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Boyfriend (22M) keeps saying he’d die without me (20F) or commit suicide as a joke, and sometimes it doesn’t feel like one

Suicide threats - and 'jokes' - are a common manipulation tactic. They force you from whatever you were doing to instead focus solely on trying to appease the manipulator. Am I reading that you don't…

r/relationshipscomment3/23/2026
I (38M) was just sent proof that my fiancé (35F) has a recently active hinge profile.

I (38M) was just sent proof that my fiancé (35F) has a recently active hinge profile. — My fiancé has been acting really distant lately. I'm currently dealing with some health issues and she seems more focused on her work then helping me through my current health struggles. We have bee…

r/relationshipspost3/24/2026
My gf broke up with me

My gf broke up with me — I'm an American 34 she's Thai 38, she was already stressed with her family and her debt so I totally understood her situation and was always there for her we've been dating for 8 months so the thing w…

r/BreakUpspost3/31/2026
Update to My (22M) gf (24F) keeps ignoring that I'm tired and it's starting to piss me off.

Update to My (22M) gf (24F) keeps ignoring that I'm tired and it's starting to piss me off. — Alright guys. Sorry this was late. I've been feeling numb ever since the conversation and was sleeping a lot. I was so nervous about the conversation I ended up not sleeping at all yesterday LOL. We h…

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
What are the most infuriating sentences your ex has said to you during or after the breakup?

"If you are looking for a reason as to why I'm breaking up with you like a big thing you did or didn't do, I'm sorry but there is none. I don't know what to say, our two years together were beautiful …

r/BreakUpscomment3/10/2026
My [19m] girlfriends [20f] male friend fancies her

Is he pushing or breaking boundaries? If not, it's a non-issue. I have known several women in stable long term relationships that had/have me *absolutely smitten*. I wouldn't ever do anything to mess …

r/relationshipscomment4/1/2026
Breakups Are Hard, But Ambiguity Makes Them Worse

"I don't know what's wrong with me, you're so wonderful and great and nothing but kind but I think I'm breaking up with you" Yeah I helped them finish that thought lol I ain't chasing someone who's un…

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
Do I(21F) not have the right to break up with my bf(21M)?

You do not need his permission to break up and it's not a negotiation. "This relationship does not work for me anymore. I'm breaking up with you. We are not going to negotiate this. I'm done. Do not…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
Do I(21F) not have the right to break up with my bf(21M)?

You can tell him something like "I'm breaking up with you. I'm no longer your girlfriend, I no longer consider you my boyfriend. As of this moment I am single. I'll be taking a break from talking to y…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
My (21F) boyfriend (26M) met my parents and it didn’t go well. I want a strangers opinion on the situation?

Yeah, don't baby this man-baby who is an adult. OP, you can suggest therapy, but frankly, your BF somehow thinks that "don't contact me but I'm not breaking up" makes sense. He needs reading compreh…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026