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I feel this is gonna be long. But, here I go. So basically what am asking about is : does astrology truly determine your destiny. ( I mean by your career, your looks?, even the fact you are a shifte…
A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit. — Hey everyone on r/NarcissisticAbuse. We get it, we really do– the U.S. political situation right now is a bloody mess with further escalation, rather than some kind of stability, on the horizon. W…
My game has 50k downloads but only brings in coffee money — I released a little trivia game on Android about 6 months ago. It’s super simple — just daily quiz questions with leaderboards. Got about 50k downloads now, mostly from Southeast Asia and India. The …
Is Getting Ripped Apart Normal in Product Design? — I’m new to product design, and at this startup, I wear both the product designer and product manager hats. I meet regularly with the CEO (my boss), and during our sessions, we review the website and r…
Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice? — I'm approaching 5 years at my current company (2 years as junior, 3 as mid-level) and am submitting a promotion case for Senior. I won't hear back for a couple months - my director feels optimistic, b…
Fav Motion prototyping tools — Hi there, I’m a product designer looking to get better at prototyping so that I can better communicate my designs to engineers and leadership. What are tools you like using other than what Figma alr…
What does your design director do? — I'm an IC product designer and a bit mystified by higher level design leadership. I've been looking at job descriptions for design directors, and they'll say things like "drive [company]'s product des…
I work with meat snacks and my supplier is one of the leading companies. Looking for a partner. — I’ve developed two types of meat snacks products - beef jerky and dried beef slices. My supplier is one of the leaders in the space and is EU-certified organic. Marketing isn’t my strong point, so wo…
Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote) — Hi r/startups, I’m in the process of developing a consulting service designed specifically for startups, from Pre-Seed all the way to Series B. The idea is to offer a practical, hands-on partner for …
Looking to transition to Europe as a Senior Product Designer from Canada — As the title says, Is this something thats possible and what is the current demand like for Product Designers in Europe? I'm currently looking to gain new experiences within my role as a Senior Prod…
Scaling from solo founder to teams of 3-5+ (I will not promote) — I will not promote! What leadership issues have you guys faced going from yourself to small teams, when scaling? Currently researching this transition phase for my own learning (former military, now…
as a tech leader, would you use react or angular for a new project? — The title says it all; if you were starting a new company and expecting to hire devs to build and maintain a web project over the next 5 years, would you choose react or angular as your primary framew…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
Considering a move from big tech to a small company. Worth the risk? — I know this sub leans junior, but hoping to get some advice from senior folks. Especially people in Bay Area, NYC, or Seattle-type tech scenes. Tagging this as Job Search and not Senior Only because I…
I created this cool game in react. It's called MystiCrafter — I created this cool game using React. If you know alchemistry or ever heard of the term, then you would love it. It's essential a puzzle game about combining base elements to create new ones. The ga…
Website — Hey I’m developing a web/app for brand scalers and brands called Lynxscal. It’s supposed to help brand scalers find brands to run ads for easier by using ai. It has other features too like a leader bo…
Duolingo leader throws shade at r/UXDesign — You all might remember this thread a few months ago, [debating Duolingo renaming UX to “Product Experience.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/UXDesign/comments/1j3hvkw/duolingo_renames_ux/) The VP Mig announ…
UX Management — For a long time I’ve been more interested in design over management. I’m sensing that’s starting change. I’m becoming more interested in a leadership role. Me: I’m a senior with 10 years of UX exper…
I’ve failed at startups, lived on the road, and I still believe I’m successful — I was 19 when I started my first startup. I led a team of 15 people, wanted to change the world. And I failed. At 21, back in 2016, I left home without any money, hoping that traveling would help me …
Ever feel like you’re doing all the right things in business, but still wrestling with doubt, decision fatigue, or just low-level burnout? — You’ve got the strategy. You’ve read the books. You’re pushing forward... but something’s off. What I’ve noticed in myself (and in others I work with) is this: It’s not always about more knowle…
Spent 1 year solving a problem users “loved” but wouldn’t pay for: my learnings [I will not promote] — We are 2 years into building our SaaS, but spent 1 year building something people “loved”, “were excited about”... yet did not pay for. Since then, we have slightly pivoted and gained traction, but I …
Organization lost access to website — (Edit: mostly solved. Consensus is there isn't a good process to reclaim a site that has been lost. Open to other thoughts, but thank you to everyone who has offered their advice already!) I've been …
Another win for Trump — And this is why this sub praises Trump as a LOB master. From surviving his assassination attempt, to winning his 2nd term over Word Salad Kamala, to driving the stock market to all-time highs (makin…
Excerpt from a memoir about a cult leader named “Godfrey”
Physically Reacting to Jealousy — My first post was about my deep attachment to a former friend who cut things off because she is now my employee. I'm actually making a lot of progress with that. Well my stress level is very manageabl…
Women keep telling me I need to date younger and now my daughter has too. — I (39m) look young for my age and have been dating for the last 4 years. I have mostly dated women in their 30s and about half of them have told me to date someone younger after things didn’t work bet…
“My father always wanted to be the corpse at every funeral, the bride at every wedding and the baby at every christening.” - Alice Roosevelt Longworth — Written by Alice Roosevelt about her father, Teddy. I feel like this quote perfectly captures the dynamics of having an nParent. Whenever sympathy, positive attention or adoration is being doled out …
Dreamt the Sphinx had the head of a Goddess with a headdress. — Hello friends, Just wanted to share a dream I had two nights ago. For anyone who may be familiar with some of my experiences, you’ll know that so much of my journey has been guided by messages I have …
Workers at Asian Americans Advancing Justice are striking for fair wages! — For more information on why they are striking, visit their union’s instagram @aajcollective. Please support our nonprofit workers and send a letter of support to leadership using the link above! It is…
Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective. — I’m 39F and my husband (34M) and I have been married a little over 3 years. We have a toddler (2). Recently, completely out of nowhere, he told me he thinks we’re “not compatible” and started talking…
Disconnected from my future — Is anyone feeling lost with the current conflicts in the world? Like your future, your nations future are being ruined by leaders who don't seem to care. Now my views on the conflicts may not agree w…
Major John Liu Fugh — I came across this guy during my general reading. This is Major John Liu Fugh. He was the first Chinese American who was able to attain rank of General in the US army. He was born in China and his …
SF to name street after Chinese-American woman who saved thousands from human trafficking — I was happy to read this news about a street in San Francisco being renamed after a brave Chinese-American woman named Tien Fuh Wu who saved thousands of women and girls from human trafficking. With r…
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…
Why don’t I relate to being a Capricorn when I have so many placements? — From what I read about capricorns they’re perceived as being traditionalists, hard-working, money-minded, serious, masters of self-control, professionals and leaders, valuing the material world etc. …
April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…
Why don’t I relate to my sun sign (Aries) at all? — As a kid I didn’t believe in astrology for the sole fact that aries didn’t describe me at all. I am 25 now and that still hasn’t changed. I’ve learned about moon and rising signs and both fit me perfe…
During WWII, British intelligence hired an astrologer, gave him military rank, and had him cast charts to predict enemy strategy — In 1940, a German refugee named Louis de Wohl approached British intelligence with an unusual offer. He claimed that Hitler's strategic decisions were guided by personal astrologers, and that by casti…
The importance of Asian male role models — I'm a long time lurker and I'd like to share my perspective as a half Asian millennial guy in the US. Having strong Asian male role models has been key to my development as a person. My dad was Chine…
Need help understanding APs through a sociological perspective — Context: I’m first generation Thai American. My grandmother moved to the US to raise me when I was just a month old because my mom developed cancer. Growing up, my cultural identity became a source o…
I feel hurt and don’t know what to do. — \*\*TL;DR;\*\*: Girl is making relationship difficult . Me (22M) and partner (22F) have been dating for 4 months now. When we first met is was very nice and the freshness of it all made it exciting, …
Where Did you Go to Find Your Therapist? — I am a very experienced clinical psychologist with a PhD from a very strong university. I have recently left an agency where I was pressured to do unethical things (for example: record things in the m…
How do i come to terms with being by myself? — As someone with a litany of mental health diagnoses its really hard to confide in people without making them uncomfortable/tired of me or getting them to understand how i feel or think. Ive ruined fri…
Free Claude artifact: 90+ daily leadership lessons from 20+ books! — Hey everyone, I’ve had an ongoing reading list sitting since at least 2020 that I kept adding to and honestly kept forgetting what I’d already read. I got through about 75% of them but realized I wasn…
I don't know what to do — Premise: The friend group, gf, close friend I've mentioned throughout this post takes place on discord (The close friend knows me pretty well, and so do I to him) Hi, I am in a great mental state. …
How do I move on without bashing myself for failing? — In 2023 I was in a leadersip position in a sport I played. I was very lazy and a horrible leader. I still regret how I let myself and the entire team down, including the coaches. How do I move on with…
I (19M) need advice about sticky situationship with best friend (21M) — I (21M) am in a situationship with my best friend (23M) and it's starting to hurt. He has told me that he might be depressed and autistic, and I can definitely see that. He constantly makes self-depre…
I (21M) need help with a sticky situationship with my best friend (23M) — TLDR Depressed gay best friend rarely texts me after I ask whether we could date, and now I cant cut off this situationship because I will be too sad and we already planned an expensive trip together …
partner of four years broke things off out of nowhere. her friends hate me now and i wish i could just go back in time — Me and her went through some of the hardest events in both of our lives together. we made it through a breakup already, (we thought we would end up being long distance for college, she ended up at the…
I need some advice and I need a good one, I don't want to say that I'm a special case but based on every person I have ever met, I don't think what I'm going through is normal. I can vent about so many things but i'm probably gonna go nowhere with what I'll say. — I have come to the conclusion that I can't change, and that I keep getting reminded of that, that I can't get long-term friends, that I'm probably will be laughed at by 95% of everyone behind my back,…
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Exactly, I'm having the exact same struggle. The kind of personal growth that I need to make now is exactly the kind that I need my best friend/partner/cheerleader to help me through, but he's the one…
It’s great that you recognize this. That’s half the battle! Like really, you’re half way there. Now you have to be your own cheerleader, “I see it, I’ve got this” and you need to do grounding exercise…
I’d avoid vendor specific books and focus on the main concepts since you will switch tools and vendors often One good pick is Platform engineering book https://www.amazon.com/Platform-Engineering-…
There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…
That take hits harder than most AI doom threads. >“In most non-tech organizations, internal dev and sysadmin is like janitorial services…” And that’s exactly why LLMs don’t have to be perfect, they …
My 5cents, as a person that’s been interviewing candidates for several years (almost 10 at same company, seen it grow from 100 employees to 2k+, interviewed QAs, SETs, Devs, DevOps and SREs). I’m sor…
Personally I've found that they are very timid to speak up alone. But as a group or led by a leader they can be loud and aggressive at getting things done and accomplished. So I've leaned hard on bui…
Your CIO doesn’t have the slightest goddamn clue what you should do 🤣🤣. Stop trying to create some leverage over your teammates and better yet, why not spend time with more senior people on your tea…
Hey. A separate team handles this sort of thing, I handle other works but we are interested in this as a business. Feature flagging - Yes this is widely used and they pull metrics and try to correla…
u/TTMI2 It’s really a shame to see sooo many cut throat answers here that leave little room for personal development and growth. These responses are missing a very important point; *attachment styles…
I’m in agreement with you (upvoted lol!). Yes, sad to see all the FA bashing. His text and reaching out with attempts for reconciliation are showing he wants the relationship but doesn’t have the know…
Wow that is amazing. You should be super proud! I'm also fearful avoidant, and have a similar timeline as you. Did the same to communicate, stay present and pushing down the ick during a long 8 month …
\* HINT \* - don't be dismissive, arrogant, a pompous azz, or rude. ASSUME Experiencers are, in fact, telling the truth. Also assume we are smart enough to have gone down the checklist of prosaic an…
Already started therapy a couple weeks after breakup. As far as engagement I thought that's what she may have wanted...I think she did in the moment, but it triggered something in her. I was there f…
Leaders are kissing his ass because he is a narcissistic man-child, who can get a temper tantrum if his ego is not being stroked, and this could cause him try to destroy your country in his moronic ra…
Text of original post by u/upernikos: My first post was about my deep attachment to a former friend who cut things off because she is now my employee. I'm actually making a lot of progress with that. …
I know this is an old post, I was searching FA on this sub and yours really piqued my interest. I don’t think I was ever that much of a FA except for when I was a teenager, I had childhood trauma and …
Idk her so I can't say this about her specifically but imo I read the goofy thing as "I am accomplished/ambitious/the leader in other parts of my life, but I want my romantic partnership to be a fun s…
This is exactly what I mean. I am also the oldest daughter and my parents were absentee. My entire life I've had to be the leader and in charge. If at work and in family, I'm the one who has to keep…
I will also add that there are two types of Type A in my experience. You have the Type A leaders who really want a wife who will follow them around the country and hold down the house. She can still …
Is there an autistic women’s guide to dating? The trouble is I’m successful in every other area of my life. I have lots of friends and am in a leadership role at work. It’s not like I don’t understand…
Early 30s (M) long term relationship ended late last year, trying to recover and get back out there. Work takes a lot of my time and as a result I tend to gravitate towards people there. Problem is I…
Thank you! Only two of us, me and the run leader 😆 still, good to meet up and do something fun and novel
Austin has always said (annual forecast) that 2026 would be a shitshow. He wasn't kidding. I remember him saying something like the US is due for a historic leader in the likes of a Roosevelt or Linco…
Ah, I see the "difficulty finding someone with an equally active lifestyle" a lot. I could see how that's difficult. I think a lot of people like to slow-down heading into middle-age, so it's tough. …
You make great points and I do agree with being careful about giving up on a potential match to quickly. I usually have a minimum two date rule if there's any potential. Unfortunately in her particul…
Na - Austin meant historic in 'take us in the right direction'. I've gone back and listened to that a few times now. It's from a forecast a few years back. Trump is the toxic dirt that country has ear…
I think an important thing about deciding whether or not to speak up about your feelings, is deciding what outcome you would like. As a DA you are probably telling yourself a story along the lines of,…
Tbh the US has a natal Aquarius Moon n Pluto is slowly but surely moving towards it. Not cute at all tbh. I think it will be somebody getting killed or like mass pandemonium with groups of people, n U…
I've seen some astrologers pointing to the upcoming Saturn-Neptune square as a potential indicator of widespread restrictions or lockdowns, but I'm not convinced it's that straightforward. In my exper…
It's never in a vacuum. It's multiple things going on at once, including aspects to the natal charts of our country's leaders. Some of it is the recent eclipses, then you have Uranus entering Gemini b…
The Roman Empire didn't collapse overnight. It literally took centuries of decline and *two* Pluto returns for it to finally go down. In the meantime, it added a great deal of territory and even a sec…
That battle you describe between the Sun at 4° and Venus at 29° makes perfect sense because they are basically on opposite ends of the same room. Since the Sun is at the lowest degree in your Taurus …
I think if you do see lockdowns you will also see violent (figuratively and/or literally) reactions to it. People do NOT want another lockdown no matter how dire or necessary, and with the current lev…
Oh and Saturn 7th/Cap Venus have good relationships with their superiors and seniors in the workplace(even if they aren’t hardworking), and (for every placement listed) if they are in a position of au…
Saw Thoth last night in a dream - similar, short brown hair, very good looking middle aged man. Clearly leader. We had some positive interactions. He had a pretty extensive entourage of people and sai…
Rahu's influence on 11th, 10th and 1st house is necessary for such achievements. Although rahu doesn't possess the ideal character for a good man. One thing is sure that you can't become a politician …
He's finally given you a glimpse of who he is: A judgemental asshole who thinks you're a 28yo child. And someone who knows he can cower you into submission. He's going to want to be the Alpha Man He…
We tend to seek common ground as a species. This is why a friend introducing you to someone you don't know is more of an immediate acceptance on both parts because you both know someone in common and …
That’s why I’m completely team Eileen. If America actually accepted Asians, put us in their movies, let us occupy leadership roles at corporations and in politics, etc they might have some point. Bu…
Former straight A, high achiever in school and work person here chiming in I want to second the people who said it took a lot of therapy. I think I expected therapy to work a lot faster, but it takes…
I keep reading that the earth is evolving but why do we still vote for horrible leaders like our president ?
Yes! Look up the bite method, Darvo tactics, and how to overcome coercion as a start. Cults generally teach you that you don’t have a recourse/you are at the mercy of the leader. I had to learn about …
The South China Morning Post (SCMP) has been accused of using its editorial platform to manufacture positive sentiment toward China while frequently publishing hit pieces targeting the United States. …
The Art of Manliness!!! It’s a great podcast that focuses on leadership, good habits, healthy marriages, mental health, career advice, financial success, etc.
Should tell him about the story ChatGPT convinced a dude to murder his mom because she was an enemy spy gaining information on him or something ridiculous.. then flipped into cult talk and deemed this…
Same group. Sivananda's acolyte Vishnudevananda, who was famous and brought it all to the West and wrote a bunch of books himself is who is accused of sexual assault. \*No accusations of wrongdoing …
If you're "Team USA" until the check clears from elsewhere, it’s not about heritage, it’s about being a mercenary. Only fair and square you are called a traitor. You think it's the same between an in…