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I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s

Your partner's self inflated ego is keeping him from being able to accept any kind of instruction and he is incapable of accepting he's made an error. His "do your research" is only valid until he …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/24/2026
What’s the best way to validate a niche before launching a POD store?

What’s the best way to validate a niche before launching a POD store? — I've been sitting on a few niche ideas for months, but I'm stuck trying to figure out which one has real potential. Everyone says "do your research," but what does that actually look like for POD? Do …

r/ecommercepost5/7/2025
alright, a few people asked me for the methods i used to manifest my SPs, here it is

alright, a few people asked me for the methods i used to manifest my SPs, here it is — for more context, check my last post. i only started this journey a month or two ago. im still experimenting, i am by no means well learned in this particular topic. i havent even gone in depth in a …

r/Manifestationpost4/12/2026
If you are new here..

>Hi everyone, > >I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the P…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/8/2020
Question about POSM

At first there are signs, then with practice you just know. The signs vary from person to person can occur during a session and not occur during the next. So the only way to know is to do your researc…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/17/2024
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

Therapist here. No, we don’t do that. Your resistance to therapy is a part of your avoidance. I understand why you wouldn’t want to though. It is so scary to open up and trust. Take your time, do your…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/2/2025
What is the best starter psychedelic?

r/LSA do your research though

r/Psychonautcomment3/11/2026
Me 19m and my gf 20f ass stinks during sex can someone give me some advice?

OP, you are both young adults and there are some very important sex hygiene practices you'll both want to be following. Things like: - washing/showering (with soap) before (and sometimes even after),…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/22/2026
Nothing is wrong, but I still feel on edge all the time - how do you reduce stress without medication?

Don’t take drugs. They only mask the problem. And if they are Ssri’s really bad for you. Do your research. Meditating helps me and b complex and ashwaganda. Research Vagus nerve and realize you…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/23/2026
my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery

Pls look up Breast Implant Illness extensively before making this decision. I’m about to undergo a long, serious surgery called en bloc (capsulectomy) to have mine removed. Additionally, contractures,…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery

I have a different perspective to most of the top comments as a trans person who also wants surgery in this area (although I want removal). I personally think disagreements over this are silly. You ab…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery

It's one thing for a man to say that he enjoys the way you look as you are, and it's another to leverage coercive control when it comes to someone wanting to fix something that they're dissatisfied wi…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
Help! Feeling dread and doomed after sessions.

Well I agree with those saying leave the tapes for awhile. My thoughts on what’s going on? You sound like you’ve got psychic abilities awakening. The dread could be the fact that they are opening an…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/26/2026
my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery

Your body, your choice ♥️ Just like any major decision, do your research and look up the risks and read blogs and all that jazz, but ultimately don't make a decision exclusively off of your partners o…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery

When I was around your age this was also my biggest insecurity, however I did some research and found out about the very real risks you will be assuming for an unnecessary cosmetic procedure. It’s a v…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
My Boyfriend 18M won't stop calling Me 18F a foid, how do I stop this?

Oh girl you need to do your research so you can see what your man is being exposed to. It ain’t good

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Do I (26F) need to decide now if I want children when my bf (31M) already has decided he wants them in the next Yr and 1/2

Having children is the BIGGEST financial, emotional and physical commitment you can make in your entire life! Make sure you do your research. You say you’re not even familiar with kids. Me neither and…

r/relationshipscomment4/3/2026
Umm... Your thoughts on this?

Schizophrenia is something you are born with, you can’t get it from believing in shifting or whatever, people who get to hear voices or hallucinations while at it means that already had it prior. So i…

r/realityshiftingcomment4/4/2026
Psylosobin - My brain is too broken for it??

It’ll be the snri. No offence - I understand the drive to heal, but you do need to do your research if you’re self-medicating. Lurk on r/psychedelics for a bit and you’ll come across plenty of threa…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
Psylosobin - My brain is too broken for it??

If your psychiatrist is trustworthy you could tell them a "friend" tried that and they said nothing happened. Also be aware that some combination of meds and drugs will kill you (e.g. serotonin syndr…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
Mother doesn't allow me to take medication.

I am sorry that you are going through this OP. Unfortunately a lot of older people see psychiatric medications as stigmatizing. They were raised in an era where mental health wasn’t talked about, let …

r/therapycomment4/6/2026
I've been finding devices in my apartment, help (29M 22F)

It’s not tough. Take a picture and then use google lens to find what the device is. Do your research and fact finding before you start have doubts on your boyfriend and come crying to internet for adv…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it

I have several friends who have had reductions. Every single one of them says its the best thing they ever did. That said its not a a simple surgery, so really do your research on the doctor and have …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
‘Beef’ Creator Lee Sung Jin ‘Honored’ to Be Working on ‘X-Men’ Reboot Script: ‘No Matter How Much You Got Going on, You Have to Say Yes’

Akihiro as Daken, "Dark" Wolverine and Hellverine has had multiple solo runs. Also the Thunderbird I'm talking about was Neal Shaara, who's South Asian. I'm not referring to the Proudstar brothers, …

r/AsianAmericancomment4/10/2026
He has significant debt from his divorce, I'm debt-free, can this work?

I do not know of any legislation which makes a person financially responsible for the past debts of someone they are dating. Of course, always do your research before entering into any legally binding…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/10/2026
Am I (25M) being ridiculous in feeling insulted by my wife's (25F) text?

How will getting insulted about it help you? If it's true, then being insulted by it isn't going to change the situation. Very few women can 'squirt' during orgasm and the subject is controversial a…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
how do you work to build trust back?

He has to rebuild the trust, not you. He already lied to you, so he's okay lying to you. I know you want to believe he'd tell you the truth if you ask him point blank if he's hiding something, but you…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 11, 2026

I'm technically not a DN, but I move around a LOT and dating under those circumstances can be challenging. If I wanted to do so casually, as I've done in the past, then it's easy. Some people like the…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/12/2026