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A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic.

A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic. — We are seeing an increase of activity from people outside of experiencer circles in threads as time has moved on and more and more people are starting to understand there really is a "there there" and…

r/experiencerspost9/4/2025
My narcissistic hoarder mother continues to collect things and animals, and is now refusing to bury her dead cat. Things are getting out of hand, and I need advice on how to move forward </3

My narcissistic hoarder mother continues to collect things and animals, and is now refusing to bury her dead cat. Things are getting out of hand, and I need advice on how to move forward </3 — **I am desperate for help and advice of people in similar situations.** *\* This story contains sensetive topics relating to animal abuse and neglect, as well as mental health topics, if you are sens…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
antidepressants and avoidant attachment

It’s so odd coming off! I remember feeling anxious and thinking…. what’s happening right now?!?! Why does my stomach hurt and I feel like I’m on a roller coaster(and not in a good way) lol You total…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/1/2025
Getting over approach anxiety

Test the waters with something innocuous - could be literally anything "Are the fries here any good?" If there is a there there, they will respond pretty enthusiastically - just make micro steps.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Divorce isn’t all it’s cracked up to be

Hey, I’m sorry. You’re ahead of me. I’m not divorced yet. We’ve had the divorce talk. I realized I’ve been carrying this relationship for God knows how long I probably would’ve carried it for a lot lo…

r/Divorcecomment3/10/2026
So what do I do about this date...?

I'd go and have a back up plan. That's better than sitting at home wondering if there there or not. They may have gotten kicked off the app. You just never no.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/14/2026
My full story 2 weeks since DDay 4 days NC

Man I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Your situation seems alot like mine in the fact that I first had noticed my stbxw drinking pick up. I've been sober 6 years now and never feel right …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/29/2026
Deleting social media

i get what u mean it’s not even about being addicted it’s just how automatic it is i used to think deleting it meant i was letting it win somehow, but honestly it felt more like just removing friction…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/7/2026
I am completely convinced that somehow my mind is being read.

LoL. after watching my homemade porn-vid. for the 9hundred time, suddenly there there was a voice, in vid, telling a "personal joke" at that pont, i really understood, that universe digs …

r/experiencerscomment4/8/2026
How come the Japanese-American community is tiny compare to other community like Chinese or Vietnamese or even the Hmong-Laotian community in the USA ? It's like they are not exist at all ?

I spent time living in the DC area too, not sure where you lived but when I lived there there was a HUGE Asian population, very few Japanese though. Mostly Chinese/Taiwanese/Korean/Vietnamese/Filipin…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/8/2026
I (29M) was dating someone (29F) for 2 months. Was this coercion?

Sorry to confuse you. Essentially I put her hand on my thigh and thats what I told her turned me on and that she could have gone further if she wanted to. The reason I didn’t was because she shared so…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
MY [26M] Girlfriend [26F] of 3 years cheated on me with one of my closest friends

Be thankful that this happens before anything permanent happened (children, marriage, house) you dodged a bullet. Somewhere out there there is someone better fit for you.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/10/2026