of powerlessness when the world feels chaotic - you're focused on your personal reality (your art, your dreams) but external events feel overwhelming and outside your control.From a…

It sounds to me like you need a real big picture purpose/goal for your life. You say you work, but it sounds like that's just a box to tick off for you along with other things: eat, sleep, workout, w…

Narcissists are not big picture thinkers. They are impulsive and sadistic. They get a dopamine hit to the brain when they can hurt or pull one over on someone. It’s like a drug to them. So they get in…

Yeah, thats pretty much the big picture of why narc's have kids to begin with. To use them for anything and everything up to and including care into their senior years. They are so grandiose they thin…

The thing about that is that you gotta demonstrate some ability to examine yourself for the AI to see the big picture. It’s one of those things where you only get out of it what you put into it. Call …

Thank you a lot for your words, it truly means a lot ! aslo you're right I mostly get lost when I compare the big picture and lose sight of what I can do today to get better, God maybe I'll need to fo…

I don't know that a 6th house Gemini stellium *has* to be bad. What if you had both benefics and the sun in there? It just means that 6th house/Gemini themes are going to be really prominent in your l…

Agreed. It’s good to have a man awknowledge a woman’s sacrifices when she has kids esp if she’s a stay at home mom, if they end it or he leaves her how stuck she is after that. But so many men call wo…

Going for a walk even 5 minutes a day *(Going outside helps our nervous systems so much naturally, I recommend your work lunch break)*. -- Taking a long bath *(Evening time well spent, sometimes this …

No because I value my mistakes as necessary to put me where I am right now. I wouldn't change anything. Even some stuff that feel like mistakes that I'm really paying for right now (student loans lol)…

If you're handsome, kind, do well on dates, and have a great career (assuming that since you're in The League), you're ahead of a lot of guys around you, including a lot of us here. So have faith. I w…

I know right. It’s like we see the big picture and didn't realized about all little details in that

Finn being willing to sacrifice himself showed that he believes in the cause now whereas before he was always trying to just stay alive with his friends. But it's not just about wanting to take the ot…

Believing things like the afterlife can be a source of strength and comfort for a lot of people. For many, the thought of living a relatively short and often tragic life would be unbearably unjust if …

It depends on their intentions. If they want to have kids, the grandparents need to be open to treating the kids equally, or it's going to cause issues. I get that it's a big ask, but I think OP's gir…

I personally think that anything important to you in a relationship is a second or third conversation (depending on how things are going) topic. If mismatched sexual desires would be a dealbreaker fo…

I would say it boils down to whether, outside of this incident/situation, you really think you have a future with this person, because the reality is that you will eventually tell any serious partner …

If at 40 years old she can't communicate better, one more reason to drop her. Edit: The down votes are wild. If she is suffering from trauma she needs to seek therapy not a date. The lack of discernm…

I love Jurgen Ziewe's stuff, I think he has had some of the best experiences and I love how he describes things from an artist's eye. Plus, all of his accounts with his deceased mother are great if yo…

I’m sorry. you are so young and have plenty of time to find someone who deserves you. Yes he cheated. Chlamydia is highly contagious and in the big picture of your life this will not be a big deal fo…

Petty me would ask why he is getting so upset about spending time with his baby and taking care of them? After all it's simple and easy when I do it all day so it shouldn't be a big deal for him to do…

He's being honest, you're not worth the effort to him, believe him when he tells you that. It's called dry snitching. They tell on themselves in little ways. You don't need marriage counseling you ne…

I thought that was when they do something so badly that they're never asked to again. This sounds like he doesn't see the big picture

1. The details aren't perfect. Sometimes you take the chance because you won't get another one for a long time. 2. It's a chance to 'burn a lot of karma' at once, as they say. By this, I mean that…

Yeah, some of this shit he did because he thought it would be 'funny' was a little alarming. Of course, it was always at my expense🙃 LOL Dang, your sister was looking out for you, that's awesome!🩷…

Who cares about “some”? They don’t deserve special attention taking away from the BIG picture

I’m having similar issues with my partner where he says he wont be able to call even for 5 minutes everyday especially when he is busy. I feel emotionally distant at times cause while he replies my te…

You think differently! That’s why you see it from that angle. You are a big picture and analytical person. I won’t be surprised to find out you have a whiteboard of some sort or you journal regularly!…

I’ve definitely been in that 'everything hits at once' season. It’s like the universe decides to test every single pillar of your life—work, relationship, housing—simultaneously. For me, the only way …

u/dasplete Great follow-up questions. For me it comes down to life experience vs textbook. If someone has Sun in Aries but they describe themselves as deeply philosophical, more interested in the big …

The short answer is yes, but not through sun signs. Sun sign is too broad for career specifics. What you actually want to look at is a combination of factors: The Midheaven (MC) sign. This is the cus…

I was at my lowest point when my mom passed away due to cancer. I was barely 17. She was a single mother and I am the only child, so it created a void that’d last forever. That same year, I lost the c…

I get it, I had to file at 10 weeks postpartum with a 2.5 year old. My first advice would be therapist and an attorney. Go to virtual therapy at night while the kids are asleep. Do not let him be maki…

I hate how knee jerk my flight/fawn is. It's like I'm watching myself do these things a million times over and it just happens. fuckin sucks. I was gonna say tho that despite my feelings and trauma, …

I’ve felt stuck or like there’s a wall keeping me from doing anything my entire 48 years of life. It seems to be all about how I look at things. Stop being scared off by the big picture. And try to fi…

in placidus, your nn is in the 9th house, as is your rx mercury. you are developing the realm of higher thinking and relationship to big picture truths and do not likely have an innate relationship th…