Some things will only happen when you have lost all hope and have 0 expectations

This is the kind of post this sub needs more of. 8 years, 10 months of grief, 8 months of NC — and she came back when you'd finally stopped expecting it. That's not a coincidence. That's usually exac…

She came back — Hello, My girlfriend of 8 years broke up with me last year due to one specific problem I had/have. I griefed, I mourned, I moved on (kind of) and after 10 months of breakup and 8 months of NC (she in…