leveling up

You become "irreplaceable" and they become replaceable because you want to level up? I get everyone here is self justifying their ego after a breakup to feel better but I always laugh when I find pos…

Experienced dumpee here… — I have gotten dumped in 100% of all my relationships that were longer than 6 months. Why am I always the dumpee? Because I’m actually a pretty chill guy. It takes a lot to get me upset enough to dump.…

The beginning stages of Ego Death … please help me understand 🙏 — **4/8/26 @ 11:00pm** **My personal paranormal experiences tonight & entity sighting…** \- I see lines going across my vision \- I feel a ringing-like buzz in my ear and I feel tingling and buzzin…

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I believe we can, and I think one of the most important ways to do this is scripting and visualizing what constitutes a better world to you. Instead of focusing on the fear and anxiety of the current …

YES. Streaks and leveling up are exactly how I'm building the core loop right now so it feels like a game. Just put together a waitlist form for the buggy beta, would you be interested in testing it o…

The guy obviously isn't poor, so he probably should just take his money and move to an Asian country. He used the phrase "leveling up." I see this phrase a lot on this subreddit. This anime video-g…

Letting go after all those years is hard. But you just have to find a way to let go. There is no trust and respect and you can’t keep hoping for her to change. As for loving someone else, that’s not w…

I wish I knew. I'm strufgling with that to this day. I feel like I need to be 100% perfect 100% of the time just to have a margin of chance to attract someone. And its stressful af. I think I am doin…

I've been through this in my marriage & I also read your other comments on this post. I did what you did (to the point of exhaustion!) in my first few months of CODA 12-step: Talked to my husband abo…

I'm sure he has some attractive and positive attributes, but people show you who they are at the end of the relationship, not at the beginning or even during it. Really think about how his final acti…

"When you're single you wish you were married....and when you're married you wish you were dead". GenX guy here: I can count on one hand the number of truly happy married people I know. It's not tha…

Definitely purge people in the healing. You're leveling up to your new life. You can't keep the things holding you back. Its sad, but youve got this. Youre doing amazing

exactly. don’t let her unblock pull you back into her orbit. keep your frame tight, stay busy leveling up, and let her wonder what she’s missing.

Hahaha so storytime... Trillian really become popular right around the time that the Welsh guy I had met in Ultima Online (yup, Im that old) and been dating here in the great white north for several …

I think you need to move on. Like you said, going no contact isn’t to get them back, it’s so you can break the attachment and move on. Speaking from experience, it sounds like you loved him more than …

One thing I learned with relationships is that, especially the first few after trauma, you're going to struggle a lot with communication and it might mess the relationship up and you should try your b…

This is one of the most honest breakup frameworks I have read on Reddit. The "no reach out" distinction over "no contact" is exactly right. Most men miss that completely. The one thing I would add …

How many levels are there? If you've leveled up 15 times. And if you got back together with half of them then why did it never work out? Did you get dumped again, in which case the leveling up didn't …

Ok, so let me go into the dream that prompted me to ask this question- and I want to preface this preface this by saying that 95% of my dreams are Lucid, and I'm not schizo or anything like that, and …

Obviously, magic exists in this world. But it's not like fantasy magic. Yes, there are all sorts of mages, esotericists, and shamans, but their magic works. The effect isn't instantaneous, it's invisi…

The pause is the best thing you can do for yourself. The more you connect to you and not your ego telling you something is wrong with you, or you won't get better, or feel better, or whatever the nega…

For the record, when your brain transforms into full lucidity, it’s like leveling up 10 levels in a game, or like dropping acid. It’s a sort of unforgettable thing. Another good analogy is stepping on…

Thank you! Love the leveling up mindset and looking for the lessons. Yes all I’m looking to do is level up and understand myself and relationships better.