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what do orbs look like?

what do orbs look like? — hello all! ive been an experiencer for a long time and had several contacts with nhi within my mind and dreams. previous to this ive only had one f2f where i saw nothing but experienced an intense act…

r/experiencerspost4/3/2026
SATURN RETURN & TRANSITING SATURN/NEPTUNE IN ARIES POSTS PROBLEMS

SATURN RETURN & TRANSITING SATURN/NEPTUNE IN ARIES POSTS PROBLEMS — # PROBLEMS WITH SATURN RETURN POSTS We are getting a lot of Saturn Return questions as transiting Saturn enters Aries. First, many of you think your Saturn Return just began today, Feb. 14, 2026 (usi…

r/AskAstrologerspost2/14/2026
RULES: PLEASE READ

RULES: PLEASE READ — *POST REMOVAL: Understand that all posts are instantly removed into a queue to await mod approval. Please allow 24 hours, though usually it is much less. Your post will either be approved, or you will…

r/AskAstrologerspost2/19/2026
Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President??

Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President?? — Hello everyone. This might be an unusual post to make at this time. However, I am looking forward to see if anyone has experienced anything similar or exactly what I have experienced. Before earlier i…

r/experiencerspost3/8/2026
THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head

THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head — I posted this also in UFO sub. March 13, 1997 I was working in East Mesa, Arizona in a 10 bed Hospice inpatient unit as the Charge RN. We worked 12 hour shifts getting off at 7:30 PM but that night t…

r/experiencerspost3/12/2026
Deleted post? Check rules - user flair AND post flair required to post or automod will delete!

Deleted post? Check rules - user flair AND post flair required to post or automod will delete! — Hello all! Just a reminder that user flair AND post flair are required to post in this subreddit. There is an automod that will delete posts that do not meet both these requirements. To choose a us…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost3/15/2026
Morning routine with a narc

Morning routine with a narc — \- He found me singing in the shower and said “good to see you woke up on the right side of the bed today” (obviously triggered by my happiness) \- Me making us breakfast(remember this). Him, still m…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/16/2026
Cure Avoidant Attachment by Watching TV

Cure Avoidant Attachment by Watching TV — Can watching TV help treat a dismissing attachment pattern? In Dr. Dan Siegel’s book "Mindsight,” he presents a case study involving Stuart, a 92-year-old attorney with dismissing attachment. Stuart,…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost3/19/2026
Does anyone know about destiny swapping, star stealing, stealing the glory of people?

Does anyone know about destiny swapping, star stealing, stealing the glory of people? — One day last year, I was having some horrible traumatic thoughts about my close family member of mine mocking me and making me feel as if I was a failure. It got overwhelming and then I started to fee…

r/energy_workpost3/22/2026
Asian Male - looking for advice on my face and head

Asian Male - looking for advice on my face and head — Something I noticed about myself is that my front profile (even if it’s better than my side) is pretty asymmetrical, and my side profile is really bad. I never liked my side profile but I can’t look a…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/23/2026
Woke up last night to vibrations and heard something that scared me

Woke up last night to vibrations and heard something that scared me — So I’ve been trying to astral project for about a year now and have experienced vibrations couple times but always get scared and end up waking myself up. Last night, I “woke up” with vibrations aga…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/31/2026
800-1000ug+ FIRST acid trip complete ego loss most terrifying thing ive ever had

800-1000ug+ FIRST acid trip complete ego loss most terrifying thing ive ever had — Before I get into this, I want to make something clear right away. I am not encouraging anyone to do this, and I am definitely not presenting this as some cool or impressive story. This was not enjoya…

r/Psychonautpost4/1/2026
I can't fully believe in it

I can't fully believe in it — No matter what I do I can't exactly believe in manifestation. I feel like every success story can be explained. Even though I'm interested in spiritual stuff I always have a realistic side believes th…

r/Manifestationpost4/1/2026
My girl 26F gives multiple answers in almost all of the arguments we have. I am 26M

My girl 26F gives multiple answers in almost all of the arguments we have. I am 26M — Each argument we have and i ask her what she thinks about something, she very usually gives two or more answers. Sometimes she says or does things that are very confusing for me and i don't quite unde…

r/relationshipspost4/5/2026
I saw the Romans, and I was nailed on the ground

I saw the Romans, and I was nailed on the ground — This experience is truly like no other. My only proof (pictures) that it happened, when there’s no other explanation or reason that a dark spot or mark would just appear on the palm of my hand. I hav…

r/experiencerspost4/5/2026
A narcissist mom VS an ASPD son.

A narcissist mom VS an ASPD son. — My mom's words will be dashes(-) and mines will be plus signs(+) pretty sure my mom is a narcissist, I have been checking boxes and she checks every criteria to be suspected or assumed. I am 21. and …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/5/2026
Me (F21) and my friend (F21) spent nine hours together, cuddled, and held hands, and I don't know if it's a date or not. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend (F21) a few weeks ago and we're staying friends. Can I talk to her about it?

Me (F21) and my friend (F21) spent nine hours together, cuddled, and held hands, and I don't know if it's a date or not. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend (F21) a few weeks ago and we're staying friends. Can I talk to her about it? — **TLDR:** *My ex told me to date around when we broke up, but has been really clingy and possessive since then, and one of my friends want me to go no contact. But she's the person I want advice from …

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
3 Month Mark - First salvo fired.

3 Month Mark - First salvo fired. — So, at the beginning of the year, my wife told me she was seeking a separation/divorce. (You can read my previous post on the matter if you like.) Despite making some significant changes to myself …

r/Divorcepost4/6/2026
I think my best friend likes me, or am I just delusional

I think my best friend likes me, or am I just delusional — So me (15F) and him (16M) were sitting together in the restaurant and we were with a bunch of other friends. We were all waiting for the food and I was chatting with him like usual, nothing much. I …

r/relationshipspost4/7/2026
physical reaction to someone's voice

physical reaction to someone's voice — for context, my mom is a narcissist, and i have developed severe irrational loathing and disgust towards her. whenever she starts talking, whichever side she's sitting on (e.g. right side) my ear on t…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/7/2026
The weight of Disclosure is on the shoulders of Experiencers.

The weight of Disclosure is on the shoulders of Experiencers. — What I'm about to talk about is often something that is unconsciously understood but rarely laid out and defined openly even within experiencer circles. I find it can often be the case in big voice ch…

r/experiencerspost4/7/2026
Am I close to astral projecting or is my mind playing tricks?

Am I close to astral projecting or is my mind playing tricks? — So I was at a dermatologist office doing red light therapy for the first time. Prior to that I drank coffee and was having pretty bad anxiety. Once i lay there and they turned the lamp on my anxiety i…

r/AstralProjectionpost4/8/2026
Split down the middle

Split down the middle — This will be a long post, bear with me. So, many years ago during a particularly bleak period of my life, the left side of my body stopped responding so well. It's sort of numb, slower, and out of s…

r/gatewaytapespost4/8/2026
Minor rant: has anyone's parents or relatives suggested inappropriate institutions, activities, or programs as a supposed form of self-discipline or self-improvement?

Minor rant: has anyone's parents or relatives suggested inappropriate institutions, activities, or programs as a supposed form of self-discipline or self-improvement? — Oh boy, another spontaneous event. If I understand the news correctly, a draft to automatically register any man age 18 or older in the US will take into effect by December of this year. Naturally, an…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
Oh boy do I love being exploited(Long rant, life story, lots of heavy stuff)

Oh boy do I love being exploited(Long rant, life story, lots of heavy stuff) — Hi, new here. I'll just go ahead and describe my relationship with my parents and my general environment, cuz I've been stuck in a cycle of depression and toxic optimism since childhood. For conte…

r/CPTSDpost4/11/2026
i need help

i need help — hi reddit. i’m 21 (f) for context. i have been struggling with my mental heath more than i care to admit. i have neglected my health because i know i won’t live long. i have slightly gotten better tho…

r/selfhelppost4/11/2026
Girl 51F I'm 47M dating keeps blowing up at me for ADHD caused issues. Keep trying?

Girl 51F I'm 47M dating keeps blowing up at me for ADHD caused issues. Keep trying? — So, I've been dating this girl for a few months now. She's been aware for almost the entire time that I have ADHD, plus some other diagnoses that can also affect my memory (OCD, anxiety, various sleep…

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
My Remote Viewing has drawn psychic RV spies. Ideas on how to block them?

My Remote Viewing has drawn psychic RV spies. Ideas on how to block them? — Relatively new to psi and RVing. Clairs just turned on last year. I've taken 1 RV class, and I'm in a second one now. 2-3 months ago, mediumship abilities unexpectedly came online. I started getting u…

r/experiencerspost4/12/2026
I (22M) am so confused. Didnt know where else to go with this anymore. I just want help understanding what happened? PLEASE READ - its long, kinda.

I (22M) am so confused. Didnt know where else to go with this anymore. I just want help understanding what happened? PLEASE READ - its long, kinda. — important context- i was born into a religious family and grew up a religious kid not in any unorthodox manner only a typical hindu family in india. when i was a child i was afraid of the dark then on…

r/AstralProjectionpost4/12/2026
It’s this or that

It’s this or that — I feel like I’m losing my mind and I don’t know what’s real anymore I’m 30F and for the past couple of months my body has just not felt normal at all. It started since December and since then it’s li…

r/Anxietyhelppost4/13/2026
Excessive Rumination

It feels like love like that because it feels familiar to your nervous system, in some way like "home". But home is what gave you an insecure attachment style to begin with so it makes sense that the …

r/attachment_theorycomment6/3/2025
I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies.

Some of the OP's old posts have either been deleted by mods or by himself. OP has often shown bitterness and attacked avoidants in the past and that's the context the person you're talking to is refer…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/31/2025
How do you respond to people who are very quick to think that you’re angry at them?

Type A attachments inhibit negative affect from consciousness during information processing towards attached figures. [Transformation of Information for attachment.](https://i.imgur.com/9iVeoXx.png) …

r/attachment_theorycomment1/17/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I’m so sorry this happened. It sucks to finally put yourself out there after being hurt and experiencing more hurt. But on the bright side you know that you can indeed connect with someone like that a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Help me understand what happened here after around 2 months of dating and talking with someone I knew from 7 years ago

As a secure person you could tolerate an avoidant attachment dynamic better than an anxious person but I'd say the bright side is that dealing with avoidance is painful for many people. Sounds like i…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/5/2026
Wife cheated on me with multiple men over the course of 3 months.

I'm so disappointed what a doormat you were. You knew she cheated on you when you engaged and you STILL chose to marry her? You bought this on yourself. On the bright side, at least you're moving on…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
Found out 10 year situation-ship has been married the entire time

Please please please be a Good Samaritan and tell his wife. She deserves out of that situation. If he was cheating on her with you, there must have been at least a dozen others too. Also, sorry that…

r/BreakUpscomment3/8/2026
Her body😫

Thats the worst part of it all. When you really wanna talk but can’t. The bright side of it is that you know you really loved her deeply & got to experience something beautiful that many people don’t …

r/BreakUpscomment3/8/2026
I just need to rant, Y'all. I'm so angry!!!!

Bright side? You can now cut him out without guilt from your mum. You maintained the family long enough. This man is just proving he's not your family. No family member worth having would take such jo…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/10/2026
Digital orrery?

[Astro-Seek.com](http://Astro-Seek.com) can do all of that. Access their Annual (or monthly) calendar under the Tools tab. It will give you the exact date and time of any planetary event. There are va…

r/astrologycomment3/11/2026
My desire for relationships disappeared after a narcissistic ex. Has anyone else experienced this?

Narcs are scary creatures but if you can, don’t give up on healthy love & friendship. There are some genuinely amazing people ready to love you as you should be loved and although it’s tough to open u…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/11/2026
I’ve been with a narc for 5 years and I don’t recognize myself anymore. How do I get "me" back?

I'm in the same situation currently. 23 years for me. 1. For me, the first step was when I moved into my apartment and was able to listen to any music I wanted with side remarks from the X. Find som…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 11, 2026

Yeah I don’t see a bright side in hurting someone I love and care about.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/11/2026
Getting married soon help me pls

20s is for learning. Look on the bright side, you found out before lawyers, judges, and courts need to be involved. If you had a time machine and could go back, what would you do? There is your deci…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday

yeesh. first off, in my opinion what you said isnt hurtful at all 💀 there absolutely is a freedom with bein single that you dont get when youre seein someone or when youre in a serious relationship. …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
How to help my wife? Severe depression over lack of suitable work after 2yrs. I'm desperate.

Is she medicated? Has she had a thorough diagnosis? Sometimes therapy is not enough. I am 36. I have been in therapy and medicated on and off since I was 16, and it took until *four months ago* for m…

r/relationshipscomment3/14/2026
Found my wife has been cheating with a co-worker

On the bright side, at least it wasn't the boss, that would've stung a little more.

r/Divorcecomment3/15/2026
I wish I left after the first affair

So sorry to hear this. But bright side is you are out of that relationship and doing good, taking time for yourself and enjoying your walk is very healthy. I wish you get a tonnes of love and happines…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 17, 2026

Regaining some equilibrium. I am frustrated that I can’t reasonably expect to date for three-six months (until my ex gets her own place and moves out, and we start to get a custody arrangement in pla…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/17/2026
I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything?

On the bright side, US passports are not taking very long at all these days. Once you have your paperwork in hand, the turnaround time currently seems to be under a month. You can fill out the forms …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink

I think his reaction, although childish and out of pocket, is kinda normal for a man simply bcus just as you stated, they’re “overprotective” and this isn’t something you both openly discussed, I’m re…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
AM diversify your dating pool

Mods of the Asian American subreddit deleted a post talking about the same thing lol but I'm glad the comments made before deletion were on the right side

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/18/2026
My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago

On the bright side OP- for me it was 14 years and many of them werent even good. Im so sorry for what happened to you. But you will survive this and eventually thrive. You’ll find a woman who is worth…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/18/2026
I’m so lonely after my divorce

You know, look on the bright side you’ve had 3-4 relationships since your divorce. For me (42M) outside of work, my Lawyer or my therapist and my 1.5/2.5 year old kids I have not had a single interact…

r/Divorcecomment3/19/2026
Possible Encounter - Any information on this type of experience?

I think so but also I remember a sound like a hiss but it was unintelligible and not scary. I don't think I would believe it was real at all except that it recurred so similarly for that few year wind…

r/experiencerscomment3/20/2026
How do you protect agaisnt entities

I listened too binetural beats and I felt safe before bed didnt had any negative taught at all than at 1:20 i wake up sleep paralyzed and my right side of my brain hurts like someone is sending some a…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/21/2026
My (26M) brother (35M) has impregnated my ex wife(F27) and is engaged to marry her. How do I move on going forward?

You know, you guys divorced, so what she did is her freedom. Just move on. Yes, it is fuck up situation, but what else you can do? Look at the bright side, you are far away from them. So you don’t h…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/21/2026
My (M19) Gf (F19) constantly asks for details on me being raped because she "can't wrap her head around it", is this worth it?

Probably get down voted for this, but this is a common reaction on OP's GF part. So common that I agree with OP earlier "take it to the grave" inclination. In my experience the majority women claim, …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/21/2026
Can a full year (or multiple years) be analyzed astrologically?

Yes, absolutely. That's a big part of astrology. We can look at any day, week, month or year in a person's life, past, present or future. You can do a natal + transit biwheel chart for any date you …

r/astrologycomment3/21/2026
Should I meditate with or without noise?

If you are listening to frequencies, listen to the internal sound current. This is the whistling or ringing sound usually in the right side of the head. Known as Nada Yoga or Shabd meditation.

r/Meditationcomment3/22/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 22, 2026

Ok, this guy indeed texted today and asked if I am still available tomorrow to meet. So apparently we will meet. But I am so so so absolutely not in mood. I do feel extremely inadequate. He has this h…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/23/2026
Easiest way to Lucid Dream

When you are really tired, try to daydream while exhausted in bed. Imagine a super strong character landing a super strong punch on the right side of your bed. Imagine your bed breaking and it causes …

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 23, 2026

I (31m) had a third date planned for tonight with someone I met through a matchmaking service that I’ve been [chronicling lately](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/s/8ChSyI2jvb). She was away …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/23/2026
Why does it take years to realize you’re traumatized? And why does "standard" therapy often miss the point?

I was with a therapist for 5 years on and off and never really got into the nitty gritty. Maybe that was me never feeling totally comfortable, but I feel he could have helped me more. It was definitel…

r/CPTSDcomment3/24/2026
Are there any pro-escapism AP communities out there?

I personally, at this time, do not believe in a "higher self" - at least not in the way that most people seem to describe it. I don't think there's a part of our nonphysical self that is somehow magic…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/24/2026
Sleep paralysis, Astral Projection and hearing demonic voices

You weren't fully projecting. You were in a halfway state where your entire system both physical and non-physical were going haywire. A personal example would be me moving my arm(yes, sometimes you ge…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/25/2026
It Worked OVERNIGHT!

Also one more thing I’m very sciencey and logical and these are universal laws so i’m like either i’m gonna sulk and attract more of that or just be delulu 🤣 either way we’re always manifesting so i …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/26/2026
Found out my wife cheated before, after & during marriage

Phew! Was going to ask the same thing. The bright side of this is that you’ve got something bigger than you to focus on. You need to get her clear of your wife. You might think she will make a won…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/27/2026
Art and study of the Gateway tapes and general connection to the Universe (with my own experimentation)

Hello Bunty, I hope you’ve been well. Please let me know how your experience goes. I will write a step by step guide on how I do this, below. I still am creating art for it as I claimed. My studies o…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/27/2026
Those of you who were blindsided, discarded, or abandoned- how are you doing now?

Married 25 together 30. Pretty much the same story. My theory is mid life crisis. But that aside. It took me a long time to finish raising kids, while getting a new job, etc and recover a bit. Ho…

r/Divorcecomment3/27/2026
WARNING do NOT do the whimhoff breathing exercise while DRIVING! (I crashed)

You are not an idiot!! Screw people on Reddit and the entire peanut gallery. It’s cool you used those breathing exercises to calm down, and I’m sorry that happened. Thanks for the warning. On the brig…

r/energy_workcomment3/27/2026
Has anyone dated a lot and kind of regret it?

Maybe this is a case where you have both a bright side and a dark side and you can consciously CHOOSE which to enrich and focus on. IT sounds like the darker aspects are currently flooding your mind, …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
Any Christian experiencers in here?

Well I was in a ufo with god on his throne and Jesus on his right side, as a kid. Remember God is back coming in a cloud aka ufo

r/experiencerscomment3/28/2026
I am so worried about my future to the point where i think of ending it all

Yeah 25F and I still dont know where my life is going either and the future terrifies me, so I just take what steps I can in the present to feel like I at least tried and then try not to worry about m…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/29/2026
[UPDATE] My (24F) boyfriend's (33M) hemorrhoids are ruining our relationship. Help?

on the bright side, at least you didnt waste 3 years with him? congrats for leaving him, im sorry.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
Worst episode yet

Sorry to hear you're suffering. On the bright side, these things *should* even out over time. Your recount of HPPD does sound a little more extreme in symptoms compared to the usual "I always see vi…

r/Psychonautcomment3/30/2026
I understand getting a divorce is normal and you will finally move on after some time. But its different when it is your turn and you lived more tgan a decade together. Especially when you have to give up the custody of your kids and all the life to begin again at 40, from zero again.

Yeah I’m still in the seperation phase due to the state of but in a couple months I will be divorced. But still yeah it’s been rough. On the bright side. I lost 38lbs, starting a new job, and I got a …

r/Divorcecomment3/30/2026
It’s finally over

Wow that sucks man. The bright side is ya found out before ya married her. I was married for 20 years just to wake up one day and find her gone. And here I am trying to date in my mid 40's and hon…

r/BreakUpscomment3/30/2026
How to cope with the fact that I got replaced?

Yeah. I don't get it either. When I say forever I truly mean it, she didn't. I guess on the bright side I'm a loyal soul haha

r/BreakUpscomment4/1/2026
Does anyone just have severe anxiety due to being raised by this kind of parent?

Same here! Mine manifested in seizures and a twitch in the right side of my body. They improved a bit so far now that I’m out and NC (almost 5 months free now!) but it’s still a struggle. I’m so lucky…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/1/2026