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The only thing you'll ever need to manifest ANYTHING.

Where in the post does your dumbahh sees me claiming myself to be an expert? Unc read. Period. It says based on personal experiences. You can feel free to relate to it or criticise it but to blatant…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/24/2026
Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible?

Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible? — Hi everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community because I’m diving deep into the Law of Belief and want to explore how powerful it can truly be.🙏❤️ I keep wondering—can this law actually he…

r/JosephMurphypost10/27/2024
Old vs new client website, mine got rejected

Old vs new client website, mine got rejected — So yeah, I recently created a new website for a client but it was rejected. Not sure why, they simply said they are "working on an update". I don't consider myself an expert by any regard, but w…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
Old vs new client website, mine got rejected

Old vs new client website, mine got rejected — So yeah, I recently created a new website for a client but it was rejected. Not sure why, they simply said they are "working on an update". I don't consider myself an expert by any regard, but with t…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice

Website Rebrand and Redesign Advice — First Let me say: I have absolutely no eye for design. If it is more complex than a stick figure, I cant imagine it in my mind. However, I do know of already existing designs that I love and want to r…

r/web_designpost4/22/2025
Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites

Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites — I own a medium-sized e-commerce website, and we’ve never really focused on SEO. Yep, we've mainly relied on paid ads, but traffic is getting more expensive, so we’re ready to take SEO seriously now. I…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Does this SEO strategy make sense ?

Does this SEO strategy make sense ? — Hello experts ! Recently, I came across an SEO expert (have some good proof) that talked about the seo strategy that she used, but I'm not sure if I understand it correctly. The strategy goes as fol…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Should I try to learn SEO or just hire someone?

Should I try to learn SEO or just hire someone? — My family just opened a small pet supplies business. I used to be into web design and tech stuff years ago so I was able to throw together a simple website. The thing is, I have no clue about SEO. I …

r/SEOpost5/2/2025
With AI becoming a boom for quite a long time, how can an SEO expert make use of it

With AI becoming a boom for quite a long time, how can an SEO expert make use of it — Just wanna know like any AI courses that can help improve my work and make me sustainable in a job without it taking my role. Curious/anxious about it. Anyone has any suggestions?

r/SEOpost5/2/2025
How to decide cache lifespan (cache expiration time)

How to decide cache lifespan (cache expiration time) — Hello technical SEO experts, im a newbie to WordPress seo. I just want to know if you're using a page optimization plugin like WP Rocket or LS Cache, how much time is the sweetspot for cache expiratio…

r/SEOpost5/3/2025
Don't get distracted by lack of experience (I will not promote)

Don't get distracted by lack of experience (I will not promote) — You know the biggest myth people buy into? That you need experience to succeed. It’s a trap - a story we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. Don’t get me wrong, experience is nice, but it’s not the…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Detailed Car Crash Simulation as a Service - I will not promote

Detailed Car Crash Simulation as a Service - I will not promote — Hello everyone! I am a mechanical engineer specializing in simulation (with a PhD in biomechanics) and I'm currently working on software that simulates car accidents in detail, also taking biomechanic…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote)

Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Why do people in LOA communities ALWAYS go to Reddit for their problems when JM advised against that?

Why do people in LOA communities ALWAYS go to Reddit for their problems when JM advised against that? — Hello everyone. I've been into JM's (and NG's) teaching for quite some time. I enjoy it thoroughly and dipped my toes into the subreddits, so hence why I'm here instead of the NG subreddit since I wo…

r/JosephMurphypost5/4/2025
What else do I need before I apply?

What else do I need before I apply? — I've been a systems admin for over a decade. The last two years I've been doing gitops with ansible and terraform, and also managing some kubernetes clusters on-prem. I know enough Azure to get around…

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
SEO Backlink exchange marketplace - 10 testers

SEO Backlink exchange marketplace - 10 testers — We built a software that creates daily SEO articles for your site AND handles backlink exchange between users automatically (similar niche) Looking for 10 peeps to try it for free! You get: - Fres…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Are you importing from China? Have questions about the new tariffs?

Are you importing from China? Have questions about the new tariffs? — Hello u/ecommerce We’re interviewing experts in Chinese manufacturing and cross-border logistics this week to break down how the new US tariffs are affecting e-commerce sellers. If you're unsure…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
Ready to Boost Your Business? Our Pro Team Can Help!

Ready to Boost Your Business? Our Pro Team Can Help! — hope you’re doing great! I wanted to reach out and let you know we’re currently helping businesses like yours grow faster with our proven organic and paid advertising strategies. Whether you’re looki…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Got a 3hr interview coming up. Tips/advice appreciated.

Got a 3hr interview coming up. Tips/advice appreciated. — I got through the recruiter screening, a meeting with their main DevOps guy and CTO. I got notified that I'll be moving forward to the next round which is a 3 hour interview with other members of the …

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
My uncle owns the factory, what value should I put for customs

My uncle owns the factory, what value should I put for customs — My uncle owns a factory and sells textile garments to me in the US for nearly free. So far I putted very low numbers like 0.25$/tshirts and paid the duties there. In practice the real price is either…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Rejected in the final interview after a month long process

Rejected in the final interview after a month long process — This is honestly just a rant post, because I feel completely deflated at this point. I’ve been actively looking for a job for over a year now, moved to Spain three months ago to start a new life, and…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI

Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database

MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database — Hey everyone, I’m currently hosting several websites on SiteGround’s GoGeek plan which comes with 40 GB of web space. Most of my websites use between 1–3 GB, with one around 5.3 GB. However, one of m…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
I'm lucky enough to have turned my podcast into a full time job - here's what I wish I had known

I'm lucky enough to have turned my podcast into a full time job - here's what I wish I had known — Hey all! Love this community. I'm really blessed to have turned my podcast into a full time job, getting over 200k downloads across 15 episodes upon launch. I'm working on more seasons, but I have had…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/6/2025
How to get Millions of $$$ from ANY government for your business (I will not promote)

How to get Millions of $$$ from ANY government for your business (I will not promote) — Experienced founder & CEO here. I'm gonna tell you how my business got straight cash (like literally millions) from the gov and how you can do that too. I've bootstrapped my last german education bu…

r/startupspost5/6/2025
Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks!

Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks! — I posted about my SEO efforts about 5 months ago and I had such a warm response from everyone that I kind of wanted to provide an update. I had both shared my results and asked for advice on next step…

r/SEOpost5/6/2025
Underestimated fulfillment in my eCommerce startup, nearly paid the price

Underestimated fulfillment in my eCommerce startup, nearly paid the price — When I launched my first eCommerce brand, I thought fulfillment was "easy" find a product, set up a store, ship orders. Simple, right? I couldn’t have been more wrong. As soon as we got traction, thi…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Americans working in majority Indian workplaces. What do you need to know to succeed?

Americans working in majority Indian workplaces. What do you need to know to succeed? — I’ve been working at my company for a year or so and it’s been great. I’ve learned a lot of new tech as well as practice old tech (Django). My team is also quite strong and I can’t really complain. I…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!)

Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!) — **Post Body:** Hi everyone! I co-own a small business (a boutique cafe + online store) and wanted to share our experience using an **AI “social media assistant”** to grow our Instagram and TikTok. W…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
I made an awesome ChatGPT prompt for internal linking

I made an awesome ChatGPT prompt for internal linking — I just made this prompt for ChatGPT that finds internal link opportunities on your website. It works surprisingly well. 1. Enable “Deep research” mode on ChatGPT (you’ll need a paid plan). 2. Paste t…

r/SEOpost5/7/2025
I earned secure attachment in 4 months...

I earned secure attachment in 4 months... — I can't believe I'm writing this. I did this without dating a secure person and without spending money on courses/apps. I promise I'm not selling anything. Big disclaimers: * I am only mostly secure…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost11/16/2025
SELF-CONCEPT BLOCKS MANIFESTATIONS! Here's my quick fix

SELF-CONCEPT BLOCKS MANIFESTATIONS! Here's my quick fix — Feeling unworthy of receiving what we want is the dominant vibration even though we've affirmed 300 times "I am worthy!" It's our self-concept silently preventing our greatest desires! Even though i…

r/Manifestationpost3/9/2026
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories.

NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…

r/experiencerspost3/13/2026
I am 18F and I’m exhausted dealing with my Indian mom who practically worships her narcissistic, manipulative younger brother and lets him control my life while treating me like garbage.

I am 18F and I’m exhausted dealing with my Indian mom who practically worships her narcissistic, manipulative younger brother and lets him control my life while treating me like garbage. — My mom (44F) has two younger brothers. The one I’m talking about is the middle child. He’s married and has a 10-year-old daughter. In my opinion he is one of the most narcissistic, selfish, and arroga…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/15/2026
Lucid Dreaming competition announcement

Lucid Dreaming competition announcement — Hi fellow dreamers, there's a light-hearted lucid dreaming competition coming up in Dreamviews(the forum). The competition is all for fun and a great motivation booster and anyone is allowed to join. …

r/LucidDreamingpost3/16/2026
Cure Avoidant Attachment by Watching TV

Cure Avoidant Attachment by Watching TV — Can watching TV help treat a dismissing attachment pattern? In Dr. Dan Siegel’s book "Mindsight,” he presents a case study involving Stuart, a 92-year-old attorney with dismissing attachment. Stuart,…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost3/19/2026
How do you hold space for, not necessarily judgment, but rather accountability and ultimately grace and growth for the dark side of codependency and insecure attachment styles

How do you hold space for, not necessarily judgment, but rather accountability and ultimately grace and growth for the dark side of codependency and insecure attachment styles — A recent poster who shared a story about his coworker got me really thinking about one of the standard FA rituals, and probably the cruelest FA rituals. We can be such experts on lulling people into…

r/Codependencypost3/27/2026
You Cannot Achieve Success by Slapping Positive Thoughts on Top of a Lifetime of Empty Expectations...

You Cannot Achieve Success by Slapping Positive Thoughts on Top of a Lifetime of Empty Expectations... — Here’s the truth most “experts” won’t tell you: Thinking positive, setting intentions, and believing the universe will deliver? **Not enough.** Manifestation only works when **you’re truly aligned**…

r/lawofattractionpost3/29/2026
I broke up with my college girlfriend when she lied about having cancer

I broke up with my college girlfriend when she lied about having cancer — I dated this girl from sophomore to junior year of college. Things started off seemingly great, but by the third month in (I know - it gets juicy FAST) she started accusing me of sleeping with other …

r/BreakUpspost3/30/2026
My ex lied about having cancer

My ex lied about having cancer — I dated this girl from sophomore to junior year of college. Things started off seemingly great, but by the third month in (I know - it gets juicy FAST) she started accusing me of sleeping with other …

r/BreakUpspost3/30/2026
Journey from doomer to bloomer , this week's progress.

Journey from doomer to bloomer , this week's progress. — A week ago, I posted saying that I’m a doomer but (even if it’s late) I’d like to become a bloomer; here are the steps I took this week. 1 - I decided to stop watching porn. I don’t know if porn is …

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/30/2026
Overarching Energy of the Libra Full Moon on April 1st, 2026

Overarching Energy of the Libra Full Moon on April 1st, 2026 — This Full Moon is all about our responsibility when it comes to our relationships. We are reminded to balance what is external, creating harmony without sacrificing self. The solution isn’t  about “we…

r/astrologypost3/31/2026
Mushroom medicine? Illinois state bill seeks expert panel on psychedelic therapy

Mushroom medicine? Illinois state bill seeks expert panel on psychedelic therapy

r/Psychonautpost3/31/2026
Dad passed away on my birthday significance?

Dad passed away on my birthday significance? — I (38M) was born on 17th Feb 1988 4:03AM, my dad passed away on 17th Feb 2026 4:35pm Both in Bangalore, he was in deep sleep for 3 days and opened his eyes to only see me for 3 mins over a video call…

r/vedicastrologypost3/31/2026
Do I need to quit vaping?if yes how do I do so?

Do I need to quit vaping?if yes how do I do so? — it's a long read so I started vaping at the age of 16 and it was like once in a month thing because the people with whom I vaped met me really but at 17 I left my school and joined another institute…

r/selfhelppost4/1/2026
Anyone else middle-aged (40+) with nothing to show for these bygone decades but survival?

Anyone else middle-aged (40+) with nothing to show for these bygone decades but survival? — I’ve been white-knuckling it for decades, and I’ve survived…sort of. …If we’re using the term loosely. I haven’t been jailed. Occasionally I even drag a mop around or wash my hair. So, great, I’ve “su…

r/CPTSDpost4/1/2026
How to lucid dream as a begginer?

How to lucid dream as a begginer? — Hi. I want to lucid dream for the first time, but there are so many techniques and using AI is confusing. I would love an expert responding and telling me how to. Im currently dream journaling, reali…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/2/2026
Lucid Dreaming - Tried for more then an year still failed

Lucid Dreaming - Tried for more then an year still failed — Hey Everyone, I tried lucid dreaming and it never worked for me for reference if you check the same committee posts I posted around an year ago about the techniques to experience lucid dreaming I f…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/3/2026
April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean?

April 03, 2026 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? — Feel free to ask any type of question on this thread. More importantly, feel free to answer questions that have been asked! Additionally, please refrain from posting multiple questions in the subredd…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/3/2026
If you are new here..

Do you have a suggestion for how I can use this for appearance change? I have a basic idea what to do but your expert opinion would be helpful. For example, what specifically would you implement into …

r/JosephMurphycomment7/10/2020
If you are new here..

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/18/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Hello 🤗 I've lucid dreamed a couple of times. Not an expert though 😂.

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/10/2023
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

I'd just tag on that posters pay attention to all advice posted, regardless of the upvotes/downvotes. The hivemind here can be brutal. This is PARTICULARLY problematic when advice gets legal advice …

r/relationship_advicecomment6/14/2024
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Hi we have a podcast episode on this topic, one of our co-hosts is an expert in this topic and offers some insightful tips and techniques. Would it be okay for me to post a link to the episode here? …

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/18/2024
Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible?

That's not answering her question and you are being a corrupt liar. You would download 10 languages and 20 skills in a heartbeat if you could do it to your brain just like you could load programs onto…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/28/2024
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

It’s so funny how you act like you are an expert at this, but your profile tells a complete other story. A quick look at your profile shows someone who constantly asks for reassurance, needs help unde…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/29/2025
As a DevOps Engineer, do I need to know databases?

You should definitely know the basics. Performing automated backups, performing application table migrations, establishing connections using secrets, etc. But you don't need to be an expert on how to …

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
As a DevOps Engineer, do I need to know databases?

You should know enough to be dangerous, but don't need to be an expert. If you have a DBA team try to establish a good relationship with them. Follow their protocols for raising tickets and engagement…

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup

It all depends if you plan to raise funding. Of the answer is yes, start marketing now. Investors won’t fund you to hire an agency at least until you figure it out. If the answer is no, and you have t…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/6/2025
Backstage feels like a fools errand

Hey, [OpsLevel](https://www.opslevel.com) CTO here. We have a ton of respect for what the Backstage community has accomplished. It's impressive how they've expanded the IDP space and created a vibra…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
Fellow DAs, do you sometimes experience people taking it personally when you need space to be by yourself?

I’m going tomorrow, seems like your picking thing I wrote ,and letting me know they are not the total truth! ?im no expert,I’d like to be able to vent and share. Thanks for your input. How you doing?i…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/12/2025
When I want to deactivate I swing too far to the other side to preemptively "sooth" my partner, just in case.

I am not an expert, but this is not what I think. Everyone needs space and it is normal asking for space. It is also possible to use this space to work on your attachment wounds. If communicated prope…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/15/2025
A little positive reflection for anyone feeling they’re in the trenches right now.

There are relationship experts building whole careers based on the fact that there is ambiguity to the point couples will consult couple therapists to make sure they're on the same page about their re…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/5/2025
Mindblown by these excerpts...

The world is not as you are. The world is as you subconsciously believe it to be true. And those subconscious beliefs need to be manually built day by day by methods proven to work and it may take mon…

r/JosephMurphycomment8/20/2025
My DA bf broke up with me Saturday morning.

I'm no expert but it definitely sounds like deactivation to me. When you asked him to rise to your expectations that scared him and so instead he deactivated and potentially in time he will look for s…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/21/2025
DAE feel like they want to be in a relationship but don’t really know how to? Intimacy problems?

I’m no expert on the matter, I’m learning about avoidants after being married to one for 19 years! I was always made to believe I was the issue in our marriage (I have ADHD) but husband is a huge cont…

r/attachment_theorycomment9/5/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

He might be regretting it? [Disclaimer: I’m not at all an expert this is all just my opinion and experience as a former anxious] In my experience, avoidants work in the formula of “feelings minus fe…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/16/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

So, I relate to you a lot. I used to feel that void and emptiness and that deep longing or loneliness despite having friends and job and ‘hobbies’. I used to hear alot about invest in your hobbies, f…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/18/2025
I posted a while ago about being Fearful Avoidant and, since so many people reached out about how to overcome that style, I've decided to compile a sort of list of things that are helping me become more secure

I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with all of that! That’s some really traumatic stuff. From what you’ve described I can understand why you get different results from the attachment type tests. I’m not a…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/4/2025
The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment.

Same--this is my dumdum TV reddit account but in another world, I work in software product development in a GTM role. I'm really interested in the tool and if I have any professional expertise you'd f…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/5/2025
Working on becoming secure has made me more susceptible to toxic relationships

I’m also an FA, and I’ve been in therapy a while. I’m not an expert, just been trying to improve little by little and your post really resonated with me. I also feel like it’s hard to determine what i…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/20/2025
How to shift focus when anxiously attached

Of course! I'm not a therapist or expert or anything, but I'd love to help in any way that I can!

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/25/2025
Any support groups out there for preoccupation with dating?

I’ve read where some ‘experts’ say dating apps are 80% people with dismissive avoidant attachment. Anecdotally, my experience was probably closer to 90%. DA’s just keep recycling back into the single…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/16/2025
Do fearful avoidants "split" or "idealise" and then "devalue" when triggered? Or is it more likely to be a sign of something else? (Eg BPD/NPD?)

You don’t need to be arsey or defensive about it. I was just asking what your exposure or experince was with PD’s. As someone who is learning about them I’m sure you’d agree that there is a lot of mis…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/14/2025
How do you tell whether you need to push through the avoidance or if you just don’t like them as a partner

I feel this. I’m in my first relationship after five years of being single, and we’ve only been dating about five months. I’m definitely no expert here, so take my advice with a grain of salt. I turne…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment12/15/2025
Dating someone with a fearful-avoidant style has been unexpectedly… gentle?

I'm happy that it's working for you, but remember that it's just some months, and the issue isn't how they behave pr what they say or do, the issue is they can flip it anytime and you won't even see i…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment12/16/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I'm no expert, but your post has almost nothing in the positive and what benefit you do have comes with strings/control. It's never too late to protect and empower yourself to go after what you want.…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/17/2025
Inner Child healing exercises?

You Tube Craig Kenneth, he is an expert on attachment theory and relationships.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/6/2026
Here's to an emotionally secure 2026! 🥳🎈🎉😎 (open thread)

Ok. I don't know anything about narcissism and I'm zero mental health expertise. But I'm skeptical of the other person's claim that you are a narcissist.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/12/2026
What qualities to look for in a therapist

May I ask if you had in person sessions with this therapist or online sessions? I'm asking since I've only worked virtually with my previous somatic therapist and I'm wondering if this may have also c…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/23/2026
Considering to quit therapy

I'm dismissive avoidant and a huge introvert, but the feelings you describe don't resonate with anything I experience, which suggests to me that this might be a separate type of problem from attachmen…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/28/2026
how to be "chill" in early stages of dating?

This is extremely relatable for me too. I'm actually just learning about attachment theory now at 36, and reading about all the thoughts and behaviours and feelings common to anxious attachment style …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/31/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Thanks! This is helpful. Especially since my last therapist was not a good fit due to the goal-measuring part. "Solutions-oriented" is now a red flag phrase with therapy for me. 🙃 And yes, I should…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Do non-avoidants really experience attraction as something they have some level of control over?

I think so, that's flirting, right? But you're asking a DA, so I'm by no means an expert. I think that's real attraction.

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/7/2026
We live in a culture that glorifies self-sufficiency and punishes inter-dependence and needs. That impacts what we start labelling as anxious attachment, and how we are encouraged to heal.

It's not that there *isn't* talk about interdependence or co-regulation. I agree that more conversations about community and the importance of social bonds are taking place now. How we metabolize cult…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I second this, i remember I jumped on hinge maybe 5 months after my breakup and I was just - ugh, overly deep for no reason. Because my focus had been on relationships and what it takes to keep them g…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/11/2026
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

Like another poster above, I’m becoming very tired of my avoidant tendencies. I have become very good at findings logical reasons to run, and dismiss people as soon as they ask me out. That’s how quic…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/15/2026
How can I become more consistent in my relationships?

I'm going to just give my personal version of advice. Which is likely going to be much more broad than an expert opinion about attachment theory, but here it is. Think in every single moment in time…

r/attachment_theorycomment2/20/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

I use them as needed. With some people the conversation flows easily and whatever randomly pops out works fine. Other people need prompts. I also like drinks or dinner. But it does seem folks that a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

I don't really have the relevant expertise to give advice on this, but since you asked, here are my thoughts. Depression and not having friends should be first in line. Some could argue about the fri…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 24, 2026

You're wrong to label yourself as "petty." None of these things are petty. 1 is a distasteful comment that shows lack of awareness and respect for you 2 he assumed you were lying and then tried to t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

Hi, I am also diagnosed. I started dating in my teens, albeit I am no expert. I worked hard on my masking skills and appearance my whole life, to the point of obsession with blending in. I can only…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 27, 2026

No. His mental health is his own responsibility. And I don't want to paint in too broad a brush, but in my close personal experience some people with BPD who do not have their condition managed well a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026

My favorite band and an amazing song! If you want a breakup song that's devastating but cathartic too...Expert In A Dying Field by The Beths. Always hit me, and then I just heard it for the first time…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026

Heck, pretty much half of "Out of Time" is just Stipes mourning relationships... that vinyl has been spun a lot the past week, lol. "Half a World Away" and "Country Feedback" are both... gorgeous. I'…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

that would be horrible but I'm too cynical to be surprised by anything. he's the expert, isn't he? who knows better how to cunningly prey on vulnerable women experiencing dv than the man who studied t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026

I mean adverts on reddit dating subs, sorry 😅 I might have to give that a shot, get some advice from experts... Or at least enthusiastic amateurs!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
Why do so many high achievers seem to have strong Rahu placements?

Rahu's influence on 11th, 10th and 1st house is necessary for such achievements. Although rahu doesn't possess the ideal character for a good man. One thing is sure that you can't become a politician …

r/vedicastrologycomment3/7/2026