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Hi, very interesting, maybe you actually shifted. Please also read this. Just for safety xx To answer your question directly: Yes, these experiences are classic red flags for carbon monoxide exposur…

Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading — # 6th Kill: $20,000 Money Mission **Mission**: To make $20,000 from futures trading **What I achieved:** I made $20,000 from futures trading **How long did it take:** 5 and a half months **Backgro…

Built a fast multi-host terminal log viewer with timeline histogram – looking for feedback — Hey all – I’ve been working on Nerdlog: an open-source fast terminal-based log viewer loosely inspired by Graylog/Kibana, having a similar timeline histogram on top, but designed to be snappy, lightwe…

Equity with new cofounder and fundraising. I will not promote — I'm starting a tech startup company. Currently outsourcing the tech team to build the app - every tech person I met wanted to be paid cash and wanted to take up to a year to get the platform up and ru…

How to get Millions of $$$ from ANY government for your business (I will not promote) — Experienced founder & CEO here. I'm gonna tell you how my business got straight cash (like literally millions) from the gov and how you can do that too. I've bootstrapped my last german education bu…

Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out. — Hey everyone, I’m in a “Head of Digital” role at a mid-sized company — but in practice, I’m the only technical person in a team full of editors and project managers from a traditional print publishin…

In an avoidant-anxious friendship, how much space should I be giving before I reach out? — The last 2 posts on the sub are about friendship and that encouraged me to post here as well. This is my friend of 5 years. We’ve gone from talking almost everyday to me being given the silent treat…

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

Avoidance seeking help: what if he’s not avoidant like me, but he actually just has a girlfriend he didn’t tell me about? — Been in contact with a guy for about 6 months now who has been pursuing me the entire time, subtly. When we first met, I had just broken up with my ex a couple of months prior to that (6-month long…

Bf of 14 months hasn’t said I love you — My bf (35M) and I (33F) met December 2024 on a dating app and became exclusive immediately after our first date. On our first few dates he asked what I was looking for and I said I was looking for som…

Saw the same man I've been seeing as a kid — I'm sorry about the use of A.I but my drawing skills are bad and I don't know how to explain this but I've seen this man in my dreams ever since I was a child. I remember seeing shows like Tom and Jer…

I(F28) have to have a tough conversation with my bf(M30), but I’m scared. — We’ve been together 8 years this July. Not married. It’s been a point of contention. We’ve been in a pretty rough spot since last year, and honestly, it’s only gotten worse this year. I’ve realized o…

You can reality shift just by washing your hands — Hey everyone, I’ve been obsessed with this idea lately and I can’t stop thinking about it: what if the simple act of washing your hands, when you actually slow down and get fully present with it, bec…

UPDATE: The Trickle Truth is Real — I don’t feel like sharing too much because it’s painful, but the trickle truth is real. I was able to get access to the texts since her affair partner didn’t delete them. They never had any in person …

How can I get a list of major transits for the year? — Instead of a chart, grid, timeline, or an ephemeris to decipher I'm looking for a source that shows it in text format. Here's a basic very much made up example of what I mean: * Dec 2 - Mar 2 '26— …

Crazy experience “timeline hopper” — I’ve been lucid dreaming since I was about 12/13, and I’m now 23. I trained myself into it years ago and now I lucid dream every morning which sometimes can be annoying because it affects my sleep. I’…

What manifestation technique brought you the fastest money? (With minimal physical effort) — Curious to hear from people who actively practice Neville Goddard, Law of Assumption, Abraham Hicks, etc. What manifestation technique has produced the fastest money for you? SATS? Visualization? Me…

i think i shifted timelines and i dont want to seem crazy. — i was staying up really late cause i wasn't that tired and suddenly i felt quite tired so i rested for a bit but i stayed semi lucid dreaming, and the dreams were long but everytime i woke up the time…

I finally figured out how to manifest — For context I’ve been manifesting for a really long time. I’ve taken this lifestyle up for over 5 years. But it used to be tough to know exactly what I’ll get and when I’ll get it in the past. I usual…

I don't know the difference between what's real or not anymore — I don't really know where to start other than this experience was over the weekend, and it made me see things in a different way. On Saturday night, I took a gummy, I dabble in it to help with my anxi…

A couple great tips for easier Revision. — Revision is an extremely important yet underrated technique. After going through an event that "future" manifesting just wouldn't solve, I knew the only thing that would fix this situation is to chang…

I made my husband confess to OBS and here’s what happened — For your education and entertainment purposes, this is the story of what happened when I forced my husband to confess to OBS. Quick backstory: (you can read the full post on my profile) my husband h…

Lived weeks of my life during a 2 hour nap — I had an extremely detailed dream of going on a cruise with a few members of my family (cousins who I usually spend free time with), and during the cruise I met and spoke to quite a few new people, ha…

i manifested moving after 5 years in an RV — so to give a little background, I moved into an RV with my dad in 2021 of January. We have lived in this RV ever since and there’s not much space and I’m somebody with a lot of energy that likes to da…

Shifting — Okay so during my life I’ve had multiple instances where I shifted without ever trying. The first time it ever happened I remember waking up at 11:42AM a couple years back. I was annoyed I woke up so …

THIS 👇🏼 is how they moved on SO fast — Something hit me like a damn truck the other day and I genuinely haven’t been able to stop thinking about it, so I’m just going to put it out there in here in the hope that it helps one of you too Yo…

How to date seriously when you are in a city you dislike — I have been in this city* for 7ish months and know that it is not for me. I was born here, moved away happily and due to unfortunate circumstances, I am back. I am also a woman who wants marriage and…

I accidentally shifted to a parallel Earth today — I went shopping with my wife. We were listening to the song "Hey there Delilah" when we arrived at the shopping center. While shopping, I experienced this intense moment of deja vu. I even spoke out l…

Celebrating the win first! — Haven’t been on here in a while - not for any bad reason, I’ve just been busy manifesting but it's good to be back! At the start of the year I tried something different: I followed the feel better no…

My fiancee (29F) and I (28M) moved abroad, now she is saying she wants to potentially stay forever. How do I tell her no? — My fiancee (29F) and I (28M) moved abroad, now she is saying she wants to potentially stay forever. Hello all. A few months ago, my fiancee (29F) and I (28M) moved abroad from our home country, we've…

She admits the lies and secrecy, but still denies anything physical — I’m posting because I feel like I’m losing my grip on what is real, and I need perspective from people who understand trickle truth, repeated minimizing, and what it feels like when someone admits jus…

16 years together feels destroyed... — 7 months ago I (M, 35) found out my partner (F, 35) of 16 years was messaging another man she had met intermittently at her work in a professional capacity (she no longer worked there when I had disco…

Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…

Is it bad I don’t have planets in a lot of houses? New to astrology here! — I’m new to studying astrology and reading birth charts. I’ve always felt like an outsider to this timeline and tend to be very intense. I see I don’t have planets in several houses - what does that si…

Talking to a friend while they’re lucid dreaming? — I had the strangest experience of my life. My friend called me, and we had what seemed like a normal conversation until we realized something was off. I don't know exactly what it was. We got so freak…

Should I (29F) stop waiting and move on from my boyfriend (30M) of 5 years? — I (29F) have been dating my boyfriend (30M) for almost 6 years now and I think I have been very patient with him. I know not everyone likes this concept but a year and a half ago I told my boyfriend t…

I feel like I just peeked behind the veil on weed — For context, I was stone cold sober (no drugs or alcohol), other than some nicotine/caffeine for 12.5 years after being an alcoholic/using drugs to cope. I recently started smoking 1 cbd cigarette abo…

Just trying to gain closure on my own... — This is something I wrote in my journal, trying to process emotions and gain closure. Lori, Since you would not give me the opportunity for closure, I'm going to do what I can to get it here. This…

It’s finally over — I’m sitting at a closed bar at 10am with a beer in my hand both celebrating and grieving at the same time. I (26m) spent two years with a woman (24f) I thought was the love of my life. Everything abo…

Is it possible that my friend shifted? — I had the strangest experience of my life. My friend called me, and we had what seemed like a normal conversation until we realized something was off. I don't know exactly what it was, but we got so f…

Writing a book for male survivors of emotional manipulation and controlling abuse/coercive control. — Wasn’t intending to post anything yet as this is still very much in draft; but I said I would, so here it is. I am writing a book for male survivors of domestic and family violence; not physical abus…

manifestation + past changing — Hi to all of you!! It’s my first ever time writing something on Reddit. Well, I have actually been reading many stories to find courage, but I am new to being the one with the story hahah. Okay, so I …

It’s Been A Year… So Here’s My Last Post — Well, tonight makes it official. It has been a full year since I was dumped. Whoever said you lose track of time when you’re having fun is a liar. You REALLY lose track of time when you’re miserable a…

do i just continue to feel it out until it’s gone? — got broken up with 2 months ago to my first love and who i thought was the love of my life. i was 23 and she was 29, it was unconventional but we were both mature and really loved each other. first of…

Should I give him another chance? — F26 M29 dated for a little less than 3 years. We have amazing chemistry that feels genuinely out of this world. We have the most fun together and he’s genuinely my best friend. We’re good together whe…

She called me - i didnt answered the phone — My ex friend just called me, i didnt answer the phone and she left a voice note on the answering machine. Told me she just wants to tell us (?) Happy birthday. I had my birthday a week ago and she h…

Got hurt, tried to heal, got dumped because I didn't heal fast enough. — I F22 was on and off with my now ex"boyfriend" M21 for almost a year (never made it to girlfriend status) and I’m really struggling to make sense of how things ended. Right before Valentine's day, we…

My ex (30F) and I (30nb) broke up 6 months ago and I want to vent about it — After dating for almost 2 years and living together for 6 months my ex broke it off and I had to move out. I am a trans nonbinary person (AFAB) and the day we met my ex knew I would be pursuing gender…

I finally drew the line — My story is your story, my pain, the same as yours. We all committed, believing that all humans essentially see each other as valuable only to be shown multiple times per day, that in fact some humans…

Do I cut him off completely? — Longest story short me (f21) and my ex (m20) we're together for a year, he was cheated on horribly multiple times by the same girl and was in an extremely emotionally abusive relationship with her, wh…

Shift to the past — Have you ever shifted to the past? I have always been fascinated about shifting to the past. But, the difference here is, people want to shift to 'their' past, and I want to shift to 'the past'. But …

Timing can be addressed thoughtfully, though. My ex (with whom I had gone ring shopping and planned to get married - the same ex who convinced me not to freeze eggs because it would be a waste of time…

This is very good. Publish it as a post, It is a good pouncemonial. Write more details, and state timelines more explicitly.

So glad to hear that. I love seeing the timeline on this.

I understand. Glad you are working through those feelings. I hope I did not come off judgemental. I definitely don't think that your feelings are irrational (I might agree with the inappropriate part …

Long distance doesn’t work. It also extends the timeline on the relationship as if you’ve been together a long time. But if you string the actual interaction together, it’s not very long at all. So re…

I think if you had the option to change that timeline, it would be very beneficial. Maybe checking in every 24hrs is great for some and checking in one every 3 months is better for others. I’d be ex…

I’m in the same boat as you. Also an FA, mostly secure but get sucked into anxious attachment with someone who is very avoidant. I’ve also said goodbye to some avoidant friends! I’ve done alot of hea…

Alright unfortunately it’s impossible for me to determine whether she is actually losing interest or if she is having trouble regulating her own emotions, but what you need to do in both cases is let …

By not chasing and instead matching their pace. Absolutely reply when they text you, and match the energy if you can. Ideally you’d want to be perceived as safe, so when they text you should be detach…

I’m in the same boat. The timeline was brief (about a month total) but very recent, and this man has lived in my head ever since. I’m proud to say (as an anxious) that I didn’t do any protest behavior…

Therapist here, look for a therapist that use a person-centered approach and is trauma informed. It’s not our job to push meds on you, it’s our job to reflect your experiences back to you so you gain …

As someone who is a few days on the other side of the “I need space” deactivation, withdrawal whatever you want to call it. This will only end with an ugly break up (past week) I wish I had been stro…

Wow that is amazing. You should be super proud! I'm also fearful avoidant, and have a similar timeline as you. Did the same to communicate, stay present and pushing down the ick during a long 8 month …

Maybe are you reversing the timeline here? Maybe he’s vulnerable and sharing and then needs to deactivate because the level of intimacy is too much? I do that sometimes, it’s not planned at all.

ChatGPT 5 is in NO WAY close to AGI. You need to get info from people who aren’t trying to market a product. Sam Altman is a liar and a conman and there is no current evidence to suggest we will have …

Why would an avoidant push me away, but then orbit me for almost 2 years — even while committed to someone else? I feel ashamed for being stuck on this.. I (32F) had a short but intense connection wi…

Yes. I just thought about this recently. As of 2 days ago. And I figured I would start trying to see my romantic interests as friends as well. That way a lot of the pressure is off. I am dating a guy …

Yeah, we’ve both had talks how the long distance is likely putting a strain on things - especially as we both move into more full-time jobs and are showing up to our somewhat nightly calls tired from …

Yes and no… it depends on when you grieve the relationship. If you feel everything at once, immediately, that puts you on a different timeline from someone who delays facing the pain.

Yes, I'm not someone who falls for people easily. I start liking a guy when I see him planning dates, showing interest in my life and remembering things I tell him, having fun with him but also having…

Hi everyone, I’m 25M (Middle Eastern, living in Turkey), in pilot training and under a lot of pressure to stay focused. Earlier this year I met a 30F Russian woman (“Y”) in a very unconventional way …

Thank you for responding to me. Making this post was incredibly embarrassing for me because this entire situation feels absurd and the fact that it’s making me spiral so much has been really confusing…

I've had plenty of avoidant guys ask me out pretty quickly.  As for timelines, I'd say if I've been talking to someone for a few weeks and they're not ready to meet I'll either enjoy them as just a p…

I think it's as the others advised, and I've seen this as well- avoidants don't necessarily move slowly. Some of them want to move quickly actually when it comes to dates and such. Emotionally opening…

I appreciate the advice. Apologies if my timeline was unclear, its been 6 months since the breakup which consisted of 3 months in limbo, 3 months of NC. I believe the reason I'm struggling now is beca…

As I explained before there are no guidelines. There is not one answer that fits for every situation that you could possibly encounter. What is “too long” for one person in a very specific situation m…

when my ex fiance dumped me it was really sudden and out of nowhere. it was really impersonal and there was no explaination at all (plus it was the day before valentines day.... the asshole 😒) we ha…

Hitting 4 months with my boyfriend on Saturday. Big deal for him since he hasn't had a relationship over 3 months previously. Things are going really well. I was struggling a little at first with th…

I have a boyfriend now! He invited me to a small party he's hosting with his friends and we discussed titles and whatnot. It has been a really long time since I dated and so I'm a bit nervous around t…

I also think it's a completely different bag of worms to apply attachment theory to yourself as a tool to help guide self-growth (even if it's misinterpreted), versus using it to diagnose others just …

Well, if it's very casual, he's spontaneous, you need some sunshine and fun, then why not? Palm Springs is really nice this time of the year. It doesn't make sense to say it's moving fast, when it's c…

Anyone in their mid thirties who wants kids feel like sharing their perspective or venting? I came back to dating recently when I realized I had too much grief to pull the trigger on artificial …

I think that’s amazing clarity you have to know you want kids even more than a partner. That’s such an expansive belief… and I find it interesting you also have all those limiting beliefs in the back …

I'm 34 and want kids and quite stressed about it. Almost got to the point of trying with my last partner and then we split up. I personally would never have kids on my own so that hadn't really been i…

❤️ I'm 34... I started getting a little nervous around 30. I feel like I'm out of the "omg calm down" range into the "yeah, you're right, this is cutting it a little close and definitely not the timel…

Ok this makes me sense to me.  Still a pretty unique timeline, but I was thinking like a few months on a few months off for fourteen years. Hope your heart is ok!! ❤️

For me I wasn't really looking at setting a certain timeline (puts too much unnecessary pressure), but more like asking myself and my date if we've developed enough of a connection to start feeling bo…

There isn’t exactly a right or wrong timeline, but 6 weeks with a gap in between, to “I love you”, I would definitely tell him to slow his roll

Three months is incredibly fast, in my opinion, to say I love you. Maybe at three months you should feel like you’re in love with them, or at least infatuated enough to think it, but feeling it and sa…

Really depends on how long you known each other and how long you actually “dated”. I knew my bf from high school, we reconnected as adults and dated for like a month before deciding to be exclusive.…

I know there's no real "timeline" for these things. But I do strongly believe that you don't really *know* someone for at least 6 months, and you don't know what someone's truly capable of for years. …

Whichever you prefer. Ultimately it doesn't matter. The timelines are arbitrary and you should move at whatever pace you feel comfortable

You're overthinking - you feel it when you feel it - the timeline doesn't really matter. Not saying ILY doesn't make you un-feel it, but you can still take things slow and be cautious. My bf and I fel…

That happened to me last week, but his compatibility issue with me was that he needed intimacy sooner and asked for a timeline and I couldn’t give him that. 😑😑😑

Why does it matter? There are no timeline rules. Each couple follows what they choose and agree on.

My last relationship was similar. I met my ex in late October and we consistently had one date per week, except for the holidays when we both had travel plans, but we still texted, talked, and facetim…

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I think you should consider carefully the kind of home and relationship you want kids in. Personally, as someone who said it to my husband after 6 weeks, says it and receives it multiple times a day, …

I don’t agree with this at all. I knew my BF even before we started dating and still felt nowhere close to saying ‘I love you’ after 3-4 months. To me, those words mean a lot and I don’t say them ligh…

It does sound like his idea of what love is could be quite different, and maybe he really does feel the same way about you, but for him “love” isn’t the right word yet. However, it’s definitely a vali…