just works

*short novel alert, sorry, TL;DR at the end* As someone who has been struggling with finding a technique that "just works" for these things as well, and who also just discovered I am neurodivergent (…

Seeking a low-maintenance frontend/CMS stack for modernizing 10+ year old sites — Hi all, I’m looking for advice on a conservative, low-maintenance frontend and CMS stack for modernizing a couple of old but still functional client sites. **Background:** I’ve got two long-lived s…

A spectral journey through space, sound, and self — The intention behind this trip was less about escapism and more about exploration. After cautiously experimenting with higher doses and having my first experiences with music-guided spectral journey…

Yeah I gathered as much from a quick gander from their profile. Honestly it just works for me so whenever I see these arguments I don’t get triggered because I can’t explain why or how it does logical…

I've never caught feelings for anyone either. I relate to the feeling of being gatekept out of something that everyone else gets to experience, as well as the FOMO that comes with it. In my case, rath…

Maybe not :). For me,, in-between 'love bombing' and 'healthy attraction" is "infatuation ". Infatuation and love bombing can be very difficult to distinguish but infatuation can still be healthy and…

A) there is absolutely no guarantee that if you chose different career etc you would have been married by now. B) people posting pictures means absolutely nothing. C) life is absolutely unpredictable…

I think the advice is good, but it does rely on the person taking it to have a realistic outlook and not being so results oriented. Like the alternative to doing social activities to meet people is w…

How are all immigrants not traitors to their previous country in your estimation? You're literally in a sub dedicated to a certain subset of immigrant experience and heritage. Doesn't it give you cogn…

I remember hearing from another AP-er about transactions. They would go into shops and pay with money they'd find in their pockets. Their guess was that the transaction was somehow energetic and conju…

I have had severe anxiety since I was a kid with it Starting to make me sick by the time I was 20. It got to the point where I was nauseous 24/7 for 2 years and then on and off for another 2. I have…

Because it just works

You aren’t the weirdo. Neither are the people who can go to platonic friendship after sex. It just works for some and not for others. And also, it can depend on who the other person is. You might …

Yeah same here. Smaller stuff definitely works more easily for me too. I can do things like stretch my arm out and make objects fly up with the motion, then let them drop again, and that usually feels…

Yes it just works

I actually went through the exact same thing. Tried loads of apps and just found they added more noise. Open one thing and you’re suddenly pulled into five others. There’s something about writing thin…

Well it’s a red flag, but maybe he just works really hard and is legit exhausted a lot. You don’t really say anything about that possibility. It’s fair to mention it, though I’d suggest doing so car…

I have a FWB who I've sexted with since we met in August last year, often every day. He's the only man I've ever done that with. Every other time, it's fallen flat from the get-go. Sexting gets cringe…

I’m very much like this. I find it incredibly difficult to care about what’s going on in others lives, especially when I don’t see them regularly. I just forget they even exist. I don’t really miss an…