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Finally detached! Flying, static vision, and a sudden "lust-induced" snapback. Advice needed! — Hey everyone! I’ve been actively practicing for a while now—listening to 6 Hz theta waves and binaural beats, focusing on breathwork, and consciously lowering my heart rate. This morning around 9:00 A…

Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …

How to heal avoidant attachment? — Uhhhh hey gang. Formerly severe fearful avoidant here. The attachment quizzes put everyone somewhere on a quadrant, with the bottom being high avoidance and the right high anxiety. So I was farrrr in …

Is the flip clock animation is good ? Should I include any slower effect ?

What could cause massive spikes in Impressions on Google Search Console? — I am getting massive spikes once a week. From 4000 to 16,000 impressions. But clicks do not increase and these are lowering my CTR. We arent doing anything special on these days - no emails - no marke…

Tired of UX advice accounts that never show their own work.. — I’m a product designer and I post my work on Instagram and Linkedin. Lately, I’m getting tired of all the design accounts with thousands of followers that just post tips, rules, or “ do this, not that…

What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …

Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit) — *(TL;DR at bottom)* Questions like this pop up on this subreddit every few weeks: > How much should I charge for a basic website? Or: > Is $500 for a single-page Figma design a good price? ...and…

Is it a good idea to start an India-based agency offering social media services (graphic design, video editing, creative work) exclusively for foreign clients due to better dollar parity? — I’ve been thinking of starting a social media service agency based in India, focusing only on international clients (especially from the US/UK). The idea is to offer services like graphic designing, v…

Reasonable equity for Lead Engineer or Tech Co Founder in this scenario? App is live, Large follower base on socials, Profitable after 4 weeks, 200+ paid subs - i will not promote — Have launched the first camping app in Australia with video reviews, backed by 130,000+ engaged followers across platforms, directly grown from the campground reviews. App launch is already pro…

Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote) — I am an engineering student who has a degree in Computer science and engineering (Data Science) with an honours in Quantative Finance. I have been a part of 3 startups mainly in the social and influ…

Intermediaries to circumvent tariffs — What's stopping US businesses partnering with businesses in low tariff countries who can order the Chinese goods, amend/alter it in a material way to claim it as the country of origin/manufacturing an…

Anyone else rethinking bulk imports with these tariffs? — I’ve been importing apparel in bulk for a couple years now, but the new Trump tariffs have really forced me to rethink things. Between higher shipping costs and customs delays, the old model just isn’…

Take the leap - The average business is really bad at doing business. (I will not promote) — The bar for doing business, in my opinion, has never been lower. The average business is barely capable of functioning. About 3 weeks ago I put out an request to multiple suppliers. I needed large qua…

Need Advice: 3x Salary Offer for Fullstack Role, But It’s a One-Man Show. Go for it? — Hi. Everyone. Please bear with me, I hope this is the right place to ask. I’m currently a jr web developer and have been working in my first proper dev job for almost a year. The pay is on the l…

Marketing for startups (I will not promote) — (I will not promote) Proven strategies to take a startup from zero to scale ($10M+ ARR). As a 3X startup CMO, I have experienced tremendous success and a ton of failure.  I have been involved in th…

Flora Market Mobile App — Hi! This is my 1st completed mobile App. It is a Flora Market mobile App, and it is a personal project. Summer is coming, balconies and yards are filled with flowers, so I found a good idea to des…

using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…

Help: Pull to refresh replication mystery on Chrome — Hi all, I need some help! I have a drop-down list that is basically a giant carousel with vertically aligned buttons where you swipe up and down the page to go to the higher/lower button elements. Th…

Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…

Manager vs. IC when recruiting soon? — Hi all! I have the opportunity and flexibility at my job right now to move up into a managerial role, and I get a lot of freedom in deciding what it looks like. E.g. I could oversee and manage designe…

Is 6-8 years of career enough to start a business on? — I notice a many industry wide consultants are in the field for 20+ years before providing advice and their services for companies. While im not wanting to become a consultant, I’m wondering if someon…

Thoughts on Password Protection for Portfolios? — I wanted to share my solution based on feedback from hiring managers being frustrated with portfolios that are password protected (especially when you can’t find the password on your resume). Ideall…

Followers/Instagram — I have 57 followers on Instagram, and I'm very introverted. I'm starting to use Tinder and everyone thinks I'm fake when I share my Instagram :/ How to gain real followers? I would like recommendatio…

My current case study - Instagram Automation - is working! But how to make money? — I have a company that is doing quite well and I often have time left over. During this time, I try my hand at various case studies. This time it was Instagram's turn. I had often seen videos about Mak…

I’ve failed at startups, lived on the road, and I still believe I’m successful — I was 19 when I started my first startup. I led a team of 15 people, wanted to change the world. And I failed. At 21, back in 2016, I left home without any money, hoping that traveling would help me …

Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!) — **Post Body:** Hi everyone! I co-own a small business (a boutique cafe + online store) and wanted to share our experience using an **AI “social media assistant”** to grow our Instagram and TikTok. W…

How can I let devs update their lower environment terraform while protecting production environments? — I know the title is a rather open ended question, but let me lay out where I am now, in the hopes of getting ideas on how to do this better. For a given service, we'll have one directory for environm…

I don't know what to do about my giveaway — I own a super small online jewellery business as a hobby, as I'm still in school. Since Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday, I decided to host a little giveaway for my few followers, expecting at mo…

"I quit my engineering job due to anxiety and built a small business—how do I scale from here?" — Hi everyone, I wanted to share my journey and ask for advice from those who’ve scaled small businesses. I studied chemical engineering and got placed in a great company right after graduating from S…

My clients says my store looks closed from the outside.. — I run a high-end furniture store and some of my clients said that the store looks closed from the outside. My store needs to look elegant so I can’t buy some cheap « open » neon-sign. Do you sugg…

CKA? Or EKS project? — Here's a bit of context as to why I feel like I need to get out of dodge ASAP... IT Management: "We need **more automation**! Nobody should be using User Data scripts." Me: \*Writes several Ansible…

Any advice ?? — Hello everyone, I’m a 23-year-old senior in college majoring in Business Administration, and I’m currently exploring opportunities in real estate. I’ve been drawn to the field because of its strong p…

Generational wealth advice? — Hello everyone, I’m a 23-year-old senior in college majoring in Business Administration, and I’m currently exploring opportunities in real estate. I’ve been drawn to the field because of its strong p…

Generational wealth — Hello everyone, I’m a 23-year-old senior in college majoring in Business Administration, and I’m currently exploring opportunities in real estate. I’ve been drawn to the field because of its strong p…

Should I starting selling products? I'm working at a temp job soon to be over or wait till I find a ft job? — Hi everyone. I have an llc for my small online business. I want to sell digital products on etsy. However, I'm currently working at a temp job which work is becoming much slower. Although, my end dat…

Need advice!! — Hello everyone, I’m a 23-year-old senior in college majoring in Business Administration, and I’m currently exploring taking over my dad’s welding business. I’ve been drawn to the field because of its…

A Metaphorical Description of An Avoidant Reaching Out — In the quiet dusk of a long, isolated winter, an avoidantly attached soul finds the courage to break free from its self-made fortress. For years, it has wandered amid barren landscapes of guarded emo…

I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies. — I'm dating someone right now, and things are actually going well. She moves a bit slower than I'm used to, but that's probably a good thing—my last relationship moved way too fast; we slept together …

Seeking self-closure — To give a brief overview. Had a multi year situationship with someone I had fallen for, a fearful avoidant. Much pulling and pushing until it ended by her pushing everything away. A year later she st…

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

Dating someone with a fearful-avoidant style has been unexpectedly… gentle? — I wanted to share a relationship experience that’s been genuinely interesting and surprisingly positive, especially for FAs and anyone curious about FA dynamics. If you are not interested in some per…

What did you notice changed when you began leaning secure? — I'm pretty happy with my progress. I notice I have a much lower tolerance for unaware dysregulation (no matter what kind it is whether it's someone push-pulling or an anxious type dumping on me). I d…

8+ Months of LOB practice ( Update from my 1st post ) — Hi everyone, Some of you may remember me from my last post where I did an update of my situation at 4 months in, practicing LOB. After that post, I decided as was recommended to lower the progress g…

Meta Dating Monday - Flowers, Candy and Wrestlemania — Welcome to Meta Dating Monday! With Valentine's Day just around the corner and my kids now old enough that I no longer have to sit there trying to write names on lumpy candy bags, I can finally focus…

Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you — My bf (35M) and I (33F) met December 2024 on a dating app and became exclusive immediately after our first date. On our first few dates he asked what I was looking for and I said I was looking for som…

Mission success (progressive goal structure for social media growth) — Hi everyone, I just reached my first success story which was reaching 10k followers on TikTok. I used the progressive goal structure process and initially started with 5k and then moved to 10k. Li…

Found out he has a wife back home. Now what? — Went on a couple of dates with this guy (31M) who travels to my country every few months for work. Told me he’s single and hasn’t been in a serious relationship for the last 3 years. Dates were good, …

Help me understand what happened here after around 2 months of dating and talking with someone I knew from 7 years ago — Hey all, I need some perspective on this to help me process. I'm 33M. I met this girl (30F) about 7 years ago when we were both working at a bar. We always got on really well and hooked up one ni…

Feeling “off” after trust rupture — attachment system or intuition? — I have been dating my current partner for about a year now. Long post incoming. I’m posting because I’m noticing a significant avoidant shift in myself and I need perspective specifically on my own at…

Do zodiac compatibility charts actually work in real relationships? — I have been curious about zodiac compatibility charts and how muchthey matterin real relationships. Many astrology sites talk about certain signs being perfect matches while othersare challenging. Fo…

It seems to me that there is a conflict between followers of Joseph Murphy and Neville Goddard and what they each represent, LOB and LOA, respectively. Now I am not familiar with either of these MEN, …

We actually do live in a magnetic universe. But you can believe whatever you want, because we also live in a free will universe. And Humans will take any opportunity to draw lines of division between …

It just depends on what kind of beings you want to meet. Duality still exists in the Astral. Just like in physical life you can find good and bad teachers. And yes, dimensions above the Astral are gen…

thank you, very interesting insight, i guess is still down to our concious self to still understand whats what and whos who on the other side as well. Sometimes i do wonder, if on a higher dimension …

Last night I meditated to sleep and at some point became aware in my dream after noticing something was off I opened the door to step into a “void “ or some part of consciousness I briefly saw my body…

Is it possible/useful to help out lower dimensional beings to? Like higher ones can do with us? If so what are you recommanding?

Yes, it is possible. I wrote a bit about this here if you want to check it out: https://multidimensionaljournal.com/2020/12/12/7-tips-for-astral-projection-in-depth-guide/#lower-realms

If I Lucid Dream will time fly by slower and will I know how time I have left without dreaming?

The experience of feeling vibrations is constant if we are projecting from the lower chakra point however if you project through your third eye directly to the astral plane there is no vibrations. The…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

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My concern has been 3 years of astral staking by a person who abuses the astral. They have been taken over by a negative entity. And now energy harvest daily. This has taken energy workers many goes a…

I am sorry but when you are experiencing an astral projection you know it right away because your consciousness stay awake and powerful, I remember my first time as teenager, the first feeling that ov…

From my experience the way he described it was the confusing part, especially considering the dozen translations there are of this book. Personally I think that a few things he is not right about w…

I tried to add more but reddit won't let me edit. I will say there are secure, independent people who want their alone time too. I am just not sure it would be on the lower end for relationship parti…

Love the question!! You don’t need a relationship to grow, that’s the beauty of it (you can but it will be slower, depending on what kind of partner you end up with) You could try to explore being mo…

I recently went on a first date with someone who brought me a bouquet of flowers after meeting me for only 6 minutes at an event, and then after this first coffee date, texted me to say they brought …

Oh, this is a cool topic, there is nothing cooler than the fucking time that is chasing us.  I was just in the middle of my first mission related to a new job. At that time I was already quite burnt…

I've been doing parts work for a couple of years. I'm wondering if it may be more beneficial for you to analyze them, and their potential attachment style, less and just try speaking to them and being…

There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…

The advice to not discuss negative aspects of your personal relationships with others is good advice. It is also good advice to not jump on the bandwagon against someone else's SO because when they re…

I have a 100% automated account for bluesky and youtube, instagram and tiktok is like 70% automated. instagram I don't automate the actual uploads etc, only content creation, they will limit your acc…

Well. You are participating in this dynamic still by a) continuing to see him even if you said you won’t put in the same energy. b) by later asking for more consistency. No judgement, but just that a …

CI to auto approve those pull requests.  But really, you don't want to do things this way. You protect the main branches. You need to give them the ability to deploy their own branches to whichever …

I'd recommend reading up on ephemeral environment patterns. There are huge gains for devs if you can provide the tools and process for ephemeral environments in the lower environment. If the proc…

Building in public on socials. X, Reddit, Linkedin. Organic is the way to go in the beginning. Build a community, build followers. Makes it so that when you launch, you're not launching into the void.

I have just learned about attachment Theory and believe my partner is avoidant( not sure if da or fa as still a bit confusing to me) I felt like my avoidant partner was putting me through test. At the…

I figured anyone mentioning it would get downvoted, but I second the use of ChatGPT and other AI tools. I did a couple years of weekly therapy but it was getting too expensive. Now I use a combination…

You are more than welcome champ. My advice here is don't have a talk while she is deactivated as that is more than likely going to push her further away. Emotional deregulation is a behaviour caused…

As someone who is a few days on the other side of the “I need space” deactivation, withdrawal whatever you want to call it. This will only end with an ugly break up (past week) I wish I had been stro…

People are everything. They're fickle, they're stupid, they're disagreeable, they shove you away at times, they're not solid...but they're also beautiful, and dependeable, and deep like the sea, and e…

Thank you!! 😭 Yeah it hit me hard today when I went for my usual walk and realized I couldn’t call him to chat. I was going down a list of people I wanted to call but didn’t want to bring them down.…

I know what you’re saying, in my case I had all elaborate dates planned for me, introduced to all his family and friends as his girlfriend, our parents met, flowers, gifts, attended his friends weddin…

Why would an avoidant push me away, but then orbit me for almost 2 years — even while committed to someone else? I feel ashamed for being stuck on this.. I (32F) had a short but intense connection wi…

That last sentence is something I’m working on. If we have a mismatch of emotional capacity in the past I would essentially wait to see if that would change or if I could change their mind by acting a…

Attachement styles aren't like a hair colour or an eye colour, they change with each relationship. If you notice repeating behaviours it has more to do with your choice of partners than a specific att…

Try to get to the heart of the matter, if something is pulling you into this type of dynamic the solution can only come from you. Abandonment issues usually do well with therapy. And in the meantime l…

>Just my two cents on some points here: Alpha is basically a state where you are so relaxed that when you imagine your scene you are completely immersed in it that you forget your body, its just full …

I'm going to take a crack at this using critical thinking alone. *" The very concepts of "beginning," "created," and "suddenly exist" are all products of our three-dimensional perception, where we ex…

So I (37F) apparently still have anxious attachment. I thought I had managed to get past it 😅 so I started talking to a younger colleague (29M) at work. A couple weeks ago we admitted we liked each o…

Any advice on how to calm down anxiety? I 24F have been experiencing a heightened feeling of anxiety the past week or so, especially around my relationship with my 24M boyfriend. It has gotten to th…

Me (24F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been together for over five years, these last two long distance. We see each other once a month and I asked early on if we could text each other everyday - nothing…

I've been working through my anxious attachment tendencies with my therapist, and I've been putting myself out there and going on dates. One thing I'm realizing I'm struggling with is needing to go sl…

Thank you for sharing this it really echoes my experiences! I too was anxious in my past relationship that in retrospect was very unhealthy and my ex was avoidant with downright narcissist traits. I h…

Honestly, what you just shared sounds completely normal (I’m saying this not in an invalidating way). When you move from an on-and-off relationship to a healthy and emotionally secure one, your body a…

I'm going to go out on a limb and say this is not about you, but about both of you. It's the sexual baseline of both partners that matters. The fact that you have little or no libido on your own is on…

The key is to recognize when you are with someone who 1. Checks your legitimate boxes and 2. Does not make you feel excessively anxious You may not have ridiculously strong feelings off the bat and …

ANXIOUS 24/7 Even though my fiance is mostly present, texts, and calls (once per day sometimes a bit late because he is at work) I am always anxious and I hate myself for that. If he gets one tick …

I work in the tourism industry. Over the last year, I became extremely close to a coworker. We went through a lot together — long tours, stressful days, emotional breakdowns, late-night calls, comfort…

I’ve been dating an avoidant woman for 4 months, we’ve been through two short break ups (2 days and 5 days long respectively). We’ve been together for about a month since the last break. Last week, a…