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loneliness epidemic

r/experiencersUpdated 30 days ago
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if you're in this vibe, you're not alone

It's her way of decompressing and I recognized it right away, she's always super chatty but doesn't have many people to share the more serious things so I listen. It doesn't really bother me because p…

r/experiencerscomment3/23/2026
Watching porn as a girl made me turn to male motivational content

Watching porn as a girl made me turn to male motivational content — i feel like there’s this constant shame that’s been following me for most of my life. i’ve always felt like my mom didn’t actually want to get to know the real me, just the “poster” version of me. bec…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost3/17/2026
Breakup really sucks and the fear of never finding anything else makes it way worse

Breakup really sucks and the fear of never finding anything else makes it way worse — Im 29m and am out of a four month relationship with a 32f. Im not going to sit here and pretend like this is the longest most devastating thing ever because thats inaccurate because its a short period…

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
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It’s like these people want to be reply guys and then wail about the male loneliness epidemic. Like why do you want me to play games with you through a phone screen my guy I can ignore you after we st…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Eat, Pray, Love for white men

Male loneliness epidemic.

r/AsianAmericancomment3/8/2026
Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

And then those guys are all over Reddit complaining about the men’s loneliness epidemic and wondering why dating apps don’t work. It’s a huge circular cluster fuck. Not disagreeing with your premise…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/11/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
My girlfriend tells long, detailed work stories every day after I get home exhausted. 25M-23F, 6 months.

Bro I’m not the one that coined the term “the male loneliness epidemic”. https://news.gallup.com/poll/690788/younger-men-among-loneliest-west.aspx There’s also research supporting men tend to be hap…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
My girlfriend tells long, detailed work stories every day after I get home exhausted. 25M-23F, 6 months.

Holding everything in isn’t a healthy or appropriate way to process your emotions. I think a lot of men do this, and miss out on opportunities to connect with other people. Hence the loneliness epidem…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
I’m so lonely after my divorce

Stop centering men and center yourself. Stay single and focus on yourself and your non-romantic relationships. Since my divorce I’ve been able to have so many more people in my life that I care about …

r/Divorcecomment3/19/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

Well, she isn’t going to be able to make him change his thinking, and if she isn’t willing to leave him, then thinking this way isn’t costing him anything either and he has a lot of self serving incen…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
if you're in this vibe, you're not alone

that makes sense, it's good that she has someone who can be there for her. being a good listener makes us understand others better, and through understanding we also experience deeper compassion. so I…

r/experiencerscomment3/23/2026
I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he?

“Male loneliness epidemic” In all seriousness that is awful and I’m so sorry this happened to you. Basic aftercare post coitus is the bare minimum and he couldn’t even do that. Goes without saying but…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
My husband(35M)wants me to quit job because I(36F)make more than him.I don’t know what to do?

But remember ladies - women are ALSO responsible for the Amens Loneliness Epidemic. No no no! Don't look at mens behavior and point out they have quite the ways to go, and should act better. No.... On…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
The ACTUAL reality regarding interracial dating for Asian men in the West

Dating environment for Asian men have never been better. Can it be better? Sure, but it's much better than in 2014. Stop living in 2014. There's plenty of incel white/black/Latino men as well. Just …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment4/1/2026
Chemistry on first date but no energy

Look I'm sorry but this is just more evidence that the so-called male loneliness epidemic is just men who have always relied on women and used them to fulfill their emotional needs, and because of tha…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/2/2026
Boyfriend(m38) doesn’t want to split bills equally with me (f30), should i compromise or call it quits?

Its 2026. If a man isnt treating you right toss him into the loneliness epidemic pit. Ta ta

r/relationshipscomment4/2/2026
I wish men wouldn’t talk about my curves after 3 chats

Gee, I wonder why there's a loneliness epidemic.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
I wish men wouldn’t talk about my curves after 3 chats

Huh? There's a loneliness epidemic but women created these monsters? The math ain't mathing.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card?

Wait a minute?! Isn't there a male loneliness problem because woman don't put up with azzholes anymore? They have their own money, they don't need a man, so men are supposed to change? Women don't put…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
‘Not having long-term friends is a red flag’

It’s so cruel because we’re in a loneliness epidemic atm. What do you mean you’re going to EVEN. FURTHER isolate other marginalized people?? It CAN be a red flag, depending on the circumstances. If …

r/CPTSDcomment4/7/2026
3 Years Later… an Assessment

This is the loneliness epidemic. You are not alone in that. \> I used to love cooking. I don’t anymore. Cooking for one turns into a chore when there’s no one to share it with. I find it helpful to…

r/Divorcecomment4/7/2026
My (36F) partner (37M) recently got a medical diagnosis and now wants an open relationship. Is it selfish of me to not want to? Or selfish of him to ask for one?

He’s overestimating his value. He’s almost 40, spent almost a decade with a woman who stuck by him through illness and then wants to add other women into the mix once he’s better as a thank you for he…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
DAE avoid super talkative people?

Trust me I hate talking to people even friends and family. I struggle with empathy and kindness so when my friends talk to me about something we both don't share interest in, I either zone out waiting…

r/CPTSDcomment4/11/2026
Can’t maintain interest in relationships

Nah girl its true. Not to be sexist, but men are driven by lust hence that stupid "love at first sight." The moment I saw her. I knew she was gonna be my wife! How the fuck can you fall in love with s…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/12/2026