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what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔

I feel this is gonna be long. But, here I go. So basically what am asking about is : does astrology truly determine your destiny. ( I mean by your career, your looks?, even the fact you are a shifte…

r/realityshiftingcomment3/23/2026
FAQs about r/AnxietyHelp

FAQs about r/AnxietyHelp — Hi guys, One of the mods here suggested creating a FAQ page for our subreddit to help eliminate confusion. **Why was my post removed automatically?** It wasn't! It has been sent to our mod queue fo…

r/Anxietyhelppost3/25/2025
Lately, it seems like every new client I get is either a weed company or a yoga/spiritual guru.

Lately, it seems like every new client I get is either a weed company or a yoga/spiritual guru. — I’ll trade you for a good old-fashioned plumber or landscaper—seriously, I’m offering a two-for-one deal. Also, a friendly reminder: a yoga mat does *not* make a good logo background. And no, “Namast…

r/web_designpost4/26/2025
I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been.

I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been. — I just wanted to share this diary dump with anyone who wants a success story. I believed myself to be FA/A for a long time, and this week I can finally call myself secure. TW: sexual assualt Despite …

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost8/14/2025
Least talked about method from POSM (question)

Least talked about method from POSM (question) — In the section where Murphy talks about techniques, one is the "argumentative technique". "In brief, the argumentative method employed according to Quimby consists of spiritual reasoning where you …

r/JosephMurphypost11/7/2025
Attachment in someone with no relationships?

Attachment in someone with no relationships? — Wondered this for a long time so it's oversharing hours tonight. I basically don't have relationships. I've overly attached with my mom, possibly even enmeshed, but that's it, and there's a lot of du…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost1/20/2026
Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…

r/JosephMurphypost2/14/2026
Transits that can show long-distance travels & spiritual retreat?

Transits that can show long-distance travels & spiritual retreat? — I was trying to find what transits could show long-distance travels, involving a spiritual retreat? Or maybe, that comes with a massive life-change? It should be the 9th and 12th house, and Jupiter,…

r/astrologypost2/25/2026
Septile vs Novile

Septile vs Novile — Hi friends 🩵 so I've been digging pretty deep into astrology recently, I had been messing around with it lightly for a couple years but now going in headlong. Not to make a career out of it or act li…

r/astrologypost2/26/2026
Did your partnert felt like your mother emotionally?

Did your partnert felt like your mother emotionally? — I’m 26m and my partner 29f. We broke up almost a year ago but I cant cut my ties with her emotionally or spiritually . I dont want someone to be in her place so I don’t want to move on from her. Basi…

r/Codependencypost3/7/2026
Porn and Energy

Porn and Energy — I'm interested to hear your views about how porn affects spiritual energy or any particular parts of it in your experience or otherwise.

r/energy_workpost3/7/2026
Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance)

Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…

r/Manifestationpost3/7/2026
Has anyone noticed becoming extremely aware of people’s energy or reactions over time?

Has anyone noticed becoming extremely aware of people’s energy or reactions over time? — I’ve been smoking occasionally for about 4 years now, but around 3–4 months ago I started noticing something strange. I began feeling much more aware of people’s vibes, expressions, and body language.…

r/Psychonautpost3/7/2026
Shattered Tourmaline

Shattered Tourmaline — For anyone who feels guided to offer advice: I bought a tourmaline necklace to protect me. It broke two days ago. The chain it was attached to just undid itself, and the piece shattered. Would you s…

r/energy_workpost3/8/2026
If Reality Is Manifested, What Role Does Astrology Actually Play?

If Reality Is Manifested, What Role Does Astrology Actually Play? — I’ve been thinking about the relationship between astrology and manifestation, and I’m curious how people in this community see it. Astrology suggests that certain events, phases, or tendencies in ou…

r/lawofattractionpost3/8/2026
Experiences With Cosmic Entities.

Experiences With Cosmic Entities. — Hello everyone! This post will be a little bit different, as i wish to dive into odd encounters that i had with different beings, that surprisingly helped me out a *lot* - more than i could have possi…

r/experiencerspost3/8/2026
Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President??

Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President?? — Hello everyone. This might be an unusual post to make at this time. However, I am looking forward to see if anyone has experienced anything similar or exactly what I have experienced. Before earlier i…

r/experiencerspost3/8/2026
„Did you forgive them yet?“ — I stood my ground and said NO.

„Did you forgive them yet?“ — I stood my ground and said NO. — I opened up about my abuse to a 'spiritual friend'. His first question was: „Have you managed to forgive them yet?“ I said NO. And it's NOT my duty to forgive. He said „But forgiveness causes healin…

r/CPTSDpost3/9/2026
Wondering if anyone has taught a child the basics of grounding, meditation, shadow work, and/or energy work?

Wondering if anyone has taught a child the basics of grounding, meditation, shadow work, and/or energy work? — A little information, my children are younger, but not too young to understand, and we are expecting again. My wife is very skilled with energy even out of practice, and I am getting back in tune with…

r/energy_workpost3/9/2026
You can reality shift just by washing your hands

You can reality shift just by washing your hands — Hey everyone, I’ve been obsessed with this idea lately and I can’t stop thinking about it: what if the simple act of washing your hands, when you actually slow down and get fully present with it, bec…

r/Manifestationpost3/9/2026
I feel like I am probably wasting my potential because of family and not making a decision that I should?!

I feel like I am probably wasting my potential because of family and not making a decision that I should?! — Today I was just enjoying the day. The weather felt quite warmer than few days ago. Love the spring season! Then I started wondering... Started thinking like how I feel that I am at a stage where i sh…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/9/2026
The entire universe is frequency and our communications depend on the resonance of our quantum fields

The entire universe is frequency and our communications depend on the resonance of our quantum fields — As many of you in this community know, the "UFO/NHI" phenomenon and spiritual awakening often converge at a single point: Resonance. For years, I’ve been obsessed with a question: Is there a specific …

r/experiencerspost3/10/2026
First Acid Trip (2 tabs)

First Acid Trip (2 tabs) — This happened like a month ago and sorry if it comes off corny: At first, I was just lying in my bed, nervous. My roommate wasn’t back yet, and the walls slowly started to breathe and layer with col…

r/Psychonautpost3/10/2026
Spiritual Awakening & Instant Manifestation (wtf???)

Spiritual Awakening & Instant Manifestation (wtf???) — So as the title says, wtf? I've been using multiple different ways of manifesting, manifesting with feeling, robotic affirming, and I've realized one thing. Manifesting is an act of creation that …

r/Manifestationpost3/10/2026
After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you

After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you — I started the very first tape Orientation since Jan 26 until now i reached wave 3 tape 1 , everyday i practice one or two time but at least one a day, going through each tape i practiced at least tw…

r/gatewaytapespost3/12/2026
My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society.

My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society. — # Hello! Where do i begin? Firstly, i want to give thanks to this space cultivated by Oak and the other Moderators, without this space, people such as us/me do not really have anywhere to go with a…

r/experiencerspost3/12/2026
After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you

After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you — I started the very first tape Orientation since Jan 26 until now i reached wave 3 tape 1 , everyday i practice one or two time but at least one a day, going through each tape i practiced at least two …

r/AstralProjectionpost3/12/2026
Can a house drain your energy?

Can a house drain your energy? — Hello! I’m not sure if I’m posting in the right subreddit but: We moved into our house about 3 years ago with the help of my MIL. Though we so gladly appreciate her help, we unfortunately didn’t get…

r/energy_workpost3/13/2026
Accidentally Forced Into Astral Projection, Now A Beginner Who Has Several Successful Intentional Attempts

Accidentally Forced Into Astral Projection, Now A Beginner Who Has Several Successful Intentional Attempts — I am a beginner in astral projection and only started to AP in Dec of 2025. I have progressed rapidly within the last 2 months in intentional attempts. I was forced into experiencing "symptoms" of A…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/13/2026
Timeless Knowledge YouTube gone?!?

Timeless Knowledge YouTube gone?!? — Suddenly it’s gone? So many great lectures I can’t even begin to explain. This is absolutely devastating. I even tried searching and found nothing. There were lectures from Joseph Murphy, Neville God…

r/JosephMurphypost3/14/2026
Endogenous DMT activation in sleep? Spontaneous breakthrough-like state with fractals, death sensation, head pops, high-pitched noise

Endogenous DMT activation in sleep? Spontaneous breakthrough-like state with fractals, death sensation, head pops, high-pitched noise — [](/r/DMT/?f=flair_name%3A%22Experience%22)So this is going to sound stupidly insane but… I need to put it somewhere for someone who might understand. Background: had a 6g mushroom trip a while back.…

r/Psychonautpost3/14/2026
My Personal Key For Shifting (Repost because my pther account got deleted somehow 😢)

My Personal Key For Shifting (Repost because my pther account got deleted somehow 😢) — Lets start with i accidently shifted in early 2000s, before I even knew what I was, or understood what it was, I just passed it off as a very realistic dream. And just to put it out there, i am very s…

r/realityshiftingpost3/14/2026
It Was Always About You

It Was Always About You — I thought I would share an experience I had a while ago that really changed my understanding of Neville’s teachings and manifestation in general. **How it started** In 2022 I was very into occultism…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/14/2026
How to have a helpful conversation when you feel something is wrong.

How to have a helpful conversation when you feel something is wrong. — I am working to become a therapist and I have run into a situation in my life that I don't know how to have productively. My fiancee is Catholic and has decided to wear a cilice. For those of you who…

r/therapypost3/15/2026
The Subconscious of the Universe?

The Subconscious of the Universe? — This will sound extremely odd, and i am aware of this myself. It’s a bit startling to start being so receptive in this period of time. It feels intriguing, but at the same time - my mind cannot hold i…

r/experiencerspost3/16/2026
Why do I overthink/overanalyze so much?

Why do I overthink/overanalyze so much? — I’m a highly anxious person but have most of it under somewhat control after years of inner work and therapy and spirituality, but even on this other side of it, I am still quite the overthinker, over…

r/AskAstrologerspost3/16/2026
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
Mirrors and Energy

Mirrors and Energy — I wanted to ask your advice/ experience regarding physical mirrors in rooms and how they affect energy. From my experience as well as others I've spoken to, if the mirrors are in the bedroom, it lead…

r/energy_workpost3/18/2026
Why do people have it out for me?

Why do people have it out for me? — Hi all, I’m new to this sub and don’t know the terms or anything, but I have always felt in tune with nature, energy and have always the ability to read peoples emotions very easily. I’ve also alway…

r/energy_workpost3/18/2026
Realised me and my wife of 12 years have a codependent relationship! Can we change?

Realised me and my wife of 12 years have a codependent relationship! Can we change? — Hello, I've had quite the few weeks… I’ve been married to my wife for 12 years we both grew up in very religious households which is part of what brought us together in terms of shared values and try…

r/Codependencypost3/18/2026
Kundalini facilitation

Kundalini facilitation — I once attended online a kundalini facilitator's kundalini activation appointment. It was a very powerful experience in both physical and mental & spiritual level. Afterwards I have had the urge to …

r/energy_workpost3/18/2026
Baby astral projector

Baby astral projector — So I lucid dreamed about 4-5 times from sep 2024-march2025 and it stopped afterwards for a while. During this time I would always float to the ceiling and kept getting stuck there lol I adopted a ca…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/18/2026
Nonordinary Perception

Nonordinary Perception — I'm so glad I found this community, I've posted in the paranormal and the witchcraft communities and been called fake, liar, crazy, and all kinds of names for sharing my paranormal experiences, so I'm…

r/experiencerspost3/18/2026
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force

Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …

r/energy_workpost3/18/2026
Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman.

Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman. — Carl Jung quietly wrote one of the most profound esoteric texts of all time, at least in my own personal opinion. Seven Sermons to the Dead was written in 1916, privately shared between a handful of J…

r/experiencerspost3/19/2026
Speaking out about my experience. The Shadow behind the Light?

Speaking out about my experience. The Shadow behind the Light? — Hello, I have felt compelled to speak about my experiences more. As my perspective is unfortunately a lesser narrative in our space. I have time and time again read but and pieces here and there that …

r/experiencerspost3/19/2026
Floating white glowing dots

Floating white glowing dots — So i was taking a shower & for like 5 seconds I saw these tiny white glowing crystal (?) like dots moving around left & right really fast but they were also floating upwards & this was happening in on…

r/energy_workpost3/20/2026
Seeing lizard-like eyes and being healed?

Seeing lizard-like eyes and being healed? — Hi everyone, I recently meditated for about 45 minutes to an hour in the \*very\* early morning a couple days ago (I never meditate that long) after waking up before the sun rose. I was in a supine…

r/Meditationpost3/20/2026
Need help - feeling lost, weak, burnt out, uninspired - evil eye or what?

Need help - feeling lost, weak, burnt out, uninspired - evil eye or what? — I will try and keep this as to the point as possible. In the last three and a half years I have lost contact with myself, i Felt I was on top of everything, achieving my dreams and succeeding and then…

r/energy_workpost3/20/2026
what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔

what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔ — I used to be the person who would try to shift every single night and wake up crying from a failed attempt because I was so frustrated with the fact that I wasn’t shifting. I thought that I fully be…

r/realityshiftingpost3/20/2026
Has anybody encountered him before?

Has anybody encountered him before? — I don’t know how to start, but this “Purple Ghost,” as I named him when I was young, still plays an important spiritual role in my life. When I was a child, I used to dream about him often, or rather…

r/experiencerspost3/20/2026
If you are new here..

Just a few questions Mr Moonbeam. If you are so against the “act/live as if” what do you have to say about Dr. Joe Dispenza, Gregg Braden and Dr. Bruce Liptons, Napoleon Hill, Jim Rohn, Eckhart Toll…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/18/2020
If you are new here..

You completely missed the point. You don’t need all the woo to get money, which is important in this world. Get your money first. Then once you have more than enough to last you a life time, you c…

r/JosephMurphycomment7/2/2020
If you are new here..

More pseudoscience from you (the first being that gravity is attractive- gravity is a warp in the space time continuum as it responds to mass, and only appears to be attractive to the uneducated). No…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/8/2020
If you are new here..

Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using slee…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I’ve been practicing crystal medication and spiritual healing before I go to bed and last night while I was sleeping, I felt an intense vibrating feeling/ringing in my head and throughout my body. The…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/30/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Hm. I wonder if that could be it. But I'm also super new to spirituality. How do I overcome this? I'm wondering if also maybe it was because it was the first time I was trying to separate my conscious…

r/AstralProjectioncomment6/24/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

So.. id classify myself as a relatively spiritual person.. over the last few months ive tried meditating 5 or so times.. ive had sleep paralysis about 5 times as well in my life.. more so in the last …

r/AstralProjectioncomment6/25/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I have a question. My mom has told me various stories of when she was a child, that she would just dream that she was floating outside her body, going through the window, etc. She is a very spiritual …

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/3/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

It doesn't prevent people totally, but there are complexities to this practice, it is not as simple as it seems. Astral projection is inherently a spiritual practice and not always easy to control. Lo…

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/7/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

My mom is extremely psychic/spiritual/etc. When she was a child she mostly dreamed that she could fly out of her bedroom window, but she would always be scared to go further. She sometimes knows thing…

r/AstralProjectioncomment9/6/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Hi! I am a very spiritual person. I meditate usually 2-3 times a week. I have recently been trying to AP. sometimes when i’m falling asleep or meditating, i feel these intense vibrations and i get tha…

r/AstralProjectioncomment9/22/2021
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Just a few questions here - I'm new to lucid dreaming. I garden quite a bit, so I can grow Artemisia douglasiana and a few other helpful herbs and make a poultice or something. I usually don't rem…

r/LucidDreamingcomment11/4/2021
If you are new here..

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/18/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

My concern has been 3 years of astral staking by a person who abuses the astral. They have been taken over by a negative entity. And now energy harvest daily. This has taken energy workers many goes a…

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/13/2022
If you are new here..

Respectfully, this is what happens when you only focus on material aspects and totally disregard the "spiritual woo woo." I'm not saying everyone ever needs to be enlightened, but there's a reason why…

r/JosephMurphycomment3/3/2023
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I think I'm in the middle of a spiritual awakening.hightened sences.. intuition spot on.lucid dreaming..can't wait to see what happens next

r/LucidDreamingcomment6/16/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

No contact is NOT about getting the ex back! It’s about truly moving on, breaking free mentally, emotionally and spiritually. It’s about freeing yourself and truly letting go. It’s not meant to be a …

r/ExNoContactcomment6/24/2023
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Wonderful information in the introduction. I would love to get some personal insight from people who are familiar with Astal Projection. I'll keep it as short as possible. I have recently discovered t…

r/AstralProjectioncomment2/9/2024
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Quite common not being able to control it, when having no experience. I know it's related to keeping up with expectations to how things work, as in real life. I know it's possible to summon a dream gu…

r/LucidDreamingcomment2/16/2024
My arguments against manifestation

1. That is why it’s called maladaptive daydreaming. The person does so to escape their current reality. They are not making actual changes, thinking different thoughts, reconditioning the subconscious…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I need logic, I don’t care. The spiritual woo woo doesn’t move me.

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Tbh you’re allowed to have your viewpoints but this is attention seeking behavior judging by your posts meant to get a reaction out of the people here. Also, why go on a Murphy sub for this? You alrea…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Nope. What every spiritual masters, yogi etc teach is that your world conform to who you are. It's completzly onvious thzy all we think 1ld focus on in a day don't expand or even take life.

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

That's not the same thing at all. You try to grasp this spiritual teaching in reverse order, teying to manipulate the world from the end the chain of event instead of the beginning... The world is no…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

If it comes to new age stuff like LOA/LOB/Law of assumption I actually agree with you to a certain degree but not entirely. So let me explain where I disagree. Most people who follow Joseph Murphy, LO…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/9/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

I am securely attached, and I usually don't communicate a lot after i have met up with someone. This "withdrawal" has nothing to do with my dating partner. I myself enjoy a lot of alone time, so usual…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/18/2025
Haha being an FA is fucking weird

I feel this! The stakes are higher when I truly love/like someone (idk about you OP but for me this even extends to platonic friendships/ coworker relationships) and so my fear of messing up and pushi…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/23/2025
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Thank you aa a formal c I a intern and psia intern thank esp law of attraction opportunity women and some form of finance within a few weeks will come your way surprisingly unless your third eye se…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/31/2025
Seeking self-closure

When someone stonewalls you, flips the script, seeks to erase your history together, the effect is traumatic. This is deep relational trauma. You need space to process the deep grief of loving someo…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/25/2025
A little look into how fearful avoidants operate (aka, how one of my relationships ended - twice - because I was unaware of my patterns)

I've been on the other end of this.. the push and pull was exactly my ex-girlfriend.. thank you for explaining your side. It's like you're speaking for her. She will never admit any of that in the day…

r/attachment_theorycomment9/3/2025
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic.

\* HINT \* - don't be dismissive, arrogant, a pompous azz, or rude. ASSUME Experiencers are, in fact, telling the truth. Also assume we are smart enough to have gone down the checklist of prosaic an…

r/experiencerscomment9/5/2025
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic.

Good post. There's been so much that has happened in the world that should very well show the generally accepted logic of 'real' is extremely flawed. So many spiritual factors are 'debunked' and throw…

r/experiencerscomment9/5/2025
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic.

thank you for this post. this is exactly the use i get out of this community. my awakening was very destabilizing and being convinced myself was psychologically and spiritually exhausting -- i do not …

r/experiencerscomment9/5/2025
The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment.

Congrats on your hard-won self-awareness! It sounds like it was painful and difficult and you're still grieving. I just find one part problematic: >I decided to go on a rescue mission, for myself, a…

r/attachment_theorycomment9/9/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

What sort of job, hobbies, social life, education, volunteering, exercise, spiritual practice, have you built for yourself? Are you busy with interesting things that you enjoy filling your life? Would…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/18/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I need to vent and word-vomit my story, in this community, as I just found it and it might really help me. Can someone tell me what they think? My avoidant attachment gf broke up with me (anxious att…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/30/2025
How to fully be present in my dating break (build momentum at the start)?

I don't know. Heartbreaks make me not want to date. I actually delete apps. I would say what helped a lot was therapy. My therapist refocused me back to myself. She showed me you can't outsource self …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/2/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

>*In order to move on, you need to not only stop feeling sorry for yourself,* *but also stop feeling sorry for the world.* *That is forgiveness in its essence.* *To give up a certain lens to see…

r/Stoicismcomment11/13/2025
I’m still a magnet to guys who need help. (I stopped rescuing).

You can have as many requirements on a partner as you want. The more requirements you have, the likelier you'll be single. But realistically, people don't date the first homeless person on the streets…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/18/2025
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Dear Gene... Your Work is....As I See It...A GIFT FROM GOD.  If There are Another 10,000 Readers Out There...Who Feel like I do...but NEVER Express Their Sentiments...Than Let Me Represent All 10,000 …

r/AstralProjectioncomment11/29/2025
How do anxious attachers know when they are truly ready to date again, rather than just trying to soothe anxiety or loneliness?

A really great question I explore while healing anxious attachment was “If I knew 100% that I wouldn’t date anyone ever again, what would I need in my life to live a fulfilled and meaningful life” N…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/10/2025
Looking for DA perspectives

Wow. This is spiritual awakening level/self-actualization stuff.

r/attachment_theorycomment12/17/2025
Here's to an emotionally secure 2026! 🥳🎈🎉😎 (open thread)

I will focus on building other forms of relationships (self, spirituality, and new deeply aligned friendships). Getting love and security outside of romantic context. Staying single all year, solo dat…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/2/2026
The pain of being unmet...

This is fascinating thank you. And firstly I just want to say I relate on many levels. I have actually run workshops on attachment and yet still found myself in situations similar to this, except she …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
The pain of being unmet...

I've been looking into Ideal Parent Figure stuff too, and have done a couple meditations around that. Thanks for the link, I'll check this out. I have some understanding of eastern spirituality and n…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
The pain of being unmet...

Spiritual concepts appeal to me, but the Christian framework does not. "Deserving" is a dangerous concept. The world operates on cause and effect, and a sense of what we "deserve" can put us at odds …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
The pain of being unmet...

I hear you, and I do try to look beneath the unfortunate associations that religious institutions have caused. To not throw out the baby with the bathwater around it all. But I feel like I do that thr…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
The pain of being unmet...

I've heard (and taught) all this stuff so many times. I just...have a lot of snags around it all. Let me go through each of your points. I have other hobbies and interests, but it's hard for me to ac…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
If my nervous system is used to interpreting intensity as chemistry, then...am I just supposed to settle for love where I don't feel any "fuzzy" feelings? Like is love supposed to be boring? Then how do I even know the difference if a relationship is boring but good vs. boring but bad??

I used to only feel intensity and the push/pull of chaos as chemistry. Like Spiritual Twist said, I had to heal my own wounds and nervous system to be attracted to peace. If you haven't read it, I HI…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment1/20/2026