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1) Identify the "Upper Limit": Read "The Big Leap" by Gay Hendricks. It explains how we sabotage ourselves when things go too well because we feel we don’t deserve more happiness or success than our f…
Building an AI for No-Code Booking Apps – How to Get Our First 100 Waitlist Sign-Ups? (I will not promote) — Hi, I’m Vit, I’m working on an AI tool that lets non-technical small business owners, like barbers, photographers, or consultants, build booking apps without coding. Our mission is to save entrepreneu…
What are good examples of “How will you acquire users?” i will not promote — From what I hear, YC advice kinda scoffs at paid ads — the logic of “you need to own your acquisition” makes sense to me, but I wonder what’s the answer they’d love to see? Offline events? Founder pe…
Why webapps didn’t become more popular after all? — Google had a dream where people turn on their computer and the only thing they are greeted with is the Chrome browser. People were sceptic at first but Google created a wonderful web platform called C…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
LogWhisperer – AI-powered log summarizer that runs locally (no OpenAI keys, no cloud) — I built an open-source CLI tool called **LogWhisperer** that uses a local LLM to summarize Linux system logs into human-readable summaries. It’s useful for triaging noisy logs, quick postmortems, or j…
A Modest Proposal — A Manifesto for Metrics-First Everything — Picture it: Q1 FY 2025. A Medicaid patient opens an app to request mental health services. The screen is sleek—gradient buttons, playful microinteractions, and conversion-optimized flows. A calm anima…
[Product Survey] Help us understand your auth/DB platform choices (Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, and more) — Hi everyone! 👋 I’m a Product Manager working with a developer friend on a new backend-as-a-service solution, and we’d love your feedback. Whether you’ve used Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, Authn …
Self-help group for anxious attachment? — Hi folks, are there regular anxious attachment self-help group meetings out there? If not, I'd like to start one. I'm looking for something that's very specifically focused on anxious attachment. I…
32(F) really need advice about feelings for friend — I have developed feelings for a friend (M30) over time. He has given me indications in the past that he might be interested in dating me, but I didn't want to get my hopes up too much. I have been try…
How to process this weird break of no contact? — ​ My ex avoidantly discarded with seemingly minimal thought, which absolutely destroyed me. She then anxiously broke no contact after 2 hours in an anxious spiral thinking I mightn't have gott…
Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends — Hey everyone. I am 28 and have had no friends all my life. I need help. I'm frustrated by the typical advice as I feel I've tried most of it, so I'd like to list what I do, and see if there are specif…
Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends — Hey everyone. I am 28 and have had no friends all my life. I need help. I'm frustrated by the typical advice as I feel I've tried most of it, so I'd like to list what I do, and see if there are specif…
Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends — Hey everyone. I am 28 and have had no friends all my life. I need help. I'm frustrated by the typical advice as I feel I've tried most of it, so I'd like to list what I do, and see if there are specif…
My fiancé (38M) and my (33F) different mental states when we wake up is causing friction? — I (33F) have been with my fiancé (38M) for over 3 years and we live together. When I wake up in the morning, I am usually sleepy but not grumpy. I like having a peaceful morning, greeting all the dog…
Is my partner cheating or am I crazy? — I first started noticing weird things on my outdoor Ring camera at the end of December 2025. At the start of the new year, I began to see changes in my girlfriend’s behavior. We had just bought a hou…
I (23F) use Reddit for outside perspective because I don’t want biased opinions from friends/family, but I think my boyfriend (26M) found my account and is uncomfortable. How do I handle this? — I sometimes use Reddit to get outside perspective when my boyfriend and I have issues. I started doing that because I realized that when I go to friends or family, they usually automatically side with…
Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience — Last night I had another supposed out-of-body experience. These episodes still leave me with so many doubts and questions. Are they dreams? Are they imagination? Are they real? I’ve had several by now…
Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience — Last night I had another supposed out-of-body experience. These episodes still leave me with so many doubts and questions. Are they dreams? Are they imagination? Are they real? I’ve had several by now…
Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends — Hey everyone. I am 28 and have had no friends all my life. I need help. I'm frustrated by the typical advice as I feel I've tried most of it, so I'd like to list what I do, and see if there are specif…
Why might a girl act like this in this situation? — Long post… please help me out, especially if any girls can give perspective 🙏 So this goes back to 2022 when we were both in 11th. We were from the same school earlier, but after 10th I joined a jun…
Mutual Breakup. No contact. Not toxic relationship. — Hi! So my ex boyfriend and I recently broke up around three weeks ago via chat. We were supposed to see each other the same day, but the timing was not on our side. It was a mutual break up. We didn…
Help? My friend(18F) is mad because I(18F)'ve been friends with her girlfriend(18F) for longer than they've known eachother. — I have been best friends with this girl since second grade. We'll call her Oomf for now, since it's usually what I call my friends, both on and offline. Me and Oomf have always been very close. We ac…
Put a 🔪 in me I'm 👌🏽✔️ — 🤷🏻♀️ IMO, dating the normal offline way is the only way to have a successful, long-lasting relationship, or so it was 20 years ago 😮💨 Call me old fashioned, but the fact that one can get catfish…
I need help and advice. — Hello, I am a 16-year-old male from Sweden who is struggling heavily with emotions, relationships, and school to the point where I often don’t feel like existing. I try to cover everything with a smil…
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? — I have been with Jason for just over 3 years and I have never had any concerns or any obvious red flags about his behavior. He has always been very respectful to me throughout all our relationship. We…
Hey, to the women here who were the ones to end the relationship and quickly moved on to someone new. do you ever regret it or still think about the person you left behind? — For context, it’s been 10 months since my breakup. I initially asked for space, and she was fine with it. I asked for space because she seemed distant and cold that day, but I still saw signs that she…
Pro tip - draft your post offline, before posting here as it may just "disapear".
the part where you feel insane trying to decode her? that’s the real her FA doesn’t mean fake feelings but it *does* mean her warm side and cold side live right next to each other [NoMixedSignal…
Text of original post by u/ArjunTravels: Hi folks, are there regular anxious attachment self-help group meetings out there? If not, I'd like to start one. I'm looking for something that's very spec…
I honestly don't know why everyone doesn't turn off their online / offline status! That shit is stressful as fuck 🤣
You're not wrong for needing space and they're not wrong for feeling anxious but it helps to separate reassurance from responsibility. A simple, calm baseline can go a long way, like: "If I'm slow to …
Well. Like everyone in this sub I seem to have anxious attachment tendencies. While I do not externalize them I do struggle with periodically reoccurring „attacks“. These attacks aren‘t substantiate…
> I feel like everyone is glued to their phones. This is exactly why dating apps will never die. For every story you hear of someone who stopped using it, there's someone else who is using it for th…
That makes a lot of sense. What you’re describing doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings. It sounds like a nervous system shutdown when you’re pushed to go inward. When the body tenses and wants to run,…
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I have developed feelings for a friend (M30) over time. He has given me indications in the past that he might be interested in dating me, but I didn't want to get my hopes up too much. I have been tr…
I want to date again so bad but I can’t bring myself to do it. Honestly I’m a little afraid of men in terms of I’m afraid they won’t be accepting of me - I’m also afraid of all the work it takes to ge…
I wonder if it's a US thing or am I simply in a bubble because neither my friends (both men and women) nor I have never looked up anybody they were dating, be it online or offline.
Exactly, years of online dating and the one thing that i learnt is that online doesn't translate to offline. So, I don't want to be there creating expectations to just be turned off by the way the per…
For the past year and a half (on and off), 0 sustained texting. A few messages so she knows I’m not a robot, then I go for the date. It’s a lot for a lot of women but imo texting isn’t dating and I wa…
I can feel this... But, if you are gonna give up on a match that is seemingly real... Why not just YOLO it? Strike up a conversation/question about something you would want someone to respond to? …
If it’s through online dating, they usually fizzled out. Dating app connections typically need some immediacy. Offline crushes stay crushing until they have a reason not to.
hi so i am a lot lik him, when i'm overwhelmed, i isolate. when i'm stressed i isolate. i have a constant baseline of depression and there are weeks sometimes months when the only place that brings me…
the biggest driver of success for me was knowing the types of people i’d hit it off with, and having honest profile that speaks to those people. i deleted apps because it’s easier to find those peop…
I found a great fwb many years ago when I got off the apps. Just spent a spur of the moment date with him yesterday. Great dude that I would not have ever found online since he's an offline person. T…
I think he’s flirting!!! and you should text him and just say “ hi it’s *name* , for in the future” I’ve dated and crushed on multiple coworkers and this is is subtle way of potentially taking it off…
You're the same age as my LDR partner, who I met on this sub. We've been together for 14 months. We've definitely had those ups and downs regarding the afterlife of our respective ended marriages. Ou…
I appreciate you. And thank you for your vulnerability, insight and honesty. Trust I get it. If I agency of choice I definitely would not. At the same time get this, after being on dating sites for po…
i remember that "shutting down" feeling so well, like my brain just went offline the second the volume went up. i used to think i was being the "calm one" by staying quiet, but really i was just disap…
# Q: Can this be downloaded and used offline? I have access to good internet during the day, but not at the location where I would be doing this. My intent is to download to my meditation tablet an…
I simply want to actually own the things that I buy. I want to be able to download what I own have it on my own offline system, and not locked away online behind a password. That's not too much to a…
I was interested in this until I read that you can't download the files for offline listening. At that cost, I should have a copy of the files.
Well whoopee... then it better play on my offline tablet if they want to sell it to me.
A septum piercing for in the wild encounters, and some mention of 4th wave feminism for your profile. That should cover you on both online, and offline encounters.
Talking to a few ppl but nothing offline yet.
I like the way you describe that, I think that's spot on. I ~~run~~ (edit) *found and use* a binaural beats app (link below) that has a variety of background meditation music **and** you can select f…
Parenting is sacrifice, dunno whats controversial about that bud. Have you had kids? It's sacrifice. People sacrifice their lives and incomes to start families. If it enrages you get offline and enjoy…
OP, I’m guessing, growing up your brother was the golden boy, wasn’t he? Takes a certain upbringing to grow up so entitled. Next time you see him, tell him to smell your balls when he goes down on her…
Your default mode network (DMN) will shut down but at low doses it trying to reconnect and come back online. My experience is that a stronger dose keeps it offline for the experience and makes it bet…
They dont understand "going offline". They think someone definitely has a bad belief system or they are naturally unkind, (although its possible too) but they don't understand a nervous system that…
You literally just said “hey pay attention to all the things your subconscious mind does on autopilot and manifest from there” no, the best time to access the subconscious mind is right before bed whe…
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Hmm. Might be a loaded question. I’m in a committed intimateness marriage. We love each other much but we are not compatible that way. I have to admit I chat here. I’ve met someone in a similar situa…
ngl if I doomscroll before meditating my brain’s cooked. Feels like TikTok sounds playing in the background of my head lol. Few hours offline and it’s way easier.
I'm kind of an average late 30s woman. For me, unless I'm super interested, momentum gets lost pretty fast because it's rather easy to go to the next person I'm interested in and schedule something. O…
That’s a really honest and relatable question. There are already a lot of great perspectives in this thread, but I wanted to add a few points that might help reframe things for you. First off, what y…
Your teenage years are not your verdict. They are just the chapter you survived. A lot of what you wrote does not sound like “failure.” It sounds like captivity, fear, and exhaustion. Anyone kept in …
Try going down rabbit holes using multiple apps. Actually engage with the media you consume. Write down interesting things you learn online. Combine this with picking up an offline hobby, I love to cr…
Your words are beautiful my man. I can tell you have been through hell and you're starting to come out the other side. Kudos to you for addressing pain through therapy. Ive done the work too. From…
Three weeks with no plan to meet isn’t a great sign. If someone’s genuinely interested, they typically try to take things offline within a week or two.
I've always wondered who else on this planet is going through the same thing. In the offline world that surrounds me, I don't know anybody else who shares the same struggle. I feel so far behind that …
100% it's about being pragmatic and not trying to find someone perfect. Too many men solely focus on looks. I know men (both Asian and non-Asian) in their 40s and up, divorced with kids, and still fo…
genuinely what am I doing wrong? My sister somehow finds her boyfriends just being in random places at the right time without even using apps and my parents met in their twenties, I'm already midway i…
You listed singing, reading, writing, and cooking. In the comments you said you write long album commentary and analyze shows in detail. That's not "no personality." That's personality. You've just de…
> in my case is not only about the songs but also the video, is this ure case or u find connections in the melodies and lyrics? In my case it is usually the music and lyrics of the songs that I'm int…
It hits you so hard, not because he magically knows your life but because YOU recognise yourself so strongly in what he said. It’s more about you than him. Your mind is like “yes this guy is so right”…