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r/nevillegoddardUpdated 30 days ago
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I understood Neville much better after started reading about transurfing.

Totally at that stage rn. When I read the part where the dude said," how do you fly in a dream?" " You just do." I always wondered how I raise my hand and now I see that the whole act of doing it …

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/15/2026
Why do I keep looking up my ex’s life even though I know it’s unhealthy?

The answer to your question is simpler than you think. How do you stop? Unfortunately you just do. How do you stop smoking? You make the decision to quit and deal with the agony after. But the best wa…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/12/2026
How do I F21 fix my relationship with my F21 twin sister after her M22 fiancée SA’d me?

YOU bought her dress? .. was it altered? Take it back.. I am so sorry you’re going through this.. but I’m really startled that you bought her dress. Even though you’re twins. Obviously you love your s…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/24/2026
How do I manage frustration and express emotions as they come?

You just do. But that's not much help, right? So here's what I mean. When you feel something, you notice it and express how it's making you feel. But why is that so hard to do calmly? Because 90% o…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/7/2026
My [18/F] crush [21/M] drunkenly kissed me, how do I continue?

How much time is supposed to pass? There is no set time, and I need to be real with you, he kissed you. That’s not something you just do. If this weirds him out, that’s on him. Tell him that you like …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
To the people who got out of a long term relationship, when did you move on?

You just do. You grieve. It's like something died. I'm 5 years in from my break up he was also avoidant. It was only three years. Everyone grieves differently. Just give yourself time and grace.

r/BreakUpscomment4/9/2026
How Do You Move on After No Contact?

My situation is different because my great grandparents took me in so I wasn’t technically raised by the narcs. However, when they passed, here come the narcs back. 1. You just do. A lot of life is …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/11/2026