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Your partner's self inflated ego is keeping him from being able to accept any kind of instruction and he is incapable of accepting he's made an error. His "do your research" is only valid until he …

the baseline should always be NO abuse at all. and if it's not that, then it's already bad enough! there is no discussion on the table. abuse is abuse regardless of frequency, degree or whether it's p…

I rarely, if ever, instigate conflict. Even if I have unmet needs, I'd have to identify those first, and I avoid those internal processes pretty hard. If conflict comes to me, I generally shut down.…

Perhaps I'm too rigid, but by three months barring some weird long distance thing or whatever, I'm waiting for the man to shit or get off the pot. By four months, if he hasn't brought it up, I will. A…